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Women over 30 ‘lose value’

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South

Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'm unappealing then. Yikes, how embarrassing, I've been posting pics for months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

That is a complete load of tosh.

It's all about how you migrate to being more desirable.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Go on do tell who is this charming poster is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utter bollox but each to their own. Im 36 and could have sex 4 times a day with 8 different ppl if i meet everyone who messaged me on fab.

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By *hestyDrawWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Bet it was a guy, bet any of us could have him on his knees, begging.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

Go on do tell who is this charming poster is "

Not sure I’m allowed to but green arrow me and check the last post I posted on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 51.

Best wrap up and get myself some coco then.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Purely subjective. I don't agree for the record.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

What a load of rubbish....last night I was watching Top of the Pops 1989....Lisa Stansfield was being interviewed and she looks hotter now than she did back then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"
prefer women 30 plus every day of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

I think whoever said that died at 29, in my experience there is no age limit on alluringness. In fact I think in a lot of cases, the older the woman, the more alluring, along with life signs such as "lumps and bumps" as some would refer to it

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

That's me over the hill then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errmmm.... No.

I'm way hotter now than I was in my 20s, in my 20s I was this awkward ginger who hated being so pale so fake tanned and ended up looking orange lmafo. Plus isn't it a thing that women hit there sexual peak in there 40s? ... Either wag for me and lots of my girl friends 20s (especially early 20s) was like awkward and not exactly confident and empowered

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By *atchbewatchedMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Certainly not, I like older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

For me it increases sexual allure

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't think that's the case at all. I'm sure 30+ women's inboxes would attest to that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you're counting a woman's worth in sexual allure and attractiveness then it's true.

If you're counting her worth as a human being then it isn't.

Value is a horrible word to apply to a person anyway sexually or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 ! Better stop

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

Go on do tell who is this charming poster is

Not sure I’m allowed to but green arrow me and check the last post I posted on... "

I'd already blocked that charming individual anyway

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Hopefully not. I may not be young but i still scrub up well.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if thats their view then thats their view nothing will change that but plenty that dont think that way...

and i like people posting what they feel is right as it make it so much easier to avoid that person if you dont feel the same way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

Hopefully not. I may not be young but i still scrub up well.x"
look amazing from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Wrong on so many levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean it’s blue rinse, curly perm, elasticated slacks & sensible cardigans all the way going forward?

Note to self; must stop buying lingerie, big belly hugger pants are all I need now my allure has deserted me.

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By *rink Me xxWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

What a shame for me. I think I only found mine when i was about 42!

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

women get sexier from 30 onwards,they know more about themselves, they have a different kind of confidence, and a sexiness they dont have to try at

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I better make the next two years count then

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South

Hope the ‘man’ that posted this is reading this thread all these sexy women.....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Does that mean it’s blue rinse, curly perm, elasticated slacks & sensible cardigans all the way going forward?

Note to self; must stop buying lingerie, big belly hugger pants are all I need now my allure has deserted me. "

Embrace the old age, that's what I'm doing now. Full whiskers growing, slippers on. Might even get a proper boulder holder of a bra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that mean it’s blue rinse, curly perm, elasticated slacks & sensible cardigans all the way going forward?

Note to self; must stop buying lingerie, big belly hugger pants are all I need now my allure has deserted me.

Embrace the old age, that's what I'm doing now. Full whiskers growing, slippers on. Might even get a proper boulder holder of a bra. "

Bra who needs a bra; I shall let them swing free, May tuck them into the belly hugger pants I need to purchase.

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By *iveralandssklpMan
over a year ago

Turkey


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

What a load of b*****cks

Just look at Tina Turner

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By *ournemouthbusinessguyMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Im just going to give 2 examples of women that are way more alluring over 30 than before. Jennifer Aniston and Kylie. Never fancied them when younger but now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 50 ! Better stop "

Please don't, please continue

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

What an ignoramus!

I have three fwb's that I met many years ago, when I met them they were married and aged, 26, 30 and 40. I still see them all, now aged 55, 62 and 70, they are all still married. The allure is they are not mine, the sex with them is better now (not as frenzied) as they have become life friends.

It has nothing at all to do with their age or looks, it is the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it bluntly, total horseshit.

When I was in my 20s I had a few encounters with women in their 40s and one who was 50; they were all hot IMO and on balance, way more fun than women my own age at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously!! I have always found mature women more appealing, even as a lad...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poppycock!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I love ladies over 30...good chat, more in common to talk about, confident and naughty...as a rule ..

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

You are only going to get the opinion that justifies your answer on a public forum, usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, of course. But these type of misguided pronouncements tend to be made by other women, in my experience.

I once said to a female friend of mine: if women could view each other through the eyes of a man - even if just for a few minutes - they would feel very different about their bodies and attractiveness to men (although, on the latter point, I think women are more concerned about the opinions of other women when it comes to perceptions of their attractiveness).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not retiring any time soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

I disagree, in fact over 30’s improve on both fronts

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"You are only going to get the opinion that justifies your answer on a public forum, usually."

You think? I’m not sure anyone gets worse with experience do they? I know older men make far better lovers in my experience than younger ones.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

and isn't it that guys are at their prime at 19?

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, of course. But these type of misguided pronouncements tend to be made by other women, in my experience.

I once said to a female friend of mine: if women could view each other through the eyes of a man - even if just for a few minutes - they would feel very different about their bodies and attractiveness to men (although, on the latter point, I think women are more concerned about the opinions of other women when it comes to perceptions of their attractiveness)."

It was a man that said this .... I personally couldn’t give two fucks what anyone else thinks of my attractiveness maybe 20 years ago but I like who I am and how I look.

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

Not a chance after 30 they get more sexy ,better body's and less hang ups than younger ones

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By *ameslowe73Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

To be honest my mrs was getting it quite regular before lockdown and she is 47

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

If that is the case it looks like it the scrap heap for this lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m far more confident in my body and my sexuality now at my age than ever before.

But if he’s right, someone better tell all the men of fab who are messaging the over 30’s , of which there are a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, of course. But these type of misguided pronouncements tend to be made by other women, in my experience.

I once said to a female friend of mine: if women could view each other through the eyes of a man - even if just for a few minutes - they would feel very different about their bodies and attractiveness to men (although, on the latter point, I think women are more concerned about the opinions of other women when it comes to perceptions of their attractiveness)."

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By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

women r like a good bottle of wine mature with age we have been wed for 50 years and shes great and I don't mean just for cooking

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

When I was 18, I had a thing for women in their 30s and 40s

I still have that thing for women in those age ranges so I'll happily sweep up all the ones who no longer fit in with whoever came up with this load of bollocks no longer see's as attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be 50 this year and actually think I’m at my best ever, like myself and more confident now than my younger days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 40 this year and the most confident I’ve ever been. As for alluring? Get plenty more messages than I can ever deal with so all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Utter rubbish lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bahahahahaha

I thought nowhereman made the jokes?

I am just starting to get into the swing of things so to speak.

Every year I feel sexier

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

[Removed by poster at 05/02/21 17:48:27]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true."

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I was discussing this with my 54 year old ex who isn't dating because all the women are over the hill!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Best get my coat then!

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Seriously ,

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I was discussing this with my 54 year old ex who isn't dating because all the women are over the hill!"

All the woman over 30 ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a complete load of old bollocks, there are many older women who are absolute stunners, it's how a woman looks after herself not her age, plus everyone is attractive to someone beauty in the eye of the beholder and all that you don't have to be a young stick insect/super model to be attractive what complete nonsense OK rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id take a woman who knows what she's doing and what she wants over a younger girl with less experience everyday

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I totally disagree because everything is more enjoyable mature and very much kinky with pure filthy ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume you got told that after showing the person no attention? Sound like a ego being hurt thing to say

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I've gotten better with age. I exercise now and I'm much more comfortable with myself.

I was awkward and lost as a youth

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Total bollocks.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

seems most men go for women younger than them but have hot fantasies for mrs Robinson.. men just love women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seems most men go for women younger than them but have hot fantasies for mrs Robinson.. men just love women "

Unless they prefer men

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Utter rubbish, both sexes mature better all round. Over the hill, no chance we're on top of the hill.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Poppycock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife turned 50 last year, she's like a fine wine and just gets better with age.

With experience she's become extremely confident in her/our sexlife. X

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Tracy gets better as time passes, just enjoy like a fine single malt.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true."

I totally disagree too .. power means attractiveness and allure does it not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

How rude! And how untrue! We get better, and more confident, as we get older! Bet he's no oil painting himself! Wonder shat his stamina is like!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a good time been played on old fiddle.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I turn 40 next month and feel much sexier now than when I was in my 20's when I lacked confidence and my thirties when I was too busy having babies and looking after young children. Personally I think I look better now I have more time to focus on me.

It's just getting started for me, if only Covid wasn't getting in my way

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m screwed then

I have way more confidence in my 30’s than I ever did in my 20’s

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Op, I’m thinking those type of people live in some magical fantasy land where nothing is real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww shit

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Absolute nonsense.... some of the sexiest ladies I have seen are in excess of 30.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

How ridiculous...I guess a minority may think this way, but many find the opposite to be true..

Reminds me of something Oscar Wilde said...All men should be put down at 21..Dear Oscar liked 'em young..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox would suggest otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's an example of a sweeping overstatement. Some women do seem to deteriorate in terms of their feminine attractiveness once into their forties, but they are, in my view, a minority who have let themselves go. Being a regular smoker or drinker can age people's faces quicker for instance. But I can think of very desirable women I have known who were much older than forty

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By *andy1555TV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

You only need to look at the ‘Hot Photos’ to know this is nonsense. Women over 30 regularly dominate page 1 and they all look utterly fabulous.

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By *ickingfuckingMan
over a year ago

dunmow

What a load of s##t.

I don't have much experiance but i've been with older women than me & i'm 45 and they have rocked my world.

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By *andy1555TV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

17 of the top 20 photos (at time of posting) are all women over 30. So clearly most of the people on Fab have a very different opinion

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

we agree with everyone on here that statement a load of crap lol ! x

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By *ickingfuckingMan
over a year ago

dunmow


"Guess I'm unappealing then. Yikes, how embarrassing, I've been posting pics for months!"
I know, you make me cum almost daily !!!

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

What a load of rubbish..... I love women of all ages. As a women gets older they gain more confidence in themselves, which is also sexy as hell along with all the rest of their womanly liveliness

X

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

What a load of rubbish..... I love women of all ages. As a women gets older they gain more confidence in themselves, which is also sexy as hell along with all the rest of their womanly liveliness.... Loveliness I mean lol

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ..."

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEVER!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

codswallop.

35+ wamen are on a different level sexually. Imo and from experience at this age women are-

more comfortable with their self,

less inhibitions,

secure,

know what they want,

and best of all the conversation is there without their face stuck in a phone.

My preference is 30+ but in all honesty prefer older than myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope this isn’t true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK at 41 im ' over the hill' , well i'd rather be over the hill than under the knob who started that thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are like wine, the longer they're left then the better they become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'll just delete my profile then...

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

I think that person is talking out there arse

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By *ugofirstMan
over a year ago

livingston

I am going to be waiting at the bottom of that hill for all the ladies heading down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn I’ve never heard something so ridiculous! For me it’s the total opposite! I’m a 21 yr old lad and I’m actually more attracted to 30+ than women my own age! Absolute nonsense! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Utter nonsense, women in 50s are unreal, so sexy, know what they want and real naughty xx

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By *obbiec976Man
over a year ago

London & Midlands


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Sounds like absolute complete and utter BS!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Couldn’t give a monkeys arse what anyone else thinks

V x

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

For some guys its true

How many fucks you can get, irrelevant as guys will fuck a tree lol

However I actually think older ladies are more attractive, less plastic if that makes sense!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

30 is fine, 40 is the age it all goes wrong. I don’t find Mrs k.f attractive since Monday. Still, we’ll muddle through somehow. Mr

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

That's absolute nonsense !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's someone's opinion that they are entitled to.

I'm certainly not in such good condition as I was when I was 30. *shrugs* their opinion doesn't affect me in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's someone's opinion that they are entitled to.

I'm certainly not in such good condition as I was when I was 30. *shrugs* their opinion doesn't affect me in any way. "

Look fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 30 is when the attraction starts!

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Well basically it's a load of bollocks isn't it?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

I suggest whoever said that searches the word 'Toyah' in Facebook......

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?

Well basically it's a load of bollocks isn't it?"

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By *uby Tuesday 55Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin

61 here and still feel attractive & alluring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Hahahahaha bollocks, in My best French

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Who cares what they think

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

Oh my days I turned 30 a couple weeks ago...guess I should get ready for going downhill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"61 here and still feel attractive & alluring "

You are

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By *uby Tuesday 55Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin


"61 here and still feel attractive & alluring

You are"

Thank you

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

I have bedded, made love to, and fucked women from 20 to 65. All lovely in their own way, but the most enjoyable have been those with the experience to know what they want and the confidence to tell me. Any man who thinks a woman over 30 is too old will miss out on a huge amount of pleasure.

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By *lirtysteveMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

It's been said many a time like fine wine women get better with age, or is they feel better about their age after drinking it?

Anyway it's mature women for me, Lumps,bumps and all.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Not at all. Sexy women are sexy for a long time beyond that young age!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’m 36 and my 30’s have been my best sexual years!

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Oh my days....they better go tell all the young lads I'm talking to that I'm past it too....

Oh wait, the young lads are my willing students

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather spend time with 30+ ladies than younger, 40+ yeah !!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I always say each to their own,but in my opinion it’s utter bollocks. Sounds like someone out to sound controversial and after attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always say each to their own,but in my opinion it’s utter bollocks. Sounds like someone out to sound controversial and after attention. "

Agree

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Attractiveness and sexual allure has very little to do with age IMHO.

Some ladies just have that something else, that thing that really can't be defined bought or learnt it just is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh really no hope for me then lol since menopause I've been more horny than ever

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Nope 30+ are hot AF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh really no hope for me then lol since menopause I've been more horny than ever "

Profile hidden I'm 49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Well they must be idiots

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Age is but a number

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

I'm more confident now, in my mind and body and sexual desires than I've ever been... I'm 53..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I didn't blossom sexually until I was in my late 30's, early 4's.

Older women may lose their appeal to some people, but many others find them very appealing.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I found it was the men I was with who made me feel sexy and attractive.

I never felt sexy with my husband.

Then, at the age of 43 I was seduced by a 23 year old and my sex life took off like a rocket to the moon.

He showed me just how a man can enjoy a woman's body and I did things I hadn't done with my husband.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I didn't blossom sexually until I was in my late 30's, early 4's.

Older women may lose their appeal to some people, but many others find them very appealing.

"

I’m one of the others

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

I have felt my 40s were my best years I know what I want and a relationship which gives confidence and confidence is the key to new adventures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found it was the men I was with who made me feel sexy and attractive.

I never felt sexy with my husband.

Then, at the age of 43 I was seduced by a 23 year old and my sex life took off like a rocket to the moon.

He showed me just how a man can enjoy a woman's body and I did things I hadn't done with my husband.

"

That's wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everything rlse, it's a matter of taste. I found that turning 49 made me an instant magnet for younger men, so my "value" went up for that crowd.

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By *axx82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Who's the person saying that? Name and shame

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"I found it was the men I was with who made me feel sexy and attractive.

I never felt sexy with my husband.

Then, at the age of 43 I was seduced by a 23 year old and my sex life took off like a rocket to the moon.

He showed me just how a man can enjoy a woman's body and I did things I hadn't done with my husband.

"

Absolutely agree

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

I think that someone is an idiot.

Women over 30 are sexy, same as women over 40 and over 50. There are some very sexy ladies at 60 and 70 and I guess even older.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I found it was the men I was with who made me feel sexy and attractive.

I never felt sexy with my husband.

Then, at the age of 43 I was seduced by a 23 year old and my sex life took off like a rocket to the moon.

He showed me just how a man can enjoy a woman's body and I did things I hadn't done with my husband.

That's wonderful "

It was 2 wonderful years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww bless them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever said that is talking utter garbage women get more sexier and tastier over 30s the man or woman who thinks otherwise needs there heads testing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys. "

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Not read the whole thread but utter bollox.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative....."

Nonsense you clearly don't understand the power of a woman regardless of age.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative....."

Maybe they can read your thread themselves (green arrow or something about monogamy in swingers chat) and make their own minds up ... no witch hunt just wondered how others felt about your statement. My opinion is you’re utterly wrong ... others seem to share my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

Absolute poppycock! I have met some stunning and VERY keen ladies in their 30’s, 40’s, 50s and 60’s at clubs and I am so glad I’ve chatted and played.(Once with a lady in her 70’s!). Those ladies 30’s upwards should not consider themselves over the hill as there guys of all ages that are attracted to you. Ladies improve with age IMHO, and as I’m 66, those nearer my age are more likely to be of interest to and interested in, me. Long that may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find that hard to believe considering a hell of a lot of guys go for the maturer lady

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

Nonsense you clearly don't understand the power of a woman regardless of age."

Exactly my point ... he’ll learn .. maybe

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By *entGent75Man
over a year ago

Dartford


"Sooo someone on another thread has stated that once women are over 30 ‘it’s all downhill’ as in we lose our attractiveness and sexual allure.

What do we think of that oh people of fab?"

A load of rubbish ! Over 30's all the way.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys. "

That makes sense.

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

This must be someone trolling. Women of all ages are sexy. Each has their own unique point and is sexy in her own way.

Same must apply for guys too. I would say I am sexier now than in my twenties although I would have clearly looked better.x

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

That makes sense. "

That isn’t what he said though he repeated himself up thread he said women over 30 lose their power (attractiveness) as 20 somethings will turn up ... clearly stating that 20 somethings are the best and most preferred option.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative....."

I think this comment will start a witch hunt, not op's.. I definitely didn't get that impression. just discussion about age related sexual desire

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By *ou37Woman
over a year ago

uk

Women know what they want sexually later in life, most 20 somethings have no idea!

Each to their own I guess, some like the look of younger women only, everyone has their thing... as is evident with fab!

I’m nearly 38, and I absolutely love being my age, wouldn’t trade it with a 20 year old for anything

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

*Applies for state pension*

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative....."

When you are a woman of any age on a site like this you are spoiled for choice....but being a man, you will never get or understand that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

That makes sense.

That isn’t what he said though he repeated himself up thread he said women over 30 lose their power (attractiveness) as 20 somethings will turn up ... clearly stating that 20 somethings are the best and most preferred option. "

Her comment made sense, but, after reading his comment on the other thread I don't believe that's what he meant. I read it as a 20 something woman should fuck lots of men because once she hits 30 she will lose the "power" to attract men.

Which is rubbish. She may not be attractive to men who want 20 somethings but there are many men, of all ages, who want women 30 years and over.

I had a 23 year old lover for 2 years when I was 43.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

When you are a woman of any age on a site like this you are spoiled for choice....but being a man, you will never get or understand that."

Not even on a site like this.

I've met men from Facebook apps and in bars etc.

We don't stop having the so called power to attract men.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative....."

I think you are assuming that every man on the swinging scene shares your view, but I think you will find that they don't. In reality, in my experience (which is fairly extensive due to me being ancient), in the swinging scene women in their 30s and 40s often have considerably more power than their younger counterparts because with age comes experience, confidence & self belief & men find that pretty damned attractive.

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

That's me outa the game then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

That makes sense.

That isn’t what he said though he repeated himself up thread he said women over 30 lose their power (attractiveness) as 20 somethings will turn up ... clearly stating that 20 somethings are the best and most preferred option. "

You really can’t see the Forrest between the trees......

You don’t believe that a new person to the scene will get more attention?

You need to reread my thread...... I’ll help you...

The person in question was a attractive 20 something single female... She stated she only played with 2 people and she was absolutely fine with that.....

I suggested to her to use her power - meaning she is spoiled for choice. To explore more than the two partners , while she can....

Because after 30 , there will be a new 20 something attractive single female on the scene, that will get all the attention.... “ Down hill after 30 “

Now you take this comment and start a thread about me saying this about all women.....

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

That makes sense.

That isn’t what he said though he repeated himself up thread he said women over 30 lose their power (attractiveness) as 20 somethings will turn up ... clearly stating that 20 somethings are the best and most preferred option.

Her comment made sense, but, after reading his comment on the other thread I don't believe that's what he meant. I read it as a 20 something woman should fuck lots of men because once she hits 30 she will lose the "power" to attract men.

Which is rubbish. She may not be attractive to men who want 20 somethings but there are many men, of all ages, who want women 30 years and over.

I had a 23 year old lover for 2 years when I was 43. "

Yes thanks that’s how I read it too there was no ambiguity ......

Haha fabulous - I’ve never been that young as I personally prefer more experience but never say never

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

That makes sense.

That isn’t what he said though he repeated himself up thread he said women over 30 lose their power (attractiveness) as 20 somethings will turn up ... clearly stating that 20 somethings are the best and most preferred option.

You really can’t see the Forrest between the trees......

You don’t believe that a new person to the scene will get more attention?

You need to reread my thread...... I’ll help you...

The person in question was a attractive 20 something single female... She stated she only played with 2 people and she was absolutely fine with that.....

I suggested to her to use her power - meaning she is spoiled for choice. To explore more than the two partners , while she can....

Because after 30 , there will be a new 20 something attractive single female on the scene, that will get all the attention.... “ Down hill after 30 “

Now you take this comment and start a thread about me saying this about all women.....

"

Mate just stop digging ... ‘down hill after 30’ ...

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Wow...... I’m 42 and my sex life (when I get it) has never been better and I’ve never felt so sexually empowered as I do now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of bollocks about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

When you are a woman of any age on a site like this you are spoiled for choice....but being a man, you will never get or understand that."

Ohh I do believe you... you get 500 messages a day from the best male candidates Fab has to offer....

While I will never experience this.....

I’m perfectly fine with all my matches on dating sites....

Believe it or not ..... some men online actually say no more than yes..... But you would never know right......

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

When you are a woman of any age on a site like this you are spoiled for choice....but being a man, you will never get or understand that.

Ohh I do believe you... you get 500 messages a day from the best male candidates Fab has to offer....

While I will never experience this.....

I’m perfectly fine with all my matches on dating sites....

Believe it or not ..... some men online actually say no more than yes..... But you would never know right......"

Thought you didnt want to "date"???

Do you want a spade to dig a deeper hole??

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative....."

I can assure that 30somethings "girls" have plenty of powers and are still so very much spoilt for choice that it's hard graft to do the choosing so whatever you think happens to a woman on the morning of a 30th birthday is completely erroneous.

Heck an old lady like me probably gets more mail in a day than you do in a year ....

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

If women over 30 are past it and undesirable, why did I have to block under 28s to stop the endless messages from boys so young I could have given birth to them, all of whom were desperate for me to “show them my tricks”? Why, at almost 43, am I more spoilt for choice than I’ve ever been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""She will lose her power after 30 “

There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....

So her power as a 30 year old will diminish...."

That's the quote.

In that context it's true.

I disagree. It depends entirely on the man/person who’s looking ...

I read it as being the people interested in the 20 something would find new 20 somethings. Hence the 30 year old would be cast aside for the shiny new toys.

Please leave common sense and the truth out of this discussion......

The Op is on a witch hunt and the truth doesn’t matter....

Thank you for having the good sense to read my quote and understanding the meaning of it...

I’ll repeat it .... When you’re a 20 something attractive single female on the swinging scene... You will have great power - spoiled for choice.

When you turn 30 and older you will lose that power... Because there will be a new 20 something attractive single girl on the scene... that will be spoiled for choice.....

But please continue with your narrative.....

When you are a woman of any age on a site like this you are spoiled for choice....but being a man, you will never get or understand that.

Ohh I do believe you... you get 500 messages a day from the best male candidates Fab has to offer....

While I will never experience this.....

I’m perfectly fine with all my matches on dating sites....

Believe it or not ..... some men online actually say no more than yes..... But you would never know right......

Thought you didnt want to "date"???

Do you want a spade to dig a deeper hole??"

No , I don’t want monogamy.... open relationships/polyamory/swinging is perfectly fine.....

There are a apps that specialize in this....

But again you can try to twist my words to fit your narrative.....

I’m not digging here.... the people that can read understand my point....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this site blows that theory right out the window! Must admit, thought I was past my sell by date till I found fab. Yes! I've still got 30/40 years on me, get in there!

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