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"We find them informative and can be sexy. Some seem to say almost nothing Is long wrong? " We like a nice descriptive profile as long as there’s a point to it. Yours in great, lots of little jokes in there ! | |||
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"We find them informative and can be sexy. Some seem to say almost nothing Is long wrong? " I thought I would take a look. Yours is pretty long and don’t really like long profiles, but yours is well written and flows so I found it easy and enjoyable to read. It was clear too and left a good impression of you and how you like to be treated. I will be taking tips, thanks | |||
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"We find them informative and can be sexy. Some seem to say almost nothing Is long wrong? " Its a personal choice but years experience here, very few people (speaking as our couples profile) ever read profile, so as used to say on our profiles - Why waste time writing a profile nobody reads. Reading profiles unfortunately is a longstanding j goes with the territory. So as said its personal choice if you write a long or short profile. Pictures will get more attention than text | |||
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"We find them informative and can be sexy. Some seem to say almost nothing Is long wrong? " Don’t think long is wrong as long as it holds my attention, yours is well written and I would rather see this than a profile that just says Hi or will fill in later | |||
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"long profiles can be irritating often dwelling on what they don't want rather than what they like " There is a lot of that. But even being concise and succinct (Experience) about what you are looking for very few read. Pet hate well more my OH is profiles that start "Been here before and know the score" What does that actually mean. | |||
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"Personally I always read profiles, I like ones that are long enough to give me an idea what the person that wrote it is like. " We/I always read profiles and never look at pictures, seen too many and taken many more (the profile picture gives a clue to what I do). Very rarely meet with solo females usually established friends, usually looking for guys not couples. Viewpoint: Lot of couples profiles are written by the male and its more about what they want than their partners and what they want their partners to want. Ladies have a different subtle way of expressing and articulating who they are and what they are actually looking for. Couples specifically you can tell in the first line if its a male or female author. So profile by female do get more attention cos we only interested in profiles where the couple relationship is not dominated by one partner. | |||
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"If it has the public trading disclaimer or the Sydney Uni thing on the end, it's too long a profile!" They are meaningless statements cos you pretty much waver you rights when you put your pictures on FAB T&Cs accept no responsibility for pictures on the site and you put them on at you own risk, they are not protected and downloadable, can end up on others profiles. If you want to exercise what rights you have and (oh not likely to be protected by EU privacy laws anymore and criminal case is unlikely unless you can prove malicious use intent) then you''ll likely need deep pockets. So the only way to protect your privacy and your pictures is to not put them on or put in friends only for trusted people, not make statements in profiles | |||
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"A few months ago I experimented with the theory that a single female can write pretty much anything at all on a profile & will still get plenty messages, because the vast majority of people don't read them. I wrote a profile which included some really quite specific instructions and extremely 'niche' preferences. It made no difference to how many messages I got & most of them clearly hadn't looked at anything other than the pics on my profile. " Last week my profile had 1 close up cleavage pic and 'fill in later' as text. I got 186 messages in 10 hours. Over 500 views, so some did read and not message. But still..... | |||
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"I personally like a long profile. I prefer to know about the person/couple before we start talking or arrange a meet. Plus it sets people apart from the rest for me, its nice to see bios with some thought and effort behind them. " Fair point we used to have very succinct profile and a view that if people can't be bothered to read the profile nor can we, nobody could be bothered so I guess we kept to our view. We also say we prefer messages to winks cos again we feel winks are lazy and usually get deleted. We still get winks rather than messages which clearly shows people do not read profile. We do not have public pics which shows that people are not interested and a long profile is pretty pointless. | |||
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"Personally I always read profiles, I like ones that are long enough to give me an idea what the person that wrote it is like. We/I always read profiles and never look at pictures, seen too many and taken many more (the profile picture gives a clue to what I do). Very rarely meet with solo females usually established friends, usually looking for guys not couples. Viewpoint: Lot of couples profiles are written by the male and its more about what they want than their partners and what they want their partners to want. Ladies have a different subtle way of expressing and articulating who they are and what they are actually looking for. Couples specifically you can tell in the first line if its a male or female author. So profile by female do get more attention cos we only interested in profiles where the couple relationship is not dominated by one partner. " Totally agree. The same generally applies to messages, I've had a few messages, supposedly from a female member of a couple, which it is blatantly obvious by the way they are worded are actually written by a male. | |||
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"We find them informative and can be sexy. Some seem to say almost nothing Is long wrong? " Some are very long and says nothing about them as such... only requests,off putting. | |||
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