FabSwingers.com forum: Ideal swinger life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all!

What is everyone looking for?

1. Long term relationships/friendships with other couples?

2. Loose friendships with couples with play time when meet up

3. No friendships as such, more of a 'meet, connect & play'!

We are probably no2. Looking for couples to get to know and meet up with every now and again without regular chats etc.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneous decadent sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha we aren't averse to that either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1 absolutely. But can live with number two in the right scenario.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We love 1 or 2 but so hard to find or maintain. Many couples fancy a change after a few months/year and don't have what it takes for long term naughty friendships...

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Number 1 for us we love the social side too so making good friends into the same lifestyle would be perfect. We have made some already unfortunately lost some too

A local couple or two and maybe a local single or two

Looking forward to meeting up with friends when we can

Mr K x

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

All of the above.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Start with 3

Hopefully move to 2 and ok if it stays there

All well and good if it moves to 3 - but it has to happen naturally. We’ve known it to happen a few times.

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By *irtyfuxCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk! NOT

All 3 are applicable.

Long term playmates is great and ideal as is those you meet now and then. Then there is the stranger sex in the club/party - that 'in the moment fuck' and you never meet again.

All enjoyable

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking for the right couple or single female to explore amd explore some fantasies of mine

I do wish thetr to be a friendship connection however

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

for us, we joined with goals and rules in mind, well, those rules have changed, and we already achieved our goals. so at this point it's all about fun and new experiences! for us! :D

( we still DO have some rules of course! )

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Hi all!

What is everyone looking for?

1. Long term relationships/friendships with other couples?

2. Loose friendships with couples with play time when meet up

3. No friendships as such, more of a 'meet, connect & play'!

We are probably no2. Looking for couples to get to know and meet up with every now and again without regular chats etc.

Xxx

All 3 for us as we enjoy the social side and also the meets at club that you may not see again.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

No 1 for us or no 2. We actually still meet occasionally with a couple we first had fun with in the 1980s

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"Spontaneous decadent sex

Always an exciting meet

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

No 2 for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1&2 preferably. But 3 is also ok if we cannot find cpls to have 1&2 with.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

1 and 2 but with men

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

No 2 for me maybe no 1 too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. No friendships at all, more of a 'meet & play'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to have some regular friends for fun, but hubby loves me having casual one off fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly two.

Three would apply to club nights. (Remember those

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

Mainly number 2 but not against the idea of making long term friends.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

1 or 2 for us.

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By *winger coupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading Berkshire

For us 1 and 2. We have made some really great friends through this lifestyle

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By *itaandJohnCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Definitely 1 and 2, it would be great to have more of a varied social side with other couples as well as all the kinky group play! Though it's definitely not easy to find, but well worth the time and effort we reckon

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

I prefer no. 1 but usually end up with 2 or 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask all those how are saying about making friendships would you introduce you fab friends to your none fab friends?

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

All of the above.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Number 1 for us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2 or 3 for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Numbwr 1 or 2 for me, but mainly number 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No2 for us ! And don't be forgetting our post covid meet as well lol.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

No 2 is ideal, No 1 is dreamlike. Definitely believe friendship makes things so much more interesting in the bedroom!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd say probably number 2 for us. We enjoy the social side and it's nice to have like-minded friends.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

"Hi all!

What is everyone looking for?

1. Long term relationships/friendships with other couples?

2. Loose friendships with couples with play time when meet up

3. No friendships as such, more of a 'meet, connect & play'!

We are probably no2. Looking for couples to get to know and meet up with every now and again without regular chats etc.

Xxx

Very much the same but women only, we just have no interest in men other than for the pain side of BDSM

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Defo No 2.

We would like to meet a number of friends. Get together. Have a drink. Flirt. Chat and then some horny time.

Chance would be a fine thing even without the pandemic.

Very hard to get a 4 way connection.

However, I think swinging will be back to a small circle of naughty friends in the future.

Just how it used to be

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all!

What is everyone looking for?

1. Long term relationships/friendships with other couples?

2. Loose friendships with couples with play time when meet up

3. No friendships as such, more of a 'meet, connect & play'!

We are probably no2. Looking for couples to get to know and meet up with every now and again without regular chats etc.

Xxx

We would say 1&2

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By *ovebirds84Couple
over a year ago

EDGWARE

Preferably 2.

Though 3 would be a great chance spontaneously.

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By *andCberksCouple
over a year ago

Newbury

1 and 2 for us

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Hi all!

What is everyone looking for?

1. Long term relationships/friendships with other couples?

2. Loose friendships with couples with play time when meet up

3. No friendships as such, more of a 'meet, connect & play'!

We are probably no2. Looking for couples to get to know and meet up with every now and again without regular chats etc.

Xxx

#1, it is a lot nicer and longer term michievouness opens more enjoyments, x Ed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha see you soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wonder if no1 is so popular because its so difficult to find a 4 way connection so when you get one, you tend to stick with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2 ideally for us

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Because we are fairly soft swing, we sometimes think we should let some of our harder friends off to explore others when we're in a club, hence we see the benefits of all 3 options.

In other words it's lovely having regular friends but also a nice quick chat at the bar with strangers and then off for some fun can be amazing as well.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Somewhere between 1 and 2 for me... something like a friendship where there’s no pressure for sex to happen but also no strings or hang ups if it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination of 1&2

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By *oreplayfunpairCouple
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

We would love 1. Ideal for us would be a couple that we really click with and can play all together and individually to maximise the potential for naughty adventures. Not found them yet though.

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By *exysadeCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire

Yep 1 and 2 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% 1 & 2

But you take what you can find in all honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find 1., happy to find 2., occasionally will go for 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally 1 for us - hard to find though in our experience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.1 & No.2 please!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"Can I ask all those how are saying about making friendships would you introduce you fab friends to your none fab friends? "

Yes we have done. A couple we meet not often now as they moved away but last time they were up here we were out in the pub one night with our vanilla friends, but they don't know the couple, or us to that matter are swingers

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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago

london

Normally 3 we wouldn't mind 1 and 2

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

Would say probably 2 for us as well, as another post says, it's quite hard to find a 4 way attraction

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By *esifuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

london

No 1 or 2 for us

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Mixture of numbers 1 & 2 for us

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

"All 3 are applicable.

Long term playmates is great and ideal as is those you meet now and then. Then there is the stranger sex in the club/party - that 'in the moment fuck' and you never meet again.

All enjoyable

This !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 1 and 2 for us x

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Definitely no.1 for me but not excluding 2 and 3. I believe it is best to find long term friendships with people who have the same things in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

I'm not looking for anything

If I'm after friendship I'll get a dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us probably number 2 but if we click really well possibly number 1. Definitely not adverse to 3 either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking it's number 3 for us as we enjoy club visits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for anything in particular

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Not really looking for anything in particular... if it happens yay .... if not okay too ...

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

As this post has re emerged.

We almost have our ideal swingers life:

We have each other.

We have friends we meet occasionally, not often

We have a great sex life.

Ideally we would like more regular friends (FWBs), where chat socialise, have good food, good wine. If the mood takes Where ladies can watch each other or just enjoy each other, guys can crack one off if they like just drink beer and let the ladies get on with it

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By *y favourite knickersCouple
over a year ago

doncaster

Number 2 for us with the odd club indulgence meet thrown in.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

A mixture of numbers 1&2

Occasionally we go for number three but much prefer some kind of friendship as we find the sex gets better as you all get to know each other.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am really number 2. I enjoy getting to know people and the sex is always better (IMHO) when you know them but not looking for anything too deep.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

At this moment in time number 2 but not easy finding people who are on the same page as us and finding straight couples are getting hard to find x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like 1 or 2 FWB that I'm regular and familiar with. As well as being friends outside the bedroom.

Then plenty of meet and fucks or one night stands as I enjoy the intrigue and thrill of being with someone new.

Can't wait to explore the clubs more too. Xx

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By *r_BigHeadMan
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

My preference is option 2

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By *ew_to_it_2018Couple
over a year ago

wigan atea

Option 2 for us. And maybe option 4 if option 4was “occasional orgy with lots of couples and singles on a huge bed”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 and 2 for us

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Mixture of 1 and 2 for us I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone above

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Our previous post was wrong! Should have said

Start with 3

Hopefully move to 2 and ok if it stays there

All well and good if it moves to 1 - but it has to happen naturally. We’ve known it to happen a few times.

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