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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dose it scare you people that want to have fun that have cancer because we have to live with it

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What are you scared of ? Cancer, the virus or people meeting ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you have cancer op? I think some people are scared of meeting people with it for all sorts of reasons. Mostly this stems from a fear of cancer itself rather than the person.

If you're worried that you aren't getting meets that'll be because nobody is allowed to meet at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dose it scare you people that want to have fun that have cancer because we have to live with it "

Op maybe re read your thread as it’s not that clear and give it another shot.

I’m not scared of people having fun and my heart goes out to any one with any illness.

Stay safe and lucky op!!

T

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I wouldn’t be scared of meeting anyone with cancer, assuming they felt well enough in themselves to want to meet and we clicked. (Post-covid restrictions, of course).

If you have cancer OP, I wish you a swift recovery.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s not that I am scared of my condition but I put a post up few days ago saying I am having the covid jab because of my underline condition cancer. And I get messages saying not interested and other nasty things then they blocked me why ??? Cannot take an answer back I was just asking to see who would be scared of someone like me

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it is because people are not looking to meet at present, nothing to do with you having cancer.

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

But what if you had a storma ?? A bag on your belly would you still meet ?? Or a ICD in your chest ?? Don’t forget we all still want fun bet no one will

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Truthfully, due to the nature of the site I'd perceive someone mentioning having the jab on their status as almost an "I'm clear and safe to meet" sign.

We're all having the jab at some point so doesn't really need a status update unless it's for an ulterior motive.

Do I think you personally were trying to give that vibe and using it as a secret code to meet? No, probably not, but many will be.

Thats my cynical brain talking based on what I've seen over the past few years here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not that I am scared of my condition but I put a post up few days ago saying I am having the covid jab because of my underline condition cancer. And I get messages saying not interested and other nasty things then they blocked me why ??? Cannot take an answer back I was just asking to see who would be scared of someone like me "

If people just sent you nasty messages then report them and forget them but if they replied to a message sent by yourself stating that they are not interested then that’s their choice and again if their reply is nasty just report them.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I would feel awkward towards them knowing they had an Illness like I do when I happen to confront those with other medical conditions. However, I'm working on myself so I can actually see the person themselves instead of the illnesses/conditions.

Eventually, I'll be fine with it

I hope that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do however not think you're horrendous in anyway shape or form. It's just my brain doesn't do too well with such things

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