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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some do.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Most of my meets on here have been with married guys , private discreet and some become regular visitors too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is full of married men....so you have to!

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By *adforit1304Man
over a year ago

Limerick/Clare


"The world is full of married men....so you have to! "

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"Yes some do. "
some don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes some do. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most of my meets on here have been with married guys , private discreet and some become regular visitors too "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The world is full of married men....so you have to! "

wish I was local then ay x

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

We have before x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have before x"

How was the experience? Would you do it again? X

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Was good and yes would meet that individual again when safe x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was good and yes would meet that individual again when safe x"

he’s lucky x married men can be better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I find it all to be very one sided, which I don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know "

I have and do meet married men, providing that they are honest about it and discreet x

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I don’t.

Did once in a club by accident (he lied I’ve never met cheating), a month of abuse from the fiancé later definitely not worth it!

I only meet married men in clubs with partners knowing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I find it all to be very one sided, which I don't like."
I guess it’s not everyone’s cup of tea x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know

I have and do meet married men, providing that they are honest about it and discreet x "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t.

Did once in a club by accident (he lied I’ve never met cheating), a month of abuse from the fiancé later definitely not worth it!

I only meet married men in clubs with partners knowing "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know "

At least you are honest xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know

At least you are honest xxx"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know

At least you are honest xxx

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And lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I find it all to be very one sided, which I don't like. I guess it’s not everyone’s cup of tea x"

When I have seen married men in the past, I have found that they have very little to offer and everything needs to be on their terms all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married, but have permission for fun alone, but the wife is open for anyone to check with her.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Strange how my reply was deleted!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Everyone has their own reasons for being on here and no-one has the right to be judge and jury.

I personally prefer the guys I meet not to be married but there are plenty of woman on here who don't mind x

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I have met married men in the past

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"No. I find it all to be very one sided, which I don't like."

Agreed, only when it suits them..sometimes have to wait for weeks...

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Did meet with one and only met because he told us he was unattached. It ended up a very bad experience which has basically put us of meeting all men

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yes they do , your best chance is a married female looking for the same as you, they are out there , hard to find but not impossible, they do look for married men nsa ,

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

There are plenty of people who will meet married men. It's just finding them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet married or attached x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not married but not single either and looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was good and yes would meet that individual again when safe x"

Where do I apply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did meet with one and only met because he told us he was unattached. It ended up a very bad experience which has basically put us of meeting all men"

What happened?

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By *awhWoman
over a year ago

here

Most guys on here are, at least your honest and say so instead of pretending not to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything on your terms, last minute cancellations, sneaking around, limited time together etc etc, what's not to like?

I think I'm worth more than that so be a no from me.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

All us married men can do is be honest and hope people believe us. I'm particularly looking for a couple to hook up with as I think it would be easier all round and my wife has to worry less about the 'other woman' in my life because she knows she's happily married and attached to the other half of the playing threesome.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think people are quick to judge and get on their very high moral horses. We don't know their marriage situation or their reasons for doing what they do. While I personally wouldnt cheat, I'm not going to beat someone with a moral stick who does. It's their life and choices, none of my business

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Most men will struggle to chat with women on here let alone get a meet. Throw in being married & that further limits things. I've had the occasional exchange of messages with women but nothing else.

There are women who will meet married men - I've had 3 married playmates over the years. Also have another 2 possible new ones once it's safe to meet again. But this isn't really the place to find them.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know

At least you are honest xxx"

Just not to the wife eh.

No ... unless wife is there too. Dishonesty for me tells me all I need to know about a person.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!! "

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross "

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything on your terms, last minute cancellations, sneaking around, limited time together etc etc, what's not to like?

I think I'm worth more than that so be a no from me. "

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it! "

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate. "

Sorry to hear that. Suicide is distressing whatever the circumstances.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We wouldn’t as they're hardly going to have any respect for meeting someone they don't know if they haven't got any respect for their own wife.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


"We wouldn’t as they're hardly going to have any respect for meeting someone they don't know if they haven't got any respect for their own wife."

This for us x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here?"

There are plenty of married/attached women in here looking for mutual discreet fun, they will make themselves known to you if you catch their eye

There are also plenty of couples looking for solo guys to join them, and only ask that if you say you are going to turn up, you do so

Plenty of pebbles on the beach, just look for the ones which suit your collection

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate.

Sorry to hear that. Suicide is distressing whatever the circumstances. "

Yes especially when it was purely due to the selfishness of her husband and the other woman. I would never put anyone else in that heartbreaking position nor would anyone with any decency. Simply no excuse a part from selfishness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn’t as they're hardly going to have any respect for meeting someone they don't know if they haven't got any respect for their own wife."

I agree with this. I’d add that I’ve also been on the receiving end of cheating and wouldn’t like to contribute to someone else feeling that way.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"We wouldn’t as they're hardly going to have any respect for meeting someone they don't know if they haven't got any respect for their own wife."

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate.

Sorry to hear that. Suicide is distressing whatever the circumstances.

Yes especially when it was purely due to the selfishness of her husband and the other woman. I would never put anyone else in that heartbreaking position nor would anyone with any decency. Simply no excuse a part from selfishness "

I see where you're coming from however if I ever found myself in that situation I'd like to think I could talk to my partner apart it. Try and work things out. I appreciate every one is different and deal with things in their own way but the aftermath of suicide is almost as bad as the act itself.

Empathy and compassion are the key words with this imo. Like it was in the school's thread the other day.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I invite you to have a read of my profile and see the emotional cost on the person you're hiding things from.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate.

Sorry to hear that. Suicide is distressing whatever the circumstances.

Yes especially when it was purely due to the selfishness of her husband and the other woman. I would never put anyone else in that heartbreaking position nor would anyone with any decency. Simply no excuse a part from selfishness

I see where you're coming from however if I ever found myself in that situation I'd like to think I could talk to my partner apart it. Try and work things out. I appreciate every one is different and deal with things in their own way but the aftermath of suicide is almost as bad as the act itself.

Empathy and compassion are the key words with this imo. Like it was in the school's thread the other day. "

Surely communication happens before shagging someone else not after? There is simply no excuse I have no empathy for cheaters or people that have sex with them. There is no reason for people having to cheat they just prefer it as you said the sex for tou is better - so your putting your want for better sex above someone else’s life. Why is that ok?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I invite you to have a read of my profile and see the emotional cost on the person you're hiding things from."

Exactly! And my friends kids that have lost a mother due to two people wanting sex.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate.

Sorry to hear that. Suicide is distressing whatever the circumstances.

Yes especially when it was purely due to the selfishness of her husband and the other woman. I would never put anyone else in that heartbreaking position nor would anyone with any decency. Simply no excuse a part from selfishness

I see where you're coming from however if I ever found myself in that situation I'd like to think I could talk to my partner apart it. Try and work things out. I appreciate every one is different and deal with things in their own way but the aftermath of suicide is almost as bad as the act itself.

Empathy and compassion are the key words with this imo. Like it was in the school's thread the other day.

Surely communication happens before shagging someone else not after? There is simply no excuse I have no empathy for cheaters or people that have sex with them. There is no reason for people having to cheat they just prefer it as you said the sex for tou is better - so your putting your want for better sex above someone else’s life. Why is that ok? "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

So meeting in the house he shares with his wife without her knowing is naughty? Just gross

I didn't say I agreed with it, it is naughty/wrong or 'gross' if that's how you feel about it!

My best friend came home to find a woman in her bed with her husband and killed her self so believe me naughty isn’t a word relevant in the slightest. Selfish abs disgusting are two words more appropriate.

Sorry to hear that. Suicide is distressing whatever the circumstances.

Yes especially when it was purely due to the selfishness of her husband and the other woman. I would never put anyone else in that heartbreaking position nor would anyone with any decency. Simply no excuse a part from selfishness

I see where you're coming from however if I ever found myself in that situation I'd like to think I could talk to my partner apart it. Try and work things out. I appreciate every one is different and deal with things in their own way but the aftermath of suicide is almost as bad as the act itself.

Empathy and compassion are the key words with this imo. Like it was in the school's thread the other day.

Surely communication happens before shagging someone else not after? There is simply no excuse I have no empathy for cheaters or people that have sex with them. There is no reason for people having to cheat they just prefer it as you said the sex for tou is better - so your putting your want for better sex above someone else’s life. Why is that ok? "

Most people would talk before it came to that, not all. That is my point everybody is different. There are two sides to every story.

And for the record I never said sex for me with a married man was better. I think that's what you're trying to say.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"

And for the record I never said sex for me with a married man was better. I think that's what you're trying to say. "

You said

I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!!

- what does sex machine imply then?

- you’re whole post was in support of meeting married men as you admitted to doing - then you ask for empathy?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Also suggesting their unwillingness to fuck in their wives bed being a problem.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Also suggesting their unwillingness to fuck in their wives bed being a problem. "

You read into it how you want, I didn't suggest that at all.

No one should feel like they have to justify their actions to you or anyone else, especially on a site like this!

You and many others have strong opinions on this, as I do, and that's fine of course but don't twist things. I'm leaving it here.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Also suggesting their unwillingness to fuck in their wives bed being a problem.

You read into it how you want, I didn't suggest that at all.

No one should feel like they have to justify their actions to you or anyone else, especially on a site like this!

You and many others have strong opinions on this, as I do, and that's fine of course but don't twist things. I'm leaving it here. "

It’s not twisting anything it’s what you said ... not being to accommodate was a problem for you. No justification needed as it’s not possible to justify such actions without saying ‘me having sex is more important than anything else’ ..

... I’d have more respect for people if they actually said that than trying to make up all this nonsense about how they were justified in their behaviour.

.. string feelings yup .. 2 little kids with no mother tend to produce strong feelings in me.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Did meet with one and only met because he told us he was unattached. It ended up a very bad experience which has basically put us of meeting all men

What happened?"

His wife reakoned he was having an affair. She followed him and ended up creating a massive scene at our door, shouting that I was a slut and whore which quite a few of the neighbours saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met and spoken to married women. It’s your life just because your married doesn’t mean your partner owns you or your body. The ones I have spoken to have discussed it with their partners prior.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow! I’ve missed so much in those 3days! Again ladies if this isn’t your thing don’t get too personal and leave people be! Don’t tell people what’s right and what’s wrong! So irritating!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This type of thread always get superheated. But a few things here are interesting and troubling in equal measure.

I'm a libertarian, who is an advocate of informed choice. That means making your own decision based on all the facts being true and presented to you for consideration. If a man or woman here declares themselves as married / attached then you can make your own informed choice as to interact or not. We each have a moral compass, and they all spin differently. What may be an impediment to one, can be an attraction to an other.

There are two types of single men on here. The first type are married / attached and open about it, who get a rough time because of it, as they are perceived to be the lowest of the low. The second type are genuinely single men, who are treated as if they are married / attached, who get a rough time because of it, as they are perceived to be the lowest of the low.

The contrast of course is that a woman who is playing off side is to be celebrated as she is embracing her sexuality and going out and getting what she wants. She is modern, sassy, liberated and strong woman. Hypocrisy? Double standards?

It takes two to form a relationship, but one to disband it. All relationships end, for one of two reasons. Either one side decides to leave, or one side dies. I've experienced both.

Some here will judge those playing offside. Their choice. Just remember to the world outside of fab, we'd all be judged as weirdos and perverts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some here will judge those playing offside. Their choice. Just remember to the world outside of fab, we'd all be judged as weirdos and perverts."

Great summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did before on my first time here. Wouldn't again. Started to feel very used as they just wanted to pop in on way home etc. Couldn't commit to long sessions so I would never would again. (Add into that my ethical views on this)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of judgement on here.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No way would I meet a married man. It’s cheating. I’ve been cheated on in another life which was horrid and to be honest has left me not trusting men ever again.

Cheating causes hurt and just because she doesn’t know makes no difference. Also people who sleep with married men are cheaters causing hurt and pain.

It’s just horrible. OP you can’t open a thread and then not like negative comments just because people don’t agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got absolutely belted once time for writing this

Constant messages of abuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too many opinionated people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No way would I meet a married man. It’s cheating. I’ve been cheated on in another life which was horrid and to be honest has left me not trusting men ever again.

Cheating causes hurt and just because she doesn’t know makes no difference. Also people who sleep with married men are cheaters causing hurt and pain.

It’s just horrible. OP you can’t open a thread and then not like negative comments just because people don’t agree with you. "

Some people seem happy to live in an echo chamber.

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over a year ago

Will come back to have a look

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over a year ago


"Too many opinionated people! "

Opinions are like arseholes... we've all got one. You cannot expect to post on a public forum and not get a world of disparate responses.

To give you a heads up OP... ask any "Do people like / meet / do etc." type question and the answers will be, some do, some don't.

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over a year ago

Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha

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By *r genuine oneMan
over a year ago

walsall

Gotta say it...i prefer married women to single ones

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Too many opinionated people! "

The forums are for opinions. If you don’t like them then don’t create a thread.

This thread has been good for my filter system so thank you OP....

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over a year ago


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know "

Some might be we would never.

We don't meet any guys, but if we ever did we could never have anything to do with cheating dishonest people.

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over a year ago


"No way would I meet a married man. It’s cheating. I’ve been cheated on in another life which was horrid and to be honest has left me not trusting men ever again.

Cheating causes hurt and just because she doesn’t know makes no difference. Also people who sleep with married men are cheaters causing hurt and pain.

It’s just horrible. OP you can’t open a thread and then not like negative comments just because people don’t agree with you. "

I totally agree.

If you open a thread about cheating you have to understand you will get very strong opinion from those who have been on the receiving end of it.

If that’s a problem, keep it to yourself.

What always gets me is cheaters justifying themselves to a group of strangers online, why? People judge regardless so why do some feel the need to air everything? Surely only the person you’re meeting needs or know, or put it on your profile.

Not everyone will be nice.

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By *r genuine oneMan
over a year ago

walsall


"Too many opinionated people!

The forums are for opinions. If you don’t like them then don’t create a thread.

This thread has been good for my filter system so thank you OP....

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over a year ago

I just think does it really matter if there is married men on here there are also married women who there partners don’t know but it always seems one rule for married men and another for women. Just an opinion. Not slating anyone.

We all have enough going on lately so we all need a get out from real life and interact with ppl doesn’t always have to be about sex ect

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home


"I don't mind meeting married men they're less likely to get clingy and are very often sex machines! The problem is they are rarely able to accommodate. Unless they are *really* naughty!! "

I'm attached not married and have a motor home!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahahahahaha this is fun!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I just think does it really matter if there is married men on here there are also married women who there partners don’t know but it always seems one rule for married men and another for women. Just an opinion. Not slating anyone.

We all have enough going on lately so we all need a get out from real life and interact with ppl doesn’t always have to be about sex ect "

Cheating whatever gender one is is wrong and I think females may be worse for it. Sneaking around meeting people behind backs but they get found out in the end. Divorce is expensive remember that folks

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"I just think does it really matter if there is married men on here there are also married women who there partners don’t know but it always seems one rule for married men and another for women. Just an opinion. Not slating anyone.

We all have enough going on lately so we all need a get out from real life and interact with ppl doesn’t always have to be about sex ect

Cheating whatever gender one is is wrong and I think females may be worse for it. Sneaking around meeting people behind backs but they get found out in the end. Divorce is expensive remember that folks "

Indeed it is!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Wow! I’ve missed so much in those 3days! Again ladies if this isn’t your thing don’t get too personal and leave people be! Don’t tell people what’s right and what’s wrong! So irritating!! "

Cheating is wrong there is no ambiguity... it’s not ‘naughty’ or any other such euphemisms it’s dishonest and makes you a liar. That’s not opinion that’s fact.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"This type of thread always get superheated. But a few things here are interesting and troubling in equal measure.

I'm a libertarian, who is an advocate of informed choice. That means making your own decision based on all the facts being true and presented to you for consideration. If a man or woman here declares themselves as married / attached then you can make your own informed choice as to interact or not. We each have a moral compass, and they all spin differently. What may be an impediment to one, can be an attraction to an other.

There are two types of single men on here. The first type are married / attached and open about it, who get a rough time because of it, as they are perceived to be the lowest of the low. The second type are genuinely single men, who are treated as if they are married / attached, who get a rough time because of it, as they are perceived to be the lowest of the low.

The contrast of course is that a woman who is playing off side is to be celebrated as she is embracing her sexuality and going out and getting what she wants. She is modern, sassy, liberated and strong woman. Hypocrisy? Double standards?

It takes two to form a relationship, but one to disband it. All relationships end, for one of two reasons. Either one side decides to leave, or one side dies. I've experienced both.

Some here will judge those playing offside. Their choice. Just remember to the world outside of fab, we'd all be judged as weirdos and perverts."

Yet the same informed choice isn’t afforded to the spouse at home with no knowledge or are they simply not important? Playing indicates that it’s not real and it’s very real and ruins lives.

Men generally have lower standards when it comes to sex and more men have ‘any holes a goal’ mentality to women. I abhor cheats no matter what sex they are I don’t discriminate.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha "

Tell that to my friends kids who have a dead mother due to cheating

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over a year ago


"Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha

Tell that to my friends kids who have a dead mother due to cheating "

I don’t care about your friend... I am not your friend and wouldn’t want to be!

What happened to your friend is sad but don’t get her involved every time you need something to support your views.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha

Tell that to my friends kids who have a dead mother due to cheating

I don’t care about your friend... I am not your friend and wouldn’t want to be!

What happened to your friend is sad but don’t get her involved every time you need something to support your views.

"

Shows exactly what kind of man you are right there.

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over a year ago


"Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha

Tell that to my friends kids who have a dead mother due to cheating

I don’t care about your friend... I am not your friend and wouldn’t want to be!

What happened to your friend is sad but don’t get her involved every time you need something to support your views.

Shows exactly what kind of man you are right there. "

To lookingforgrace, that is rather insensitive and while I agree with you it could have been put very differently.

To Qadesh, I agree with your comment however similar to what people have said to him, when you post something publicly it becomes open season. Not saying it’s right, just how social media is unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often the people against married men comment, there are plenty of people who do meet married men playing away. There are some profiles which explicitly states “married men preferred”. Make of it what you will.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha

Tell that to my friends kids who have a dead mother due to cheating

I don’t care about your friend... I am not your friend and wouldn’t want to be!

What happened to your friend is sad but don’t get her involved every time you need something to support your views.

Shows exactly what kind of man you are right there.

To lookingforgrace, that is rather insensitive and while I agree with you it could have been put very differently.

To Qadesh, I agree with your comment however similar to what people have said to him, when you post something publicly it becomes open season. Not saying it’s right, just how social media is unfortunately. "

I wasn’t referring to me being upset at his comment - I was referring to the fact that someone doesn’t care that someone died as a result of a selfish man wanting casual sex shows the world the character of this man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I wasn’t referring to me being upset at his comment - I was referring to the fact that someone doesn’t care that someone died as a result of a selfish man wanting casual sex shows the world the character of this man. "

Ah fair enough, I agree with you too. Doesn’t do himself any favours.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s okay you don’t need to “ ...” to show your unperturbed unless of course, deep down, you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s okay you don’t need to “ ...” to show your unperturbed unless of course, deep down, you are "

You’re*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anyone else got 2pence to put in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married and she doesn't know. I'm open about it on here. Women fall into 2 camps 1 won't meet married men its drama or cheating 2 they don't care and like the fact we ain't clingy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married and she doesn't know. I'm open about it on here. Women fall into 2 camps 1 won't meet married men its drama or cheating 2 they don't care and like the fact we ain't clingy. "

The married man who lied about his marital status and proceeded to stalk me and threaten me when I found out was incredibly clingy.

So was the other married man who also lied and didn’t take rejection to tell and proceeded to get a new number to contact me daily when I blocked him.

Being married doesn’t stop one from being clingy.

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over a year ago


"I wasn’t referring to me being upset at his comment - I was referring to the fact that someone doesn’t care that someone died as a result of a selfish man wanting casual sex shows the world the character of this man. "

Suicide is an absolve horrible thing, and leaves destruction in its wake. In a lot of cases, there is no single reason, though one single reason on top of everything else can be enough to trip the switch.

Children growing up without a mother is tragic. However, in your friends case they are not growing up without a mother because their father cheated, but because their mother reacted to that in the way she did. It's not for nothing it was appended with "while the balance of their mind was disturbed".

I knew a woman from my childhood. She too took her own life, but only after she'd taken the lives of her two children before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn’t referring to me being upset at his comment - I was referring to the fact that someone doesn’t care that someone died as a result of a selfish man wanting casual sex shows the world the character of this man.

Suicide is an absolve horrible thing, and leaves destruction in its wake. In a lot of cases, there is no single reason, though one single reason on top of everything else can be enough to trip the switch.

Children growing up without a mother is tragic. However, in your friends case they are not growing up without a mother because their father cheated, but because their mother reacted to that in the way she did. It's not for nothing it was appended with "while the balance of their mind was disturbed".

I knew a woman from my childhood. She too took her own life, but only after she'd taken the lives of her two children before hand."

Well no, had the father not cheated it’s very likely the mother would still be here alive today.

Nobody knows the full reason however from what she has said it’s clearly a big contribution.

I think those who cheat and haven’t been on the receiving end deliberately make themselves ignorant to how it can impact someone’s mental health and confidence when they find out.

It stays with you forever and affects every single relationship, romantic or not.

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over a year ago


"I just think does it really matter if there is married men on here there are also married women who there partners don’t know but it always seems one rule for married men and another for women. Just an opinion. Not slating anyone.

We all have enough going on lately so we all need a get out from real life and interact with ppl doesn’t always have to be about sex ect

Cheating whatever gender one is is wrong and I think females may be worse for it. Sneaking around meeting people behind backs but they get found out in the end.

Divorce is expensive remember that folks "

Perhaps that's why they shag around. Because if they asked for a divorce and to move on like actual adults, they would have everything taken by the divorce lawyers.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I wasn’t referring to me being upset at his comment - I was referring to the fact that someone doesn’t care that someone died as a result of a selfish man wanting casual sex shows the world the character of this man.

Suicide is an absolve horrible thing, and leaves destruction in its wake. In a lot of cases, there is no single reason, though one single reason on top of everything else can be enough to trip the switch.

Children growing up without a mother is tragic. However, in your friends case they are not growing up without a mother because their father cheated, but because their mother reacted to that in the way she did. It's not for nothing it was appended with "while the balance of their mind was disturbed".

I knew a woman from my childhood. She too took her own life, but only after she'd taken the lives of her two children before hand."

The direct reaction to his fucking a woman in her bed was the catalyst I agree - still children without a mother due to infidelity. How can anyone justify hurting the person they profess to care more about than anyone else in this way just for a quick shag?

That analogy works by saying a man who was robbed of his life savings then took his own life - would anyone say this was not the reason? The fact that someone was so indescribably devastated proves how serious the act was - what a betrayal to have caused such a reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married and open about as stated in my profile. Tbh I’m pleasantly suprised at the amount of women in this thread that say they would meet

At the end of the day I don’t judge people on here and hope to be treated the same

If not for you just move on no drama xxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Haha I was expecting those answers but people getting worked out and starting on others?! They need a chill pill haha

Tell that to my friends kids who have a dead mother due to cheating

I don’t care about your friend... I am not your friend and wouldn’t want to be!

What happened to your friend is sad but don’t get her involved every time you need something to support your views.

"

Holy fuck dude.

Cheating ain't just cheating. It's lying, it's deception. In some cases people go so far as lying to the point they end up convincing their partner that they must be going crazy.

Thinking you're crazy, insane, that alone comes with other consequences. You think you're unstable, unsafe, a danger.

But then when you find out the truth, you're unsure what's true and what's not. Your life has been torn apart and you have no fucking idea how much of the last however many years was fake, lies, real and everything in between. You no longer know who you are, you know who you THOUGHT you were, but that was all bullshit. You feel worthless, you've nothing to offer. The pain isn't "just" mental anguish, it hurts physically too.

So please, don't deflect the fallout that happens more often than you may want to accept because it doesn't fit it with your narrative and fantasy

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over a year ago


"I wasn’t referring to me being upset at his comment - I was referring to the fact that someone doesn’t care that someone died as a result of a selfish man wanting casual sex shows the world the character of this man.

Suicide is an absolve horrible thing, and leaves destruction in its wake. In a lot of cases, there is no single reason, though one single reason on top of everything else can be enough to trip the switch.

Children growing up without a mother is tragic. However, in your friends case they are not growing up without a mother because their father cheated, but because their mother reacted to that in the way she did. It's not for nothing it was appended with "while the balance of their mind was disturbed".

I knew a woman from my childhood. She too took her own life, but only after she'd taken the lives of her two children before hand."

The issue with discussions like this, is that the formulation people will begin to contribute to will mostly be full of assumption.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s getting boring now...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It’s getting boring now... "

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

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over a year ago


" anyone else got 2pence to put in? "

If your partner picked up your phone while it was logged into your fab account and found out you were cheating how do you think she would feel / react?

Would she be the type of women who turned her anger just on you?

Or would she (like many women who have found evidence of cheating) turn her anger and blame towards the couple or single lady you have been meeting?

I know many swingers have been on the end of a world of shit because they slept with a married man and his wife found out. A couple we know well met a married man who lied that he was single. Thought nothing of it until the wife turned up on the door step kicking off. As she had got into his fab account she had the couples pictures, address etc. It esculated to the point the police got involved in the end.

Some women when they find out they have been cheated on less out at the person who slept with their husband. What would anyone who isn't cheating want to risk that happening to them?

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s getting boring now... "

What is getting boring?

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over a year ago


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?"

Of course not! You don’t know me so you can’t say!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

Of course not! You don’t know me so you can’t say!"

Cool, what would you do then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass them by, to much hassle if all goes wrong, let face it if they say they have permission it likely to be a lie. Plenty of unattached here.

Unfortunately for the guys who arnt lieing it's a bit tough but this place is full of tough many to check out all who may not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The direct reaction to his fucking a woman in her bed was the catalyst I agree - still children without a mother due to infidelity."

And in contrast, I know of a widowed father with two dead children because of his own infidelity. I'm not saying it didn't play a strong part in your friends decision, or condemning or bonding either way, but we cannot have a clear idea of what else was going on in either woman's mind at the time. It is utterly tragic, and I'm not making light of either situation, or the topic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

Of course not! You don’t know me so you can’t say!

Cool, what would you do then?"

Nothing- let them be!

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Married men more discreet so a yes from us x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

He’s just a troll simple as. "

Hes not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

He’s just a troll simple as.

Hes not."

That makes it even worse

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

He’s just a troll simple as.

Hes not.

That makes it even worse "

He asked a question like so many on here at least he's honest xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no problem meeting married men

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

Some specify married, as in some cases they are too and just want it to be no strings.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thing is op all threads by married men get heated. The best thing to do is put it on your profile and leave it. Those that dont want to meet married guys can just pass you by

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thing is op all threads by married men get heated. The best thing to do is put it on your profile and leave it. Those that dont want to meet married guys can just pass you by"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s getting boring now...

You don't like the truth.

Simple as that.

If it was your best mates wife cheating on him (assuming your best mate is a bloke) I'm willing to bet you'd be calling her a slag, saying she's taking the piss and he could do better, kick that dirty bitch out she doesn't deserve you and you don't deserve to be treated that way.

No?

He’s just a troll simple as.

Hes not.

That makes it even worse

He asked a question like so many on here at least he's honest xx"

I fee like his responses were purposefully provocative but that’s just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know "

Some preachers on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone would speak to/meet married men on here? Discreetly obviously as she doesn’t know

Some preachers on here "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wonder how many women/men ask the opposite sex their marital status when playing in a club?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i wouldn't as i totally disagree with cheating

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I wonder how many women/men ask the opposite sex their marital status when playing in a club? "

I have. I can tell if they are married.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Personally I would never meet with someone if I knew they were attached ans the partner didn't know. I've been on the other end of that.. Its not fun..

But funnily enough if he had have been honest we could have had alot of fun!! His loss!

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"I wonder how many women/men ask the opposite sex their marital status when playing in a club?

I have. I can tell if they are married. "

Most are in clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how many women/men ask the opposite sex their marital status when playing in a club? "

Not been in a club, but when I do, I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd only meet a married/attached person if they where playing with there partners consent, i don't want to get dragged into someone else's lies and deception

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By *abfunmale1Man
over a year ago

South Wales

In the same boat as OP

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I wonder how many women/men ask the opposite sex their marital status when playing in a club? "

I always ask & if I think they are not being honest then I don't play.

I'm not interested in married/spoken for men, unless I'm playing with them and their partner together. I've previously been the wife sat at home while her husband fucked around & lied about it, I would never want to inflict that pain on another woman.

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By *ickexeter2015Man
over a year ago

exeter

Hi I cannot message you as you have blocked all us horny men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow! I’ve missed so much in those 3days! Again ladies if this isn’t your thing don’t get too personal and leave people be! Don’t tell people what’s right and what’s wrong! So irritating!!

Cheating is wrong there is no ambiguity... it’s not ‘naughty’ or any other such euphemisms it’s dishonest and makes you a liar. That’s not opinion that’s fact. "

This is perfectly right.

Wouldn’t it be great if they got caught, then the unsuspecting partner gets to make an informed choice.

We have witnessed serial cheaters getting caught.

They cried like babies when their partner left them.

Served the cheating arseholes right.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Wow! I’ve missed so much in those 3days! Again ladies if this isn’t your thing don’t get too personal and leave people be! Don’t tell people what’s right and what’s wrong! So irritating!!

Cheating is wrong there is no ambiguity... it’s not ‘naughty’ or any other such euphemisms it’s dishonest and makes you a liar. That’s not opinion that’s fact.

This is perfectly right.

Wouldn’t it be great if they got caught, then the unsuspecting partner gets to make an informed choice.

We have witnessed serial cheaters getting caught.

They cried like babies when their partner left them.

Served the cheating arseholes right."

Yup ... totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the judgments from people here. Who made them the morality police? If it doesn't impact you directly, why is it your concern?

I've learnt in life that its good to walk a mile in somebodies shoes before judging them, but better yet not to judge at all.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I love the judgments from people here. Who made them the morality police? If it doesn't impact you directly, why is it your concern?

I've learnt in life that its good to walk a mile in somebodies shoes before judging them, but better yet not to judge at all."

Playing in an ethically non monogamous relationship all good. Deceiving someone while they’re at home with the kids while you shag a random stranger all bad. Don’t you think to be that heartless and callous it means that person isn’t a decent person? Let’s be honest who wants to shag a liar and a cheat? If they can’t even be honest with their spouse what hope so you have of them being decent and honest to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If they can’t even be honest with their spouse what hope so you have of them being decent and honest to you. "

I'm not disputing your point or position, but the distinction here is if someone is upfront about their status.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


" If they can’t even be honest with their spouse what hope so you have of them being decent and honest to you.

I'm not disputing your point or position, but the distinction here is if someone is upfront about their status."

They’re not up front about their status to their spouse so still a liar

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By *1011Woman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Won't do it, there's enough single men about to not need to have sex with a married man who can't be honest with his wife.

I won't step on someone's else's toes or play any part in possibly causing any upset to another women.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I love the judgments from people here. Who made them the morality police? If it doesn't impact you directly, why is it your concern?

I've learnt in life that its good to walk a mile in somebodies shoes before judging them, but better yet not to judge at all.

Playing in an ethically non monogamous relationship all good. Deceiving someone while they’re at home with the kids while you shag a random stranger all bad. Don’t you think to be that heartless and callous it means that person isn’t a decent person? Let’s be honest who wants to shag a liar and a cheat? If they can’t even be honest with their spouse what hope so you have of them being decent and honest to you. "

This!!

I also hate the whole “morality police” argument or “don’t judge”.

I can’t think of any reason, at all, in the world, why it would be ok to be deceitful and hurtful on purpose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the judgments from people here. Who made them the morality police? If it doesn't impact you directly, why is it your concern?

I've learnt in life that its good to walk a mile in somebodies shoes before judging them, but better yet not to judge at all."

If you meet somone of course it impacts them directly, if a person chooses to cheat on there wife or husband then the person they are cheating with is involved.... The question was would you sleep with a married person and its not judgmental to say no, and being open about your status doesnt mean that that makes it all okay... There is still an eliment of deception going on and there is no way you can guarantee 100% the spouse would not find out and the person you've cheeted with then ends up embroiled in your family drama and living with the potential guilt of knowing they are part of the reason a marriage has broken down.... Its not unreasonable for somone not to want to risk that, it doenst make them the morality police, probably just me as thay hate drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet married or attached x"

It's taboo sex for most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving all the married cheats saying it's OK as they are open and honest about being attached. Shame you're not so open and honest with your wives about what you get up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the judgments from people here. Who made them the morality police? If it doesn't impact you directly, why is it your concern?

I've learnt in life that its good to walk a mile in somebodies shoes before judging them, but better yet not to judge at all."

Who is making judgements??

In what circumstances is it ok to be dishonest and cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married and she dont know I am on here but to me I am only chatting and yes I have found some good friends here and they don’t judge me what so ever. Been off and on here over 5yrs. Yes I have met one woman and we were close for almost 4 yrs. she was married also. I thought she wanted me but turned out she wanted something else she hid from me and I was willing to leave it all behind to be with her but good job I didn’t in the end when u find things out.

Not sure that was relevant to blast out just what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m married and she dont know I am on here but to me I am only chatting and yes I have found some good friends here and they don’t judge me what so ever. Been off and on here over 5yrs. Yes I have met one woman and we were close for almost 4 yrs. she was married also. I thought she wanted me but turned out she wanted something else she hid from me and I was willing to leave it all behind to be with her but good job I didn’t in the end when u find things out.

Not sure that was relevant to blast out just what I was thinking "

Sounds like you need to leave your wife....maybe she's on another site just chatting to men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Loving all the married cheats saying it's OK as they are open and honest about being attached. Shame you're not so open and honest with your wives about what you get up to. "

Exactly ..... makes me laugh fab profile -‘honest and genuine man’ .... real quality - apart from to the one person who you declared in a legally binding agreement to honour and love. To her you lie scheme and cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I’m ok now I have learnt my lesson not to fall for the trap. Just here to chat with friends and have banter. No harm in that

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"[Removed by poster at 10/02/21 11:05:45]"

Too late .... if you’ve been that far why go back to the wife? You’ve already proved you don’t love her by almost leaving the only thing that stopped you is the other person changed their mind. Wasting both yours and your wife’s lives.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Nah I’m ok now I have learnt my lesson not to fall for the trap. Just here to chat with friends and have banter. No harm in that "

your profile states NSA fun ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what most ppl put don’t they

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"That’s what most ppl put don’t they "

No ... I like to think most people put the truth. NSA fun means meets but you state you’re only looking to chat - one is lies. Which one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what ur saying take off nsa and just leave chat.

Only saying for advice not being a dick

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Most our threesomes or fun wife has are at club we don’t interrogate when having fun chat , a few have let it slip , same goes for a few women letting slip they are married . But what goes on in club stays in club, been swinging 12 years now and there are a hell of a lot on here who play with and without their partners knowledge, even me and my wife have , but we now realise playing with permition is just as horny , better sex after without betrayal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just find it’s always one rule for married women to be on here and another for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many opinionated people! "

is A forum not where you air an opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it’s always one rule for married women to be on here and another for men.

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Is there a rule book for affairs of the heart?

The eternal triangle ( or in fabs case pentangle!) is an eternal conundrum. Why stay with someone if you are in love with another is a vexed question. Can you love someone and secretly be intimate with another? Is the affect of causing family disruption greater than coming clean?

Those who do engage in extra marital affairs could be described as having their cake and eating it.

Very complex and confusing situation to be in. One I will never understand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer married men

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what ur saying take off nsa and just leave chat.

Only saying for advice not being a dick "

Not getting involved with the rights or wrongs but why can't people (male and female)just put single or attached/married.. it does save a lot of time if we're looking rather than try to read between the lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what ur saying take off nsa and just leave chat.

Only saying for advice not being a dick

Not getting involved with the rights or wrongs but why can't people (male and female)just put single or attached/married.. it does save a lot of time if we're looking rather than try to read between the lines."

Yes. What pisses me off is when you start to suspect that they are married so ask them, which they confirm and then get shitty because you say no thanks and even blame you for wasting their time by it asking them sooner

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"So what ur saying take off nsa and just leave chat.

Only saying for advice not being a dick "

Ha yes!!!! Married man looking to chat ...... that’s what you are. Not a single bloke looking for NSA sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what ur saying take off nsa and just leave chat.

Only saying for advice not being a dick

Not getting involved with the rights or wrongs but why can't people (male and female)just put single or attached/married.. it does save a lot of time if we're looking rather than try to read between the lines.

Yes. What pisses me off is when you start to suspect that they are married so ask them, which they confirm and then get shitty because you say no thanks and even blame you for wasting their time by it asking them sooner "

We read a profile and rightly or wrongly if it doesn't mention being single or it says can't accommodate we assume they are married/attached.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"So what ur saying take off nsa and just leave chat.

Only saying for advice not being a dick

Not getting involved with the rights or wrongs but why can't people (male and female)just put single or attached/married.. it does save a lot of time if we're looking rather than try to read between the lines.

Yes. What pisses me off is when you start to suspect that they are married so ask them, which they confirm and then get shitty because you say no thanks and even blame you for wasting their time by it asking them sooner "

Omg hell yes!!!!!! Just this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We prefer married men

Xx"

And you have no qualms about the overall family situation?

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