FabSwingers.com forum: Nerves

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do people feel on the lead up to a meet ??

Like how do you feel on the drive there or while you're waiting for someone to arrive?

Do you get nervous? Excited? Apprehensive?

Do you ever regret your decision before actually arriving for the meet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nervous, excited also that's what makes it exciting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea only met with 2 and both times i felt sick with nerves. But thankfully one has turned in to a somewhat regular meet so just waiting to be allowed back out again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very choosy about who I would meet and because of that I rarely get nervous. Excited, definitely. By then we will have chatted on the phone so I will know if the conversation will flow or not. Doesn't matter how gorgeous a guy or how big his dick if he hasn't got some kind of interesting personality for me to discover...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very choosy about who I would meet and because of that I rarely get nervous. Excited, definitely. By then we will have chatted on the phone so I will know if the conversation will flow or not. Doesn't matter how gorgeous a guy or how big his dick if he hasn't got some kind of interesting personality for me to discover..."

I should add that if I'm feeling excessively nervous I would cancel the meet, I know something isn't right and I've learned to always listen to my gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nerves are good been swinging 26 ++years and i always get a little nerves before a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should add that if I'm feeling excessively nervous I would cancel the meet, I know something isn't right and I've learned to always listen to my gut. "

Always and I know what you mean.was meant to meet couple for social, something felt wrong all day, so I took my fella with me for the social turned out to be single guy, glad I listened to my gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should add that if I'm feeling excessively nervous I would cancel the meet, I know something isn't right and I've learned to always listen to my gut.

Always and I know what you mean.was meant to meet couple for social, something felt wrong all day, so I took my fella with me for the social turned out to be single guy, glad I listened to my gut. "

thats disgusting why do they think they will get away with it ??? if im meeting fopr the first time hubby is always nearby even sat in the car outside (bringing it in to the cuckold thing)

i think nerves keeps you on your toes trust no one until they gain it face to face ...id hate to be a single woman on here i really feel for then when they get messed about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I will always get nervous meeting someone for the first time but the excitement is just as high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should add that if I'm feeling excessively nervous I would cancel the meet, I know something isn't right and I've learned to always listen to my gut.

Always and I know what you mean.was meant to meet couple for social, something felt wrong all day, so I took my fella with me for the social turned out to be single guy, glad I listened to my gut.

thats disgusting why do they think they will get away with it ??? if im meeting fopr the first time hubby is always nearby even sat in the car outside (bringing it in to the cuckold thing)

i think nerves keeps you on your toes trust no one until they gain it face to face ...id hate to be a single woman on here i really feel for then when they get messed about "

After having a bad meet he comes to alot socials with me. And if the guys are genuine they are happy to meet him. If not they dont turn up or vanish lol

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Nervous excitement- it’s an amazing feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgotten what it’s like

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes nervous

Anxious

But it turns out

Great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god I get super nervous and feel sick, I usually have an urge to run away but it’s all part of the excitement I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forgotten what it’s like

Ditto

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not at all nervous. I just look forward to meeting the person i have been chatting to face to face.

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

The butterflies in my stomach go crazy... My throat goes dry

The nervous anticipation / excitement is all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t wait to find out one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nervous but the only time it wasn't OK was when I hadn't had much interaction with the couple beforehand and they turned out to be manipulative and not at all compatible, so a lesson learned.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I get a nervous excitement feeling.

I have travel anxiety which overrides the nervousness of meeting someone new.

By the time I get there I'm so relieved I practically fall through the door.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

The first couple of meets I felt sick with nerves but now it's more controlled nerves, excitement and anticipation. I love the build up on the days before a meet, the feelings intensifying as it gets closer.

It's what I have really missed while not being able to meet.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Romford

Very nervous for me, unfortunately.

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By *oodgirlbadboyCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Always get nervous before a house /hotel meet even now after two years of playing, not as much when playing in a club.

Think when I don’t get nerves it might be time to call it a day,

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

3 Showers the poor wooden floors

great feeling have everything perfect. miss all that x

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