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Do you feel Guilty if you are into this life-style but your other half is not

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

As for me is better for both. Other couples will find it odd. ok with single guys.

what do u think?

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I feel guilty all the time personally but it is what it is ....

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"I feel guilty all the time personally but it is what it is ...."
brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't feel guilty at all, he enjoys different things to me. He has his hobbies and I have fab win win.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

As long as you’re both aware of it there shouldn’t be any guilt

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

If one of you is not then we would call that cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes, but we agreed it's ok and I can't go back now, it's too much fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as you’re both aware of it there shouldn’t be any guilt "

Exactly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's irrelevant. When a guy has another half who isn't into it but is aware (and doesn't want to know the details) he's branded a cheater and gets nowhere anyway.

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"As long as you’re both aware of it there shouldn’t be any guilt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of naughty cheeky woman comments aha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn out for this one

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"it's irrelevant. When a guy has another half who isn't into it but is aware (and doesn't want to know the details) he's branded a cheater and gets nowhere anyway."

It's clear from all the cheating threads that if someone is playing alone with their partners permission, they are not seen as cheaters however, some people won't meet attached people whatever their circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading numerous profiles ( yes I do read them) it seems there are a lot of couples where one meets others for sex and it’s agreed and sanctioned by both. All perfectly reasonable and acceptable if no harm comes to the relationship.

Is the OP referring to those who meet others for sex without the knowledge of her or him indoors? If that is the case then it would deem there are numerous posts on infidelity with even more opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's irrelevant. When a guy has another half who isn't into it but is aware (and doesn't want to know the details) he's branded a cheater and gets nowhere anyway.

It's clear from all the cheating threads that if someone is playing alone with their partners permission, they are not seen as cheaters however, some people won't meet attached people whatever their circumstances. "

I shy away from married ladies that is unless hubby is in the same room !

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich


"it's irrelevant. When a guy has another half who isn't into it but is aware (and doesn't want to know the details) he's branded a cheater and gets nowhere anyway.

It's clear from all the cheating threads that if someone is playing alone with their partners permission, they are not seen as cheaters however, some people won't meet attached people whatever their circumstances.

I shy away from married ladies that is unless hubby is in the same room !"
Exactly the same for me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's irrelevant. When a guy has another half who isn't into it but is aware (and doesn't want to know the details) he's branded a cheater and gets nowhere anyway.

It's clear from all the cheating threads that if someone is playing alone with their partners permission, they are not seen as cheaters however, some people won't meet attached people whatever their circumstances.

I shy away from married ladies that is unless hubby is in the same room !Exactly the same for me . "

Very difficult to form even as recreational sex relationship! All the cloak and dagger stuff drove me nuts!

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

If your other half said enough is enough. will you stop. Once you step into this honey nest very difficult to stop. Is better to think carefully before you embark into this journey.

Alot of couples ve split up because of this.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Both should be fully happy about it.

Any jealousy or angst then it should stop.

A quick shag is less important than a proper relationship where two people love each other.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

There is nothing worse thsn seeing the amount of LYING

CHESTING

2TIMING FYCKIN SHITS

On here shagging BEHIND your own partners backs

WITHOUT THEIR KNOWLEDGE

Just to boost ur ego's up

BOTH MEN N WOMEN

Sad fuckers

Thsts not swingin if ur playin alone

If u class urselves as SWINGERS

Then get ur fuckin partners involved .

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"As long as you’re both aware of it there shouldn’t be any guilt "

This

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"If one of you is not then we would call that cheating. "

This

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I think this is one sided game for the female passion while the male is on the look-out during sex. Never seen any male shagging while the female look on.

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

People are very quick to judge others, often by their own low standards. Yes, I play as a single. My partner is unable to fulfil my needs due to medical conditions and therefore accepts my need to play away from home. I am sure I am not the only male on here in similar circumstances. So please folks do not judge until you know all the facts,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

R loves to watch me with another woman. She encourages to chat woman when we could go out. She however would never cheat. Unless I said yes and was there

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian


"People are very quick to judge others, often by their own low standards. Yes, I play as a single. My partner is unable to fulfil my needs due to medical conditions and therefore accepts my need to play away from home. I am sure I am not the only male on here in similar circumstances. So please folks do not judge until you know all the facts,

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People judge cheaters. Your partner knows and accepts that you have sex with others, you're not doing this behind their back and making a fool of them, so there's no wrong-doing in your situation. I think most folk here wouldn't judge that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly my situation. It’s a tricky one.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

I won't have sex with a married man without explicit permission from his wife.

I appreciate that that rules out fellas whose wife is OK with them playing away but doesn't want details - I'm happy to meet you in a club, just not privately!

I've been cheated on in the past. It's awful.

I've also had the phone call from the suspicious wife who went through his phone... Also awful!

So I'm really mistrustful of married men who claim their wife is OK with things. Cos they are usually cheaters, not swingers. I need her permission first.

I have no intention of ever being cited in divorce papers for adultery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing worse thsn seeing the amount of LYING

CHESTING

2TIMING FYCKIN SHITS

On here shagging BEHIND your own partners backs

WITHOUT THEIR KNOWLEDGE

Just to boost ur ego's up

No spellcheck ?

BOTH MEN N WOMEN

Sad fuckers

Thsts not swingin if ur playin alone

If u class urselves as SWINGERS

Then get ur fuckin partners involved .

"

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

If one of us isn’t ok with this anymore then neither of us are.

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