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By *ondonexplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

Ascot

After a swinging relationship and an exciting and varied sex life, is it possible to go back to vanilla with just one person.

Asking for a errr, friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a swinging relationship and an exciting and varied sex life, is it possible to go back to vanilla with just one person.

Asking for a errr, friend."

I really don’t think so. Not for me anyway!

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By *amantha ABCTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Did swinging cause the break up of your relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a swinging relationship and an exciting and varied sex life, is it possible to go back to vanilla with just one person.

Asking for a errr, friend."

I can't answer that properly

But I can say that exciting and varied sex life isn't exclusive to people who swing

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"After a swinging relationship and an exciting and varied sex life, is it possible to go back to vanilla with just one person.

Asking for a errr, friend."

Maybe, if it’s the right person , and you find something more meaningful, depends what you mean by vanilla?....missionary with the lights off and not tearing underwear ? No way. Used to hop around the globe for work now stand in my kitchen all day on the phone, used to fell run now jog around town, we adapt and tastes change over time.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends what's more important to you I guess.

I doubt that 10 man gangbang will be sat by your bedside holding your hand in 30 years time tho

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

I the male half would say , it would be hard to go back to vanilla, but in saying that to do swinging as a couple you both have to want it not just one. And you have to meet someone you trust to bring it up in the first place, so you need to get in a happy relationship before asking to bring in others

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

I think it is as that's what we have done since last March, aside from a couple of forgettable encounters in the summer.

Was saying to L that we could leave all the swinging behind us as we've been without for so long and she agreed.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Depends what's more important to you I guess.

I doubt that 10 man gangbang will be sat by your bedside holding your hand in 30 years time tho "

HaHaHa laughed my socks off, that’s hilarious

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"Depends what's more important to you I guess.

I doubt that 10 man gangbang will be sat by your bedside holding your hand in 30 years time tho "

That comment just broke someone's heart, you just know it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"After a swinging relationship and an exciting and varied sex life, is it possible to go back to vanilla with just one person.

Asking for a errr, friend.

I can't answer that properly

But I can say that exciting and varied sex life isn't exclusive to people who swing "

Yep, a thousand times

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends what's more important to you I guess.

I doubt that 10 man gangbang will be sat by your bedside holding your hand in 30 years time tho "

That would make for an interesting care home visit though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner met here 3 ish years ago and have remained monogamous since. Who knows what the future holds but for now he is enough!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If that's what you want to do then sure why not

I am polyamourous so that would never happen to me in my lifetime

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By *ondonexplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

Ascot


"Depends what's more important to you I guess.

I doubt that 10 man gangbang will be sat by your bedside holding your hand in 30 years time tho "

I'm counting on that!

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

Guess that's why swinging is like hotel California...you can check out...bla! bla!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Some people could, probably.

I'd be happy with one man if the sex was good, and he gave me everything else I needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I wasn't up for another committed relationship before I discovered Fab, anyway

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm sure I could for the right person. I've made it clear to Hannah that if the swinging thing isn't for her then I would happily make it just her and me forever. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to xx

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

After this last 12 months of finding things out about myself, probably not as I've realised I'm Polyamorous.

It certainly explains a lot of things and why I have never felt I could never feel like one person fulfilled both my sexual and more importantly, mental needs and also why I couldn't understand why anyone else would think that I was everything they could want either.

Who's to say that one person couldn't make me sway from that but right now I very much doubt one person will ever be all I could want.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Is it really going back?

Is it not moving on to the next stage, perhaps not the last stage but the next.

(I'm happy with "Vanilla" as people call it, but still within that it would be - Madagascan Vanilla - rich and creamy, Mexican Vanilla - bold, dark, smokey, Indian Vanilla - full, chocolate. Indonesian Vanilla - mild, well balanced. Tahitian Vanilla - floral, cherry-chocolate. Tonga Vanilla - earthy, fig, raisin.

But never do i want "Vanilla flavouring" I want the real thing. )

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

People might not want to believe it but swinging can get boring just like anything else, loads of couples and singles have left fab and went back to normal vanilla lives.

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Only for a ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla....strangely expensive..!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

One could, though it would depend on what One needs and the levels of fulfilment via the dark ways instead

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's not necessarily a case of 'going back', it's a case of finding something else that makes you just as happy/satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

know quite a few who have gone back to normal sex /lifestyle ... if my hubs wanted to quit swinging then so would i because to me swinging is usno him no swinging same the other way around we do this for us

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You


"know quite a few who have gone back to normal sex /lifestyle ... if my hubs wanted to quit swinging then so would i because to me swinging is usno him no swinging same the other way around we do this for us"

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"After a swinging relationship and an exciting and varied sex life, is it possible to go back to vanilla with just one person.

Asking for a errr, friend."

We all go through phases in our lives. We do things now that we would not have done before and we also don’t do things that we did before.

The important dynamic is the couple and how the couple phases change and evolve. Nothing ever stays the same.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"Depends what's more important to you I guess.

I doubt that 10 man gangbang will be sat by your bedside holding your hand in 30 years time tho

That would make for an interesting care home visit though "

Not enough room for the 12 Zimmer frames in the bedroom lol

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