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Your perception of swinging and swingers before you became one

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Before I visited my first swingers club, I hv always thought bout swinging as some crazy fun and so wanted to join the fun.. a friend told me he always thought bout swinging as a taboo until he became one.. what did you all think bout swinging before you delved into it

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd always been interested in the idea. After all, we don't wear the same clothes or eat the same food everyday. So, why limit your sexual partners? When I finally went to a swingers club, I found the reality was even better than I expected. Wish I'd done it sooner.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

In my younger days I would never have considered it and assumed it was a bit seedy and only for married people who wanted to swap partners. I suppose I was a bit naive as I never thought single people would be swingers as they didn’t have a partner to swap. I also never considered group scenarios and believed I would only have sex in a loving relationship. My views have changed over the years, I’ve got older, wiser and kinkier.

Lou x

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"In my younger days I would never have considered it and assumed it was a bit seedy and only for married people who wanted to swap partners. I suppose I was a bit naive as I never thought single people would be swingers as they didn’t have a partner to swap. I also never considered group scenarios and believed I would only have sex in a loving relationship. My views have changed over the years, I’ve got older, wiser and kinkier.

Lou x "

Nice to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite liberating when you understand that sex is just another activity to do for us adults. Traditionally were brought up with the idea that sex is something that only takes part between two people that love eachother etc etc etc. Me and my wife love eachother exclusively but that doesn't mean we can't have adult fun with others.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We just think it is a great way to meet new interesting people and open minded ones as well and had no idea what to expect to be honest in the beginning !! and like all walks of life you get the good..bad ..indifferent

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Thought they may be seedy pushy people...went on swinger cruise first and changed our minds..realised they were happy people enjoying sexxy times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was sleazy sex mad people who would fuck anyone who asked. The type who bring up sex at every opportunity, no matter how wildly inappropriate or unwanted.

I was partly right.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Neva judge

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I was into adveturous sex with past parnters before the internet, so always had a very open mind, we are all here for our own life adventure.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I was very traditional and felt that "he" couldn't really love me if he wanted to shag other people and in turn I wasn't remotely interested in other blokes ...

And although I was rather wild as a single I totally Believed in monogamous relationships .

Anyway than I moved to Cap d'Agde for work ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was sleazy sex mad people who would fuck anyone who asked. The type who bring up sex at every opportunity, no matter how wildly inappropriate or unwanted.

I was partly right. "

98% of men on this site think exactly what you have written!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I entered this world, I'd only ever seen the Louis Theroux Documentary and i assumed it was a "keys in a bowl" type of affair and super seedy.

BOY was I wrong.

I've met some of the most amazing, down to earth, kind people and even someone I'd call a best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was sleazy sex mad people who would fuck anyone who asked. The type who bring up sex at every opportunity, no matter how wildly inappropriate or unwanted.

I was partly right.

98% of men on this site think exactly what you have written!!!!!"

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

No way was leaving our car keys anywhere

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