FabSwingers.com forum: What is a Badboy??

By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Had a conversation with some friends and we was talking about women who say they like a badboy but what do they actually mean like as in they like a person who treats them badly or is it there attittude

Just a question for the ladies what is a badboy? and why do alot of women prefer them over the so called ‘nice guy’

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

In our experience and from people we know, they're usually twats.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I think when they say badboy in general it's the attitude of the man and possibly his reputation. I still don't understand why some women specifically seek out badboys then get upset when they get treated badly.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

A player

A liar

Give me a nice guy anyday

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By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"I think when they say badboy in general it's the attitude of the man and possibly his reputation. I still don't understand why some women specifically seek out badboys then get upset when they get treated badly."

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A idiot that hasn't grown up and thinks it's big to be a moron x

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

BAD Boy = Guy who will fuck you well and forget you, wipe his dick on your dress and be out the door before your jaw hits the floor with a wink and a smile

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"A idiot that hasn't grown up and thinks it's big to be a moron x "

Hence the term BOY

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By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"BAD Boy = Guy who will fuck you well and forget you, wipe his dick on your dress and be out the door before your jaw hits the floor with a wink and a smile

Ha! But why do some women like this is what am trying to get the answer too it doesnt make any sense lol

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

It’s a term typically used by a sexually immature female.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"BAD Boy = Guy who will fuck you well and forget you, wipe his dick on your dress and be out the door before your jaw hits the floor with a wink and a smile

Ha! But why do some women like this is what am trying to get the answer too it doesnt make any sense lol"

Because they think they can be the one to tame him lol

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I call every man a bad boy as he lick my bum hole

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By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"BAD Boy = Guy who will fuck you well and forget you, wipe his dick on your dress and be out the door before your jaw hits the floor with a wink and a smile

Ha! But why do some women like this is what am trying to get the answer too it doesnt make any sense lol

Because they think they can be the one to tame him lol"

Interesting...

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"It’s a term typically used by a sexually immature female. "
This one is a good response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally

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By *ambiandThumperCouple
over a year ago

up near the top

"I call every man a bad boy as he lick my bum hole

Now I could be that kind of bad boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally "

I've seen so many friends try to fix bad boys.Only for the ones there trying to fix betray them x

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I call every man a bad boy as he lick my bum hole

Now I could be that kind of bad boy

Ditto

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally

I've seen so many friends try to fix bad boys.Only for the ones there trying to fix betray them x "

This is inevitable, because they need maturing....both parties

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally

I've seen so many friends try to fix bad boys.Only for the ones there trying to fix betray them x "

Your are mature beyond your years. Quite rare

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Martin Lawrence and/or Will Smith?

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By *oneymitch OP Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally

I've seen so many friends try to fix bad boys.Only for the ones there trying to fix betray them x "

This here, ive also heard women say hes too nice, this one here i cant get my head around

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

In fab they are typically arrogant, immature boys that are clueless sexually. If a guy doesn't respect you, he is useless

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

A male that doesn't put the toilet seat down? Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Very few women like a bad boy. They're usually idiots who cheat and lie. The women who like them are often in a repeat pattern of bad relationships unable to understand why the men they're attracted to always treat them badly. They also tend to stick with these guys despite numerous warning signs. When they ask for advice and you point out that they're enabling bad behaviour by overlooking it or repeatedly forgiving it they look at you all teary eyed and say "but I love him". Loving someone doesn't mean they can persistently treat you like shit.

No man is ever too nice. Its code for "I don't find you sexually attractive" or "you're creepy and have no back bone"

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally

I've seen so many friends try to fix bad boys.Only for the ones there trying to fix betray them x

This here, ive also heard women say hes too nice, this one here i cant get my head around"

I think some women are naturally attracted to men with a certain arrogance about them, they thrive on being treated like someone that doesn't really matter, then complain that they are never treated well, but clearly they like it or they wouldn't keep instinctively searching for that type of guy. One of life's mysteries.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't know why anyone would prefer a 'bad boy' there usually kinda o prick, I prefer honest, authentic and trustworthy personally

I've seen so many friends try to fix bad boys.Only for the ones there trying to fix betray them x

This here, ive also heard women say hes too nice, this one here i cant get my head around

Low self esteem. They feel they deserve no better.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"In our experience and from people we know, they're usually twats."
Pretty much this

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

It's the leather jacket, the sweet stench of tobacco and alcohol and the constant blaring of distant sirens hot on the trail.

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By *cottyl1983Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

Usually the drug dealing ex prisoner girlfriend beating dick heads who cheat also dont understand women who entertained them tbh

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Or maybe they’re exciting to be around, encourage you to be yourself and not have to obey your parents or any other authority figures in your life. They don’t suffocate you like a nice guy will or endlessly check ‘if you’re ok’ as they honestly don’t care that much, so you end up being a bit more independent and more sure of yourself.

In the end he’s a rebel and fun, it may not last a lifetime but it’ll be memorable

(In defence of the bad boy or an alternative view)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeeze if women and couples want a bad boy then let them be ?? they know what they want and they will find them whatever badboy means to them ...

so easy to slag a group off or a term/kink on here just because it dont fit you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually the drug dealing ex prisoner girlfriend beating dick heads who cheat also dont understand women who entertained them tbh

yet so many seek them out ???

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By *r_selfridge999Man
over a year ago

cannock

"BAD Boy = Guy who will fuck you well and forget you, wipe his dick on your dress and be out the door before your jaw hits the floor with a wink and a smile

Prefer using the curtains over the dress

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

"Usually the drug dealing ex prisoner girlfriend beating dick heads who cheat also dont understand women who entertained them tbh

yet so many seek them out ??? "

These are the same women who on dating websites complain about the lack of genuine and decent men, but arent interested in an auditor called Keith who likes steam trains.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"Usually the drug dealing ex prisoner girlfriend beating dick heads who cheat also dont understand women who entertained them tbh

yet so many seek them out ???

These are the same women who on dating websites complain about the lack of genuine and decent men, but arent interested in an auditor called Keith who likes steam trains."

To be fair, nobody likes Keith.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed it was a sexual deviant. Like what Jamie Principle sings about in the song “bad boy” ....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Bad boy is just a box, people like to stereotype..

And those who like to to stereotype tend to mirror market.

I can be a complete testing twat in the bedroom, yet a gentleman in the domestic world.

Hence the username.

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

"Martin Lawrence and/or Will Smith?"

Will Smith? Married to Jada? Known each other of 27 years, married of 20, Will Smith? Not sure he'd place too highly in the 'Bad Boy' of the year rankings!

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

"Or maybe they’re exciting to be around, encourage you to be yourself and not have to obey your parents or any other authority figures in your life. They don’t suffocate you like a nice guy will or endlessly check ‘if you’re ok’ as they honestly don’t care that much, so you end up being a bit more independent and more sure of yourself.

In the end he’s a rebel and fun, it may not last a lifetime but it’ll be memorable

(In defence of the bad boy or an alternative view) "

This!

A true bad boy isn't abusive, they are actually pretty intuitive. They push your boundaries in an exciting way so your boundaries become elastic rather than fixed. And a bad boy never oversteps consent. You just find yourself consenting to stuff you wouldn't usually do because you trust them. And you're right to do so. Bad boys are phenomenal shags!

But bad boys don't care about the non-sex stuff. They don't send you a message saying, "Morning! Have a great day!". That's what nice guys do. You can't have anything long term with a bad boy. Just enjoy the ride!

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

I fell in love with my bad boy...

Heartbreak city when he moved on. But he taught me a lot, and I taught him a thing or two too

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Martin Lawrence and/or Will Smith?

Will Smith? Married to Jada? Known each other of 27 years, married of 20, Will Smith? Not sure he'd place too highly in the 'Bad Boy' of the year rankings!"

Yet will smith and Martin Lawrence were in the bad boys movie franchise which I imagine the poster was hinting at.

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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago

Clapham

In the end he’s a rebel and fun, it may not last a lifetime but it’ll be memorable

(In defence of the bad boy or an alternative view)

This!

Lol nice guys get the friend zone and bad boys get to the end zone.

A bad boy is just a guys who puts girl in the friend zone, then she gets pissed that she had done to her what she done to the nice guys.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

A bad boy is just a guys who puts girl in the friend zone, then she gets pissed that she had done to her what she done to the nice guys. "

I promise you that it's a lot more nuanced than this. It's highly erotic over a period of time, allows you to grow and shed the 'rules' you've absorbed your whole life about how women should behave. It's incredibly freeing being with a true bad boy.

It's really not the same as being friend zoned. I've experienced both and it really doesn't compare.

FWIW True bad boys are few and far between. The majority are just misogynistic twats who use the title to excuse their bad behaviour. But when you meet a real one... Fucking fireworks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end he’s a rebel and fun, it may not last a lifetime but it’ll be memorable

(In defence of the bad boy or an alternative view)

This!

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I wud say they ckass a badboy

As all u sad desperate chestin 2timin shits sgaggin behind ur oen bird/gf/wife back just for the kick and to boost ur ego thinkin ur gods gift n u can go n fuck anyone.

WITHOUT UR PARTNER KNOWING

sorry i wudnt class that as swinging

If ur gonna swing mayb ask ur partner to join u thrn both swing together.

GOD HELP ALL OF U SHAGGIN 'DISCREETLY ' BEHIBD UR PARTNERS BACKS WHO PROBABLY LUV THE BONES OF YOU

buy wen u get caught out

HAHA who will have the last laff.

Hope u get kicked out if u get caught

NO FUCKIN RESPECT U HAVE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end he’s a rebel and fun, it may not last a lifetime but it’ll be memorable

(In defence of the bad boy or an alternative view)

This!

That sounds pretty awful

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By *hoco DMan
over a year ago

Clapham

A bad boy is just a guys who puts girl in the friend zone, then she gets pissed that she had done to her what she done to the nice guys.

It's really not the same as being friend zoned. I've experienced both and it really doesn't compare.

FWIW True bad boys are few and far between. The majority are just misogynistic twats who use the title to excuse their bad behaviour. But when you meet a real one... Fucking fireworks!

I just put it in a nut shell,im guessing he was a real he was a charmer, enigmatic, two words from his sugar coated lips and the knickers will take them selfs off, of their own accord, I'm guessing you guys were friends with benefits, and he was up for the fun but the commitment,the chances are that you would not be the only girl on the list, friends with benefits is still the friend zone if one person wants more. also I have never heard a guy call him self a bad boy, only heard girl use the term " he thinks he a bad boy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad boy? It's a type of Pot Noodle isn't it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who has a "cheeky naaaandos" and gives it the lads lads lads all the time? (I.e a complete tool)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not ok to be a badboy ... but ok for women to be sluts n whores ??? you cant have it all ways badboy is in swinging terms a kink or fantasy just like slut or whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get inked up,shave head and strut round thinking he is Danny Dyer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually find a lot of them come up with drivel like they are somehow related to the krays.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Good luck to them. Us good guys will look for the good girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad boy is just a manner of speaking . You do bad things crime wise or have done . A real bad boy has respect to women and others and gains respect .

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

"I wud say they ckass a badboy

As all u sad desperate chestin 2timin shits sgaggin behind ur oen bird/gf/wife back just for the kick and to boost ur ego thinkin ur gods gift n u can go n fuck anyone.

WITHOUT UR PARTNER KNOWING

sorry i wudnt class that as swinging

If ur gonna swing mayb ask ur partner to join u thrn both swing together.

GOD HELP ALL OF U SHAGGIN 'DISCREETLY ' BEHIBD UR PARTNERS BACKS WHO PROBABLY LUV THE BONES OF YOU

buy wen u get caught out

HAHA who will have the last laff.

Hope u get kicked out if u get caught

NO FUCKIN RESPECT U HAVE"

Easy for you to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a conversation with some friends and we was talking about women who say they like a badboy but what do they actually mean like as in they like a person who treats them badly or is it there attittude

Just a question for the ladies what is a badboy? and why do alot of women prefer them over the so called ‘nice guy’"

It’s a person that everyone calls a time waster and someone to avoid.

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