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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx " Do you have a link OP? | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp" Thank you | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you" So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx " Omg thats so scary!!! That’s really terrible | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." You are brave....... | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." Yup this.. meeting someone tou don’t know at 1.30am in a lockdown? Bloody mad | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. You are brave......." Not brave, im a realist. | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols?" Hope so | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." There wasn’t a national lockdown at that time. I’m not aware of that area but they may have been a lower tier. And ‘more fool her’? That’s harsh. Yeah, maybe it wasn’t her wisest move but we have no idea how long she’d been chatting to him, whether they’d met before etc. She only arranged to meet one man. Nobody deserves to be robbed and assaulted. It could happen to anyone at anytime. You could meet at a club, go back to a hotel and have the same thing happen. Lou x | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?  | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols?" It was before lockdown. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming? "Don’t think there was blame but certainly taking the risks she did made the attack more likely. You wouldn’t drive without a seatbelt would you so making precautions to keep yourself safe in this way is the same. I’ve never heard a doctor being accused of victim blaming for telling someone they should have worn a seatbelt and their injuries would have been less or non existent. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming? "Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see. We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. There wasn’t a national lockdown at that time. I’m not aware of that area but they may have been a lower tier. And ‘more fool her’? That’s harsh. Yeah, maybe it wasn’t her wisest move but we have no idea how long she’d been chatting to him, whether they’d met before etc. She only arranged to meet one man. Nobody deserves to be robbed and assaulted. It could happen to anyone at anytime. You could meet at a club, go back to a hotel and have the same thing happen. Lou x " 100% agree with this. We don't know the full back story. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. There wasn’t a national lockdown at that time. I’m not aware of that area but they may have been a lower tier. And ‘more fool her’? That’s harsh. Yeah, maybe it wasn’t her wisest move but we have no idea how long she’d been chatting to him, whether they’d met before etc. She only arranged to meet one man. Nobody deserves to be robbed and assaulted. It could happen to anyone at anytime. You could meet at a club, go back to a hotel and have the same thing happen. Lou x " Yes you could but if you’d spent time with them hopefully you can assess them and be more aware of who they are. Assault can happen at any time in any place but a 1.30am meet when you’ve never met at your home? Just all kinds of nope | |||
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"Tipton hasn’t changed then Hope she’s ok Mark" Hasn’t changed at all sadly! I do hope she’s okay and can heal from this, I can’t imagine how that felt for her. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. There wasn’t a national lockdown at that time. I’m not aware of that area but they may have been a lower tier. And ‘more fool her’? That’s harsh. Yeah, maybe it wasn’t her wisest move but we have no idea how long she’d been chatting to him, whether they’d met before etc. She only arranged to meet one man. Nobody deserves to be robbed and assaulted. It could happen to anyone at anytime. You could meet at a club, go back to a hotel and have the same thing happen. Lou x "
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day. "She could have been attacked walking to the shops or on her way to work. Would we still be critical in that case? It simply isn't possible to go out in groups/pairs all the time, especially not at the moment. Women should be able to go where they like, when they like and not be attacked. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
She could have been attacked walking to the shops or on her way to work. Would we still be critical in that case? It simply isn't possible to go out in groups/pairs all the time, especially not at the moment. Women should be able to go where they like, when they like and not be attacked."Unfortunately we don't live in an ideal world. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day. "Now do you understand why I said you were brave to post what you did? No WOMAN is every wrong for any actions on the forums..... Carry on | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day. "Not victim blaming? Are you sure? Don’t get me wrong, it is certainly a risk I would not take, but (pre Covid) you see it all the time on here, men and women meeting in non public places with little regard for their own personal safety. It does certainly come across as victim blaming... regardless of her decision to meet in the way that she did, the ONLY person(s) to blame are the the people who attacked her. As for not walking home in the dark, stranger danger etc... really?! Yes it’s a sad fact that women are more at risk doing the above but if a woman were attacked while walking home in the dark, who is to blame? The woman or the person who attacked her? | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
Now do you understand why I said you were brave to post what you did?
No WOMAN is every wrong for any actions on the forums.....
Carry on
"My comment is not in any way related to Covid rules. It’s related to a woman attacked in her own home. I’d say the same if it was a man | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
Now do you understand why I said you were brave to post what you did?
No WOMAN is every wrong for any actions on the forums.....
Carry on
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." And at 1:30 am? | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
Not victim blaming? Are you sure?
Don’t get me wrong, it is certainly a risk I would not take, but (pre Covid) you see it all the time on here, men and women meeting in non public places with little regard for their own personal safety.
It does certainly come across as victim blaming... regardless of her decision to meet in the way that she did, the ONLY person(s) to blame are the the people who attacked her.
As for not walking home in the dark, stranger danger etc... really?! Yes it’s a sad fact that women are more at risk doing the above but if a woman were attacked while walking home in the dark, who is to blame? The woman or the person who attacked her?"The victim took a risk which is my original point. Of course the attacker/s are at fault and should be fully punished. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
Now do you understand why I said you were brave to post what you did?
No WOMAN is every wrong for any actions on the forums.....
Carry on
My comment is not in any way related to Covid rules. It’s related to a woman attacked in her own home. I’d say the same if it was a man "Ok so if I asked you to meet me in the dark corner of the garage of my apartment building At 2am.... Please explain to my feeble mind ... What great outcome you would expect? Then why you shouldn’t have any blame for your actions after something bad happens? | |||
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"I’ve lived in the inner city to long, and the cynic In me says, she was arranging a smoke, and a couple of grams, and hoping to get it cheaper or free for a shag, some of you may not like that statement but, you would be very naive to think she was just after a cuppa and a chat This dose go on, I know it dose,, " Please leave common sense out of this discussion...... She was loving for love at 1:30 am And no I’m not victim blaming, I just feel like people need to acknowledge that bad decisions usually come with bad consequences..... We can’t just give her a free pass..... She is 50% responsible... | |||
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"I’ve lived in the inner city to long, and the cynic In me says, she was arranging a smoke, and a couple of grams, and hoping to get it cheaper or free for a shag, some of you may not like that statement but, you would be very naive to think she was just after a cuppa and a chat This dose go on, I know it dose,, Please leave common sense out of this discussion...... She was loving for love at 1:30 am And no I’m not victim blaming, I just feel like people need to acknowledge that bad decisions usually come with bad consequences..... We can’t just give her a free pass..... She is 50% responsible... " She wasn't. Read my post. Its inaccurate information and its not fair on the woman to be 50% responsible when she is not. | |||
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"OK. I've done my digging! This is not factual news. The guy she met off POF was at her place in the early afternoon, they had also been messaging for about 3 months prior to meeting up. His 2 friends turned up at 1:30am who then assaulted her and took her things. All three ran out of the apartment. Its a sick world we live in! " Fucking cowards! | |||
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"Whilst ultimately the attackers are to blame she did make a questionable decision which put herself at risk. Personally I would never invite a stranger to my home at any time, it's just not a risk I would be willing to take. " I agree but quite a few people on this site are happy to. | |||
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"I’ve lived in the inner city to long, and the cynic In me says, she was arranging a smoke, and a couple of grams, and hoping to get it cheaper or free for a shag, some of you may not like that statement but, you would be very naive to think she was just after a cuppa and a chat This dose go on, I know it dose,, Please leave common sense out of this discussion...... She was loving for love at 1:30 am And no I’m not victim blaming, I just feel like people need to acknowledge that bad decisions usually come with bad consequences..... We can’t just give her a free pass..... She is 50% responsible... She wasn't. Read my post. Its inaccurate information and its not fair on the woman to be 50% responsible when she is not." I apologize..... what losers to rob this woman.... That is awful | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
Now do you understand why I said you were brave to post what you did?
No WOMAN is every wrong for any actions on the forums.....
Carry on
My comment is not in any way related to Covid rules. It’s related to a woman attacked in her own home. I’d say the same if it was a man
Ok so if I asked you to meet me in the dark corner of the garage of my apartment building At 2am....
Please explain to my feeble mind ...
What great outcome you would expect?
Then why you shouldn’t have any blame for your actions after something bad happens?"Well that’s not something I would do, but if I did and YOU attacked me then YOU would be to blame, yes I’d be naive to put myself in that position but I wouldn’t be to blame for your actions. | |||
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"OK. I've done my digging! This is not factual news. The guy she met off POF was at her place in the early afternoon, they had also been messaging for about 3 months prior to meeting up. His 2 friends turned up at 1:30am who then assaulted her and took her things. All three ran out of the apartment. Its a sick world we live in! " Thank you for posting what really happened, this is why the media can’t be trusted on their own. I had a feeling it wasn’t as black and white as it’s been made out to be. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." How wonderfully compassionate of you | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day. "How about teaching men to treat women with respect? | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." Agreed | |||
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"Some of the responses here are awful. And we wonder why certain crimes go so unreported? " Indeed!!! And the women are worse than the men with regards to their judgemental comments. Lou x | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Agreed" You should read this... "OK. I've done my digging! This is not factual news. The guy she met off POF was at her place in the early afternoon, they had also been messaging for about 3 months prior to meeting up. His 2 friends turned up at 1:30am who then assaulted her and took her things. All three ran out of the apartment. Its a sick world we live in! " | |||
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"Some of the responses here are awful. And we wonder why certain crimes go so unreported? Indeed!!! And the women are worse than the men with regards to their judgemental comments. Lou x " To be honest, it doesn't surprise me. When I speak about the 'assaults' I have suffered in my life, I have found that women are sometimes worse victim blamers than men. I wonder if it comes from a place of fear. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her." Wow | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. " Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk" You make a valid point. | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk" I don’t know what tier she was in at that time. I’m not condoning any covid rule breaking but I’m certainly not blaming her for getting attacked! If you read a previous post she’d apparently met the man during the afternoon and at 1.30am his friends came and she she was attacked. | |||
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"Don’t think there was blame but certainly taking the risks she did made the attack more likely. You wouldn’t drive without a seatbelt would you so making precautions to keep yourself safe in this way is the same. I’ve never heard a doctor being accused of victim blaming for telling someone they should have worn a seatbelt and their injuries would have been less or non existent. " The big difference is that those injuries are (usually) accidental. So yes, you should take steps to prevent yourself being injured due to accidents. But being assaulted/robbed etc are as a result of another person's conscious decision to cause you harm. | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk I don’t know what tier she was in at that time. I’m not condoning any covid rule breaking but I’m certainly not blaming her for getting attacked! " Neither did my post. It matters not what tier you are in though, meeting up with people is not allowed unless you are in a bubble. | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk I don’t know what tier she was in at that time. I’m not condoning any covid rule breaking but I’m certainly not blaming her for getting attacked! Neither did my post" No but others have. The covid rules aren’t really the issue here. | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk" She didn't. She met him in the early afternoon after speaking for months. 8th December may not have been total lockdown for Tipton where it happened. | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk I don’t know what tier she was in at that time. I’m not condoning any covid rule breaking but I’m certainly not blaming her for getting attacked! Neither did my post No but others have. The covid rules aren’t really the issue here." I think they are. We are in the middle of a pandemic, a woman arranges a meet for what looks like a booty call and gets attacked. If she was in a bubble fine, but if not then she made a real bad decision for her own safety and for the position we are in with the pandemic. That doesn't mean she deserved being attacked but it also doesn't mean that the reasons she did this and the possible consequences couldn't be mentioned | |||
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"Will the police fine her for breaking lockdown protocols? It was before lockdown. Whether there was a lockdown or not, I doubt she was meeting the man at 1.30 in the morning to go on a socially distanced walk She didn't. She met him in the early afternoon after speaking for months. 8th December may not have been total lockdown for Tipton where it happened. " Taken from the news report ""The 44-year-old matched with a man on the site and met him in the foyer of her apartment building in Tipton at around 1.30am on December 8." | |||
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"It's telling that most of the comments are focused on the victim of a crime and not the dirty lowlife scum that committed the crime... Its no wonder women are less likely to report a crime against them. Restrictions, time of day, all aside, she was attacked and robbed! " | |||
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"It's telling that most of the comments are focused on the victim of a crime and not the dirty lowlife scum that committed the crime... Its no wonder women are less likely to report a crime against them. Restrictions, time of day, all aside, she was attacked and robbed! " This! | |||
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"This thread is a great example of the struggle some people are having with understanding the rules. It was December 8th 2020. At that time, nobody in any part of the country was allowed to have people from outside of their household in their house unless they were a part of their support bubble." Most of us only pay attention to the rules of the area we live in. | |||
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"This thread is a great example of the struggle some people are having with understanding the rules. It was December 8th 2020. At that time, nobody in any part of the country was allowed to have people from outside of their household in their house unless they were a part of their support bubble." So what are you saying? If it had been 8th Dec 2019 it wouldn't have happened? | |||
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"This thread is a great example of the struggle some people are having with understanding the rules. It was December 8th 2020. At that time, nobody in any part of the country was allowed to have people from outside of their household in their house unless they were a part of their support bubble." This thread is about men attacking a woman in her home. You think these attacks only happen during 'illegal' lockdown meets? Do you think its more appropriate or forgivable because it happened during lockdown? | |||
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"This thread is a great example of the struggle some people are having with understanding the rules. It was December 8th 2020. At that time, nobody in any part of the country was allowed to have people from outside of their household in their house unless they were a part of their support bubble. This thread is about men attacking a woman in her home. You think these attacks only happen during 'illegal' lockdown meets? Do you think its more appropriate or forgivable because it happened during lockdown? " I think you missed his point totally | |||
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" I think you missed his point totally" Thank you. | |||
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"Did people seen what happened to that woman in Tipton, on December 8th, she arranged to meet a guy at her place at 1.30am he and his mates turned up, beat and robbed her Stay safe ladies, xxx Do you have a link OP? https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.birminghammail.co.uk/black-country/woman-attacked-three-thugs-after-19711147.amp Thank you So why were they arranging to meet when were in fucking lockdown?! Pisses me right off this. If you're arranging to meet a stranger, on your own, at that time in the morning, you've got acknowledge you're taking a risk. More fool her. Yes it was a silly and dangerous thing for her to but really? Victim blaming?
Not victim blaming. Ok so it was before lockdown, my mistake, however we are still restricted on who we can and can't see.
We teach women from a young age to be careful, know your surroundings, stranger danger, don't walk home alone late at night etc. We, as women, need to be cautious when meeting strangers, regardless of the time of day.
How about teaching men to treat women with respect? "You can teach as much as you want, scumbags will still be scumbags, of either sex. | |||
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