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By *lowhands7 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester / Burton on Trent

and frustration.

On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.

I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.

Is it me?!!!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com "

Tried it once and didn’t like it ?

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By *lowhands7 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester / Burton on Trent


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com "

It's not just me!! Yay!! Thought I was missing something

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"and frustration.

On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.

I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.

Is it me?!!!

"

They might be asking for tributes from established friends.

People asking for face pictures might have some in private. I always think that people can ask for anything they want, it doesn't mean I have to give it to them. My kids would have had ponies at age 3 and motorbikes at age 6 if that was the case

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com "

Maybe they met them at one of the large organised socials and the signal man sent them a verification to get one back, that happens a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a Fab double standard.

You will have to get used to it

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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago

Hfd/Shrop/Worc area


"and frustration.

On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.

I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.

Is it me?!!!

"

If it helps balance things....we are looking for males, females, couples (and top of the list multiple males)

And yes please to tributes too....love them!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I ignore demanding people. No time for divas.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Just a Fab double standard.

You will have to get used to it"

Lots of couples and single Ladies like to pick the Single men they meet,so not a double standard at all

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By *lowhands7 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester / Burton on Trent


"and frustration.

On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.

I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.

Is it me?!!!

If it helps balance things....we are looking for males, females, couples (and top of the list multiple males)

And yes please to tributes too....love them! "

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I thought this was a genesis thread.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com

Maybe they met them at one of the large organised socials and the signal man sent them a verification to get one back, that happens a lot "

Mystery solved

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com "

I like meeting men. My "looking for" (when I'm not hidden) says "not looking for single guys". It's automatic when you turn on the filter to stop men messaging you.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com

I like meeting men. My "looking for" (when I'm not hidden) says "not looking for single guys". It's automatic when you turn on the filter to stop men messaging you."

We have the filter on too. If we post a pic with the filter off we need a PA for the messages!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com

I like meeting men. My "looking for" (when I'm not hidden) says "not looking for single guys". It's automatic when you turn on the filter to stop men messaging you. We have the filter on too. If we post a pic with the filter off we need a PA for the messages!"

Haha same. But it's why it might look inconsistent.

(Right now my filters are as they are because pandemic)

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We don’t list ourselves as looking for single men as we don’t want to get lots of messages, we already get a few from men and that’s manageable but after reading the forums it seems some ladies and couples get inundated with them and then men get upset if they’re ignored or rejected. I’m sure we wouldn’t be the type of couple to get inundated but to not advertise the fact we’d meet men saves hassle. Perhaps others feel the same.

Lou x

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