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Turned in by intellect?

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We were at a club once and L who had a certain preference for a ladies physical look, met a lady of a “not-her normal preference”, I was met by, ‘god she’s sexy’.

Questioning her, it was her intellect she was drawn to.

Sapiosexual sensuality exist, does for us.

Or is it just surface structure on here?

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"We were at a club once and L who had a certain preference for a ladies physical look, met a lady of a “not-her normal preference”, I was met by, ‘god she’s sexy’.

Questioning her, it was her intellect she was drawn to.

Sapiosexual sensuality exist, does for us.

Or is it just surface structure on here?"

Hate vowels!!!!

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By *urvyandsnapperCouple
over a year ago

Essex/Kent

Big yes for us on this one. Can’t hold a conversation? Won’t be much else getting held!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just you guys, i like a balance of physical attraction and intelligence. I find guys on that level pay more attention to the details of sex too.

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By *icentious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Big yes for us on this one. Can’t hold a conversation? Won’t be much else getting held!"

Was surprised by L, thought she had a type, then the intellect quotient kicked in.

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By *unCpl1234Couple
over a year ago

Odiham

Hundred percent agree, for us.

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By *unCpl1234Couple
over a year ago

Odiham


"Big yes for us on this one. Can’t hold a conversation? Won’t be much else getting held!"

Right? That's pretty much a maxim for us. If we can't have a good conversation, we're not likely to have good sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends. Some people use their intelligence as a weapon that is not attractive. I find a person who is articulate and can talk knowledgeably about something attractive as a person but not necessarily sexually. I also find natural intelligence attractive, the kind that doesn't necessarily come from being educated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I also prefer people who don't keep typing necessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone can just come out with fact after fact I don’t particularly see that attraction.

If someone has a viewpoint and engages others to challenge that enthusiasm is for me appealing.

Who wants to know there are 700 quintillion stars in the sky?

But when the light takes so long to get to earth some stars you can see actually died long ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure intelligence is a turn on but ignorance and dim witted narrow minds are certainly a huge turn off.

If we can’t click socially we won’t click sexually and that starts with conversation and humour.

That said view points diametrically opposed to our own, no matter how eloquently expressed, are also a big turn off- hence the wording in our profile.

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