FabSwingers.com forum: Women over 30 ‘lose value

By *oncupiscence73 OP Woman
over a year ago

South

Seems popular so carry on...

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By *oncupiscence73 OP Woman
over a year ago

South

This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

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By *oncupiscence73 OP Woman
over a year ago

South

" ""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

When you are a woman of any age on a site like this you are spoiled for choice....but being a man, you will never get or understand that.

Ohh I do believe you... you get 500 messages a day from the best male candidates Fab has to offer....

While I will never experience this.....

I’m perfectly fine with all my matches on dating sites....

Believe it or not ..... some men online actually say no more than yes..... But you would never know right......

Thought you didnt want to "date"???

Do you want a spade to dig a deeper hole??"

No , I don’t want monogamy.... open relationships/polyamory/swinging is perfectly fine.....

There are a apps that specialize in this....

But again you can try to twist my words to fit your narrative.....

I’m not digging here.... the people that can read understand my point....

I can read and I don’t understand your point. You now are saying women under 30 are more attractive to those in the swinging world or you aren’t?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

He needs to need that thread again. Not one other man agreed with him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are like wine.

So you really need to sample a few bottles to get the buzz going

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

And over 20 years old it just tastes sweeter

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By *eeholb71Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Women over 30 certainly don’t lose appeal and if anything the extra experience they possess makes them more naughty and more appealing. X

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"And over 20 years old it just tastes sweeter

They are irresistible ladies.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Nope simple as this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely disagree.

Sexual allure and attractiveness isn’t achieved through age alone, it’s down to the individual.

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By *rindAndSlamWoman
over a year ago

Bury

I think it's true that younger women have greater broader appeal.

However, I attract more attention than I can handle.

I like men my age and I think many of them feel the same.

I certainly don't sit on the sidelines in clubs, at any rate.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Completely disagree.

Sexual allure and attractiveness isn’t achieved through age alone, it’s down to the individual.

Indeed,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are like wine.

So you really need to sample a few bottles to get the buzz going

Beer goggles

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

A woman in her twentys is out of my age bracket, too young and I'm simply not attracted to them. They are good looking but I find woman who are closer to my age more attractive, physicaly, mentaly and emotionaly.

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By *iscreetfunonly1Man
over a year ago

York

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! Experience also counts for everything

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Better trade her in then ...get an upgrade

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Women are like wine.

So you really need to sample a few bottles to get the buzz going

Beer goggles"

Red and wet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks, isn't it. I feel more empowered over 40 than I ever did under and I have personally found that my "value" has increased with men around 30 who specifically seek me out for my age, experience and attitude.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Completely disagree.

Sexual allure and attractiveness isn’t achieved through age alone, it’s down to the individual.

Absolutely correct, however experience and confidence are big factors

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By *omfoolerykentMan
over a year ago

dartford

My sexy lady friend Sue is 62, she has a fabulous body and just oozes sexuality, ridiculous to put a number on sexy

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Oh so true not, the older and more confident a lady gets the more fun she has, might not be the current fashionable body beautiful but the body and mind enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Obviously the thread was started by someone that knows little about women

Mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol"

Whats her profile name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol"

It's true. I put just one close up cleavage pic on my profile yesterday and 'fill in later' as the text.

I got 186 messages in 10 hours, many asking for meets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol

It's true. I put just one close up cleavage pic on my profile yesterday and 'fill in later' as the text.

I got 186 messages in 10 hours, many asking for meets. "

Blimey!

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

My mrs is 49 this year so not sure if its downhill after 30.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

We've often wondered whether we'd have more connection with ladies closer to our age when we've been playing with 21 year olds.

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

My preferences for meeting a woman would be over 40. They are the hottest once they get over that age. If any 40+ year old women want some fun then get in touch

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

calderdale

Women that are over 30 and much older are extremely appealing to me and have been since i was about 14

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

For some women and indeed men perhaps that's true. But for others it most certainly is not. Like most things on here, one size does not fit all. More than anything, calendar age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

FFS someone is completely wrong

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol

It's true. I put just one close up cleavage pic on my profile yesterday and 'fill in later' as the text.

I got 186 messages in 10 hours, many asking for meets. "

They were all from me... Oops sorry. I thought you were 29.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol

It's true. I put just one close up cleavage pic on my profile yesterday and 'fill in later' as the text.

I got 186 messages in 10 hours, many asking for meets.

They were all from me... Oops sorry. I thought you were 29."

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By *iptoptottyWoman
over a year ago

Watford, Herts

Personally, speaking as a lady who will be 60 this year, I think the original post is absolute bunkum and utter rubbish.

I am having the time of my life and have never attracted so much attention, both via messages and in clubs. (I don’t do so bad in my local supermarket either!) I think by showing a positive, friendly attitude it’s enough to attract attention. Age doesn’t come into it at all. We all have life-curves, whatever our age or gender. I am certainly confident with my age, physical shape and skills. If someone wants to choose a 20 year old then that’s fine but it doesn’t make us older people less attractive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'll believe that society "values" women over thirty sexually as much as women under thirty when supermodels are recruited from the over thirties, actresses don't need to stay looking young to be successful and main stream porn features women in their forties, fifties and sixties on a regular basis and not in the milf or gilf categories.

The day people stop tagging "for your age" on to a compliment is the day I'll know that age genuinely isn't an issue for people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll believe that society "values" women over thirty sexually as much as women under thirty when supermodels are recruited from the over thirties, actresses don't need to stay looking young to be successful and main stream porn features women in their forties, fifties and sixties on a regular basis and not in the milf or gilf categories.

The day people stop tagging "for your age" on to a compliment is the day I'll know that age genuinely isn't an issue for people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady could be 99 on fab and 54 stone and would still get fucked on here by the fellas!

Good old Fab lol

It's true. I put just one close up cleavage pic on my profile yesterday and 'fill in later' as the text.

I got 186 messages in 10 hours, many asking for meets.

They were all from me... Oops sorry. I thought you were 29."

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

That person was crazy...women get better with age. simple as that.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

I think it's one of the biggest loads of old bollocks I have ever read on here

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By *j84Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

We were all young, dumb and full of cum once.

But there’s something irresistibly sexy about women 30+ dealing with life, work, kids, stress etc who still wants to be full of cum.

Give me that over youngsters any day of the week!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Bollocks

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

not sure why this needed a pt2

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By *oncupiscence73 OP Woman
over a year ago

South

"not sure why this needed a pt2"

Because I had 6 dms asking me to do a part 2.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure why this needed a pt2

Because I had 6 dms asking me to do a part 2....... "

It's slagging off what a forumite said.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP Woman
over a year ago

South

"not sure why this needed a pt2

Because I had 6 dms asking me to do a part 2.......

It's slagging off what a forumite said. "

It’s what? ....... it’s a debate. People have a right to an opinion on it.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"This was the original post ...

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

I haven't read the full thread here or in the earlier post but I think that is a pathetic assessment of women who are over 30.

I have always found women over 30 to be attractive and ooze sex appeal....

Yeah with age things slow down...but that is equal for both sexes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im finding the older I get the less age matters.

Yes things change, but with most women I have talked to or met, confidence grows with age which is far sexier than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was active in the thread where the comment was made. It is a bullshit statement, holds no validity, and along with other comments he made, didn't do anything positive for the poster in question. He has a lot of maturing to do, and cold do with evaluating his personal attitudes towards women.

Age is but a number, and I tend to evaluate on far more valid criteria. Fab is testament to the fact that age is no barrier to sexual desire or attractiveness. I'm sure many ladies on here have first hand experience of how being over thirty is no barrier to interest from the opposite sex.

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

As a 20 year old woman I would like to share my take.

Women never lose their value, and treating a woman as if she is an item with a price is completely wrong and incredibly harmful in general. Women are more than objects.

That being said, I don't think I've ever got a meet from my age, if anything the swinging community is older than me and a lot of people will not even look at me because of my age. I've never had the hundreds of messages that women on here seem to be plagued by. When you hit your 30's I'd say you're in your prime, you've got the experience of your 20's under your belt and you've worked yourself out quite well.

If men stop finding you attractive when you hit 30, those aren't the men I'd want to be fucking anyway

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

"We were all young, dumb and full of cum once.

But there’s something irresistibly sexy about women 30+ dealing with life, work, kids, stress etc who still wants to be full of cum.

Give me that over youngsters any day of the week!??"

This type of comment is what I'm talking about, it's widely held amongst what I'd call an "older man" the under 30's aren't that popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs is only 18 so some age difference and I think she will only appreciate in value

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