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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking to introduce my wife to the scene , but don’t want to take her to a club when they reopen and scare her off, was wondering is there any hotels or health spa that has a swinging vibe that is not to much in your face .

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (and regular stays in Staffs)

If she's nervous or not sure, you certainly do need to be careful how you handle it. There are many clubs where you can go socially and without the need to play or undress so she can get an idea of what to expect. Perhaps a naturist hotel (non swinging) where she can get used to the idea of being naked in front of others without the concern of being approached. All depends what you are looking for really, spa/sauna type clubs or the type that are more pub/club biased.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s a good idea naturist hotel

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

BGHS in Brighton is your best bet. Naturist spa with no playing in the spa area. You can go upstairs if you want to introduce your wife to playing as a voyeur or just keep it to yourselves and watch and be watched without interacting with others. Go on a couples night, ie the weekend and you will be free to explore without being pestered or followed by unwanted men. She ought to find it liberating and relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I’ll look at that

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Gatwick

Seconding BGHS. I want to take my husband as soon as they are open again.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Would also recommend BGHS. Brighton is our favourite weekend away usually 3 or 4 times a year because of this place. As previously said it is a spa but has the option of playing upstairs. Also upstairs is a deck where you can sunbathe nude in nice weather

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Is there anything like this in the NW ?

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire (and regular stays in Staffs)


"Would also recommend BGHS. Brighton is our favourite weekend away usually 3 or 4 times a year because of this place. As previously said it is a spa but has the option of playing upstairs. Also upstairs is a deck where you can sunbathe nude in nice weather"

Want aware of this place, just looked it up, it looks fantastic.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Could try one of the organised socials, just lots of couples and singles having a drink and getting to know each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could try one of the organised socials, just lots of couples and singles having a drink and getting to know each other "
Not for our first time thanks

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Is she even aware your on fab an bi ? Might end up more of a shock to her if you bumped into a naked bi guy you had met

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is she even aware your on fab an bi ? Might end up more of a shock to her if you bumped into a naked bi guy you had met "
yes she’s always known I’m bi I don’t fuck anyone prob 2:3 a year always safe but thanks for the concern

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There's nothing to be scared of from clubs, they're certainly not "in your face". We get the impression some who haven't been to a club think it's just a mass orgy inside, that's not the case. An organised social sounds good. We've never been to one, we love the music and the dance floor too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree with the Bristol Gardens fans. It's well run, so that any sex goes on in restrooms, open areas and a mirrored stage on one floor. The rest of the place is just a very attractive health spa with hot pools, saunas, steam rooms, jacuzzi and a small swimming pool. There's no membership, and if you go on a Saturday or Sunday you can enjoy the single guys, until they get kicked out in late afternoon after which it's couples only. It's near the naturist beach, so it's possible to catch some sun before you go.

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Lingfield


"BGHS in Brighton is your best bet. Naturist spa with no playing in the spa area. You can go upstairs if you want to introduce your wife to playing as a voyeur or just keep it to yourselves and watch and be watched without interacting with others. Go on a couples night, ie the weekend and you will be free to explore without being pestered or followed by unwanted men. She ought to find it liberating and relaxing. "

Yep I’d agree, chilled and not too full on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks seems Brighton here we come , well when we allowed out our front doors again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My local club (Townhouse) had a couple of midweek club nights every month. One being a pub style night (free entry), with a quiz. The other being Live Lounge, music and entertainment. The entire ground floor you could remain fully clothed or use the spa area. Of if you wanted to dress down, you could head upstairs. Both were always full of newbies as well as friendly regulars. A great introduction to clubs.

Obviously there's no certainty of how clubs will operate when they are allowed to open. But have a little look on your local clubs online. Or on here when the Club section is opened up again. Most clubs have a variety of different events

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Would also recommend BGHS. Brighton is our favourite weekend away usually 3 or 4 times a year because of this place. As previously said it is a spa but has the option of playing upstairs. Also upstairs is a deck where you can sunbathe nude in nice weather

Want aware of this place, just looked it up, it looks fantastic."

It is a long way for us travelling from the North of Scotland but well worth it.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

BGHS is definitely our recommendation as well for what you are looking for.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

BGHS will be perfect.

So easy to enjoy the naked spa experience without even a hint of swinging.

Walk through the door to the playrooms though and you can introduce her slowly.

Mirrored room is fun to watch or be watched in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BGHS will be perfect.

So easy to enjoy the naked spa experience without even a hint of swinging.

Walk through the door to the playrooms though and you can introduce her slowly.

Mirrored room is fun to watch or be watched in.

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Thanks for the tips

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You do need to be very careful. I can think of many clubs that would scare a newbie off for life.

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By *isandhers691127Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

The mirrored room is one of our favourites, can't wait for it to open again. Very chilled in the spa and hot and horny upstairs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments , esp the private ones ,they were all very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the comments , esp the private ones ,they were all very helpful "

Silverleigh next to brands hatch . Nice and easy . Not to far ..

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