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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

No.

Do you? ?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
. No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could say something on this, but won't because you're only looking for a yes or no...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

can i a tinkerbell

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

No

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"can i be like a tinkerbell "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

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By *ohnsnowmanMan
over a year ago

Don't Go Back to Sexville

There are women that like it, though. And that's fine. I've entered into that kind of play before but it's not really my thing. I love a confident sexually liberated woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

"
Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

Why only ladies?

And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)

Why only ladies?

And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?"

Possibly because the OP wants to PM the ladies that reply in the affirmative

Thats just a guess though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)

Why only ladies?

And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?

Possibly because the OP wants to PM the ladies that reply in the affirmative

Thats just a guess though"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes.

However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though.. "
fair enough and I understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)

Why only ladies?

And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?

Possibly because the OP wants to PM the ladies that reply in the affirmative

Thats just a guess though"

Anyone who is accustomed to me and my posts know I hardly if ever pm any women about my posts. The most I'll do is if I see an attractive lady I'll message her like I would if I saw her comment on any forum post.

Ironically enough women and couples tend to pm me about my posts lol so it's more the opposite tbh.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

Then you miss the whole idea of fantasy and rule play , it’s exciting because it’s taboo and not real,

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

No, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

YES!

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

Yes

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
only with the right person or persons yes

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yes, but only with someone I have established boundaries & a level of trust with... With random strangers off the Internet? Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

(but only with somone who I have built up a relationship full of trust and mutual respect, that kind of submission isn't just given to everyone and everyone)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being a dirty wife and treated how ever my husband wants I love it when the inner beast takes over. Being completely used is the biggest turn on for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh"

So youve met 'a few' women during covid?

Its against site rules, my love

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

No. Prefer some respect.

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

Well said. I agree.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) "

Exactly that was just her opinion she cannot speak for every woman just because she likes it.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I wouldn't say that's something you can give a simple yes or no answer to.

You're asking about behaviour modification, objectification, submission and many other aspects of kink, all of which are things that are generally best experienced with understanding and negotiation.

Could I enjoy them with the right person. Of course.

Could I enjoy them with everyone. Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do in the right situation. Love my hubby calling me slut wife, whore etc and certain playmates but it has to be a specific type of play.

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

I love it when Bodger calls me a dirty little slut but anyone else that tries it will be looking at a thick ear. So its a yeah but no but yeah but no..., sorry not a binary answer. I like a bit of respect and even in the middle of a gang bang where I'm essentially being "used" I still call the shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

No I like to be treated like a lady mrs m

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Yes, sometimes. No, sometimes. This is where communication is very important.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but within reason, it's certainly not unconditional xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here "

Is that a yes then

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Oh yes....

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

No...sex is a 2 way thing for me...im not into being used.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

No.

I'm not here to service other people.

Are you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My slut does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

I'm not here to service other people.

Are you OP?"

I'm here to give pleasure whenever I meet a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here "
lovely to know xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is a two way thing,we all have our kinks but really no need to call anyone a slut or whore when your spending good quality time with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes but within reason, it's certainly not unconditional xx"

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say that's something you can give a simple yes or no answer to.

You're asking about behaviour modification, objectification, submission and many other aspects of kink, all of which are things that are generally best experienced with understanding and negotiation.

Could I enjoy them with the right person. Of course.

Could I enjoy them with everyone. Nope. "

Right I'm not saying for everyone obviously but someone you're attracted to lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh

So youve met 'a few' women during covid?

Its against site rules, my love"

There was a typo or at least a misunderstanding, when I said met I meant conversate with, but I have met with women on and off this site whenever the COVID-19 rules have been relaxed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love being a dirty wife and treated how ever my husband wants I love it when the inner beast takes over. Being completely used is the biggest turn on for sure!"

Sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh

So youve met 'a few' women during covid?

Its against site rules, my love

There was a typo or at least a misunderstanding, when I said met I meant conversate with, but I have met with women on and off this site whenever the COVID-19 rules have been relaxed "

I can see that

"Met" and "conversed with" are very similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here

Is that a yes then "

Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes it a yes sir from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh

So youve met 'a few' women during covid?

Its against site rules, my love

There was a typo or at least a misunderstanding, when I said met I meant conversate with, but I have met with women on and off this site whenever the COVID-19 rules have been relaxed

I can see that

"Met" and "conversed with" are very similar"

My bad lol

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes. When it's done in the right way with the right person. I still need to feel like there is a level of respect there.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No...

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject."

Yup

My experiences make my opinions

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject.

Yup

My experiences make my opinions

"

But you can see why you are not considering others who are not threatened and enjoy liberated women as well? Liking one thing doesn’t mean you have to only like that one thing. Some guys may be threatened by it but I think most are excited by it as well even if they like domination play. Many different types of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women

So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject.

Yup

My experiences make my opinions

But you can see why you are not considering others who are not threatened and enjoy liberated women as well? Liking one thing doesn’t mean you have to only like that one thing. Some guys may be threatened by it but I think most are excited by it as well even if they like domination play. Many different types of people "

I used the word "often"

Did you spot that?

I also said that my view is based on experience

Quite alot of experience, as I'm old and I've had alot of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though.. "

Same here...there is still always mutal respect. It's nice to hand over control and that takes trust

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) "

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm I love sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *ireAndIce200Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, very much so, but only with Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

I detest the W-Word but I don't mind Slut, depending on what context it's used in... and I also like Dirty Bitch... So yea Slut & Dirty Bitch are turn-on names for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong....."

You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Different strokes for different folks

Whatever makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with my Dom but only him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....

You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???"

What were the psychological factors?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....

You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???

What were the psychological factors?"

I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....

You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???

What were the psychological factors?

I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature

"

So, effectively we like to 'submit' because we have been conditioned by society over the years?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

Nope. I am never used and abused. Its never for the pleasure of any man/ men.... if they get pleasure from my wants and desires that's just an passed bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....

You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???

What were the psychological factors?

I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature

So, effectively we like to 'submit' because we have been conditioned by society over the years?"

More or less that was her argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends completely on the situation. Sometimes I act that way with hubby but it’s personal between us. If a playmate did it I’d kick them in the nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re with the right partner and it’s in context ~ why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a pre agreed role/ fantasy, mutually.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a bit too narrow and restrictive to reflect my tastes

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Lucy absolutely identifies as her master's slut and whore

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Between us it’s fine, we’ve had a couple message us and a few messages in the mr has over stepped the line and called mrs crazytimes his slut. Not acceptable.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

Definitely no!

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Slhore

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By *uayside Glory HoleMan
over a year ago

Gateshead Quayside

I like to step into the submissive role but then I also like stepping into the dominant role and for me it is definitely about people stepping into roles for an encounter that brings the pleasure and excitement. It’s not one specific set of language or way of doing things. Sex is about communication, verbal and non verbal. Get that right within the sub/Dom scenario that is right for a particular couple or group and from my experience you can have some amazing times. Spanking, anon play, bdsm, choking, watersports, slapping, degrading language...they can all be elements. When people find a groove and embrace it together it’s a very empowering thing for everyone I find. Respect, boundaries and good communication throughout.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) "

Your fwb told you porkies xx

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By *lut4str8Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes

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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Sometimes yes x

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Yes. There is a time and place for everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. There is a time and place for everything "
indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes yes x"
nice

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

Yes, although prefer slut to whore.

I'll take slut and own it to make it positive as a sexually liberated woman.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Problem is it’s not either/or (they should ban the verb “to be”).

Context and a whole host of holistic behaviours and values contribute to the moment in time.

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

Yes but not for someone I didnt know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whore- yes! It's a big turn on if someone is willing to pay to fuck me and call slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have I stumbled into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes yes

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Hubbys the only one allowed to call me a slut

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whore- yes! It's a big turn on if someone is willing to pay to fuck me and call slut "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to be fair I don't mind being called names during sex as long as it's not derogatory!

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Lucy has "slut" on the back of her collar. So I guess yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still writing that book then OP?

No

In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"

I respect your opinion but in my experience is that its the exact opposite.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)

How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....

You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???

What were the psychological factors?

I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature

So, effectively we like to 'submit' because we have been conditioned by society over the years?

More or less that was her argument "

Her argument is ridiculous. I’ll submit to no one....not all women are, in her opinion, subservient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have naughty fantasies about being a dirty slut

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do men always assume the woman is the one being used? lol

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By *aralewisCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

No and once again men think women are for their pleasure

It’s that man in power thing

Why can’t men be used and abused by women

Why can’t men be degraded

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By *edlipsCouple
over a year ago

Crewkerne


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

Yes i love it but there are conditions,this is only ok if it has been arranged by me or Mr Redlips, being called a slut/whore during sex is a massive turn on for me but it wouldn't have the same effect in a situation i felt unsafe. I love to be used and abused as ling as there is respect that i am allowing it...if that makes sense

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do men always assume the woman is the one being used? lol "

No idea, I can take that place any day of the week

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By *epaWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes to all. Only Sam has earned the right to call me that tho. I wouldn't be called those names and treated like that if the love and respect wasn't there

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes to all. Only Sam has earned the right to call me that tho. I wouldn't be called those names and treated like that if the love and respect wasn't there

R"
your pictures are amazing, I have put you on my hotlist. send me a pm ? Then I can send you pictures of me x

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes to all. Only Sam has earned the right to call me that tho. I wouldn't be called those names and treated like that if the love and respect wasn't there

R your pictures are amazing, I have put you on my hotlist. send me a pm ? Then I can send you pictures of me x"

I'll politely decline but thank you

R

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row


"No and once again men think women are for their pleasure

It’s that man in power thing

Why can’t men be used and abused by women

Why can’t men be degraded

"

They are....frequently!

The femdom scene is massive

If BDSM is done with consent and with no coercion, it’s a beautiful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite an interesting range of posts

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "

I am a slut and don't mind being called one but never ever call me a whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During sexual play its ok with me.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

No I don't enjoy being used for the pleasure of a man, I enjoy lots of casual sex though

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"No I don't enjoy being used for the pleasure of a man, I enjoy lots of casual sex though"

casual sex & mutual pleasure

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yes!

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By *igggggMan
over a year ago

Reading

Used and abused

Just doesn't seem to sit well considering the trust you are being handed as the dom.

Its more there should be tender touches during the rough to secure with the sum in the briefest of moments your still looking after her.

Its a fine balance so use and abuse no explore together through guidance and bodily reactions yes

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Yes the worst names called the better gets me very wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being a slut

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Alot don't know the actual meaning of what it is. I have seen alot of profiles that mention this but actually don't offer it. Same with a cream pie and cum slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex enjoyed being called slut, whore and fuck toy. I was uncomfortable with it at first but seeing how much pleasure it gave her made me try it and then enjoy after a while. . It helped that she was a strong, independent woman who didn't think those things of herself at all. Which I partly why she said she liked it - because it felt wrong. And, of course, she also knew that I respected her enormously and clearly didn't think she was a slut or a whore or just there for my pleasure. And we didn't do it until we had been together a while and trusted each other. In those circumstances, I see nothing wrong with it at al. Clearly, it's not something I would automatically want to do or enjoy with other partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away


"Used and abused

Just doesn't seem to sit well considering the trust you are being handed as the dom.

Its more there should be tender touches during the rough to secure with the sum in the briefest of moments your still looking after her.

Its a fine balance so use and abuse no explore together through guidance and bodily reactions yes

"

Common mistake, but nobody asked for "rough" sex, a woman can enjoy name calling and being a man's sex toy and NOT enjoy being roughed up

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

No I’m not a fan of being used a by a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though.. "

This

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Men can be sluts too. I'd love to be used and abused by a woman.

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By *aisy DoeCouple
over a year ago

Beverley

oh yes, slut for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought Beverley was quaint and well to do each time I’ve been up there...quiet places you need to watch out for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes x

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa


"Yes x"

Mmmm

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Yes

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yes"

_uckypups1000, mmm a stunning one, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes"

She looks very good

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By *eelQueen13Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire

My favourite;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite;)"

Mine to

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Yes

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

No such thing as a slut just people enjoying sex which is a god thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No such thing as a slut just people enjoying sex which is a god thing"

What if you don't believe in God

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton


"No such thing as a slut just people enjoying sex which is a god thing

What if you don't believe in God "

Oops, it is early

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

Slut and whore are the names I liked to be called during a dirty session...

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

Yup I do indeed, only those I have given permission to may though.

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

When I’ve experienced this, I have the most amazing orgasms ever! I hope that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Px

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

No, I’m my husbands slut and nobody else’s

Jxx

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