FabSwingers.com forum: Femdom

By *moothLeanBod OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

If I say Femdom to you, it's going to elicit a hundred different ideas of what that is.

Has anyone been inducted gently into this world?

I'd love to participate with a woman or couple.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you're hoping to "participate", I guess the most important question OP is what is Femdom to you? And as a submissive what is your preferred dynamic and interests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so many different varients

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By *moothLeanBod OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"If you're hoping to "participate", I guess the most important question OP is what is Femdom to you? And as a submissive what is your preferred dynamic and interests?"

I think 'participation' is a loose term.

I'd like to be part of that dynamic, whether it's to be 'made to do stuff, or to be denied etc

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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago

worcester weekend in exmouth

I love being a sub to a lovely domme

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"If you're hoping to "participate", I guess the most important question OP is what is Femdom to you? And as a submissive what is your preferred dynamic and interests?

I think 'participation' is a loose term.

I'd like to be part of that dynamic, whether it's to be 'made to do stuff, or to be denied etc"

Yes but that was kind of my point - you need to be able to define the dynamic that interests you in more detail than "being made to do stuff" - to your point about the broadness of the term, "submissive" covers a very broad spectrum and can cover many different angles so you need to understand yourself and what *your* dynamic is - most dominants will want to know that kind of information along with your limits and boundaries before they even consider engaging in play with you.

It will also help protect you against those that may seek to exploit you in some way.

My suggestion to you would be to read as much as you can about the subject, books like Screw The Roses Bring Me The Thorns and SM101 are good starting points, really delve into yourself and what you think makes you submissive.

Complete some on-line questionnaires not only the generic one that tells you how submissive/dominant you are, but some of the more detailed ones that get you to rate different elements of D/s in terms of interest - they're very good at not only giving you and idea of your own dynamic but also to compare with dominants to see how well you match up.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

Inducted

.. Ok , I gave it some thought and perhaps one could say my partner Miss Ruth Dean has “ inducted “ me into her way of what she expects of her submissive ..

Has it been gentle ? ... On the whole it hasn’t been to bad apart from one or two excruciating moments ( ok several ) , fortunately she is fond of me at all other times and I wouldn’t presume she would wish me much lingering harm , apart from in a couple of areas ..

As others have pointed out though , there is a host of permutations as to what you are asking , and my partner and I are exactly that first and foremost .

I would always advocate getting out and about if one wants to explore what might to seemed as Domination / submissive roles .. I’ve always stated that “ kink does not deviate much from the real world as in as much as how one participates ..

The paths run parallel, one does not run at a tangent to the other ..

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