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By *ussex-steve OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

To run with the other thread, ladies HOW do you like to be fingered.

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By *ussex-steve OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

mmm so a lot of ladies were complaining that men weren't always up to it, so i started a thread, where you could let us know, the things you'd like us to know. No offers ?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"To run with the other thread, ladies HOW do you like to be fingered. "

With fingers. And regularly.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you don't spin my clit like a DJ and move your fingers so fast you see smoke, your good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it hard and fast like my vagina is a punchbag...

Ask most of the guys I’ve been with, they’ll tell you

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Gently to start with, nice little circles on my clit, then slip a finger in, then slowly stretch me the more turned on I get

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By *ussex-steve OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

Do you ladies like to have fingers all around your vulva first as a warm up?

How about looking directly into eyes as they get started ?

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.

Slowly.

Slowly.

Seeing a key point here?

Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.

Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive found so many like things differently so i prefer open comms early on to get it right.

Some love light rubbing clit, some quick and fast and others like fingers rubbing g spot couple inches in

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"As long as you don't spin my clit like a DJ and move your fingers so fast you see smoke, your good "

Just spat my tea everywhere ha ha.

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By *ussex-steve OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton


"As long as you don't spin my clit like a DJ and move your fingers so fast you see smoke, your good

Just spat my tea everywhere ha ha."

Not a technique I've mentioned elsewhere......

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs


"Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.

Slowly.

Slowly.

Seeing a key point here?

Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.

Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! "

Agreed! Here here! We should start a petition. Lol

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Just taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also taking notes...! Do enjoy giving a nice fingering, nothing better than feeling her get wetter and wetter. But two meets of mine have both demanded I fuck them properly while I'm still enjoying teasing with fingers and tongue... I put this down to them preferring cock rather than me being good at foreplay... I'd quite happily keep teasing for a good while longer! But everyone's different I guess.

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol "

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol "

I'm sure its been done! And even with my relative inexperience... Not by me I may add! Lol

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

"

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines "

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

I'm sure its been done! And even with my relative inexperience... Not by me I may add! Lol"

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!"

Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!

Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better! "

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!

Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quiet if its not feeling good "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good "

Good to hear! I'm always happy to take direction! My goal is to please, not to be arrogant and assume all women like the same and that I'll instantly hit the right spot!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!

Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good "

I’m happy to be guided and told... I’ like to please so help me and I’ll do it

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!

Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good

I’m happy to be guided and told... I’ like to please so help me and I’ll do it "

Then you'd have no issues

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good

Good to hear! I'm always happy to take direction! My goal is to please, not to be arrogant and assume all women like the same and that I'll instantly hit the right spot!

"

That's good to hear... some guys don't like it!

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol

*flicks page*

"Just checking what's next"

Knowing me I’d fluff my lines

Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!

Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!

I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good

I’m happy to be guided and told... I’ like to please so help me and I’ll do it

Then you'd have no issues "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't read my signals..no use reading your notes

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

Tease, tease, tease and tease, no real pressure until I'm going crazy for it and crying out. Gentle is the key to start and lots of attention on the clit. Building up the pressure and speed...maybe a little slap or 2.

NO 2 fingers slammed in hard!

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Tease, tease, tease and tease, no real pressure until I'm going crazy for it and crying out. Gentle is the key to start and lots of attention on the clit. Building up the pressure and speed...maybe a little slap or 2.

NO 2 fingers slammed in hard! "

Oh I do like a light rapid spanking on my pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and deep while rubbing my clit always works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it "

Probably because you touched her G-Spot.

Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it

Probably because you touched her G-Spot.

Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it."

Yeah that’s exactly what I did it I stayed on it till she came a couple of time! I loved it

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By *ussex-steve OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton


"If you can't read my signals..no use reading your notes"

and your signals madam if you please !!..lol

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By *ussex-steve OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton


"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it

Probably because you touched her G-Spot.

Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it."

If you ladies aren't going to mention the G spot !!...lol.. at last... tell us all about it!. Tell us what you would like your next lover to know... whether or not you've told them before... chaps can forget things you know !!...lol

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By *octordigitsMan
over a year ago

nearby


"Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.

Slowly.

Slowly.

Seeing a key point here?

Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.

Doctor Digits was always in demand at the clubs ...... patience patience patience - and my conversion of non squirters to believers was second to none

Agree totally with your post

Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I thought this was a guitar thread

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Theres so much to do to build up anticipation and get it nice and wet before even thinking about entering....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or 2 fingers, fast and hard inside me. Nowhere else and no more than 2 fingers.

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By *umfy_boxersMan
over a year ago

London

Remember Micky Flanagan talking about the demise of fingering in the youth of today. The main cause of the increase in teen pregnancies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it

Probably because you touched her G-Spot.

Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it.

If you ladies aren't going to mention the G spot !!...lol.. at last... tell us all about it!. Tell us what you would like your next lover to know... whether or not you've told them before... chaps can forget things you know !!...lol"

I have so much more feeling just inside than I do deeper in.

Put a finger in and curl it up, stroking gently. You'll know when you've got 'the spot' by the way I react.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two fingers, one if he has big hands, inside curled up to lightly tease the G spot.

Preferably a tongue on my clit at the same time.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

So nobody has said a whole fist inside slowly swirling around and pressing up on the g-spot, the other hand pressing firmly on the lower stomach to push the g-spot down and also apply pressure to the bladder and a slow but firm flick of the tongue on the clit?

My search continues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So nobody has said a whole fist inside slowly swirling around and pressing up on the g-spot, the other hand pressing firmly on the lower stomach to push the g-spot down and also apply pressure to the bladder and a slow but firm flick of the tongue on the clit?

My search continues "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it hard and fast like my vagina is a punchbag...

Ask most of the guys I’ve been with, they’ll tell you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember Micky Flanagan talking about the demise of fingering in the youth of today. The main cause of the increase in teen pregnancies "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A jedi never shares his skills as then cannot be out fenced with his light saber

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.

Slowly.

Slowly.

Seeing a key point here?

Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.

Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! "

Fully agree.

I think many guys learn their technique from porn and think that sticking in as many fingers as they can in the shortest possible time then banging them in and out like a Ferrari piston is the way to go. IT ISN'T!

Gently at first, slowly build up, MAKE SURE IT'S WET (bad fingering will dry up Mrs H better than any hairdryer)

If a guy gets it right Mrs H can squirt like a fire hose, but these days those events are fewer and further between. And I don't mean because of Covid.

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By *avidgeorge68Man
over a year ago

wakefield


"If you can't read my signals..no use reading your notes"

Go with the reaction your getting!

Well unless the knees go up the panting increases, but her hand tries to push you away! Don't stop!

Well unless your told "stop"

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

whoops .. I thought this was a guitar thread ...

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