FabSwingers.com forum: Block Lists..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well as a guy on here with what can only be described as a very poor profile.. I was surprised to count up my block list too see it was over 150 profiles!!!

Amazingly it's mostly couples and single ladies.

For me you get put on the block list if:

1) you have a status or profile that is pro drugs

2) requested to meet during lockdowns.

3) if we have met and you have lied about your situation or photos were clearly of you several years ago.

So I thought.. If lil Ol me with this rubbish profile has what I think is a high block count... How many do couples and single ladies have? .. And also.. What makes you add someone to the block list.

Would love to hear.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Rude and abusive people go on the block list, it doesn't even have to be towards us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines over 500 blocked.

Mithering folk, rude, abusive or too dam creepy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not counted, but there's a lot. Made up of ppl that message but aren't my type (they clearly didn't read my profile), rude and abusive, then a few ppl from the forums where what they have said makes my stomach churn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block anyone who doesnt exept no.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I block men who ask to meet but aren't compatible.

That's so they don't message me a few months later when they have forgotten I said no thank you.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

And I block local men too.

Don't want to meet anyone too close to where I live.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Rude, don't listening to my responses,and any I report as I get an auto block from them (bonus)

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

I use the block as a filter, if I message someone and it gets deleted with no reply block the profile, then they don’t appear in searches and I don’t get tempted to message them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block someone who is not interested so that I dont message again, otherwise its looks like I am pestering.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

I block a lot now.

Particularly the substance abusers and people arranging meets now.

And the ones offering £ on updates, or with postcodes and phone numbers on updates.

Then there are the one word morons, scruffs and crimewatch mugshots.

The ones with a back catalogue of 47 pics of their cock, be it in or on someone, oh and cumshots.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I am never rude or abusing people and I am always polite and I always read people’s profiles and still get blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be interesting to see how many people have blocked a profile as well as how many have looked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours was a reasonable size before lockdown but is huge now with people asking for meets either directly or just on statuses.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

My block button is used for

Miserable/moany status updates, no one's got time for that .

People that won't take no for an answer , 3 strikes and you're out

Rude / bullyish forum posters

Bareback seekers

And the occasional horrid message senders .

I think that's about it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Lack of respect.

Not compatible, to keep it simple for both sides.

It's fairly high after 10 years

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I have just counted mine and it is 33.

I don't block too many people, but generally they are rude and abusive to others or myself in chat rooms or have sent abusive messages to me.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Give them one chance, but no public face pic, then a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only blocked people sending abusive messages. The first message I received when I rejoined, was from a guy who thought I was someone else and was completely abusive and threatened he could easily find where I lived.

I think my account was up about 5/10 minutes ish max lol.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I have only blocked people sending abusive messages. The first message I received when I rejoined, was from a guy who thought I was someone else and was completely abusive and threatened he could easily find where I lived.

I think my account was up about 5/10 minutes ish max lol. "

Oh I had that as well! Was positive we'd met when I was on here with an ex years ago and just wouldn't give up. I didn't even live in this area the last time I was on here

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I block people who have a no black no Asian no Pakistani or Indians on there profile....absolutely shallow people.

Plus anybody who is not what I’m looking for makes it’s easier so I don’t stumble across them anymore.

Plus rude childish idiots & text speak which I hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my account was up about 5/10 minutes ish max lol.

Oh I had that as well! Was positive we'd met when I was on here with an ex years ago and just wouldn't give up. I didn't even live in this area the last time I was on here

He was going crazy, calling me this girls name, then abuse and other names, said hed easily find me. I couldnt believe it. I can help be feel for who ever it was that he thought I was. But also a little worried for her. I did report and block him though.

I have had a few thinking I'm other people but usually quite polite or apologetic for the mistake. Sometimes they have a slight undertone as if you're lying, But that took the biscuit lol

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We block people with no pics that keep on sending us messages or ones that send us a friend request without chatting. Also block people that read and dont reply.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My block list is kind of long. I don't block that often tho.

Usually it's someone who has been rude or keeps messaging after I have said no.

If someone keeps popping up in my updates with rude, naming or just constant moaning status they get blocked. Just so I don't see them anymore.

Some from the forums I have blocked just because they are people I know I don't want to interact with as our views are so different and I don't want pms off them at any point.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"I block people who have a no black no Asian no Pakistani or Indians on there profile....absolutely shallow people.

Plus anybody who is not what I’m looking for makes it’s easier so I don’t stumble across them anymore.

Plus rude childish idiots & text speak which I hate."

Do you also block people only willing to meet the above mentioned ethnic minority groups ?

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

I don’t think we have many... yet. But there’s one or two who we added just so they’ll stop sending the same message. When a polite no thank you just isn’t enough

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"I am never rude or abusing people and I am always polite and I always read people’s profiles and still get blocked lol"

Maybe you don't match what they are looking for..... Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list (which I've just counted) is sitting at 166 profiles.I like the block button, and I'm not afraid to use it, or be blocked.

One use of the block button is for profiles I've messaged where it was read and deleted without reply. I block to prevent further contact, and avoid becoming a pest. Often, if I get a no thank you, I block for similar reasons. Another big use is to block profiles where they are seeking things I am not, and would therefore be physically incompatible. Profiles advocating drug use for sex, boasting about their 420 status etc, get a block. Anybody want help with a site supporters pass gets helped to a block also. The rarest group of people to get a block, thankfully, are those who have been rude to me or one of my friends, or just an arse generally.

In balance, I'm comfortable with being blocked if people feel for any reason they don't wish to interact with me. It's an excellent filter, and gives a smoother journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My block list (which I've just counted) is sitting at 166 profiles.I like the block button, and I'm not afraid to use it, or be blocked.

In balance, I'm comfortable with being blocked if people feel for any reason they don't wish to interact with me. It's an excellent filter, and gives a smoother journey."

Pretty much the same with messages deleted or not replied or replied with a no thank you...dont block anyone to be nasty...actually I dont block people that are nasty to me lol maybe I should

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Have no idea how many are on our block list but it has grown during all this but the main reasons for blocking anyone are .

1) Just dick pics on profile

2)Sending dick pic asking for fun ?? ( they know and we know they mean ferry sex or are panda's)

3)No profile/pic at all

4)Couples with only dick pics or a blurry pic of a breast or breasts or things being inserted or dripping stuff ..

5)Anyone who hasn't read our profile

6)Anyone who keeps sending us messages ( never used to but..)

7)Anyone who likes custard donuts...mrs4 likes them but pretty hard to block her ..mr4 did try but it hurt and made him cry

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

And of course anyone at all who has asked us to meet during lock down 1.0 lock down 2.0 and lock down 3.0

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I have a block list -

Rude people

Potential bunny boiler tendencies

Crap cake bakers

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Many reasons, main on is people not taking no for an answer, I've tried to be polite but they think they can talk me around lol

And when people get abusive aswell just because I won't go out of my way to have sex with a stranger in a car or lay-by or something lol

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

People that try and meet during lockdown

People I know from my couple profile days

Pushy people

Rude people

People that think I'm here to feed there egos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 37 deep. All women & couples aswell.

Mainly those who message me or wink i check their profile and its 'bbc only' sorry duck thats not me! Pro drugs, or pro gangbangs ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many reasons, main on is people not taking no for an answer, I've tried to be polite but they think they can talk me around lol

And when people get abusive aswell just because I won't go out of my way to have sex with a stranger in a car or lay-by or something lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our block list is huge.

We block if people send a weird or abusive message to people who put up the same pictures up time and time again or maybe we messaged someone and they never replied or that they are not for us and so they don’t show in our searches. Oh and for people who send random friends requests.

People have blocked us as well so we don’t really take it to heart and in the long run saves wasting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I'm saying is that there's a reason Fab upgraded it from 500 blocks to *UNLIMITED*

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Anyone who pesters when Ive said no,

If they're rude

If they lie ie pretend to be single

Asking for a meet at the min is an instant block.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Also continuous ranty status updates or moaning about other profiles

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

All the above but as lots of others , it’s now immense with the covid meet request people we’ve blocked

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We had a bloke message us, well I say us as it was directed at one of us only, told him he mustn't have read the profile. Next message was sorry Hun. 3 weeks later he messaged again with 6 dick picture and saying you have a lovely body Hun, he is now blocked. Men sending dick pictures obviously not read profile, blocked. People sending friends requests without even speaking to us normally get blocked.

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