FabSwingers.com forum: Private House Parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I really like the idea of attending private house parties. As a couple do you host them and would you invite a single guy to yours?? I find that a lot of these parties are only for couples and single ladies??

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys."

Just guys wanking on a Ford Focus

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

"So I really like the idea of attending private house parties. As a couple do you host them and would you invite a single guy to yours?? I find that a lot of these parties are only for couples and single ladies??"
I have gone to a few house party and hosted some with my fb and there are never any single guys there

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

I've hosted private parties and have always invited at least 5 single guys. I tend to find that the single ladies want to play with single guys and surprisingly some couples too. Bare in mind the party will have about 20 couples and 7 to 8 single ladies, so it's about ratio.

Any other couples and single ladies private parties that are smaller (that I've attended) will have 1 or 2 single guys.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys.

Just guys wanking on a Ford Focus"

Yeah pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single female I only attend parties if at least a couple of single guys are going to be there

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Guess you need to find a lady then!

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"As a single female I only attend parties if at least a couple of single guys are going to be there

Case in point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a shame that when people hold parties that they don't invite at least a couple of men..single females get invited.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Personally I've not attended a house party but assume as long as there's not too many single guys like clubs keep the ratios it would be ok.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

If we were attending a party as a couple I would be quite happy for there to be one or two single men.

I would imagine it's more about having the right single men. I would hope the hosts would choose men that they knew and who would know how to behave appropriately.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"If we were attending a party as a couple I would be quite happy for there to be one or two single men.

I would imagine it's more about having the right single men. I would hope the hosts would choose men that they knew and who would know how to behave appropriately.

Kx"

The great thing about private parties, hosts can vet the single guys

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By *winger coupleCouple
over a year ago

Reading Berkshire

We have been to few never seen single guys only couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve held a few house parties with a female friend of mine ...we’ve invited couples ...ladies ....and guys with great success ..we just limited the amount of single guys and single ladies only having 5 of each ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre covid,we would attend house parties at least once a month(no club's here in Belfast) and most hosts would always have one or two single guys per party, depending on numbers attending

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By *endulum 20Couple
over a year ago

sandy

we host 4/5 parties a year normally(obviously not since pandemic started

in general there are around 40 people in attendance mostly couples with maybe 2/3 single guys that are either known to us and verified or vouched for and verified by good friends

also we like to have a couple of single females but this can prove difficult sometimes

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Whilst I much prefer clubs, the group i party with always have single men too. Couples and single females

and pre covid, easily once a month get together if not more

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would only want to go if single guys were welcome too.

I found the couples dynamic often more difficult because it's more people who will have to be attracted to each other.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

We would love to get into the party scene when things change.

Invites welcome

xxxxxx

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Personally I've not attended a house party but assume as long as there's not too many single guys like clubs keep the ratios it would be ok."

I only go to events at clubs, guest list and single guys kept in ratio. Always been plenty of single men but never over powering.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We had so called "House Parties/socials" and tried it always and allowed single males ( select few) and had far more hassle from couples and a single fem ?? as our understanding of "Social" seems to be different !

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

The party I went too had 8 couples, 2 single ladies and 4 single guys who were invited into a play scenario so that any taking part was down to the couples or single ladies

It worked really well and was a great night because none of us single guys tried to just barge into play so the fun we got was wanted by all

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"The party I went too had 8 couples, 2 single ladies and 4 single guys who were invited into a play scenario so that any taking part was down to the couples or single ladies

It worked really well and was a great night because none of us single guys tried to just barge into play so the fun we got was wanted by all "

How can you be bothered with it all being planned out lol!

I’d much rather just turn up and see what happens ha!

Hate the fact single guys get a bad rep on here like they can’t control themselves or something haha

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Us guys were just invited by whoever so not exactly planned the end of the night everyone knew everyone so it all ended up totally unplanned

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Our house parties have always been couples only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys."

To be fair I thought that's exactly what a digging scene was, it's name even suggests that.

As far as house parties and some clubs go surely its up to the organisers whom they invite is it not?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys.

To be fair I thought that's exactly what a digging scene was, it's name even suggests that.

As far as house parties and some clubs go surely its up to the organisers whom they invite is it not?"

Yup exactly.

As long as the hosts are clear about what to expect people can decide for themselves

Good club hosts makes sure there’s a fair balance of all to try and please everyone.

Private parties, well it’s the hosts house (usually) so invite who you’d like

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We have organised a few party's and always invited a trusted single man or two

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By *endulum 20Couple
over a year ago

sandy

at the end of the day you are inviting people into your house

so its good to know who is attending plus it helps as hosts so you know certain people will mix with others and you create a nice atmosphere

never any gaurantees of anything else thats up to the individuals

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Have been to a few house partys and there have been single guys there but only because host or couples attending have met them previously at club or a meet and knew they could be trusted .

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I go to quite a few house parties and also help host them. These parties are mostly for single males and females. If it was all couples i would not go. Never had any hassle from single males as all have been well behaved and fantastic company.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I go to quite a few house parties and also help host them. These parties are mostly for single males and females. If it was all couples i would not go. Never had any hassle from single males as all have been well behaved and fantastic company."

I only meet single men on my own, the whole “can they be trusted” vibe really winds me up!

They are single men not untrustworthy animals haha!

Can’t decide if I’m just lucky and had no bad experience or people genuinely believe they are more untrustworthy because they are single lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre-lockdown days Our monthly parties usually consists of 3 regular couples (each taking turns to host),1 regular single male (taking a turn to host), 1 invited couple, 1 invited single female 1 invited single Bi-male and sometimes an invited TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys."

Same for us. We want to attend house parties but only with cpls and single fems. Seen how guys act at a few swinger house parties. Most do not respect boundries and try to push for more. Saw one girl walk out as she had 5guys all over her. She was playing with a guy and another 4 guys thought it would be ok to just come over and touch her and stick their cocks in her face. Those 4 guys got booted out after she left.

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By *bsolutePartiesCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

We host parties but have a membership based system for single guys to out the time wasters and dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We host parties but have a membership based system for single guys to out the time wasters and dreamers. "

We like the club and party scene.

So much choice and fun.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have hosted parties. I have had couples and singles (of all genders and sexualities) It’s about knowing your audience and ensuring everyone is aware the sort of vibe you’re shooting for.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lived in Malvern....previous profile was "nobbynobbs" I held frequent parties....I specifically invited a number of regulars...who I knew would keep things swinging. I also ensured I invited some newbies...everyone needs a chance.

I also invited a few single guys...whom I "vetted" first....but tried to keep numbers even....

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I wouldn't attend a couples only party.

I'm not prepared to 'faux couple up' for clubs or parties either.

Being single, man or woman isn't a sin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys.

At the end of the day it's the host who vets and invites whether guys, ladies or couples. It's in their interest to keep everyone happy.

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By *an.thisMan
over a year ago

Torbay & Bournemouth

"So I really like the idea of attending private house parties. As a couple do you host them and would you invite a single guy to yours?? I find that a lot of these parties are only for couples and single ladies?? I have gone to a few house party and hosted some with my fb and there are never any single guys there "

Well I think it’s about time we changed that I can invite well behaved single me if you arrange the couples !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) have been to a few parties, there were couples, a few single ladies and a few choice guys.

Guys that had been recommended by other trusted guests.

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I have been invited to a number of house parties, where other select single guys are present. Its about respecting the people there and joining the fun when invited or approprieate and not swamping a lady who wants to play. Its also good to have lots of stamina, know how to use soap and be able to hold a conversation. I also attended a few couples only party as the only male as a naked waiter.

Any parties in East Midland please say hello xx

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Been to a one party. Host got smashed, too much drink and it was awful. It was all couples. Certainly for variation and balance singles guys and ladies would be ideal.

We are hoping that the next party is better... We need an invite!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys."
Exactly this.

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By *oeBlack4Man
over a year ago

cambridge

I have been to a three house parties. Of the three two were limited number but well balanced out with couples and single men and women and were truly an evening to remember for a long time.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We went to one at a country house a few years ago, invite only. Lives long in the memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to a few house parties and always enjoyed them.

Some can be very sociable and others very naughty.

Usually by 1030pm upstairs is full and in some rooms a mass of naked bodies everywhere.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

"We would only go to house party/club if it was only couples or it would just end up a Sausage fest. When we've checked out the dogging scene 99% of the time it's just guys.

We think a party is only as good as its hosts, we only hold party's for fun and never ask anyone for cash, (in lots of case's people stay over and Mrs C cooks a mean breakfast) we only invite 1 or 2 single men that we know can follow the simple swinging rules. Ie we have met them in clubs or at other party's and have seen how they conduct themselves around others. We also alway invite a few new couples to keep things interesting. We are really looking forward to organising more and making new frinds and seeing old ones again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best parties I've attended keep the 'odd numbers' to a minimum. Couples and matched numbers of singles with an extra guy. Despite the best efforts of porn, an extra cock usually works better than an extra beaver!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to a couple of private parties..one absolutely fantastic the other a disappointment..all depends on the organisation..

Definitely looking to expand this type of fun though when restrictions are lifted

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