FabSwingers.com forum: Are any older women interested in 20 something men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been on this site for a while looking for an older woman to meet up with but I’m yet to find anyone interested in guys under 25, is anyone on this site interested in guys much younger than them?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

There are some. I remember a woman I her late forties who dated an 18 year old for a bit. I'm general though they are quite rare.

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

I think the answer is in the question. Saying you are looking for older or mature women doesn't make a women feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of your age op I personally think that you and indeed anyone will struggle to get a meet at this present time and for rather a long time but keep the faith youngling!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm sure there are some women that prefer younger men OP. As previously stated, no one should currently be meeting. Good luck for the future though. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the answer is in the question. Saying you are looking for older or mature women doesn't make a women feel good "

Just out of interest, why not?

My preference is generally for women that are older than me. I have the age range on my profile.

Of course, there are exceptions, but I do have this preference. I'm not sure why it should make a women feel bad about herself, if a younger man is interested in her.

Also, worth pointing out that *generally* women prefer older men.

Should this younger chap feel bad because older women aren't interested in him? If indeed they are not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But OP you don't want older then 55!!!! Lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not me personally, age is more than a number to me,

When things are back to normal maybe look for cougar/cub nights at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im too young looking tbh lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I think the answer is in the question. Saying you are looking for older or mature women doesn't make a women feel good

Just out of interest, why not?

My preference is generally for women that are older than me. I have the age range on my profile.

Of course, there are exceptions, but I do have this preference. I'm not sure why it should make a women feel bad about herself, if a younger man is interested in her.

Also, worth pointing out that *generally* women prefer older men.

Should this younger chap feel bad because older women aren't interested in him? If indeed they are not..."

I'm not bothered about being described as older or mature. I genuinely prefer that to being called a girl and I *am* older than lots of people on here.

There is absolutely nothing I can do about my age and it's nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of.

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Oh dear, i am outside your age range, so you really mean, a younger woman!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oh dear, i am outside your age range, so you really mean, a younger woman!!"

No, he doesn't. 55 is much older than him.

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

I think you misunderstood. Many women are sensitive about their age. Teens want to look like they are 20 somthing, 40s want to look in their 30s/20s etc, some are happy with their age and looking their age. The point being is, best not to focus on the age when messaging initially as it can be a turn off pointing out to some women just how old they are compared to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been on this site for a while looking for an older woman to meet up with but I’m yet to find anyone interested in guys under 25, is anyone on this site interested in guys much younger than them? "

What you have found is how it is.

Very very rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make it clear what you want, but what isn't so clear is what experience you bring to the party.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"But OP you don't want older then 55!!!! Lol"

He's only 22!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd either scare the life out of a younger guy or he'd never want younger women again lol

Good luck op

L x

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By *ounglad7Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'd either scare the life out of a younger guy or he'd never want younger women again lol

Good luck op

L x"

Definitely the latter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve struggled to find this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd either scare the life out of a younger guy or he'd never want younger women again lol

Good luck op

L x

Definitely the latter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a peek

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By *amillMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I’ll be honest, it’s all about how you approach the situation and women in general. Stop focusing on their age and making it about that, you need to show respect to them.

Women aren’t going to be interested if you just bosses over their age, treat them as you would someone your own age and I’m sure you’ll have much more success.

I’ve met ‘older’ women and chatted to a few on here, so there are definitely women who are interested in younger guys. It’s like the old saying, act your age not your shoe size

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

Find when they message they think they are doing you a favour

The word mature makes us think of cheese

All about attraction but generally too big an age gap means convo etc very stilted

Cultural reference etc

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By *otwife Lilith and LeoCouple
over a year ago

NW London

Have a look at my profile, I only meet men in their twenties, but very few tick all my boxes or actually read what it says. I’m comfortable with men half my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely some

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Too young for me but guess until i met them i can not really say. I had a very good fab friend who i met at a party who was 34. Very mature and great fun.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

I used to be a supply teacher. I taught in lots of schools. I don't meet men in their 20s cos it's possible I taught them at some point and that would just be weird.

So that's my reason!

Tbh I'd quite like to meet a bloke in his 20s if I could!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

My last meet was 24. Fun but was too young. So only 27 and over now

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

At once or 1 at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a search facility,you can put in the ages you are looking for,you then tick a box saying you match the age they want.thar should give you your answer

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Most ladies won't want lads same age as their children.

Your too young for me/us. I don't want someone who needs a sat nav to find their way around a womans body.

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

My wife prefers guys in mid 20s to guys her own age..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I tend to prefer guys a lot younger. Early 20’s.

However (and I’m not saying all are like it), previous experience and recent cam/text chats has shown an overall lack of maturity, follow through, and often unhealthy attitude towards sex and women, along with a millennial sense of entitlement.

Would love to be proved wrong x

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

"Physically I tend to prefer guys a lot younger. Early 20’s.

Would love to be proved wrong x"

Thats what we find, its a shame because younger guys would have alot of success on here if they was a bit more mature about swinging, but as they say cant put a old head on young shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't focus on the age and stop just messaging every women on the site which I know you're doing don't lie

lol.

I've been on this site for just over a year and only a few months a go realised just wait for them to message you. A good conversation really does go a long way. Most of them I talk too or have met in the past don't wanna talk about sex they wanna chat about there life and would much rather have a coffee and chat before even considering anything else. Good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physically I tend to prefer guys a lot younger. Early 20’s.

Would love to be proved wrong x

Thats what we find, its a shame because younger guys would have alot of success on here if they was a bit more mature about swinging, but as they say cant put a old head on young shoulders "

Maybe we could swap notes if we find anyone good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear, i am outside your age range, so you really mean, a younger woman!!"
you aren’t outside my age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

From the replies it looks like my chances are low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a really weird thing about younger men. It does absolutely nothing for me. I ahve only ever been with older!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It would be like sleeping with my son so an absolute no no from me

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Age is irrelevant. I've met young guys in their 20's who have been far more mature than some guys I've met in their 40's.

Personally it's more about the man and his personality rather than his age! So it's a big fat 'YES' from me.

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