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By *raceyntony OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

put a post on here last night it was so helpfull I NEED MORE HELP LOL we are a couple im bi fem why is it so hard to get a single bi fem for ffm fun any advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well we are finding it hard to find a single fem full stop.... i dont know the answer , i would love to know too lol good luck xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet couples but I just find they spoil it and im just speaking from my experience here. Things start off nice etc, then they send a message thats vulgar and it puts me right off so they get blocked. I get the impression that the couples ive had messages from would kind of use me like a piece of meat and not as a person, so, now I just meet single men because of it. Shame as to be involved in a ffm situation is a bit of a fantasy of mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think its a bit daunting as a single female to go into a couple type situation, after all you guys both know each other. Maybe thats another reason x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few couples from here and had some fun times.

The problems I find are these, firstly finding a couple where there is physical attraction to both parties is not easy !!

Then when you do, they don't always want what you do. Often its just the fems that want to play and though I do love that, need the interaction of a guy too !!

But all too often its the guy that contacts me, and that makes me uneasy, is he the one that is instigating this ?? Not here to be a fantasy for him and for the fem not to be 100% happy too.

Its a bit of a minefield as a single bi fem. We are out there, there's lots of us, but when you are talking about FFM its a difficult situation that needs lots of different issues all to fall into place to make it work.

But when it does, mmmmmmmmmm its great

xxx xxx

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By *raceyntony OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I would meet couples but I just find they spoil it and im just speaking from my experience here. Things start off nice etc, then they send a message thats vulgar and it puts me right off so they get blocked. I get the impression that the couples ive had messages from would kind of use me like a piece of meat and not as a person, so, now I just meet single men because of it. Shame as to be involved in a ffm situation is a bit of a fantasy of mine x"

i dont no why couples do that we all have feelings people should be treated with respect x

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By *raceyntony OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"I've met a few couples from here and had some fun times.

The problems I find are these, firstly finding a couple where there is physical attraction to both parties is not easy !!

Then when you do, they don't always want what you do. Often its just the fems that want to play and though I do love that, need the interaction of a guy too !!

But all too often its the guy that contacts me, and that makes me uneasy, is he the one that is instigating this ?? Not here to be a fantasy for him and for the fem not to be 100% happy too.

Its a bit of a minefield as a single bi fem. We are out there, there's lots of us, but when you are talking about FFM its a difficult situation that needs lots of different issues all to fall into place to make it work.

But when it does, mmmmmmmmmm its great

xxx xxx"

a lot of the time i myself (tracey) send the message and its not just myself that want the ffm we want all 3 to get involved otherwise its unfair x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are looking for the holy grail for most couples single fems are rare, bi single fems are even rarer. Just keep trying thats all we can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are looking for the holy grail for most couples single fems are rare, bi single fems are even rarer. Just keep trying thats all we can say "

Nail on the head I believe.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"You are looking for the holy grail for most couples single fems are rare, bi single fems are even rarer. Just keep trying thats all we can say

Nail on the head I believe. "

Definitely agree, we've had the very good fortune to play with a couple of single ladies and it was extremely sexy. Agree with several points made on this thread though and can see it from a single ladies perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we scare off single females.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I think we scare off single females. "

I don't think its that at all! They're lovely, elusive creatures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're also quite bust at times and can't meet everyone that messages us. I have met quite a few couples but I have to agree with the comment above...sometimes our needs arent catered for as in we can be treated as pieces of meat...that we fullfill the cpls fantasies but not our own. I must add NOT ALL cpls are like this but some Ive met are x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I think we scare off single females. "

We're now convinced we scare off everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we scare off single females.

I don't think its that at all! They're lovely, elusive creatures"

I was looking for a sympathy meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i did meet when i was a single lady but not very often...

found it was the men that spoilt it...

always controlled the situation and i dont do it to put a show on for men but found this was the case for some...

the other issue was safety, its hard meeting one person let alone two...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"well i did meet when i was a single lady but not very often...

found it was the men that spoilt it...

always controlled the situation and i dont do it to put a show on for men but found this was the case for some...

the other issue was safety, its hard meeting one person let alone two..."

i think we must be the odd balls then cos steve leaves well alone when i'm playing with a lady - he loves to watch us enjoying each other - and when we've met a single girl we've always met first in a very public place - it isn't rocket science - just common sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in an odd/rare situation in that I'm a bi fem that plays as a couple with a hubby and alone.

I have had mails from couples and as said there does need to be attraction to both for me which can make it more difficult, but it does happen.

I've had a few meets now and they have been great.

I've also had a mail from a female of the couple saying she was doing this for her man, well sorry that's a no go for me. The female has to want to play with another female herself , not because it's what he wants.

I am a bit picky but I think that maybe, as a single fem, you have to be. you are meeting two people and you need to be comfortable with them both, as said before not a piece of meat.

Also if it is a Bi Curious female, then I want to know she's honestly happy with it, I don't want to be making them do something they really aren't enjoying.

ffm does seem to be the holy grail of meets but please, don't be disheartened! you will find the right person for the both of you

(god sorry for the ramble!!!, sure it doesn't make sense now)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i did meet when i was a single lady but not very often...

found it was the men that spoilt it...

always controlled the situation and i dont do it to put a show on for men but found this was the case for some...

the other issue was safety, its hard meeting one person let alone two...

i think we must be the odd balls then cos steve leaves well alone when i'm playing with a lady - he loves to watch us enjoying each other - and when we've met a single girl we've always met first in a very public place - it isn't rocket science - just common sense!"

Not alone, I leave it to the ladies to lead how they so wish it to go, if I get a look in then great, if I get a hand in then even greater.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"well i did meet when i was a single lady but not very often...

found it was the men that spoilt it...

always controlled the situation and i dont do it to put a show on for men but found this was the case for some...

the other issue was safety, its hard meeting one person let alone two...

i think we must be the odd balls then cos steve leaves well alone when i'm playing with a lady - he loves to watch us enjoying each other - and when we've met a single girl we've always met first in a very public place - it isn't rocket science - just common sense!

Not alone, I leave it to the ladies to lead how they so wish it to go, if I get a look in then great, if I get a hand in then even greater. "

Thank god for common sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single fem as in genuinely single!

never played with a couple as iv never found one that i can be friendly with the 2 of them and have fun without some form of hassle or just not clickin enough outside the bedroom to want to venture in! should change my tagline to "single fem looking for donald and jacqueline for fun and fuckship"!!jesus sound as bad as some of the whinin single males!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"single fem as in genuinely single!

never played with a couple as iv never found one that i can be friendly with the 2 of them and have fun without some form of hassle or just not clickin enough outside the bedroom to want to venture in! should change my tagline to "single fem looking for donald and jacqueline for fun and fuckship"!!jesus sound as bad as some of the whinin single males!!! "

you've been unlucky with couples but i know what youmean- its difficult to find a couple sometimes where you fancy both - this applies to couples looking for couples too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single fem as in genuinely single!

never played with a couple as iv never found one that i can be friendly with the 2 of them and have fun without some form of hassle or just not clickin enough outside the bedroom to want to venture in! should change my tagline to "single fem looking for donald and jacqueline for fun and fuckship"!!jesus sound as bad as some of the whinin single males!!!

you've been unlucky with couples but i know what youmean- its difficult to find a couple sometimes where you fancy both - this applies to couples looking for couples too!"

we are all fickle creatures but thats what makes us special!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are in the same boat as everyone else we have tried to find the single bi fem but no luck even when you message them on here they dont reply but as already said maybe its the fact they need to have some attraction to both of the couple who has got in contact ..but still at the end of the day is a single bi fem really any different than a couple with a bi fem ?? the fun is still the same

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