FabSwingers.com forum: Who decides

By *OT OXF CPL OP Couple
over a year ago

portland

So to all the couples out there who makes things happen,the amazing wives or naughty husbands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the receptions that work tirelessly behind the scenes, there’s only one way to find out!

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By *exywife4sharingCouple
over a year ago

Scotland, London

Hubby makes all the arrangements for us after I've had the chats on here to see if we connect x

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Couple... two people... we are both involved.

Neither of us does anything, with regards to fab, without the other knowing.

Apart from the forums, that's me! Mrs Racer

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Team work makes the dream work in this house.

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Team work, though she has the final say

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I (Mrs) put in all the initial hard work and let Mr know of anyone who shows potential. He will get more involved when it is a couple but mostly with single men he leaves me to decide. We always have a social first though so if he wasn't happy then it wouldn't go any further x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its got to be both. If 1 isnt happy then not going to enjoy

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Always 100% joint decision. If a couple contacts us, we both have to like the looks of them for it to work.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

When I was cucky, she would decide......now I'm solo, I decide x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my wife who decides who she lets shag her

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Always 100% joint decision. If a couple contacts us, we both have to like the looks of them for it to work."

Same here.

Lou x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

if we're meeting a couple we both need to be happy, if one of us isn't ok with it we don't do it.

If we're meeting a single guy, A has to like him of course but the final decision will rest with me

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

We both play a part. Mr usually finds the Ms red chats and confirms she is happy. Then we meet as a couple

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we both do our bit

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By *rolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

Looking at the profile, uyiu can usually tell who the 'lead' is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i vet (d)

C will take a conversion further if interested

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

N doesn't have the patience (or the stomach) for the search, so I do that part. If I come across someone who I find interesting, I'll show N his photo. If she has the slightest attraction, then we'll meet him for a social.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Definitely me Mrs N x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Both, no point replying unless we both like the look of a profile.

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By *unlovinCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We both have a say in who we play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely its both of us. I do a lot more chatting on here than he does but its definitely a joint effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely teamwork x

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

I (he) adds potential guys to the hotlist, she picks who she likes the look of and messages them and if it works out meets and fucks them - In theory nice and simple but in practice not so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both decide if one says no its no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought they go through a stage of crystal maze and whoever collects the most gems has the final decision!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

On our couple profile we both chat to others, Jack my other half tends to choose the profiles he thinks we might like and then I'll have a look and jump on chat too.

To be honest, we use our single profiles more, as getting 4 way attraction and availability can be v hard. Plus so many profiles looking for couples, have no public pics of the males.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

Has to be a joint decision. We once met a couple where the lady was gorgeous and the guy was ok but that was only once. We really prefer to have two attractive people as far as poss.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

she does (both of us agree)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both decide. But im definitely more of the scout and get the introductions out the way

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

It is me the female that is on this site. I do all the messaging and decide who we meet with the hubby only coming on to approve before anything happens

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Me (him). Mrs N has zero interest in arranging meets or even fab tbh. I show her the profile of who I think we should meet and she usually approves (sorta know her type). She turns up to the meets full of enthusiasm and ready to play, it's at this point where she's most comfortable when it comes to this swinging lark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always me on here making new friends.

However once out at clubs etc my Mrs has final say. Mind you neither of us will take it for the team

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By *indy777Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Always mutually agreed!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Team work, sometimes me, sometimes him. Just depends what were after and who has the free time to look. We normally do short notice meets.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Most of time joint decission or I let p choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make the decisions as my partner isn’t massively interested in playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us will chat and see if there is a connection and attraction. Mainly cherry if it's a single bloke that we are looking for.

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