FabSwingers.com forum: People who can't accommodate or travel?

By *omsubdevon OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uber

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By *omsubdevon OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

True... Must be frustrating though

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

No one can accommodate, travel or meet atm, but we get what you mean, some accounts on here are just dreamers or pic collectors, that's what verification are about, helps highlight the genuine ones.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

currently homeless in a refuge, no visitors allowed

no car

so no, don't currently meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a freaking mystery innit??

Must be magic

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Via zoom/google meets.

Although I think it means they’ll meet you at yours or your hotel if you’re local to them. You’re just not going to their house and they don’t want to travel to yours if you’re far away.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting for the foreseeable so can't accommodate nor travel. Though when I used to I also had it on my profile but in the blurb said that "I wouldn't accommodate if you can't and I won't travel if you can't" but I can actually do both just sick to death of other people not accommodating but expecting me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs but ovs not at minute

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By *omsubdevon OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

There are always hotels for meets

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Hotel. I do travel, just not that far. I don’t want folk thinking I’ll schlep to the other side of the UK for a knobbing. I clarify all that in pm.

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By *ngelLordCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"No one can accommodate, travel or meet atm, but we get what you mean, some accounts on here are just dreamers or pic collectors, that's what verification are about, helps highlight the genuine ones.

There are exceptions we are genuine even if u don't believe our verifications yes we can't accommodate as won't have when our kids around btw 4 kids and we can't travel as i am banned for a bit(speed) u believe or not genuine reasons and also regulars in Chams Newport and Darlaston .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet at one specific club, so my profile states that I can't accommodate or travel as I wouldn't meet anywhere else.

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By *omsubdevon OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

"I only meet at one specific club, so my profile states that I can't accommodate or travel as I wouldn't meet anywhere else. "

Fair enough. Club meets are good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

They wait till it's safe,then teleport

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

For me it’s why can’t they do that? If it’s genuine reasons then fair enough but if they just can’t be arsed or don’t want too then I’m out

I can accom and travel.

But I expect a lot more conversation and prof they are genuine before inviting to my house. It’s easier to meet in hotels or clubs.

I live in the middle of nowhere so always expect to travel a little, but mainly, they always offer to come to me or pay for hotel in the middle. Tends to be how I do it xx

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

Simple. We only meet guys who can accommodate us locally - their place or hotel.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"Not meeting for the foreseeable so can't accommodate nor travel. Though when I used to I also had it on my profile but in the blurb said that "I wouldn't accommodate if you can't and I won't travel if you can't" but I can actually do both just sick to death of other people not accommodating but expecting me too! "

I get the complete opposite. Guys want me to travel 40 miles to suck their cock at midnight. The usual excuse is "I can't, I've had a drink". They just can't be arsed in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet at your home locally.

Meet at a local hotel.

Only play in clubs.

Only play outdoors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell I'd even tell anyone off here the town I live in.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that means you will travel 200 miles to service them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting is allowed, I don't host because I don't want and I don't travel outside my town because I don't drive. So only looking for in my own town. Nothing to do with being a dreamer or anything.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"No one can accommodate, travel or meet atm, but we get what you mean, some accounts on here are just dreamers or pic collectors, that's what verification are about, helps highlight the genuine ones.

My profile says cannot accommodate, cannot travel. I’m certainly not a dreamer or pic collector (who the hell collects bad dick pics anyway? That’s all I get).

OP, there are a lot of reasons. Some people only meet in clubs (or used to). Personally, I can’t and won’t accommodate; and I’m only willing to travel up to a thirty-minute drive away. I say “cannot travel” because I’ve had men expect me to drive halfway across the country for them, and that’s never going to happen.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ask them, or read their profile and see if it says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

Clubs, hotels, B&Bs, airbnbs, cars... Loads of different options.

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

We don't accommodate due to having family and play separately, but we will both travel and still get guys asking to meet them in their car/van.... no thanks..... and omdays... asking for a social before any fun you'd think I was asking them to murder someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and did..pre covid.. just don't want folk assuming i can just run and jump at their beck n call.

I'm selective and protective of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options. "

No it doesn't

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

COVID aside, there are still many profiles that say this in more normal times. 'Can't accomodate' speaks for itself.

'Can't travel' however is subjective. What it means to one person it may not mean to another.

There is no distance specified by 'Can't travel', so perhaps they don't drive and can't travel 100 miles, 50 miles or even 20. But maybe they can meet locally if they use public transport or a taxi, say 5 miles?

5 miles where in Exeter will take you from one side of the City to the other with ease. It's not too expensive in a taxi, and there is a decent bus service.

Perhaps someone else might say they can't travel as they don't drive, but would get on a train on the mainline from Exeter to Bristol or Plymouth if an offer came along.

It can mean many things, but I don't believe it means that they won't leave the house at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the complete opposite. Guys want me to travel 40 miles to suck their cock at midnight. The usual excuse is "I can't, I've had a drink". They just can't be arsed in my view. "

Omg! Definitely can't be arsed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take that to mean that they don't want you to come to theirs, or them to go to yours.

Club or hotel meets only. A club or hotel they were already planning on being in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

There are a surprising amount of swinging Wannabees on this site. Like the idea of having a profile and that is enough for them. Each to their own

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Some people are just here for the online stuff, share pics, forum and chat. No interest in physical meets. (Not me!)

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options. "

I fully understand single girls not accommodating. Bit risky in my opinion.

I'm actually quite happy to act as a taxi and pick up any girl I think is worth meeting or book a hotel if distance precludes that option? Single guys? Well that's a whole different story? If they can't make any effort then they're probably not worth meeting either? Same goes for one word messages?

Good luck everyone !

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

When I do meet. I can travel but I'm not going travelling ridiculous distances for a meet.

I have don't accommodate on my profile I can if I want to but I'm very fussy about who I bring to my home and I have to know someone really well and trust them before I will. So its easier for me to say no on my profile.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options.

I fully understand single girls not accommodating. Bit risky in my opinion.

Good luck everyone !

Why is it different for guys than women they run just as much risk letting a stranger into their home.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do not accommodate after a very terrifying ordeal in the past. Because of that I am more than happy to pay for a hotel. I do travel and would pick a guy up who didn't...I've no problem with that.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have that on my profile, in my text I have the reason why, I simply go along to clubs and meet by chance there, I chat to whom ever happens to be there and see how we get along.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

I just don't get it time wasters comes to mind #

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

There are a surprising amount of swinging Wannabees on this site. Like the idea of having a profile and that is enough for them. Each to their own"

People are free to use the site however they wish.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

There are a surprising amount of swinging Wannabees on this site. Like the idea of having a profile and that is enough for them. Each to their own"

Have you actually read any of the replies to this thread?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options.

I fully understand single girls not accommodating. Bit risky in my opinion.

Good luck everyone !

Oh good lord no, I’d never get in a car with a strange man! If I don’t trust a man with my address, I’m not giving him the power to abduct me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it time wasters comes to mind #"

Everyone can use the site as they wish. Some people are here for the forums, and that’s ok, some like posting pics, and that’s ok (and wank fodder for lots of people).

I’ve been told I’m a time waster and a fake as I had no verifications at the time, despite my profile being less than 2 months old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options.

I fully understand single girls not accommodating. Bit risky in my opinion.

Good luck everyone !

Why is it different for guys than women they run just as much risk letting a stranger into their home. "

Statistically, I don't reckon that's quite the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen a lot of accounts like this. How do they meet?

It means they can only meet locally. They cannot accommodate but if they can get a bus or short taxi ride to the meet that is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel. I do travel, just not that far. I don’t want folk thinking I’ll schlep to the other side of the UK for a knobbing. I clarify all that in pm."

What La Luna said!!! Or swingers clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant accommodate or travel as currently I'm a live in carer. Would travel but obvious reasons only within 15 miles. Still get guys ask if I travel hundreds miles away or quicky outside

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By *entGent75Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"Thanks for the replies. I was meaning notwithstanding covid, it does close down options.

I fully understand single girls not accommodating. Bit risky in my opinion.

Good luck everyone !

Why is it different for guys than women they run just as much risk letting a stranger into their home. "

Amen to that. We are all at risk to the unknown and ending up in a bad situation and it is one of the reasons i don't accommodate. The other reason being that my other half would bury me under that patio if she found another woman or couple in bed with me. I'm very risk averse

and yes i know it's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one can accommodate, travel or meet atm, but we get what you mean, some accounts on here are just dreamers or pic collectors, that's what verification are about, helps highlight the genuine ones.

My profile says cannot accommodate, cannot travel. I’m certainly not a dreamer or pic collector (who the hell collects bad dick pics anyway? *** That’s all I get).

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"I just don't get it time wasters comes to mind #

Everyone can use the site as they wish. Some people are here for the forums, and that’s ok, some like posting pics, and that’s ok (and wank fodder for lots of people).

I’ve been told I’m a time waster and a fake as I had no verifications at the time, despite my profile being less than 2 months old?"
ok but I just don't see the point of being on here if people only want to post pics and chat!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it time wasters comes to mind #

Everyone can use the site as they wish. Some people are here for the forums, and that’s ok, some like posting pics, and that’s ok (and wank fodder for lots of people).

I’ve been told I’m a time waster and a fake as I had no verifications at the time, despite my profile being less than 2 months old? ok but I just don't see the point of being on here if people only want to post pics and chat!!!! "

No one is forcing you to stay.

As another poster said,people use the site as theysee fit.

As long as no site rules are broken whats the harm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that shout alot about time waster and fakes I have found is because they are not getti g what they want, if a person cannot have what they want on their profile ecause someone disagrees with them then it's a very sad state of affairs.

I have been on this site on and off for six yrs and the amount of complaining and critising has increased exponentially in the past couple of years as more and more people are not happy in their own life's.

In stead of asking a person why they can't accomodate or why they can't travel rather than rant or make up accusations about people.

Also if someone dosent want to meet but have chats that is and should be acceptable after all its not a site for one person preferences.

I have no to both purely because NO one should have meeting on theirs anywhere right now..

However the ones who are shouting about it are clearly upset no one wants to meet with them right now.

So instead of jumping up and down and coming in to the forums with pointless rants, stop, think about what your really upset about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Locally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine they cant/ won't travel a distance, and they don't want people at their house. Makes sense to me.

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

Personally, I can't accommodate due to going through a divorce and staying with parents (don't think the female I was meeting would be impressed!). So travelling or booking a hotel room/ serviced apartment is my go to when things are back to normality. Distance wouldn't be a problem especially if at a weekend.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My profile says I don't accomodate as otherwise randoms think I'm running an open house for desperados.

It says I don't travel either, same reason, to avoid the messages "Can you drive to mine babe", usually at 3am.

No ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it time wasters comes to mind #

Everyone can use the site as they wish. Some people are here for the forums, and that’s ok, some like posting pics, and that’s ok (and wank fodder for lots of people).

But, that is the point for some people? To post pics and chat, and there’s nothing wrong with that, particularly at the moment.

There has been days recently which I would have really struggled with, but I engaged in some fun forum threads and it for me through.

I have met people through here in the past (on my old profile), and the chances are I will again in the future.

I also love looking at people’s pics, seeing the creativity and inventiveness, or just appreciating others bodies

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't even post pics or chat. I just enjoy the forums, especially the word games.

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

"No one can accommodate, travel or meet atm, but we get what you mean, some accounts on here are just dreamers or pic collectors, that's what verification are

about, helps highlight the genuine ones.

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he wasn't on about meeting at this time

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't care how other people run their profile or meet/ don't as long as they don't expect me to do differently. (Pandemic related exclusions to this apathy apply)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I don't accomodate as otherwise randoms think I'm running an open house for desperados.

It says I don't travel either, same reason, to avoid the messages "Can you drive to mine babe", usually at 3am.

No ta

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By *omsubdevon OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

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By *omsubdevon OP Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

"The ones that shout alot about time waster and fakes I have found is because they are not getti g what they want, if a person cannot have what they want on their profile ecause someone disagrees with them then it's a very sad state of affairs.

In stead of asking a person why they can't accomodate or why they can't travel rather than rant or make up accusations about people.

Also if someone dosent want to meet but have chats that is and should be acceptable after all its not a site for one person preferences.

I have no to both purely because NO one should have meeting on theirs anywhere right now..

However the ones who are shouting about it are clearly upset no one wants to meet with them right now.

So instead of jumping up and down and coming in to the forums with pointless rants, stop, think about what your really upset about. "

I wasn't ranting and certainly not looking to meet now. It was a simple observation that has been taken to another place. I certainly wasn't judging or being critical. Apologies if the question offended anyone.

Happy fabbing everyone, in whatever that form it takes.

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