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Curvy or fat.... difference

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

It's like an irregular verb. I'm curvy, you're fat, she can't risk going swimming in Japan.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am curvy and slim. Does it really matter?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is more about shape. But it's also personal perception. Where I see curves, others see fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy can range from Susan Boyle to Kim Kardashian, they can label their body anyway they want though! As long as they're happy

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Seem to remember a thread on this subject recently getting quite heated.

Curvy is a body shape involving curves. You get curvy people of varying sizes.

K

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?"

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think?

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By *exy_HornyCouple
over a year ago

Leigh


"she can't risk going swimming in Japan. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the eye of the beholder.

I say the wife is slim, she's a size 10-12.

She thinks she's curvy so I guess she's slim curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

I used to be in a tug of war team, did that make me an athlete?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question doesn’t bother me but the wink at the end just makes the OP nasty and rude"

His curvy fingers could have slipped on the emoji bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the shape makes the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s how the individual sees themselves and not up to anyone to judge .. everyone should be supported in feeling good about themselves .. after all it’s the whole person that counts

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"The question doesn’t bother me but the wink at the end just makes the OP nasty and rude

His curvy fingers could have slipped on the emoji bar "

People can label themselves how they like. If I don’t agree with it well it’s not an issue. I either like person or I don’t.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

Darts players are athletes too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me in my not so expert opinion, the difference is all in the mind of whoever is deciding if somone is curvy or 'fat'.... I class myself as curvy, I don't feel when I look at myself oh god I'm soo fat I need to work out more but some people would definitely look at me being a size 14 as fat and not curvy and that's fine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat,and proud of it... took me ages

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?"

Hardly controversial.

If you've got eyes in your head you can look at pix and make up your own mind I guess.

People are free to describe themselves as they wish.

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By *sagentMan
over a year ago

In the ether

Body size is purely visimual. As a bigger(fatter) bloke I have no complaints as far as I am aware if and have friends and acquaintances of all sizes and shapes. Sex is a mental more than visual activity if it is done correctly, as long as people are clean and respectful what does size matter. How many people on here narrow the chance of wonderful sex because of pre conceived thoughts of body shape and ability to be good in bed? Narcissists are notiriously selfish in bed and quite a poor partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about the shape id define curvy as being a hourglass shape

Yes you can be a size 8 and curvy

You can also be a size 18 and curvy

I notice people that discriminate people for there weight

Have the biggest weight issues themselves

Beauty comes in all shapes and size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all in the eye of the beholder. I don't pay much attention to the size people describe themselves as, I've often seen curvy women who I would say are slim with large boobs, and bbw women who I'd judge to be curvy. Likewise, I say I'm average but some would possibly say large. At the end of the day, pictures say more than words and I won't judge others so I don't ask them to judge me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it worse when guys say there hung and are clearly not

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"I am curvy and slim. Does it really matter?."

Curvy is classically used to describe a small waist, and wider bust and hips. The hourglass shape.

It’s been used to describe bigger people with convex rather than concave midriffs for a while now. FabSwingers has one descriptor for curvy. They need two... the two definitions above are wildly different and when searching, you want to know you’re searching the right body type for your attraction.

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"I am curvy and slim. Does it really matter?.

Curvy is classically used to describe a small waist, and wider bust and hips. The hourglass shape.

It’s been used to describe bigger people with convex rather than concave midriffs for a while now. FabSwingers has one descriptor for curvy. They need two... the two definitions above are wildly different and when searching, you want to know you’re searching the right body type for your attraction."

You can be any size and still be hour glass shape

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom


"It's more about the shape id define curvy as being a hourglass shape

Yes you can be a size 8 and curvy

You can also be a size 18 and curvy

I notice people that discriminate people for there weight

Have the biggest weight issues themselves

Beauty comes in all shapes and size

"

Agreed you can be curvy with different dress sizes. Curvy to me is the literally curvy to the body, I choose that label for my bum n boobs whereas a few years back I classed myself as Athletic because I had more muscle definition and less curves (much happier now)

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By *lackCherry...Woman
over a year ago

North East

I consider myself curvy, though every time I catch sight of myself in the full length mirror I get "Fat Bottomed Girls" stuck in my head! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look at my profile I openly say I'm fat, it's all words if you don't like what you see move on.

Curvy,fat, big boned I'm me end of!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?"

I think more people (male and female) could choose the description ‘large’ or ‘ample’ for their profile, but then; their pics do give a better idea of their actual shape....

Ultimately; attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, but banter/connection seals the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get called curvy/ bbw but i know im just fat

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By *inxy81Woman
over a year ago

Nowhere

I like to tell it like it is, I'm a fat bird pushing 40! Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat. I also have a curve between boots and hips. So I'm fat and curvy

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Personally think Fab should remove the body shape label and let people’s pictures do the talking.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

If they had an option for "fat " I'd of probably taken it. But I think curvy is a shape. I most definately go in around my waist and back out again... so yea I'm curvy too

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?"

I don’t think it’s controversial at all, I think it’s the same old body shaming crap that people have been pushing for ages because they think putting others down makes them look better.

What do you think?

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Im fat, no denying, im also very curvy as my waist is considerably smaller than my hips and bust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and I curves. I'm a curvy fat woman. Imagine that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

Hardly controversial.

If you've got eyes in your head you can look at pix and make up your own mind I guess.

People are free to describe themselves as they wish.

"

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Just say big tits !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fat just like I have blue eyes . I consider myself curvy and other days I consider myself fat.

God bless social media and their labels.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

One is a body descriptor which may be diplomatic.

The other is often rude.

The solution is photographs. Fortunately we have the technology.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

Yes !

It goes from slim fit (like runners/cyclist) to large ( body builder ) and some dads bodies and. thats perfectly fine as I rely on pics .

I describe myself as curvy because there isn't a "a bit lardy" option , I'm hoping that my current pics offer a accurate representation of my appearance.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Curvy here with a fat bum lol

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"I am curvy and slim. Does it really matter?.

Curvy is classically used to describe a small waist, and wider bust and hips. The hourglass shape.

It’s been used to describe bigger people with convex rather than concave midriffs for a while now. FabSwingers has one descriptor for curvy. They need two... the two definitions above are wildly different and when searching, you want to know you’re searching the right body type for your attraction.

You can be any size and still be hour glass shape"

I think you knew what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

Any size can be curvy.

People often get confused by this. My body shape is “curvy” because of my bustxwaistxhip ratio, I’m still fat. You can absolutely be both.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?"

I'm fat.

Deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curvy and slim. Does it really matter?.

Curvy is classically used to describe a small waist, and wider bust and hips. The hourglass shape.

It’s been used to describe bigger people with convex rather than concave midriffs for a while now. FabSwingers has one descriptor for curvy. They need two... the two definitions above are wildly different and when searching, you want to know you’re searching the right body type for your attraction.

You can be any size and still be hour glass shape"

Exactly.

It’s all about the ratio, if your ratio fits into the “hourglass” shape, then regardless of your dress size your shape is hourglass and that makes you curvy.

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

It is different, not judging anyone but most of them who claiming themselves curvy are actually fat, again nothing wrong about few extra kilos...in case this is latin American version of fab then curvy will make sense

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

I class myself as curvy no matter what weight I've been because I'm an hourglass shape. My bust and hips are always more than 10 inches bigger than my waist...hence curvy.

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

Curvy is a shape not a size. You can be a size 8 or a size 20 and be curvy

Alice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy can range from Susan Boyle to Kim Kardashian, they can label their body anyway they want though! As long as they're happy "

This! Well put xx

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Matlock

I sometimes don't understand why people say I'm curvy. I'm overweight, I consider myself a little fat. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is different, not judging anyone but most of them who claiming themselves curvy are actually fat, again nothing wrong about few extra kilos...in case this is latin American version of fab then curvy will make sense "

Here’s the definition for anyone who may be confused -

curvy

/'k??vi/

Learn to pronounce

adjective

having curves.

"curvy lines"

INFORMAL

(of a woman's figure) shapely and voluptuous.

It is not a dress size. If it were one would be mentioned. Almost every woman regardless of size has curves whether she’s fat or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I came back to fab I put ample on my info but had loads of messages saying that I’m not ample so I changed it it to curvy but.....as I have a belly I would say chunky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

Athletic is a term definitely over used by men who plainly aren't. Athletic is not about being slim for a man. It should only describe people who are toned muscular or lithe. But I agree the terms should be removed from profiles and let others decide.

I don't like the term fat even if it's true because it can be hurtful and critical.

E

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Always love the guys who say I have great curves, until I turn them down, then I'm fat!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body size is purely visimual. As a bigger(fatter) bloke I have no complaints as far as I am aware if and have friends and acquaintances of all sizes and shapes. Sex is a mental more than visual activity if it is done correctly, as long as people are clean and respectful what does size matter. How many people on here narrow the chance of wonderful sex because of pre conceived thoughts of body shape and ability to be good in bed? Narcissists are notiriously selfish in bed and quite a poor partner "

Larger men are hot! I don’t like the thin ones, prob because I’m a fat chick and I’ll snap them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6 stone.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I have curves. I also have fat. Neither define me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always love the guys who say I have great curves, until I turn them down, then I'm fat!!!!"

100% i had a bloke say I had elephant legs, dunno if he thought I’d start crying or what. I just laughed and blocked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same as a fab members 8 inch's and a tape measure . Theoretically curvy is a dcup+ with a big ass which wobbles when u walk . Same as being fat I guess

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By *onnnie72Man
over a year ago

west bromwich


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think?

Darts players are athletes too "

Curvy athletes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely didn't know what to put down for myself...all i know is i want to loose weight...not a call for sympathy or attention....just a fact. I put curvy because thats how I feel at the moment. If people don't agree with that...i don't really care lol

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

I have fat...I am not made of lego or house bricks therefore am curvy.

It's really not a difficult concept.

T.

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By * very big boyMan
over a year ago

south east clacton

love curvey girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape, fat people can be curvy, so can thinner people.

Its not about size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy is a shape, fat people can be curvy, so can thinner people.

Its not about size. "

Absolutely this and love all types of curve

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I am curvy and slim. Does it really matter?.

Curvy is classically used to describe a small waist, and wider bust and hips. The hourglass shape.

It’s been used to describe bigger people with convex rather than concave midriffs for a while now. FabSwingers has one descriptor for curvy. They need two... the two definitions above are wildly different and when searching, you want to know you’re searching the right body type for your attraction."

Agreed

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You can be both, one or the other or neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

Touché!! And agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always love the guys who say I have great curves, until I turn them down, then I'm fat!!!!"

Hahah this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape. Regardless of size. I'm curvy, don't care if anyone disagrees!

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

I'm chubby lol still curves just a bit more pronounced to some lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Subjective, I'm curvy and my BMI is in healthy range

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Fat sounds horrible

Curvy is so much better to describe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got curves and fat in the right and wrong places.

Anyone who does not like it does not need to get involved

How others label themselves is up to them, not you

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?

I would argue the same about the use of the word athletic being mostly over used. What do you think? "

Totally agree. Too many people use the term "Athletic" and to me they look average at best. Whats all that about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing matters as long as your happy with the size and shape of your own body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might be controversial but i was wondering if the word curvy is mostly over used. I feel there is a difference btw curves and fat. What do you think?"

Bit like the word "athletic"

(I'm very fat, with curves).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me slim = size 12 and below

14 - 18 = curvy

18+ is fat.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"For me slim = size 12 and below

14 - 18 = curvy

18+ is fat.

"

Dress size has naff all to do with shape though.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

I would describe myself as having fat bits!! Hubby says slim and curvy. Its all in the eye of the beholder, people are far to obsessed with labels for absolutely everything.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm a size 14 (and shrinking) I class myself as fat but I keep getting told I'm curvy. I think its cos I have massive boobs

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm just me. Pics show everything, say yay or nay but don't quibble about my shape/size. That's my view on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me slim = size 12 and below

14 - 18 = curvy

18+ is fat.

"
Ah well.. that makes me fat then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy is a shape, fat people can be curvy, so can thinner people.

Its not about size. "
Absolutely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me slim = size 12 and below

14 - 18 = curvy

18+ is fat.

"

And all the above can be curvy.

This thread is really showing some people up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean it’s subjective right? What some people view as curvy may not be? Don’t think you can set a specific rule to it yknow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy can range from Susan Boyle to Kim Kardashian, they can label their body anyway they want though! As long as they're happy "

This!

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I class myself as fat ..the option wasn't there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I class myself as fat ..the option wasn't there "

Oh certainly curvy. Great figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fat.... but I do class my shape as curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fat,and proud of it... took me ages "

I’d use an F in a different context..Fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter we are all different shapes and sizes,

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By *onnnie72Man
over a year ago

west bromwich


"For me slim = size 12 and below

14 - 18 = curvy

18+ is fat.

"

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy means you have an hourglass-shaped body. A woman's “curves" refer to the swell of her hips and breasts in comparison to her waist. So it really doesn't matter how skinny or fat you are, as long as your breast and hip measurements are bigger than your waist measurement then you qualify as curvy.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Curvy means you have an hourglass-shaped body. A woman's “curves" refer to the swell of her hips and breasts in comparison to her waist. So it really doesn't matter how skinny or fat you are, as long as your breast and hip measurements are bigger than your waist measurement then you qualify as curvy."

If you ever want an opinion I'm happy to give you one.

(An opinion too if you want)

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thanks for all your contribution... nothing wrong in being curvy or being fat... each to their own.. personally,I think there is a big difference btw curvy and fat and people tend to use both words wrongly..

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

If everybody liked the same body shape ,life would be sooooo boring lol, as long as you are happy with who you are embrace it and be confident with it x

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

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And yes I’m full of curves lol

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By *ral_isthenewblack OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"And yes I’m full of curves lol "
... no complaints at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care really, I know what I like and I like what I know.

I'd never up undermine anyone's description of their shape.

Creative license and all that jazz...

We all have curves one way or the other...

Anyhow the scenic route can be interesting to some while others prefer to be on a straight road..

Enjoy your journey which ever intrepid journey you endeavour

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

The person is more impotant to us than their looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is someone who has confidence. Fat is someone running themselves down and lacks confidence.

We all lack confidence at some point or other. Just about different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the funniest topics that comes up in these forums.....

Let’s dispel some nonsense.....

A male cannot be curvy...

If you have a belly when you stand up , you have to suck in your stomach when taking pictures or you have to take pics from different angles to hide your wobbly bits... You’re fat not curvy.......

I’m not saying anyone is not beautiful if you’re fat , but this curvy is a shape non sense is getting out of hand....

If people want the truth about if they are fat or curvy.... Ask a family member or close friend....

Not a bunch of horny men online....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say curvy means you have curves that are in proportion and fat means overweight/ extra padding it all depends on the context of how it’s said too. The fat word can be seen as insensitive or rude. I think they are better descriptors. Like some of the above have said if there was a fat option, to describe oneself, I too would have chose that, I personally am more than curvy and didn’t find an option that I felt was accurate so I chose fabulous because it was the biggest size.

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