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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South

A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Honestly I don’t have any on my profile out of respect and honestly unless it’s a couple then no. As I would be thinking how I would compare to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

I honestly wouldn’t think about putting an action shot on my profile as a single male. Surely other people would look at it and find it a massive turn off.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

I honestly wouldn’t think about putting an action shot on my profile as a single male. Surely other people would look at it and find it a massive turn off. "

I agree it’s a total turn off for me but not sure if others feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are single they are single... they should definitely not be putting up pictures of anyone else other than themselves x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

I honestly wouldn’t think about putting an action shot on my profile as a single male. Surely other people would look at it and find it a massive turn off.

I agree it’s a total turn off for me but not sure if others feel the same. "

And also out of sheer respect for the actual person you’re posting pictures with. It just doesn’t sit right that.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I hate seeing them,

If I can see more of a womans body than the message sender, its an instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do it & I don’t like seeing them.

It just doesn’t do anything for me. I’m interested in the single man not the woman he fucked last week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

Glimpses are fine but multiple bareback and videos are a no.

But shhhhhh it’s a sorting technique; don’t warn them

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

This has been said by women countless times but men just don’t listen. Oh and while you’re at it fellas, make sure you have loads of pictures of your c... too. Women love seeing them apparently lol

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By *etCloseMan
over a year ago

north

It’s nice for some things to be left to the imagination

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

They are trophy pictures, bragging rights and I find them awful.

I saw an avatar today on a single mans profile of a barely pixillated womans face with (presumably) the owners cock in her mouth. A close up pic of her face and 1 inch of cock showing.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think a lot of the time it's almost "proof" that they can (a) attract women and (b) have sex - what they fail to realise is (a) it fails to attract most women and (b) the assumption is that if they've joined the site they are capable of at least the basics

Would never post on mine, nor meet anyone (that wasn't a couple) that had them on theirs

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By *lub coupleCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Don't understand your problem!

Why shouldn't they? Whats the difference between they and couples uploading pics on a sex site

which this incase you haven't noticed is not a vanilla dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, OP, I find them so distasteful.

It's a good filter though; no need for an exchange of messages to know I won't want to meet them.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Don't understand your problem!

Why shouldn't they? Whats the difference between they and couples uploading pics on a sex site

which this incase you haven't noticed is not a vanilla dating site."

You appear to be in the minority ...

I’m not interested in the women a man has met previously I’m interested in him.

The big difference is a couple is two people and I assume you’d be looking for someone attracted to both people. Single profile is just that....

I don’t understand your confusion.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Agreed, OP, I find them so distasteful.

It's a good filter though; no need for an exchange of messages to know I won't want to meet them. "

Haha yes that’s true the ones with a pfp of some woman’s mouth full of (I assume) their cock are the best (worst) I mean why???

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"They are trophy pictures, bragging rights and I find them awful.

I saw an avatar today on a single mans profile of a barely pixillated womans face with (presumably) the owners cock in her mouth. A close up pic of her face and 1 inch of cock showing.

"

mm haha I think I saw that one too exactly that lol

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Theres a lot of single ladies profiles with cocks and fucking...

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Theres a lot of single ladies profiles with cocks and fucking..."

I don’t doubt it I just don’t look at single women’s profiles ..... so does that attract you? To see them in action?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Theres a lot of single ladies profiles with cocks and fucking..."

...and most men love those pics!

Most women don't want to play spot the hidden cock in the latest conquest picture. I'm interested in seeing the man I want to meet, not the face/arsehole/cum dripping pussy of the last woman he fucked.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Theres a lot of single ladies profiles with cocks and fucking...

I don’t doubt it I just don’t look at single women’s profiles ..... so does that attract you? To see them in action? "

Not particularly, to be honest I prefer the pics which leave something to the imagination

..and are just of the lady, i.e not action shots ..I've never heard anybody complain about it in respect of a ladies profile, maybe most single men enjoy it whereas single ladies dont ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It begs the question as to how many women's pictures have been used without their knowledge, is it their unsuspecting partners wife's gf etc. No it's a turnoff for me.. I am a si gle woman and I don't have mens pictures in collection.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

It really turns me off. But everyone can put the pictures they want on their profiles if it makes them happy. It does usually mean I loose interest but that is my problem not theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

They seem to be the ones that get the most fabs and attention (in the case of females anyway) so that's probably why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big turn off to see them

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"This has been said by women countless times but men just don’t listen. Oh and while you’re at it fellas, make sure you have loads of pictures of your c... too. Women love seeing them apparently lol "

I never used to have a cock on my profile and did a post asking whether I should have one and the majority responses (not from blokes ) was that you should have one, at least ...so I added one .

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Total turn off, but certainly a useful filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

I would also love to know why lol.

I just find it weird to see a single guys profile with action shots.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

Have often wondered this ourselves. Always ignore them profiles but always wonder do the ladys in the pics know that there pictures are on here been displayed by some guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have single profile as does my fella. We have couple profile also. We both have pics of both of us on our single profiles. Me doesn't bother me seeing other women on guys profile. I dont really look. Personality and connection is main thing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite turn off for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are in charge of there own profiles and as long as within the rules should do as they please ...i use mine as i please so i aint gonna judge others how they use theres ..if you do like dont look ...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's discouraging to me when I see them for several reasons. I think it shows poor judgement of what I might need.

I look at photos to gain a perception of how users look, ultimately to gauge whether I find them attractive. Each and every pic that doesn't let me form a more accurate understanding of how they look is a failure, whether it's due to poor lighting, focus, being too far away or just a minority of the skin on show. I find some distasteful and I stop looking at the profile. Inevitably there is more of their partner showing than them, as they were taken for their wank fodder. I get to assume that their partners were more attractive than they are and they feel a need to brag. It's often difficult to know who is the user, once they insist on showing group shots. Epic failures.

We all generally will not be virgins and know which bits go where. If someone isn't a child, they should have the maturity to have put this sort of need behind them.

I'd prefer it if they were not permitted, it would help us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people are in charge of there own profiles and as long as within the rules should do as they please ...i use mine as i please so i aint gonna judge others how they use theres ..if you do like dont look ..."

Hit the nail on the head with this I think... all down to personal preference

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"people are in charge of there own profiles and as long as within the rules should do as they please ...i use mine as i please so i aint gonna judge others how they use theres ..if you do like dont look ..."

100%, we all pay for our subscription on fab and providing people stick to the rules, it up to the individual what they do with their pictures. Everyone has their own preferences, for me action shots is not the end of the world and if i don't like what i see, move on

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’m surprised the site allows them.

I’m not offended by them personally, but whenever I’ve been lucky enough to take ‘action’ shots they’ve always been on the agreement that the photos remain private.

I’ve never had anyone say ‘Yes, of course you can use our photos online’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, my profile picture must be pretty unpopular then. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I like the picture - it’s of me and it portrays what I’m into, so that’s enough for me.

The ‘looked at me’ function shows me which females come back for another glance...

I also see lots of single female profiles peppered with action’ shots - some I like, others I don’t.

It’s a sex site - it’s not really that surprising to see sex pictures- it’s also not really any of my business what others put their profiles. If we don’t like something as others have said we just move onto the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of respect to any woman I don't have any on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? Because I like to enjoy the memory

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I think any photos showing genitalia or a face dripping in cum gross and distasteful. I guess I'm just old fashioned

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well, my profile picture must be pretty unpopular then. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I like the picture - it’s of me and it portrays what I’m into, so that’s enough for me.

The ‘looked at me’ function shows me which females come back for another glance...

I also see lots of single female profiles peppered with action’ shots - some I like, others I don’t.

It’s a sex site - it’s not really that surprising to see sex pictures- it’s also not really any of my business what others put their profiles. If we don’t like something as others have said we just move onto the next profile. "

Yep, it's a pic mainly of you, nicely taken and give a good impression of the type of man you are although the womans face is visible and that always makes me uncomfortable

as there's no way I could possibly know you have her permission. It's not half a centimetre of your cock buried deep and uncovered in a womans arsehole.

Nobody is slating anybody on how they run their profile, what is being discussed is why some men have those photos and do they think it will attract their target audience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, my profile picture must be pretty unpopular then. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I like the picture - it’s of me and it portrays what I’m into, so that’s enough for me.

The ‘looked at me’ function shows me which females come back for another glance...

I also see lots of single female profiles peppered with action’ shots - some I like, others I don’t.

It’s a sex site - it’s not really that surprising to see sex pictures- it’s also not really any of my business what others put their profiles. If we don’t like something as others have said we just move onto the next profile. "

I really don’t like pics of other women on single profiles, I find it so off putting, but that avatar is beautiful, and I wouldn’t class that in the same category, it’s very arty.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Well, my profile picture must be pretty unpopular then. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I like the picture - it’s of me and it portrays what I’m into, so that’s enough for me.

The ‘looked at me’ function shows me which females come back for another glance...

I also see lots of single female profiles peppered with action’ shots - some I like, others I don’t.

It’s a sex site - it’s not really that surprising to see sex pictures- it’s also not really any of my business what others put their profiles. If we don’t like something as others have said we just move onto the next profile.

Yep, it's a pic mainly of you, nicely taken and give a good impression of the type of man you are although the womans face is visible and that always makes me uncomfortable

as there's no way I could possibly know you have her permission. It's not half a centimetre of your cock buried deep and uncovered in a womans arsehole.

Nobody is slating anybody on how they run their profile, what is being discussed is why some men have those photos and do they think it will attract their target audience?"

Took the words right out of my mouth - I am simply wondering why not slating. Doesn’t offend me in the slightest.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Well, my profile picture must be pretty unpopular then. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I like the picture - it’s of me and it portrays what I’m into, so that’s enough for me.

The ‘looked at me’ function shows me which females come back for another glance...

I also see lots of single female profiles peppered with action’ shots - some I like, others I don’t.

It’s a sex site - it’s not really that surprising to see sex pictures- it’s also not really any of my business what others put their profiles. If we don’t like something as others have said we just move onto the next profile. "

Haha that’s not an action shot and totally not what I mean - that’s classy and sexy.

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By *inkyfilthymindMan
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

I don’t have any ‘action’ pics on my profile. But I get asked to send a lot of action videos by approx half of people I chat. In my experience, half the time it’s expected for some reason

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

I don’t have any ‘action’ pics on my profile. But I get asked to send a lot of action videos by approx half of people I chat. In my experience, half the time it’s expected for some reason "

Hahah only half? I get asked for explicit videos and photos from strangers all the time ... no is the answer for me.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

The one "action shot" I have on my profile us of me and a fwb who gave me permission to use the puck on here.

I love seeing pics of people playing so why wouldnt I have a photo of me playing with someone on here?

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By *inkyfilthymindMan
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

I don’t have any ‘action’ pics on my profile. But I get asked to send a lot of action videos by approx half of people I chat. In my experience, half the time it’s expected for some reason

Hahah only half? I get asked for explicit videos and photos from strangers all the time ... no is the answer for me. "

Lol. They know that yours will be most attractive. Mine could go either way, that could be the split

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The one "action shot" I have on my profile us of me and a fwb who gave me permission to use the puck on here.

I love seeing pics of people playing so why wouldnt I have a photo of me playing with someone on here?"

Nobody has said it's wrong to have action pics, nobody. The discussion is about why some single men have action pics on their profiles of the people they are fucking with nothing more than an inch of dick showing and if they think that attracts their target audience?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It is entirely up to the person what they put on their profile. If you do not like then do not look or judge. I have action shot pics and videos on mine which i like. I am not on Fab to model sexy underwear so my pics reflect who i am and what i like.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"It is entirely up to the person what they put on their profile. If you do not like then do not look or judge. I have action shot pics and videos on mine which i like. I am not on Fab to model sexy underwear so my pics reflect who i am and what i like."

Your photos although not to my taste at all at least are more of you than the blokes ... this is my point why have more of someone else on the profile than you? I also fully accept that men are far more likely to want to see wide open type action shots than women ... no one is however saying you can’t or judging, personally taste is just that I just wonder why photos of someone else would be a good way to sell yourself.

PS - I love sexy lingerie and it’s a big part of my sexuality and how I like to play so that’s why that’s on my profile if that was a dig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate seeing them,

If I can see more of a womans body than the message sender, its an instant delete."

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"It is entirely up to the person what they put on their profile. If you do not like then do not look or judge. I have action shot pics and videos on mine which i like. I am not on Fab to model sexy underwear so my pics reflect who i am and what i like.

Your photos although not to my taste at all at least are more of you than the blokes ... this is my point why have more of someone else on the profile than you? I also fully accept that men are far more likely to want to see wide open type action shots than women ... no one is however saying you can’t or judging, personally taste is just that I just wonder why photos of someone else would be a good way to sell yourself.

PS - I love sexy lingerie and it’s a big part of my sexuality and how I like to play so that’s why that’s on my profile if that was a dig. "

Not a dig just making a point about how we are all different. Freedom of choice. I prefer to be naked but have heard many not a lover of revealing it all. Our profiles are for us to use how we wish and this i do so not really bothered what others think.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Makes me laugh when single men fill their profile full of various naked women in action shots, then moan and complain when they get loads of guys ogling it.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"It is entirely up to the person what they put on their profile. If you do not like then do not look or judge. I have action shot pics and videos on mine which i like. I am not on Fab to model sexy underwear so my pics reflect who i am and what i like.

Your photos although not to my taste at all at least are more of you than the blokes ... this is my point why have more of someone else on the profile than you? I also fully accept that men are far more likely to want to see wide open type action shots than women ... no one is however saying you can’t or judging, personally taste is just that I just wonder why photos of someone else would be a good way to sell yourself.

PS - I love sexy lingerie and it’s a big part of my sexuality and how I like to play so that’s why that’s on my profile if that was a dig.

Not a dig just making a point about how we are all different. Freedom of choice. I prefer to be naked but have heard many not a lover of revealing it all. Our profiles are for us to use how we wish and this i do so not really bothered what others think."

Yes indeed ...... I totally agree.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Makes me laugh when single men fill their profile full of various naked women in action shots, then moan and complain when they get loads of guys ogling it."

Hahah yup just this - little bit of branding and target audience marketing wouldn’t go amiss.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I was seeing someone I really liked but his action photos really grossed me out. It was like a catalogue, and he wanted to add me to it! No thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's this mystical thing called action these days

I think it depends on the photos if there a well taken photo and the person they are taken with does not mind them been shown off whats the harm? but a lot are just carbon copy's of photos you find on most profiles.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads. "

Haha dam that's my profile down too T and I still get nothing ?? must be the face

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The only pics of women pn my prifile are two with me hugging and my profile name written on my arm, she consented to the pic, my face pics are private and i have no dick pics at all, due to having read so many comments from.women saying they dont like nor want them.

not sure why guys post so many pics of other women or their dicks dissapearingbas you put itm

I am sure those photos are off putting most of the time.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads. "

Absolutely nobody has suggested it's wrong to have those pics. Nobody.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads. "

I’ve never seen a post asking the question ....... I’ve also never said they’re wrong just asked why put others on your profile.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads.

Absolutely nobody has suggested it's wrong to have those pics. Nobody."

not quite sure what pictures youre referring to that we said its wrong to have

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads.

I’ve never seen a post asking the question ....... I’ve also never said they’re wrong just asked why put others on your profile. "

haha youve never seen a post asking why men have cock shots or action pics on their profile?? find that hard to believe if youre a forum regular

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads.

I’ve never seen a post asking the question ....... I’ve also never said they’re wrong just asked why put others on your profile.

haha youve never seen a post asking why men have cock shots or action pics on their profile?? find that hard to believe if youre a forum regular "

Cock shots yes action shots when you’re hardly in them no ...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads.

Absolutely nobody has suggested it's wrong to have those pics. Nobody.

not quite sure what pictures youre referring to that we said its wrong to have "

I think you've not even read your own posts!

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"surely these type of posts have gotten old and boring,

is the simple answer not that people put what they want on their own profiles

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

Each to their, there is no right or wrong,guys with all types of profiles will have some sort of success on here as long they are not dickheads.

Absolutely nobody has suggested it's wrong to have those pics. Nobody.

not quite sure what pictures youre referring to that we said its wrong to have

I think you've not even read your own posts!"

not going to get involved in a public slanging match with a tit for tat response but we take it your ranting about the "unbuttoned pants and suited" bit which if you read again we say "unless" you have those types of pics you seem to be doing it wrong

not one line of our original post says that any type of picture is wrong in any way, if you can quote us a line that does we will be surprised, as we know you cant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, my profile picture must be pretty unpopular then. Doesn’t bother me in the slightest. I like the picture - it’s of me and it portrays what I’m into, so that’s enough for me.

The ‘looked at me’ function shows me which females come back for another glance...

I also see lots of single female profiles peppered with action’ shots - some I like, others I don’t.

It’s a sex site - it’s not really that surprising to see sex pictures- it’s also not really any of my business what others put their profiles. If we don’t like something as others have said we just move onto the next profile.

Yep, it's a pic mainly of you, nicely taken and give a good impression of the type of man you are although the womans face is visible and that always makes me uncomfortable

as there's no way I could possibly know you have her permission. It's not half a centimetre of your cock buried deep and uncovered in a womans arsehole.

Nobody is slating anybody on how they run their profile, what is being discussed is why some men have those photos and do they think it will attract their target audience?"

This.

I haven’t seen anyone demanding how others run their profiles, more an opinion on what we like and what we don’t.

Which is allowed. Literally everyone has likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

"

I think they are referring to this part of your post.

“You’re doing it wrong”.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

seems to be as a single guy unless you have the obligatory pants undone black and white shot and a picture of you suited up youre doing it wrong

I think they are referring to this part of your post.

“You’re doing it wrong”. "

then they missed the point entirely

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

As long as people have the permission of all concerned to use whatever pics in public display, each to their own I say

Do these type of pics attract me? Yes, but not in the way you might expect; they are a great way to prove the profile is genuine, and they do actually meet others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

Strictly our opinion of course, however our opinion of this is that the single guys who do this are so insecure that they need to prove that someone has found them attractive enough to have sex with.

What other reason could it possibly be?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

Strictly our opinion of course, however our opinion of this is that the single guys who do this are so insecure that they need to prove that someone has found them attractive enough to have sex with.

What other reason could it possibly be?"

It could be part of a cuck hubby’s humiliation to see another man’s cock on public display in his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown

[Removed by poster at 04/02/21 11:49:41]

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

Strictly our opinion of course, however our opinion of this is that the single guys who do this are so insecure that they need to prove that someone has found them attractive enough to have sex with.

What other reason could it possibly be?

It could be part of a cuck hubby’s humiliation to see another man’s cock on public display in his wife "

We all know that isn't true.

It is to prove that someone has had sex with them, pure and simple.

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By *asterkissMan
over a year ago

coventry

As long as both consent what is the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as both consent what is the problem"

It hurts people’s eyes to see people having sex on a profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from me, I love taking pictures but they are private and I wouldnt be comfortable sharing pictures with somone els in them honestly. There really not my favourite pictures to see on here either but to each there own

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

Strictly our opinion of course, however our opinion of this is that the single guys who do this are so insecure that they need to prove that someone has found them attractive enough to have sex with.

What other reason could it possibly be?

It could be part of a cuck hubby’s humiliation to see another man’s cock on public display in his wife

We all know that isn't true.

It is to prove that someone has had sex with them, pure and simple."

Having made pics for this exact reason, I can say it can be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

"

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

well said "

The attractiveness of past partners? Big breasts??

Why??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

well said "

Exactly how i feel. Too many prudes on here that are too easily upset. If you don't like then don't look and don't comment either. Easy to ignore if not for you but plenty others will enjoy.x

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

None on mine, you need to leave something to your imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

well said

Exactly how i feel. Too many prudes on here that are too easily upset. If you don't like then don't look and don't comment either. Easy to ignore if not for you but plenty others will enjoy.x"

I think most people do tend to ignore what they don’t like.

However this was a post on a forum and forums are all about discussion.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

no you're not the only one... I find it a massive turn off.. It evokes many negative connotations in my head and I avoid these men at all cost

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

"

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

They don't do it for me at all.. I always wonder if the female would be happy to see the photos... Especially is the poorly covered up bits..

But also.. I'm glad you know where to stick it.. But I don't need photo evidence.. Especially when it's loads of bareback pics wihh obvs different people..

Ana like a previous poster said.. I'm not interested in wthe lady you were with last week.. Its the guy that I would want to get to know.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

well said

Exactly how i feel. Too many prudes on here that are too easily upset. If you don't like then don't look and don't comment either. Easy to ignore if not for you but plenty others will enjoy.x"

100% spot on. Everyone has different preferences.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

When seeking a single guy I’m really only interested in seeing pics of him and lots of them

That said it’s their profile ...their choice but if all I can see is 1/2 inch of their cock buried in someone’s arse it’s unlikely to pick my interest,

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I also think it is also unfair to once again slate single people yet for couples as usual anything goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

well said

The attractiveness of past partners? Big breasts??

Why??

"

Why do you have a picture of your wife’s ass on your profile?

Because you’re trying to attract someone that likes your wife’s ass....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there? "

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I also think it is also unfair to once again slate single people yet for couples as usual anything goes."

Single/solo people aren’t ‘real’ swingers though, didn’t you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

well said

The attractiveness of past partners? Big breasts??

Why??

Why do you have a picture of your wife’s ass on your profile?

Because you’re trying to attract someone that likes your wife’s ass....

"

Yet for most Fab single guys, the wife doesn't know her ass is being shown by her husband....

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I also think it is also unfair to once again slate single people yet for couples as usual anything goes.

Single/solo people aren’t ‘real’ swingers though, didn’t you know? "

There is an element of truth in there.

Solo people who are cheating aren't 'real' swingers are they?

Unless they think that cheating and swinging are the same thing.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling


"I also think it is also unfair to once again slate single people yet for couples as usual anything goes."

Totally agree with this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask them who is in the pics and if they can bring the person along too, seeing as they are using them as sex bait.

The majority of the time they say the pics are of their ex, and she doesn't know he is on this site........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of action shots on a single or couple profiles. The biggest turn off though, is when it's clearly a combo of different penis/vaginas/arse and no protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also think it is also unfair to once again slate single people yet for couples as usual anything goes.

Totally agree with this x"

I agree. It seams we are chastised for being single and active and that only couples are allowed to post ‘action shots’

I have occasionally, and with permission included in action shots. However, I do find it inappropriate that people use them without permission. I know a couple of single ladies, who feature in single guys pictures - possibly without their knowledge! This is bang out of order.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a fan for public I feel if you have both agreed its fine for personal use then it’s all good, but definitely something that should remain between the parties involved

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I love seductive arty shots, showing shapes of the body, interesting props or backdrops..so much nicer than raw gynaecological shots ...its my equivalent of a cock pic...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I love seductive arty shots, showing shapes of the body, interesting props or backdrops..so much nicer than raw gynaecological shots ...its my equivalent of a cock pic..."

Seductive, arty shots can be done by 2 people.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I love seductive arty shots, showing shapes of the body, interesting props or backdrops..so much nicer than raw gynaecological shots ...its my equivalent of a cock pic...

Seductive, arty shots can be done by 2 people.

"

Absolutely

I'm not that bothered by what's on a profile...within reason...if they are charming attractive and fun I'm happy ...

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I dont have any and I woukdnt put them up on here if I did.

Having said that single women do this too.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South

At no point did I ever say I was ‘a prude’ or ‘upset’ I’m all for action shots with people I know in privacy. Just a total turn off on a single profile to have others on in in my opinion.

This has nothing to do with not being happy naked/ not being open enough/ not being anything enough. It’s to do with you’re on here as single so obviously trying to attract someone interested in a single so why would anyone be interested in photos of someone else on your profile? It’s nothing against singles either because I am one just a coupes profile is selling guess what ... two people so stands to reason photos of two people are required.

Are we all clear now? Jesus

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

Strictly our opinion of course, however our opinion of this is that the single guys who do this are so insecure that they need to prove that someone has found them attractive enough to have sex with.

What other reason could it possibly be?

It could be part of a cuck hubby’s humiliation to see another man’s cock on public display in his wife

We all know that isn't true.

It is to prove that someone has had sex with them, pure and simple."

Hahaha seems a bit like that’s doesn’t it

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

"

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

As long as people have the permission of all concerned to use whatever pics in public display, each to their own I say

Do these type of pics attract me? Yes, but not in the way you might expect; they are a great way to prove the profile is genuine, and they do actually meet others "

I think we can safely assume most adults in this country have action shots of themselves I know I do. How does it prove they meet?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself?

As long as people have the permission of all concerned to use whatever pics in public display, each to their own I say

Do these type of pics attract me? Yes, but not in the way you might expect; they are a great way to prove the profile is genuine, and they do actually meet others

I think we can safely assume most adults in this country have action shots of themselves I know I do. How does it prove they meet? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to put 'action shots' on here.. In fact.. when I am involved in fun with people, it never occurs to me to take photos, as I am busy enjoying myself..

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business "

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things. "

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

"

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it?

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South

*constructing

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it? "

Like said earlier.

They like to prove that they have had sex with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it? "

You didn’t read my profile.....

I’m looking for cuckold couples , sub women , and people into group sex/gangbangs....

Having pictures of me in a tuxedo with a dozen roses or me showing my ass ...isn’t going after my target audience....

I’m here for kinky sex first and foremost, friendships can develop after establishing great sexual chemistry...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Other than for a game of 'Guess the extra', I don't personally like to see this

C

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it?

You didn’t read my profile.....

I’m looking for cuckold couples , sub women , and people into group sex/gangbangs....

Having pictures of me in a tuxedo with a dozen roses or me showing my ass ...isn’t going after my target audience....

I’m here for kinky sex first and foremost, friendships can develop after establishing great sexual chemistry..."

Yes I did and you think your pics attract the people you’re looking for?

Roses and a tuxedo or close up PIV aren’t the only two options my question isn’t about the explicitness of the photo just the value of adding a random vagina

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it?

Like said earlier.

They like to prove that they have had sex with someone else"

Well no one is telling me anything else so it must be

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"Other than for a game of 'Guess the extra', I don't personally like to see this

C"

Hha ‘whose vag is it anyway’

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine."

Says the man with no pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics "

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it?

You didn’t read my profile.....

I’m looking for cuckold couples , sub women , and people into group sex/gangbangs....

Having pictures of me in a tuxedo with a dozen roses or me showing my ass ...isn’t going after my target audience....

I’m here for kinky sex first and foremost, friendships can develop after establishing great sexual chemistry...

Yes I did and you think your pics attract the people you’re looking for?

Roses and a tuxedo or close up PIV aren’t the only two options my question isn’t about the explicitness of the photo just the value of adding a random vagina "

The answer to your question will always be the same.....

People put PIV pictures on their profiles to attract people they are looking to meet....

If you do not like PIV pictures, these people are not for you.....

It’s really simple if you think about it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like McDonald's having an advert full of KFC chicken and just a knob end of a McNugget in the corner of the pic.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

People are attracted to the person surely, not what they are doing to someone else?!.

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

Some will like it, some will not, it’s all about personal preference. If it’s a way of you adding people to your block list then fill your boots.

Action shots do not bother me at all however, pictures of ladies where I can see what they had for lunch yesterday are absolutely honking!! BUT!!! Some people will like them, once again personal preference.

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics "

was going to say the same thing , and add one veris from a couple, did you verify your self as you state on your profile you are part of a couple

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

It's not shocking and totally acceptable... the point it's personal preference whether prospective lovers want to see... so my question is why not put it in your friends only album and inform them that those photos are in there?

Because I’m looking for people I’m compatible with.....

If I changed MY profile to accommodate people who are offended by seeing action pictures and videos...

Then I’m not being true to myself and deceiving people into believing I’m something that I’m not....

Who said offended? Turned off and offended are two completely different things.

I’m sorry..... I misread this.....

If I have action shots in my profile and it turns some people off... I’m perfectly fine with that...

I really didn’t construct my profile thinking who I would be turning off....

I constructed my profile to attract the people I’m looking for....

Who did you have in mind when contracting it? Are their woman that say ‘wow what a lovely photo’ etx etc. Genuinely curious as to what attracts people to a male profile filled with close up PIV and that’s it?

You didn’t read my profile.....

I’m looking for cuckold couples , sub women , and people into group sex/gangbangs....

Having pictures of me in a tuxedo with a dozen roses or me showing my ass ...isn’t going after my target audience....

I’m here for kinky sex first and foremost, friendships can develop after establishing great sexual chemistry...

Yes I did and you think your pics attract the people you’re looking for?

Roses and a tuxedo or close up PIV aren’t the only two options my question isn’t about the explicitness of the photo just the value of adding a random vagina

The answer to your question will always be the same.....

People put PIV pictures on their profiles to attract people they are looking to meet....

If you do not like PIV pictures, these people are not for you.....

It’s really simple if you think about it....."

You’re still not answering my questions but hey if you can’t tell me that’s fine - good luck

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I notice the couples i have been have included me in photo action shots for their profiles. Im sure plenty of other single people would have the same experience.

I have no problem with it, because they have asked for my permission and they don't show my face. I don't see what the problem is for single people to have pictures of action shots, providing permission has been consented.

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By *ottoncandy42Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

I agree and it’s an automatic delete from me. Plus what’s with all the cum shots, definitely a turn off seeing a small todger covered in cum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"It is entirely up to the person what they put on their profile. If you do not like then do not look or judge. I have action shot pics and videos on mine which i like. I am not on Fab to model sexy underwear so my pics reflect who i am and what i like."

Perfect response

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

And if it's a couple that has action shots of 3 somes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if it's a couple that has action shots of 3 somes?"

It wouldn’t interest me as I’d be interested in the couple not the man/woman they slept with the other day.

People can do what they like with their profiles for me personally, I prefer to see who I’m meeting, not who they have met.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"And if it's a couple that has action shots of 3 somes?

It wouldn’t interest me as I’d be interested in the couple not the man/woman they slept with the other day.

People can do what they like with their profiles for me personally, I prefer to see who I’m meeting, not who they have met. "

Exactly this ....

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"And if it's a couple that has action shots of 3 somes?

It wouldn’t interest me as I’d be interested in the couple not the man/woman they slept with the other day.

People can do what they like with their profiles for me personally, I prefer to see who I’m meeting, not who they have met. "

Exactly, people do what they like with their profiles and I understand where you're also coming from. For me I tend to read someone's bio rather than judge them according to their pics,but that just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if it's a couple that has action shots of 3 somes?

It wouldn’t interest me as I’d be interested in the couple not the man/woman they slept with the other day.

People can do what they like with their profiles for me personally, I prefer to see who I’m meeting, not who they have met.

Exactly, people do what they like with their profiles and I understand where you're also coming from. For me I tend to read someone's bio rather than judge them according to their pics,but that just me "

I do both.

I read their profile and I look at their pictures, I’d their pictures put me off I can’t help that.

We all judge, whether it be reading the profile and assuming about a person, looking at the pictures and assuming or based on if they reply.

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

"

This

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

This "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have some in my friend pics, but not many and not extremely explicit.

They're there because I either like the style of the photo or the memory that comes with it or both.

I don't like seeing them in other people's gallery, but don't mind them in friends pics and make the assumption rightly or wrongly that they're there for the same reasons as I have mine.

If all the friend pics involve others tho, it does make me think it's more to brag and I don't like that.

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By *oncupiscence73 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

This

"

No said once they were shocked ......

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It instantly puts me off a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People put action shots on their profiles for many reasons...

1 - to show what kind of play they are into.. BDSM , cuckold, dogging , gangbangs.

2 - to show any potential new playmates what they have to offer... Big cock , big breasts

3 - to show the attractiveness of pass playmates.

There are millions of swingers in this world, looking for different things.....

Having action shots on your profile , on a swinging website shouldn’t be shocking...

This isn’t Etsy , or Facebook...

This

No said once they were shocked ...... "

Ok so if you go to a Vegan restaurant, would you be shocked to see meat entrees on the menu?

You’re on a sex/swinging site and see single men with PIV/action photos and are off put and outraged....

So my point is..... what did you expect to see on a single man’s profiles? them playing football/rugby , them holding cat’s, guys posing with their cars....

Again you have a right to dislike something, just like other people have a right to display pictures they like on their profiles....

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I wouldn't put a photo of anyone else on my profile. For starters, I'd want to have their permission.

It also smacks of "trophyism" (if that's a word) in a "look how successful I've been" kind of way.

Now, how about profile pictures of men holding large fish?

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others. "

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else."

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange.

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over a year ago

I find them very distasteful.

I have had lots of messages with photos attached but mostly of a ladies bottom/boobs etc with hardly anything of the guy showing.

Puts me straight off them.

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A question I have for single men (and women if it applies) .. why do you put action shots on a single profile?

Also as a recipient do you like seeing these?

I see so many men with many photos of random women on their profile but hardly any of them apart from a few inches of disappearing cock and I wonder what this approach is all about?

Am I alone in thinking it’s a bit of a strange way to ‘sell’ yourself? "

I when I see women profile u see a pic or a cock up them lol makes me smile and they are still looking I guess It says look at me I’m getting fucked lol who’s next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange."

There's a pandemic. Some people don't post pics because they're not looking for meets.

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange."

What is strange about it??

I can't and don't want to meet anyone, so what is the point?

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange."

It still amazes me that people don't read profiles.

Here is the first line of mine;

Laid back guy, here really just to chat alone.

So reading that, why would I need to post any photos?

Just asking your thoughts really. What is actually strange about it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange.

There's a pandemic. Some people don't post pics because they're not looking for meets. "

Exactly this.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange.

There's a pandemic. Some people don't post pics because they're not looking for meets.

Exactly this. "

He has a veri from a meet during the pandemic.

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange.

There's a pandemic. Some people don't post pics because they're not looking for meets.

Exactly this.

He has a veri from a meet during the pandemic."

Er, remind me. Were we in complete lockdown in September??

Let me answer that for you. No.

Were pubs and clubs open for socials??

Mmmm, yes.

So what next Miss Blue??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange.

There's a pandemic. Some people don't post pics because they're not looking for meets.

Exactly this.

He has a veri from a meet during the pandemic.

Er, remind me. Were we in complete lockdown in September??

Let me answer that for you. No.

Were pubs and clubs open for socials??

Mmmm, yes.

So what next Miss Blue??"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown

Is it still so strange?

Really??

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"I have a male present in some of my pictures with he full knowledge , also got a couples account with the same man , if it bothers people then tough , what I put on my profile is my business

Of course it is your business.

But of course we are all entitled to opinions.

A single profile should be of a single person in mine.

Says the man with no pics

Better than a single profile having a multitude of pictures with others.

Exactly this.

At least I am not posting any photos of someone else.

You are not even posting pics of yourself which i find strange.

There's a pandemic. Some people don't post pics because they're not looking for meets.

Exactly this.

He has a veri from a meet during the pandemic.

Er, remind me. Were we in complete lockdown in September??

Let me answer that for you. No.

Were pubs and clubs open for socials??

Mmmm, yes.

So what next Miss Blue??

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then. "

You seem to struggle to understand a fact both in my profile and as I said earlier.

I do not want to meet anyone.

Why are you so curious? Are you interested??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Is it still so strange?

Really??"

And is it strange what others want to do with their profiles?. If everyone minded their own business and let others do what they wanted with their profiles then fab would be a happier place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then. "

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it still so strange?

Really??

And is it strange what others want to do with their profiles?. If everyone minded their own business and let others do what they wanted with their profiles then fab would be a happier place. "

Nobody is saying strangers can’t do what they like with their profile.

Nobody is forcing those who have action shots to not have them. It sounds to me like you don’t like the fact some don’t like action shots.

This doesn’t really tie into your “mind your business” line does it. It can only be a positive for people like you that others make it known in the forum what they don’t like, it’s a filter for you!

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"Is it still so strange?

Really??

And is it strange what others want to do with their profiles?. If everyone minded their own business and let others do what they wanted with their profiles then fab would be a happier place. "

Aahh, so that is your point? I thought you wanted my cock!

There is a massive difference between posting no photos, and posting photos of other people on a single profile.

And check back, a lot of people agree it is strange. But you only seem to be targeting me...

You seem a little relentless in your pursuit of this and in being right Miss Blue.

Have you been harassed in a previous life??

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

"

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

"

Just hate how fab is so judgemental of others when we are all here for the same thing.

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

Just hate how fab is so judgemental of others when we are all here for the same thing. "

We are not all here for the same thing though are we??

You want cum on your face and sex with other men.

I simply enjoy chatting to likeminded folk.

Does that sound like the same thing to you??

It certainly doesn't to me.

And expressing an opinion is not being judgemental.

The OP started this thread with the same opinions as me. Have you bullied her on this as much as you have attempted to do to me??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

Just hate how fab is so judgemental of others when we are all here for the same thing. "

Plus i disliked the way the thread was targeted at single people when their are plenty of couples profiles eiyh action pics on show who are clearly not shagging their other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

Just hate how fab is so judgemental of others when we are all here for the same thing. "

I don’t see why it’s being judgemental? Some people don’t like action shots and are turned off by then, and are therefore not attracted to that person, some people do like action shots and are? Why is that judgemental?

Everyone is entitled to run their profile as they wish, and everyone is entitled to like or not like other profiles.

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By *en EdmundsMan
over a year ago

Anytown


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

Just hate how fab is so judgemental of others when we are all here for the same thing.

Plus i disliked the way the thread was targeted at single people when their are plenty of couples profiles eiyh action pics on show who are clearly not shagging their other half."

Are you attacking everyone else for having the same opinion as me??

Nope.

Hilarious!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"

So you can not use that as an excuse for no pics then.

Why are you so offended?

All because he has an opinion on action shots?

Surely it’s better that people make their feelings known so others know where they stand.

Simple really. She has started and doesn't know how to stop.

Just hate how fab is so judgemental of others when we are all here for the same thing.

Plus i disliked the way the thread was targeted at single people when their are plenty of couples profiles eiyh action pics on show who are clearly not shagging their other half.

Are you attacking everyone else for having the same opinion as me??

Nope.

Hilarious!"

Attacking you?. I was questioning what you said and also others before you even opened your mouth.

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