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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really? They seriously need to have a word with themselves. Maybe they’re in denial?

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Everybody looks at everybody's photos. If you enjoy it carry on, we love doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

Just ignore them maybe they have unlying issues and may secretly want it but too afraid to man up and admit it. You carry on if thats what you want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecure. They can jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't want their pics fabbed should turn off the option. Im straight but I regularly fab ladies pics because I like the pic. No other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

Block them

Forget them

Move on

T

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

We really don't have a problem with it.

Enjoy!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep fabbing them to annoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you show you body in a public pic, you need to be ready for what that brings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its nice whoever fabs my pics nice buzz someone likes them, fab not the place for the narrow minded lol

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

Fabs are absolutely fine from anyone; repeat messages after having politely informed of my preferences shown on my profile not so fine.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

If you like it, fab it! That’s why they’re posted after all...isn’t it?

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I wouldn’t worry. I’m straight and if a lad fabs my pics I take it as a compliment!! Fab away!

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By *obbobeanMan
over a year ago

dagenham

Deano, what ever your sexuality, if someone compliments you on a pic or pics you have submitted for public view, you take it as just that, a compliment. You carry on looking at various pics, and if you feel you like a pic enough in your view to warrant a fab, well deano you go ahead and fab it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha can't be very confident with there sexuality if there intimidated by some one fabbing a pic lol what do they think that they might catch gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the same as most above. I have no problem with it and take it as a compliment.

I wouldn’t change anything

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By *amillMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Fab whoever pics you want, if they don’t want them to be fabbed they should turn them off or hide the photos.

Some men are just absolute bellends

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

If pictures sre in the public domian they are there for all to see and fab, hell if I discounted all the fabs I get from males and tv/ts I would half my fabbed photos easily, it's still a compliment to have a photo fabbed no matter who from surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of homophobia & biphobia on here

They probably think you are hinting at a meet or a cam

We all know how easy it is to catch the ghey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

Some say offense is not got given, only taken.

I say continue to fab away good sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just happy to get a fab lol

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By *ames_smith86Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I wouldn’t take it to heart deano. The same has happened to me, it’s only paying somebody a compliment but some people don’t seem to like it Keep at it

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Insecure. They can jog on"

This, basically. It happens a lot.

No issues with perving, just respect boundaries.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Enjoy the site. Simple as. We love fabs no matter who it's from. Lets us know we are doing something right.

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By *hilledGuerillaMan
over a year ago

In the monkey house

If folk don’t want their pictures fabbed they can change their privacy settings.

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

I just assume if I post anything online, any person of any age or gender will be able to view it.

As a relatively slim, young guy, I just have to accept they'll be plenty of men taking preference to it. I mean with anything on here, there's more men out and about looking.

I don't really care if they do, as I'm not interested. Sometimes I'll block because they've Fab'd a lot of my media & I just want to filter out the women & couples to see them easier.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

I don't know if it's offence exactly. None of us know other people's state of mind.

It makes me smile a bit that if men don't like something men do on fab they must be insecure but if women don't like something men do they get sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a straight man I can honestly say that I don't worry who looks at or fabs my pics, in fact it's nice to get a fab from anyone it shows they like my pics so I must be doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

We both get a lot of fabs from gay and bi guys and tv/ts, probably due to the switch dynamic in our photos between us being a turn on to them, and not once has it offended either of us. It's a compliment, always!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to wink as well as fab straight guys.

I'm only looking, so it should be taken as a compliment.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Maybe they are trying to open up a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

Even in a fringe pursuit such as swinging, where polite society look down on us like degenerates, we as a group still have our fair share of..

Rascism

Xenophobia

Homophobia

Bigotry

And general nastiness.

That said I have some perfectly lovely chums here on fabs

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

If it offends they can set their pics to unfabbable. Their issue and not yours. Most of my fabs seem to come from TV's, not my choice of playmate but I'll be a shameless tart and appreciate the fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it flattering if I’m honest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should just put there pictures to friends only if it’s that much of a problem for them

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

The majority of fans I received are from guys ....

If I tickle your fancy dab away strikes me ego a little .

I’m straight as an arrow but happy that I tick someone’s boxes

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

to me if i found nice picture i would fab no matter if is couple women man tv/ts bi straight rainbow alien martian ... fabbing a picture doesn't mean i'm flirting sometimes it means but just sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "
..it shouldnt offend ..why put them in public..some idiots about mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"to me if i found nice picture i would fab no matter if is couple women man tv/ts bi straight rainbow alien martian ... fabbing a picture doesn't mean i'm flirting sometimes it means but just sometimes "

You promised not to tell that we're Martians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone fabbed a picture of mine then I would thank them. No problems at all

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Very strange...I have been fabbing pics for many years and never ever had any problem...One guy messaged to let me know he wasn't gay which I found funny, but nothing more than that..

I wouldn't worry about it.

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By *weedishpstarMan
over a year ago

Hull

Quite like guys getting in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please fab mine lol

I did once get a vile message from a guy because I looked at his profile funny thing was I accidentally clicked it on my phone

Bugger blocked me before I could give him a piece of my mind bloody coward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it doesnt bother me, gays and tv/ts cam fab my stuff all they want (and they do a lot lol) because as I see it, it's not hurting anyone to do that but just don't contact me asking to suck my dick and being intimate etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Insecure toxic masculinity bro...

Ignore em!

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Their problem, not yours.

What do they think will happen, you can them and they magically turn gay? Or you’re going to turn up at your door?!

Someone finding you “fab”, whoever they are, should be a positive!

Mr (straight).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to control who sees you naked don’t post pics of yourself on the internet.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

That would make me fab them more often. Sad men.

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Fuck 'em.... (not literally)

Just get em checked out and fab em if you like em.

Whats the harm, your not gonna turn up at his house with lube and doughnuts are you!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Fuck 'em.... (not literally)

Just get em checked out and fab em if you like em.

Whats the harm, your not gonna turn up at his house with lube and doughnuts are you! "

I do love a donut though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fab can only be seen as a positive regardless of their gender/sexuality. I wonder if these men fab gay women’s pictures, that would be so wrong of them lol!

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Fuck 'em.... (not literally)

Just get em checked out and fab em if you like em.

Whats the harm, your not gonna turn up at his house with lube and doughnuts are you!

I do love a donut though "

Whats not to like.

Donuts... The staple diet of any grown up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh I’ve had the same , some even block me , after I’ve fabbed a photo , but I will fab who I like , male or female. It just means I like your photo , not I want to move in with you and play kylie cds and throw glitter all over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck 'em.... (not literally)

Just get em checked out and fab em if you like em.

Whats the harm, your not gonna turn up at his house with lube and doughnuts are you!

I do love a donut though

Whats not to like.

Donuts... The staple diet of any grown up! "

I need donuts now

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Insecure toxic masculinity bro...

Ignore em!"

You're listening to too much idles

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A lot of homophobia & biphobia on here

They probably think you are hinting at a meet or a cam

We all know how easy it is to catch the ghey "

Quite.

It offends some men.

Fab it if you like it.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Don't worry OP, i take it as a compliment as my profile states what im looking for. So im cool about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? They seriously need to have a word with themselves. Maybe they’re in denial?"

We agree

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

A fab os a fab......dunno why some think it's a suggestion to more intimate things. You keep doing what you do, and enjoy the sight of a nice body, be it male or female.

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Fuck 'em.... (not literally)

Just get em checked out and fab em if you like em.

Whats the harm, your not gonna turn up at his house with lube and doughnuts are you!

I do love a donut though

Whats not to like.

Donuts... The staple diet of any grown up!

I need donuts now "

I know right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab away. I'd of thought that was a compliment?

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

thats pathetic

i only get guys fabbing me !!! lol

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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

Fab away ....I'm straight but I take it as a huge compliment whoever fabs my pics...keep on fabbing

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By *eorge JetsonMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Fuck 'em.... (not literally)

Just get em checked out and fab em if you like em.

Whats the harm, your not gonna turn up at his house with lube and doughnuts are you!

I do love a donut though

Whats not to like.

Donuts... The staple diet of any grown up!

I need donuts now

I know right!"

Donut delivery service in progress.

Flavour orders going in now....

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By *aughtyBlokeKentMan
over a year ago

Kent/Gatwick area

I don't mind fabs from guys but must admit I deleted most photos due to guys messaging describing what they'd do to me in graphic detail. Doesn't offend but sure kills the mood if you're not into guys. I'd bloke single guys generally but it's good to be open to wider opportunities. A fab on a photo wouldn't be an issue though.

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By *oungNew14791Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Hey,

To be honest mostly all fabs we get on Mr photos are from guys, few women.

We don’t really see the problem what’s wrong with being appreciated.

I’d say enjoy you’re self! Forget them and ignore them

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Doesn't matter who fabs our pics they are there to be perved at whoever's doing it

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Fab away mate, realistically what are they gonna do about it?

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Never bothered me, enjoy the pics all!

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By *uttingstagsMan
over a year ago

Navan


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

If you put your pics in a public forum you don’t really have much of a point complaining someone looks at them.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

Surely in these more enlightened times people should be able to see that you're giving them a compliment.

Just carry on doing what you're doing, seems to me you are doing nothing wrong at all.

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

some odd folk on here. I'd like their pics even more just to wind them up.

Who cares who likes your pic, gay, straight, bi, whatever a like is a like

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I'll honestly never understand why someone would take offence. Its a compliment if anything, even if I was straight, I would not care if a gay man failed my pics as it would just be a little ego boost that someone finds you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problems here

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

Wouldn’t bother me, I’m bi so take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the thing

I regard myself as a respectful Fabber

I don't thing I've ever made any secret of the fact that I am into (some) guys

I see some guys that make my eyes widen and I will check their profiles, both pics & words, and more often than not, my interest stops there because I see something that makes me think 'do not approach'

One of the things that would stop me approaching them is if they are listed as straight

However, despite their sexuality, if they have a photo or two which shows them (or a part of them) in a particularly good light, I see no harm in giving it a Fab

To me, that isn't an approach, a come on or a 'hey, come look at me'; it is an appreciation of that photo &/or the subject

If someone chose to see that differently or be offended by it, I am more than happy to set the record straight and, as others have pointed out, ask them to accept some responsibility for the images being there and for being fabbable

So OP, if you see a pick you like and that pic is fabbable, Fab it

If someone takes exception to that, ask them why and perhaps point out that, unfortunately if they don't want guys looking at them, maybe consider sticking a bag over their head and keeping their cock in their pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i see it as a compliment.

if the women arent going to do it somebody has to

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By *ony2269Man
over a year ago

Radcliffe

I’d see it as a compliment.

Feel free to perv, fav or message whenever you like.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I will happily fab a guys photo if ai think its fun, exciting, imaginative, impressive etc.

I am confident in my sexuality that if I find another man attractive that it does not automatically mean that I must stick my cock up his arse!it sounds like these guys need to relax and appreciate that someone is looking at their ohotos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever get fabs from men.... my profile giving out that straight man waiting to be turned vibe?

I take them all as a compliment and at least my ego is one thing that’s being stroked this past year.... thanks gay guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t offend, flattery is great regardless of sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as a compliment

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Wouldn't think it's your problem, carry on

They've always got filters they can use if they are that upset about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just glad if we get fabbed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

You’re welcome to look at mine, not that I have anything special. Most importantly, I’d be really happy if you fabbed one of my photos. It would be an amazing compliment. As it is, I’ve only ever been fabbed three times lol!

Keep on doing what you are doing. Ignore the knockers, so to speak. Enjoy.

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By *ykmwyldTV/TS
over a year ago

Belpre

Don't give them a second thought. They shouldn't be upset that you fabled their pics, that's nonsense, they should be flattered you fabled them or even looked. Though they may not be interested isn't the point at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't think it's your problem, carry on

They've always got filters they can use if they are that upset about it"

Very good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m flattered if anyone fabs my pics or maybe that’s shocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a twist on the subject would a gay man be offended if a woman fab his pictures?

Ps go head and fab all the pictures you like they put their picture out on display for all to see XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always polite if its followed by a message as well. Not what I looking for but thanks is a normal response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh mate i would have done the same as they have a few weeks ago

I was very much in the closet and would have panicked if a gay guy fabbed my pics.

Scared someone would see through me if that makes sense?

I would have been scared someone mights guess my secret as silly as that sounds.

You cant control emotions...you just harness them.

Im a bit braver now.

Much love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only seem to get fabs off gay guys?? I'm straight...take it as a compliment I'd say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im gay and i quite like to have a nose at pics and use the 'fab' if i see a pic thats hot

But ive recently had a couple of striaght men message me after fabbin a pic of theirs basically tellin me not to perv

I dont mean any offense fabbin i jusr njoy it

Does it really offend? "

OMG ... Really ...

I'm not Bi but jeez I know a good pic when I see one regardless of sexual orientation, gender or whatever and therefore said pics get my approval i.e a Fab

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

[Removed by poster at 28/01/21 02:46:17]

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

Keep fabbing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg a fab on a pic is just a fab on fab . Who cares?! some people should just chill...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A lot of people misunderstand the various site features and interaction here, often assuming that almost anything indicates sex should follow. Most also have inappropriate expectations, so project blame and anger to others, rather than taking a look at themselves. Inadequate people and their issues will continue to try to apportion their emotional baggage freely, it's the lazy option that many are habituated to.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Everybody looks at everybody's photos. If you enjoy it carry on, we love doing it. "

I just done it

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Doesn’t bother us in the least.

If they don’t want fabs on their pics they should turn them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

it happens to me all the time, I actually find it quite a compliment that guys fab my pics. to me honest, if guys didn't fab my pics, I'd never get any fabs. )

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By *onny135Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Crack on - if they are that insecure I think they are on the wrong site, or just aren't any fun....

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By *arriLadMan
over a year ago

North West

My pics are there to be perved on by whoever wants to have a look, Otherwise I wouldn't put any up.

If people go out of their way to message abuse over a fab on a picture then that's their insecurity, Block and move on I'm straight but if I like the way a pictures taken then it's going to get a fab regardless of gender

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Same here. I see it as a compliment really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m gay and most of my fabs are from straight ladies , bloody love it , if ANYONE finds you attractive it’s a winner ,don’t mean your going to bed them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi,

it happens to me all the time, I actually find it quite a compliment that guys fab my pics. to me honest, if guys didn't fab my pics, I'd never get any fabs. )"

It’s top loader or van Morrison who did the original, you have blocked men from sending you messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people misunderstand the various site features and interaction here, often assuming that almost anything indicates sex should follow. Most also have inappropriate expectations, so project blame and anger to others, rather than taking a look at themselves. Inadequate people and their issues will continue to try to apportion their emotional baggage freely, it's the lazy option that many are habituated to. "

^^^^^^^^^^^ This is so true and I've experienced it many times on here... some people ``assuming that almost anything indicates sex should follow`` as in any interaction... be it a thank you for a compliment, a courteous no thanks reply or a compliment given by me & it's such a shame because now it's preventing me from replieing to many because of the `fear` that it may be misinterpreted as a come-on. Also some online relationships will always remain platonic...even on here and thankfully some guys appreciate that knowing that a meet will never happen...

Anyway I do wonder about some peeps intelligence on here... i.e the ones who `plague` you just because you may say...``Hi, Thank You Kindly for the compliment, but I'm not meeting`` they send mail after mail after mail & then all of a sudden they get extremely abusive for absolutely no reason whatsoever

Totally uncalled for abuse cos I didn't and don't reply again after my first polite message.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Ive had that once or twice, along with threats of violence, but i just go back and fab some more to anoy them, if they are that bothered they could block men from viewing, mostly insecure blow hards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m gay and most of my fabs are from straight ladies , bloody love it , if ANYONE finds you attractive it’s a winner ,don’t mean your going to bed them "

Ur 50?? Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it flattering if I’m honest lol "

That’s how I view any fab

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Definately their problem not yours. That said I choose not to fab the pics of single men, unless I already know they are bi or gay as I can't be bothered with the angry messages it sometimes generates.

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By *lut4str8Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I love looking at straight guys’ profiles. Not had any problems yet thankfully. It should be seen as a compliment.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I look at other guys pics if they stand out...I’ve fabbed them if I enjoy them too.

I would see it as a compliment that guys were fabbing my pics...

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you were a female the same males could possibly be trying to chat you up now.

They're simply insecure there other reasons for messaging you would be pure speculation.

Keep fabbing it's your choice and totally harmless.

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