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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. " In his hotel room I should be so lucky I usually end up paying | |||
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"As if they made you pay " Are you implying what i said isnt true? | |||
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"So you'd be willing to put a woman at risk?" Not during these times no. | |||
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"Read our veris " Very nice! And I know OP asked women, but I have had meets where the woman or couple have come to my hotel room... it does happen! | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. In his hotel room I should be so lucky I usually end up paying" . [qoute]. That’s just bad manners and no respect for you. It’s not right you had to pay for the room what a twat doing that to you I would never do that [\qoute ] | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. In his hotel room I should be so lucky I usually end up paying. [qoute]. That’s just bad manners and no respect for you. It’s not right you had to pay for the room what a twat doing that to you I would never do that [\qoute ]" Thats lovely But ive heard it all before Many times | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. it's either 50/50 or if I'm there with work, I (work) pay In his hotel room I should be so lucky I usually end up paying" | |||
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"How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. " None. But we might have invited people to our hotel room | |||
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"We have stayed over in nice hotels and invited fab people to have a saucy hour or 3 ....what goes on in the hotel stays there ... " Not done a hotel meet is so long, do they still give extra sheets for the bed | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. " I travel a lot working so stop in hotels regularly. I have met couple's but never a single woman. | |||
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"We discovered the joys of meeting Fab friends in a hotel just before lockdown..kicking ourselves for spending years not trying and now we sit here frustrated waiting to thoroughly get to grips with hotel meets " | |||
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"As if they made you pay Are you implying what i said isnt true?" I think he meant, cheap bleeps making you pay for it all rather than themselves or at very least split the cost hun | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. In his hotel room I should be so lucky I usually end up paying" You’re picking the wrong guys. | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. " All the time. I only meet in hotels or clubs | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. In his hotel room I should be so lucky I usually end up paying" 50-50 is good, or hotel room in exchange for sex food can work. Obviously I accept tips for my performance which are counted separately | |||
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"I have arranged many hotel meets over the years through Fab, and other sites, but I’ve never had anyone visit me in a hotel while I’ve been working away. I’ve stayed in Liverpool and Birmingham several times, in quality hotels, but never been fortunate to find any local Fabsters to join me. The Polar Opposite to couples visiting the Lakes and sending me booty calls at 1am lol......" Probably because of your profile. | |||
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"Always met in the bar first...would never head straight to his room " Thats a good sensible approach | |||
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"Always met in the bar first...would never head straight to his room Thats a good sensible approach " And even then there would be no guarantee for play. | |||
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"Always met in the bar first...would never head straight to his room Thats a good sensible approach And even then there would be no guarantee for play." I agree if the connection ain't there what's the point. | |||
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"I have arranged many hotel meets over the years through Fab, and other sites, but I’ve never had anyone visit me in a hotel while I’ve been working away. I’ve stayed in Liverpool and Birmingham several times, in quality hotels, but never been fortunate to find any local Fabsters to join me. The Polar Opposite to couples visiting the Lakes and sending me booty calls at 1am lol...... Probably because of your profile." How do you mean “because of your profile”? I just figured Liverpool and Birmingham only have gay men looking to meet....... | |||
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"I've had plenty of hotel meets. I much prefer them. Never have I just gone to a complete stranger's hotel room though. Way too much pressure! They could look nothing like their pics, or there could be no attraction. I've met guy's in their hotel bar or nearby for a social. All being well, back to their hotel room " Very lucky guys | |||
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"I've had plenty of offers to do it, just not taken them up on it cause of the current situation going on " Tbh the situation does not help at all, I think it would be impossible there someone still at the front desk etc and atm it's may just workmen here so a nice ladie or couple just walking in mite seem a little suspect | |||
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"Yes a few times met someone after pic swapping and a brief chat when I got there I had to make a excuse to leave Another time I did a random hotel meet I had seen his pic before but when I got there it was a lot smaller than expected and another time I went after being out and having a few drinks it was ok but when I started to sober I didn't see him the same and when I left blocked him lol so I wouldn't recommend it but there has been some good experiences also so don't been to put off haha" You have hotel dimension size requirements? As if things aren't tricky enough already! | |||
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"Mrs Vicdar has done this many times. She goes to the guys room wearing a coat and not much underneath!! " Lucky guys | |||
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"I've stayed in a luxury hotel in Belgium who cater for people who like overnight play dates.. " How does a hotel cater for an overnight play date,differ from any other overnight stay ? | |||
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"Maybe mirrored ceilings and a sex swing and queening stool in every room ? " Not sure what a queening stool is,but certainly love the idea of a room with a sex swing | |||
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"I enjoy a hotel meet/date. Often use for my first meets. There's a certain thrill to playing in a hotel. " Totally agree with this. It makes for a fantastic night out with a couple or lady. I miss hotel meets! I had a great meet with a couple where we had drinks in the bar then the wife and I went up to my room. Shortly after the husband let himself in to find us in a 69 on the bed. He quite enjoyed that scenario and so did we! | |||
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"We don’t mind this at all. Especially if it’s a ‘blind’ meet where we’ve not had a social drink some time beforehand. If the guys already in the room and is staying there anyway, then there are hard feelings if we decide he’s not for us and walk away without playing. " Guys surely you are not turning up for a meet without establishing beforehand that they are right for you ?!! | |||
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"We don’t mind this at all. Especially if it’s a ‘blind’ meet where we’ve not had a social drink some time beforehand. If the guys already in the room and is staying there anyway, then there are hard feelings if we decide he’s not for us and walk away without playing. " Very true should not be any hard feelings. After all at the end of the day it is a social..and respect the decision.. | |||
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"Yeh we have done this. Blind date, hels went to the given room number while I waited at the bar" that sounds amazing | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. " I have he was here on business | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. I have he was here on business " Naughty | |||
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"I've stayed in a luxury hotel in Belgium who cater for people who like overnight play dates.. How does a hotel cater for an overnight play date,differ from any other overnight stay ?" Oh the bedrooms are very different | |||
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck Prostitutionbways No thanks More like tacky" It’s never a quick fuck if we are meeting it’s for the evening and we stay in a nice hotel where we can enjoy other things like swimming, sauna, jacuzzi and a big breakfast. Really don’t see how it can be classed as a form of prostitution, if it is then isn’t going out for dinner with someone before going back to their/your place for sex the same? | |||
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck Prostitutionbways No thanks More like tacky" I use day rate hotels (in normal times) on a regular basis, to spend time with my Fabster friends. You get a room from 9am to 5pm, which includes the use of their leisure facilities, so you can sauna, swim, and jacuzzi. You can enjoy a relaxed day of intimate fun over a few hours, share lunch etc. I’ve done similar on Friday nights aswell, you don’t have to stay over....... | |||
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"We have arranged a hotel meet before with a certain person who is still on this site, lots of messaging back and forth until a few hours before the meet then a no show, needless to say our blocked list received another member and we vowed not to do hotel meets again unless we’ve already met previously. You live and learn" Don't let one numbnut put you off having hotel fun. We have had some great hotel meets over the years(vids uploaded today of a meet in the past shows that ) And yes we have had disappointments One guy we had been chatting to for some time arranged to meet us in his hotel room,couple of years back.We did our usual checks,what hotel you in?what's your room number? We then phone hotel reception n ask to put through to the room,just to be sure he's where he says he is. Anyway,all good,send him a text,say we are on our way,get to hotel we phone to say we are here,no answer,phone the room,no response. Thought maybe in the shower or whatever? We wait 40 minutes before we get really pissed off n go home,raging. 3 hours later the lying cheeky fker texts to say he fell asleep n would we like to come now That cheeky fker still messages from time to time asking for another chance? | |||
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"I’ve done this lots - I’ve had plenty of women insist on a hotel actually as more private/discreet and safer due to the need to book etc And I always pay - some men are shockingly tight!" Or they don’t want it appearing on their credit card bill? | |||
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"We have arranged a hotel meet before with a certain person who is still on this site, lots of messaging back and forth until a few hours before the meet then a no show, needless to say our blocked list received another member and we vowed not to do hotel meets again unless we’ve already met previously. You live and learn" I’ve only had one of my lady friends cancel on me, but fortunately another of my friends had also been cancelled on for the same night, so we teamed up for the best mutual ‘Plan b’ ever Personally, I’ve found couples to be the most unreliable for hotel meets, so only consider visiting them at their home now, unless I’ve met them previously, so know for sure they are genuine | |||
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"I've had some great meets when couples have come to my hotel, and when I've gone to there's" | |||
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck Prostitutionbways No thanks More like tacky" My fucks are never quick Some people don't like meeting at home because they have grown up kids who may pop home, nosy neighbours or just like to keep Fab and their personal lives separate. I love nothing more than making a night of it in a gorgeous hotel room with a hot, attentive guy (who I know and trust). Huge bath or hot tub, breakfast in bed the next day, no interruptions. A regular meet of mine off here took me to the most beautiful Hotel in the Lake District one year for my Birthday. FAR from tacky | |||
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck Prostitutionbways No thanks More like tacky My fucks are never quick Some people don't like meeting at home because they have grown up kids who may pop home, nosy neighbours or just like to keep Fab and their personal lives separate. I love nothing more than making a night of it in a gorgeous hotel room with a hot, attentive guy (who I know and trust). Huge bath or hot tub, breakfast in bed the next day, no interruptions. A regular meet of mine off here took me to the most beautiful Hotel in the Lake District one year for my Birthday. FAR from tacky " Well who ever is getting the chance to meet you should defo be making the most of the time they get with you | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. " Absolutely no way.....not safe.... | |||
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck Prostitutionbways No thanks More like tacky My fucks are never quick Mind u she had slept about do Some people don't like meeting at home because they have grown up kids who may pop home, nosy neighbours or just like to keep Fab and their personal lives separate. I love nothing more than making a night of it in a gorgeous hotel room with a hot, attentive guy (who I know and trust). Huge bath or hot tub, breakfast in bed the next day, no interruptions. A regular meet of mine off here took me to the most beautiful Hotel in the Lake District one year for my Birthday. FAR from tacky Well who ever is getting the chance to meet you should defo be making the most of the time they get with you " | |||
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" Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb. How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. Absolutely no way.....not safe...." | |||
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"Have done a few hotel meets pre-covid, but have always done a social meet in a public place first. I wouldn’t expect a lady to insist on anything less unless they were trained in martial arts or a serial killer, and even then ... " I really should start doing socials and stop meeting in nice hotels haha | |||
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"I've had several hotel meets, but 2 really good ones. One where they came to my hotel after several days of chat and planning. The other I went to there's. This was a right place right time, about an hour chat and i drove 10 minutes to their hotel. Perfect" I wonder if that's us? took my wife to this man's hotel,she had a great time as did I watching,we had met at ours before,so knew him well,but my wife decided it would be horny to meet in the bar then back to his room. | |||
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