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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

What kind of things you are attracted to when you read someone's profile in order to want to reply to someone on fab.. especially when you get alot of messages. Love to discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's already attractive when I'm met with an introduction about the person rather than 10 disclaimers in capital letters followed by a list of requirements.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me, it is about a proper profile that shows me the person is capable of expressing themselves. It does not have to be deeply philosophical but it needs to show some intelligence and wit, and suggest the person is actually quite a nice, genuine and non-judgmental person.

After that, I d look at pictures, ideally face pictures and again, there I d be attracted to a smile and nice eyes.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Are actually supposed to read the profiles?

Obviously that's where I go wrong just looking at pictures and not reading.

In all honesty, I like to read that there is some thought and desire to engage the mind and not just the body. A confident lady or couple who know what they are wanting and happy to discuss this.

I like to actually see some text and not will fill in later.

Thats just my initial thoughts in between work calls.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Dunno how people manage it tbh. In a nice way I don't think you'd get much idea about our friends from most of their profiles and they may well say the same about us lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics put me off..... also a one lined profile

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

A sense of humor is a massive bonus for us

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Nice non graphic photos. A simple description, similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like seeing a status that is a little different from the normal. If I see that I will then view the profile.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Literacy. Nice tantalising photos and a good opening message - I hate intrusive messages with lots of questions right off the bat.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

how important is the face to someone?

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Nice pics, and the feeling that they know what they want also the feeling of someone who'd be interested in both of us not just one or the other

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"how important is the face to someone? "

Essential for me , although I don't expect it on the profile I wouldn't engage any further than a couple of messages without swapping face pics

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"how important is the face to someone? "

We wouldn't expect them to be public, but if we get a message from someone, showing interest then we also expect the interested party to send face pics first after an initial chat

Face pics in general are important, attraction has a big part to play for me Mrs Ct x

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By *on-snowedMan
over a year ago

harlow


"how important is the face to someone? "

Very important.

I like the coy type who tease the stuff they like.

Turn off for me is the i want "these superficial types of men"

But say nothing about personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics initially, especially non nude. Like to get a sense of intrigue and style. Then how its written, save the profanities for more intimate moments...

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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago

Middle of somewhere

At least let them know you've read the profile and see what they like and are you a possible fit ... it's nice to be nice too

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"For me, it is about a proper profile that shows me the person is capable of expressing themselves. It does not have to be deeply philosophical but it needs to show some intelligence and wit, and suggest the person is actually quite a nice, genuine and non-judgmental person.

After that, I d look at pictures, ideally face pictures and again, there I d be attracted to a smile and nice eyes.

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This for me too.

With the addition of norks, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male, I have my PA screen my messages and forward the ones that they think would appeal...

In reality, possibly the greatest connection I made on fab began with a wink I received. It was a forum post I'd made that caught her attention. When I looked at her profile I was impressed with her personality, and even more impressed with her photos. I think I messaged first (long time ago) and after a false start, we arranged a meet. Things went well and we met a lot and a what I hope is a life-long friendship was born.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how important is the face to someone? "

It plays a part of course, but for me as a sapiosexual there is no one physical aspect that seals the deal. To connect, for me, takes something far more than superficial attributes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how important is the face to someone? "

Very, I have to find them attractive facially. However, that is only one part of it, personality also plays a massive part. One of the above on their own does not work for me. If that makes me shallow so be it.

In terms of initial attraction to a profile, it could one of many things or a combination, everyone constructs their profile differently so you have to look at them each in a different way.

How they come across in the forums if they use them can also be a big part of it.

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