FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies do you like being called a Slut or dirty names during sex

By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??

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By *errero RochelleWoman
over a year ago

Chocoville

No, I wouldn't like it. Because I'm not a dirty slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don’t which pretty much sums up all the questions asked on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My GF loved it when guys called her a slut

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Like Marmite either love it or hate it I guess.....

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Just between us, maybe as far as letting another female but a big no to letting guys say it.

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By *ildb3rryWoman
over a year ago

Ratoath

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care much for that

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It’s a fine line being called certain names and easily affend the women sorry doesn’t do it for me would make me feel cheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone likes it great but I’d someone doesn’t that fine . Usually if a girl likes that they bring it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being called slut etc but it depends on the situation. If it's derogatory names then that's game over for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes love it! Such a turn on during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone likes it great but I’d someone doesn’t that fine . Usually if a girl likes that they bring it up"

Exactly

if it isn’t said and the sex with the guy is good I do ask him to call him one when he’s railing me. Usually works and gets him going

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"I don't mind being called slut etc but it depends on the situation. If it's derogatory names then that's game over for me."

Slut is ok

Whore, have to be d*unk

Slag, bit far for us

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

From T.. K likes all the names. dirty as possible.. but not from others, its a level of trust thing for us

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??"

Oh she just loves being told the truth, she is a slut

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By *leasure zoneCouple (MM)
over a year ago

oxford

As others have said it can be a fine line and very much depends on the situation

We’ve had a few “ good girls” visit who just want to allow us to take charge

And we had a few who just want to lose themselves in debauchery and release their inner slut

To be fair some find the freedom a turn on

From dressing the part onwards

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

I do

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

I absolutely love being called all the filthiest names you can wrap your tongue around

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes. It's who I am. I wouldn't let anyone except Sam call me that tho

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??"

It's not just about you though, it's got to be about what turns her on as well

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It’s great. I love being called nasty names. Really gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no I REALLY hate that!

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Game over if I get called names x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand being called names. I'd end the meet immediately.

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

Nice to know yr opinions guys...on the flip side. How bout guys?? Do u like the ladies calling you names during sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the nature of the meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate being called daddy so wrong on many levels

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Call me a slut or other similar names and i will probably kick you in the balls so be warned.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Some do some don’t ! It’s isn’t any more complicated that that really. Another one for the “we all have preferences” archive

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By *eandshe123Couple
over a year ago

Ashby

Sometimes I’m in the mood for it and sometimes I’m not.. all depends!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Call me a slut or other similar names and i will probably kick you in the balls so be warned."

Now your catering for the fetish crowd

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Yes but if I called her that ( which I wouldnt) while she is tidying or something i would get a clump

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??"

Yes. Like any abuse the choice is hers to instigate, not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be okay with it from certain people who I already have an established connection with (I don't really like the word slut in general though). If anyone else did it I'd be offended and I wouldn't meet them again.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope, not into, or guys who are belittling

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With consent, some words are great, but only with certain people, I hate bitch though

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??

Yes. Like any abuse the choice is hers to instigate, not yours."

Wrong... I have had ladies that wanted me to instigate it... each to their own but dont judge all by yr own standard... u might like instigating it but some ladies like the guy to take charge which may involve name calling etc... I have had situations where I called names while having sex and the lady actually loved it...she got turned on more... she definitely did not instigate it.. I did

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Yes I love it."

My girl

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Nope, not into, or guys who are belittling "

Sometimes its not necessarily belittling.. has a guy spanked yr bum while doing u doggy?? Or pulled yr hair? Or cho u slightly etc.. is that belittling??

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Call me a slut or other similar names and i will probably kick you in the balls so be warned."

Noted... lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Absolutely do not do this with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd end up on an assault chaege if someone called me a slut or similar during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd end up on an assault chaege if someone called me a slut or similar during sex."

Do you think that would be an appropriate response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??"

Depends on my mood and prevailing situation, but generally ok with/like it.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Depends on who’s calling me the names...sometimes it’s very natural and other times it can sound vile!

So I’m on the fence with this one x

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

It needs to sound like a compliment in the same way as some women like to refer to themselves as a "bitch" as an empowering handle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, turn off for me.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I love when hubby calls me his slut, but I dislike others calling me slut

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By *arkmanMan
over a year ago

hounslow

"Hate being called daddy so wrong on many levels "

This, utterly detest it. Also hate being referred to as BBC or any other TV station for that matter!

Totally understand why women would find certain words offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love dirty talk during sex. Just say anything you want. Alternatively I also love being called a good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love dirty talk during sex. Just say anything you want. Alternatively I also love being called a good girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No actually, not really my thing. I like dirty talk, being told what he's going to do, naughty words in my ear... But not name calling.

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By *heerymanMan
over a year ago

stoke

Surely this is something that has to be decided by the two people involved in the meet. There is no yes or no generic answer. Whatever the two people want is the correct answer for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it too

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I like it. But then I get it as the first message often cos of my username so I get bored quick ha

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
over a year ago

Colchester

"No, I wouldn't like it. Because I'm not a dirty slut."

excellent reply

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

The only man that can call me a slut in a sexual way is my husband ..

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By *louWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not really my thing! In bed and definitely not in first messages to me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Turns me off instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Absolutely hate it.

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Nothing wrong if is part of dirty talk, everything outside is big no, it should not be said to any lady, never

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Absolutely love it yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a big fan, yes.

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Most of the time yes, especially when having anal when I'm feeling really naughty lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say calling me a slut is something I can see getting me turned on but in the heat of the moment it may work.

I do love to be spoken to during sex, to be told how naughty I am, and for someone who knows my mind ....such as my boyfriend.... to poke and prod into my dirty thoughts and fantasies.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s confusing .. but usually you know the person well so will know regardless what the turn ons/offs are. Depends on scenario. I get super tuned on in the moment and anything can be a turn

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

No thank you.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??"

Each to there own but I personally would be offended by this. I'm a lady not the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A random person , or a meet for the first time this would be a turn off. Regular / long term then absolutely !!!! I guess it comes with connection and trust ! I love being his whore .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love being called dirty names, the whole reason I’m here to meet is to have rough, dirty sex. Definitely not here for vanilla lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if it’s weird, but I love it with my husband, but hate it if anyone else tries x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P A N T Y H O S E slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but sometimes I like to call myself a dirty slut when he's fucking me haha go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to know what the lady likes. Sometimes they hold back.. sex is at its absolute best when you both on same page with no inhibitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??"

Just gotta say (because I can't slide into your DMs) absolutely LOVE your profile and your pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit slut is one of my favourite words. Check out my videos I see it as a compliment when used in the bedroom. Hate slag and not find of whore either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the mood is right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love being called a filthy dirty cum dumpster slut whore when have sex. X

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it's a turn off for me.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

No it’s not something that I enjoy.

Hubby and I always play together and we do it for fun, I’m not a slut and don’t like being called one

Jxx

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I absolutely love it. He's been warned not to do it over the dinner table though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love it. He's been warned not to do it over the dinner table though

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its hard to approach the topic though early days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to dominate me and call me what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife likes it. She likes the attention she gets from being one and the thrill it created being with on. Hence when told she is one its all part of the game.

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

I enjoy being called names during sex, not just from men. I had an ex gf that loved calling me names whilst pegging me.

But you do need to check people are into it first, calling someone a name randomly mid shag is not a cool way to find out, so communication prior is key

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I love it so turns me 0n being called a dirty slut or whore

Maybe because there female terms and just makes feel that bit note female even

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I absolutely love being called a filthy dirty cum dumpster slut whore when have sex. X "
...my girl

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I had a lady who didn't like being called slutty names while being ..... for me it turns me on calling a lady a slut while having sex... anyone has a problem with this fetish??

Just gotta say (because I can't slide into your DMs) absolutely LOVE your profile and your pics xx

Its a privilege..thank you

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I like a bit of dirty talk and being called dirty slut or filthy whore etc. But there’s definitely a time and place. Kinky sex with filthy talk and name calling .. yes. If it was whilst ‘making love’ or trying to seduce someone, probably not.

Lou x

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

By M, absolutely. By anyone else, nope.

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By *aughty miss pickleWoman
over a year ago

colchester

Love it. Makes me really horny. X

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By *r and Mrs300Couple
over a year ago

London sw3

yes I love it

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"yes I love it

I like that

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Love it. Makes me really horny. X"
my girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

used within a roleplay scenario especially with a familiar partner can be very sensual.

It's about boundaries and communication is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand it personally. Play would instantly stop if someone started calling me names.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Can't stand it personally. Play would instantly stop if someone started calling me names. "

Well anyone who hadn’t established your likes and dislikes prior to meeting you I would describe as an amateur tbh

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