FabSwingers.com forum: women being called girls

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here

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By *uicy mushroomMan
over a year ago

elephant and Castle

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"

Sexy lady

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Even worse getting called baby by someone years younger.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"
a big pet hate of mine ,cant stand it or bring called baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman herea big pet hate of mine ,cant stand it or bring called baby"
.

I would say both of you are all woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't mind being referred to as a girl .. I don't like ma'am tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman herea big pet hate of mine ,cant stand it or bring called baby.

I would say both of you are all woman

"
thank you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Not acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be referred to as a lady. I try to use that term the most. I do not like being referred to as a girl by randoms i dont know. Suppose it depends on context....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not acceptable you are all ladies

some blokes need to grow up

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd prefer the terms either lady or sexy bitch it depends on the nature of the female to be labelled as one or the other I'm pretty good at figuring this out but still leave it open to be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously, ask any man if he likes to be called boy, the answer is absolutely not, and usually ends in long waits in a&e, and longer explanations to the police, in my experiences, so why expect a woman to be happy being called a girl? Doesn't make sense

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'd prefer the terms either lady or sexy bitch it depends on the nature of the female to be labelled as one or the other I'm pretty good at figuring this out but still leave it open to be surprised

We can stop using female as a noun, while we're at it.

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By *lla_eastWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I'm not ok being called a girl. I'm a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a woman and wi ignore any message referring to me as a girl

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"

I find it amusing when I get called girl. I'm 61 soon lol but it happens. I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe,Hun,...thats a straight delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it doesn't bother me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it! "

Im with you as well, I don't mind it at all...

Especially when he's banging hell out me calling me a naughty girl

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Doesnt bother me in the least. I dont like being refered to as Mrs ***** though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I generally don't mind being referred to as a girl .. I don't like ma'am tho

Hehe, we get Ma'am from our students all the time

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Seriously, ask any man if he likes to be called boy, the answer is absolutely not, and usually ends in long waits in a&e, and longer explanations to the police, in my experiences, so why expect a woman to be happy being called a girl? Doesn't make sense"

That's odd I was going to say the exact opposite. Depends on the context really but in sporting worlds very often men and boys are used interchangeably and the tiniest spec of dust is still 100 times bigger than the amount I care. "the boys played well"... "come on lads" "let's go boys"... But hey it takes all sorts.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman herea big pet hate of mine ,cant stand it or bring called baby"

‘Honeybum’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand being referred to as a girl or the worst good girl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girl in curtain circumstances is OK. Hate baby however with a passion and babe. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, hate being referred to as a girl. I wouldn't call a bloke a boy, it would give me the ick.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s not something that bothers me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been called a lot worse than girl , can honestly say it doesn't bother me but fully understand why it can bother others x

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

Do you women like being call sweet heart our honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you women like being call sweet heart our honey "

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, some fussy chicks on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even worse getting called baby by someone years younger.x"

Absolutely!!

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It really wouldn't bother me and I definitely wouldn't be offended by it. I tend to give a guy a chance rather than be put off because he uses a word I don't like. If it bothered me I would just politely ask them not to use it x

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

"Do you women like being call sweet heart our honey

Hell no "

Lmao sugar

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"so are you ok with being called girl ?"

It's better than being referred to as female all the time.

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

"so are you ok with being called girl ?

It's better than being referred to as female all the time."

Our the other Half significant other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get called old boy I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

"I often get called old boy I don't mind

Lol in my local shop the woman in there says hello young man how are you want to say I’m 50

She must be in here 30s want to say you taking the piss

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes because a woman being called a girl by a man is in the same context as a man being called a boy by another man!?!?

Unless you are expecting to get sent to A&E after a woman calls you boy?

Personally I don’t care what anyone calls me as long as I know they are referring to me. Life's too short to get hung up on a word that means fuck all to me in the end.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"

Nope hate it ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've more to get my knickers in a twist over, doesn't matter what, but how.

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

"Babe,Hun,...thats a straight delete "

Yep. I’m nobody’s ‘hun’. Ggggrrrrr! Mrs SW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting because often men are referred to as "boyfriend" and women "girlfriend" xx

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

Lol but you lady’s love it when a man

Says hi with a dick pick bet it makes your day

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

Better than being called a guy, I really hate that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use lady though I laughed when a d*unk pal of mine referred to Lexy as my 'bird'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the term girl, I think I use it towards more upto 30 age group then anything above 30 I'd tend to call lady or a woman ladies or women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it at all

Sab

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Absolutely happy with girl. Prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being 19 I suppose I am a girl,but it's not really that big a deal is it?

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By *amesleonard12345Man
over a year ago

heathrow/feltham/sunbury

"Well being 19 I suppose I am a girl,but it's not really that big a deal is it?"

Aaahhhh young sweet and innocent

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would very rarely call a grown woman a girl. I would only do it if there was a particular reason to. Luke

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I prefer lady but I wouldn’t be offended by girl. If I was to talk about a group of female friends I’d refer to them as my girl friends, never my lady friends. And if we have a night out it would be ‘girls night’ rather than ‘ladies night’. So you can see how men get confused.

I’d rather be called called girl than anything like baby... eeeew.

Lou x

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I generally don't mind being referred to as a girl .. I don't like ma'am tho

I'd prefer ma'am to girl tbh

but in the military sense of ma'am i.e a superior not as in my mum lol

girl expecially by someone younger just feels a little silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being call a girl not that I am very often, what I really do not like is being called a LADY.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Hate it along with huni, baby and babe

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Sugar lump okay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so are you ok with being called girl ?

It's better than being referred to as female all the time."

Agree. I cringe when I see someone "seeking a female".

A female what? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it! "

Same. I've been called FAR worse on here lol

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Boils my piss,our bodies put up with a lot of shit to become a woman.. I'm not a girl,babe etc to me they sound patronising

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Wow so much anger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"

Bloody annoys me, I'm 39 not 18 haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, some fussy chicks on here

I didn’t realise having our own preferences about what we are called made us fussy. I thought as ‘women’ we are entitled to decide what we like being called.

I’m all woman, but a girl, definitely never a hun, babe, honey, sweetheart or my personal pet hate ‘young lady’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, some fussy chicks on here

I didn’t realise having our own preferences about what we are called made us fussy. I thought as ‘women’ we are entitled to decide what we like being called.

I’m all woman, but a girl, definitely never a hun, babe, honey, sweetheart or my personal pet hate ‘young lady’"

*not a girl

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Depends on context, if it's not meant as a put-down, then neither of us would mind being called a girl or a boy.

Besides, one of Niki's favourite TV series was the Gilmore Girls - written, produced and starring women, didn't seem to be a problem for them.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

At my age I embrace it ha ha! X

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I have certainly never, ever heard the leader of a group of slightly inebriated middle age ladies at the races call out “ right girls, who’s for a bit of bolly”

No doubt in my my mind she would say “ladies”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good girl!" whispered in my ear when being fucked hard oh yes.

"Girl" from a stranger on t'internet ugghh no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first post!

I dont mind being referred to as girl, but babe, hun, baby all in the first message drives me mad for some reason!

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Surely context is everything?

If someone in the street called Mrs B a slut they would get a slap (or more) from her.

But when she is being fucked she loves being told what a slut or dirty bitch she is!

Had a guy who we met a few times who clearly liked to tell her what a good girl she was. Typing it sounds creepy actually but in the heat of the moment nobody batted an eyelid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely context is everything?

If someone in the street called Mrs B a slut they would get a slap (or more) from her.

But when she is being fucked she loves being told what a slut or dirty bitch she is!

Had a guy who we met a few times who clearly liked to tell her what a good girl she was. Typing it sounds creepy actually but in the heat of the moment nobody batted an eyelid!"

Well, a consensual ’good girl’ is very different I think

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I'd prefer the terms either lady or sexy bitch it depends on the nature of the female to be labelled as one or the other I'm pretty good at figuring this out but still leave it open to be surprised

We can stop using female as a noun, while we're at it."

Indeed and also ...single males

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Surely context is everything?

If someone in the street called Mrs B a slut they would get a slap (or more) from her.

But when she is being fucked she loves being told what a slut or dirty bitch she is!

Had a guy who we met a few times who clearly liked to tell her what a good girl she was. Typing it sounds creepy actually but in the heat of the moment nobody batted an eyelid!

Well, a consensual ’good girl’ is very different I think

What about “angel” (14 Jan pic - nice wings!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first post!

I dont mind being referred to as girl, but babe, hun, baby all in the first message drives me mad for some reason! "

Hello!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I'd prefer the terms either lady or sexy bitch it depends on the nature of the female to be labelled as one or the other I'm pretty good at figuring this out but still leave it open to be surprised

We can stop using female as a noun, while we're at it.

Indeed and also ...single males "

Are we not men after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather say Lady. I guess I'm old school in that respect.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Reading this from the start it seems quite a skill to find a greeting that is generally acceptable, pleasing even to the recipient. The quest for the holy grail of greetings continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first post!

I dont mind being referred to as girl, but babe, hun, baby all in the first message drives me mad for some reason!

Hello!

Hey! I've been reading the forums since I joined but had to wait the time limit to be able to post - this seemed like a good one to start with!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I get called cute a lot

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I generally don't mind being referred to as a girl .. I don't like ma'am tho

That sounds so southern USA. I like say girls.. I hope that doesn't put anyone off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it doesn't bother me xx"

U look fun

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I get called cute a lot

Seems accurate, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first post!

I dont mind being referred to as girl, but babe, hun, baby all in the first message drives me mad for some reason!

Hello!

Hey! I've been reading the forums since I joined but had to wait the time limit to be able to post - this seemed like a good one to start with!

Wise move. Some threads are better kept for afternoons, when lockdown boredom makes everything seem strangely funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading this from the start it seems quite a skill to find a greeting that is generally acceptable, pleasing even to the recipient. The quest for the holy grail of greetings continues. "

I agree hun.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Reading this from the start it seems quite a skill to find a greeting that is generally acceptable, pleasing even to the recipient. The quest for the holy grail of greetings continues.

I agree hun.

"hun"! How very dare you.... I'm insulted.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I get called cute a lot

Seems accurate, though. "

Can’t be a good thing

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I get called cute a lot

Seems accurate, though.

Can’t be a good thing

You can be cute AND hot at the same time, you know! Just look at Scarlet Johansen, Margot Robbie, Gal Gadot, Emma Stone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Reading this from the start it seems quite a skill to find a greeting that is generally acceptable, pleasing even to the recipient. The quest for the holy grail of greetings continues. "

why does it ??? seems pretty simple to me .... a simple hi (insert username) job done ...see not that hard really ????

i also like alot of others hate all the babe and hun's and other forms of cheesiness unless you know someone then for some thats different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s basic English language skills. Baby has the obvious meaning but can be used with a partner as a term of endearment. A horny guy will use it sexually to impart their aroused state on someone who may not be open to that. Just lack of thought.

Girl again is a bit of an insult I feel. Women stop being girls at an early stage and become young women, then women. I find it odd calling someone a girl when the person is clearly an adult.

It’s very simple. All females on here are women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely context is everything?

If someone in the street called Mrs B a slut they would get a slap (or more) from her.

But when she is being fucked she loves being told what a slut or dirty bitch she is!

Had a guy who we met a few times who clearly liked to tell her what a good girl she was. Typing it sounds creepy actually but in the heat of the moment nobody batted an eyelid!

Well, a consensual ’good girl’ is very different I think

What about “angel” (14 Jan pic - nice wings!)"

Indeed, as it is part of my username too! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first post!

I dont mind being referred to as girl, but babe, hun, baby all in the first message drives me mad for some reason!

Hello!

Hey! I've been reading the forums since I joined but had to wait the time limit to be able to post - this seemed like a good one to start with!

Wise move. Some threads are better kept for afternoons, when lockdown boredom makes everything seem strangely funny.

Definitely, finding the forums entertaining AND educational!

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

It’s very simple. All females on here are women.

But clearly many like being called girl. So no, it’s not an insult. It’s a preference. An insult would be calling someone a cow. That’s an insult in almost every scenario.... unless you’re into cow play... which I hope I just made up....

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Very much so

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It’s very simple. All females on here are women.

I'm afraid you did not. It's a thing already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Babe,Hun,...thats a straight delete "

And good girl by a stranger!

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By *ingle fun guyMan
over a year ago

Flexible

If someone does call a lady a girl and she doesn't like it despite no offence being intended, then I'm sure she could helpfully suggest something else to that person without any issues.

Only problem is that people seem to be offended more nowadays... either when they are called something or when its pointed out to the person who said it.

We are all adults looking for some naughty fun... I'm sure we can all get over things without hissy fits and unnecessary blockings.

Not calling out anyone on this thread... its good that people are having the conversation, it just feels like people in general are getting more tetchy - both on fab and in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very simple. All females on here are women.

nope cow play already exists.. often using suction pumps.. so hard to be original these days

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

I normally refer to people via their names.

But personally I don't mind pet names so long as the intention is aimed at being affectionate.

The intention is everything and everyone is different so some will like it some won't and some won't care either way.

I see no harm if a particular term offends you in correcting the person you are corresponding with as they may not realise and think that because it was charming to someone else they spoke to it will work with others.

Sure if they do not ammend their ways after being asked then be offended. But we are not all the same and people tend to behave based on previous experiences and responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very simple. All females on here are women. "

Hmmm actually i have issues with that statement! Not all females identify as female and some definitely would object to the pronouns her /she

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It’s basic English language skills. Baby has the obvious meaning but can be used with a partner as a term of endearment. A horny guy will use it sexually to impart their aroused state on someone who may not be open to that. Just lack of thought.

Girl again is a bit of an insult I feel. Women stop being girls at an early stage and become young women, then women. I find it odd calling someone a girl when the person is clearly an adult.

It’s very simple. All females on here are women.

Aside from how problematic and borderline misogynistic a sweeping generalisation like "all women are.." is, several women on this thread alone have already stated that they like being called girls and even more women have expressed an enormous distaste for being referred to as "Females". Under the circumstances, I'm going to respectfully disagree.

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

I love being referred to as a girl but I guess it's a bit different for me, hate hun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very simple. All females on here are women.

nope cow play already exists.. often using suction pumps.. so hard to be original these days "

They're in for a surprise when they discover "hucow" is an actual thing

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hear for the comments and to learn xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't used to mind it until someone repeatedly said it to me whilst i was giving him a blowjob...then found it really off putting.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Babe, baby, hun, hunny, sweetheart, sweetie, lovey, could keep going.

Funny enough, my mum and dad gave me a name and it wasn't any of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Babe,Hun,...thats a straight delete "

I really hate Hun or Hunny....it makes me think they have forgotten my name..its lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls"."

It's ok for women to call other women "girls" and for women to call men "boys", but not ok for men to call women "girls". Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls"."

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

The only person that gets away with calling me his girl, is my Sir. It took me a while to be ok with it. He doesn't call me it often, which helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im all women not a girl or babe

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Babe,Hun,...thats a straight delete "

I hate being messaged as 'Babes'. Bad enough without that gratuitous 'S' which also gets attached to club names on Fab Swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

...Only problem is that people seem to be offended more nowadays... "

So much that it is becoming a growth industry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it! "

I’m with you girl, doesn’t bother me abs I wouldn’t think twice about referring to friends as girls. I’d say I’m a highland girl, not a highland woman. Maybe it’s a Scottish thing?

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"

Whoops.

Guilty as charged. I'm afraid I was called on this precise point recently in the forum! I think it comes from guys and gals? I certainly don't think of the phrase as an insulting term in any way, anymore than calling a gent a guy?

Just a lighthearted phrase as far as I'm concerned and no need for to much p.c. to enter what is really only meant to be a fun space for a little banter?(ducks quickly to avoid brickbats?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about my bitch ?

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Never knew there was so much vehemence to the word 'girl'

As a guy, I've been called boy, doesn't bother me at all. And girls have said 'hun' and I don't look at that as icky

I guess whatever floats your boat, but drawing a line because of commonly used terms, is a bit over the top

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys"."

I would call men 'boy' in a dominatrix/mother type setting though not outside of them.

I think that it the point is something's like girl are okay in a certain context I.e. being called a naughty girl/boy during sex but not outside of it.

But the general rules as always...just ask before hand, it's simpler lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Depends totally on the context and the tone in which it is said. If it is patronising or sexist... then no, I do not like it. But mostly I m ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got a message calling me ma'am.. Is it a wind up from someone on this thread

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

The only person that gets away with calling me his girl, is my Sir. It took me a while to be ok with it. He doesn't call me it often, which helps."

Err yes they absolutely do call men's teams "boys" more often than not actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

I would call men 'boy' in a dominatrix/mother type setting though not outside of them.

I think that it the point is something's like girl are okay in a certain context I.e. being called a naughty girl/boy during sex but not outside of it.

But the general rules as always...just ask before hand, it's simpler lol "

Asking is a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

The only person that gets away with calling me his girl, is my Sir. It took me a while to be ok with it. He doesn't call me it often, which helps.

Err yes they absolutely do call men's teams "boys" more often than not actually. "

Note to self - take more notice of the commentators when my mate is watching football.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't mind girl, but babygirl is a bit much.

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By *rCandPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I much prefer to be a girl rather than a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"
[qoute] i would never call a lady a girl its not respectful you are all stunning ladies and respect is everything[/qoute]

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Don't mind it, but babe is an instant delete for me

Don't know why but it really irks me

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

How about mate or dude? Is that OK?

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"How about mate or dude? Is that OK? "

Ghastly!!!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I've never heard any older men objecting when a woman says "Come and get me, boys"!

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over a year ago

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

"How about mate or dude? Is that OK? "

Jay called mate and dude and his male work colleagues babe

it does work both ways haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it! "

You're not alone tho... I have never gotten used to calling myself a woman, I'm still a girl dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't stand being referred to as a girl or the worst good girl...

Different strokes for different folk, I LOVE being called a good girl

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Weird how something so insignificant seems to rub people the wrong way... a simple “I prefer (insert noun here) thank you” is enough. No need to make a big issue of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it!

You're not alone tho... I have never gotten used to calling myself a woman, I'm still a girl dammit

Haha me too! And at 41 I’m not sure that will ever change

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

The only person that gets away with calling me his girl, is my Sir. It took me a while to be ok with it. He doesn't call me it often, which helps.

Err yes they absolutely do call men's teams "boys" more often than not actually.

Note to self - take more notice of the commentators when my mate is watching football. "

Watch any post match interview with the Liverpool manager. Its 'boys' bingotastic.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

The only person that gets away with calling me his girl, is my Sir. It took me a while to be ok with it. He doesn't call me it often, which helps.

Err yes they absolutely do call men's teams "boys" more often than not actually.

Note to self - take more notice of the commentators when my mate is watching football.

Watch any post match interview with the Liverpool manager. Its 'boys' bingotastic. "

He's allowed..

He does it with that blinding smile.

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

"What about my bitch ? "

Fine by me

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"What about my bitch ?

Fine by me

Dirty bitch. Filthy whore. Kinky slut. Anything but babe or baby. All in the right context, of course.

Lou x

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"Weird how something so insignificant seems to rub people the wrong way... a simple “I prefer (insert noun here) thank you” is enough. No need to make a big issue of it

Think it's just all this pandemic stuff making folk tetchy. Once things are a bit better I'm gonna go around calling them all sweetpea and treacle and they'll all love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP is entitled to her preferences but she clearly does not watch women's sports such as football or rugby. The female commentators regular call the competitors "girls".

That's wrong on the sexist level. They'd never call male players "boys".

The only person that gets away with calling me his girl, is my Sir. It took me a while to be ok with it. He doesn't call me it often, which helps.

Err yes they absolutely do call men's teams "boys" more often than not actually.

Note to self - take more notice of the commentators when my mate is watching football.

Watch any post match interview with the Liverpool manager. Its 'boys' bingotastic. "

Or any football manager being interviewed 'The boys/lads played well etc' never 'the men played well'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady here

I work in male sport and refer to them all as my boys

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"A lady here

I work in male sport and refer to them all as my boys

Presumably they manage to recover from the heinous insult?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about my bitch ?

Fine by me

Dirty bitch. Filthy whore. Kinky slut. Anything but babe or baby. All in the right context, of course.

Lou x "

Funny, because I love slut and whore, but I really don’t like bitch.

We all have our thing don’t we, and that’s ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lady here

I work in male sport and refer to them all as my boys

Presumably they manage to recover from the heinous insult? "

Not sure they actually notice and all are young enough hahahahahahahaha ... luckily none are likely to be bothered either!

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

"What about my bitch ?

Fine by me

Dirty bitch. Filthy whore. Kinky slut. Anything but babe or baby. All in the right context, of course.

Lou x

Funny, because I love slut and whore, but I really don’t like bitch.

We all have our thing don’t we, and that’s ok. "

Indeedy. And that’s why the men can never get it right.

Lou x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t like being called “girl”, unless it’s one particular person and he’s calling me “good girl”. I don’t like it from anyone, of any gender, and I don’t use it to refer to adult women myself. Not even to say “girl’s night” or something like that. I also hate being called a female. I see it all the time on here, men call themselves men and women girls or females. Yes, I know some of the women do too; and yes, I know some women don’t mind or even like it. But the fact that some like it doesn’t mean you should apply it to all of us.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"Babe,Hun,...thats a straight delete

I really hate Hun or Hunny....it makes me think they have forgotten my name..its lazy."

Hello lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about my bitch ?

Fine by me

Dirty bitch. Filthy whore. Kinky slut. Anything but babe or baby. All in the right context, of course.

Lou x

Funny, because I love slut and whore, but I really don’t like bitch.

We all have our thing don’t we, and that’s ok.

Indeedy. And that’s why the men can never get it right.

Lou x "

Haha! Yes. They need to start with usernames I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get called cute a lot

Seems accurate, though.

Can’t be a good thing

Hate being called cute lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good girl" can fuck off too lol

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By *lanor the FairWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it!

Im with you as well, I don't mind it at all...

Especially when he's banging hell out me calling me a naughty girl

I agree . It doesn’t bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m in the minority here but I don’t mind it!

Im with you as well, I don't mind it at all...

Especially when he's banging hell out me calling me a naughty girl

I agree . It doesn’t bother me in the slightest "

Nor me.

Waited a long time to be recognised as a girl.

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By *ydia_LovegoodWoman
over a year ago

St. Ives

There are worse words to be described as!!

My pet hate is 'Mummy'...

I ain't your mother!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner calls me girl all the time I like it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Weird how something so insignificant seems to rub people the wrong way... a simple “I prefer (insert noun here) thank you” is enough. No need to make a big issue of it

Think it's just all this pandemic stuff making folk tetchy. Once things are a bit better I'm gonna go around calling them all sweetpea and treacle and they'll all love it. "

Nah, people were like that way before this pandemic.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

""Good girl" can fuck off too lol "

Yes but I'm no sub , if I was I probably would love it

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By *BWarksCouple
over a year ago

warwick

I was told many years a go that a woman is a woman and only a lady if you know she is lol

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"i get it all the time via messages and see it more and more in the forums really bugs me lol

so are you ok with being called girl ?

im not

all woman here"

Only beautiful ladies on here.

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By *ransistersTV/TS
over a year ago

Dover

I don't mind what you call me as long as you call me, but MILF ?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Doesn’t bother me. I get called babe, hun, pet, dear, darling, sweetheart, duck..all sorts.

No different from calling men chap, fella, mate, dude, buddy in my opinion.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Of all that is wrong in this current world, and this is what we're discussing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of all that is wrong in this current world, and this is what we're discussing?

We can’t talk about the virus etc all the time.

Sometimes we need some lighthearted relief.

some people are struggling atm, so something to take our minds off it is good.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

As a word to describe a group of my female friends, I use the term, girls.

It would seem wierd coming from a random on here though.

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By *roticusCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Lucy doesn't think there's anything wrong with being called a girl, rovided the guys don't mind being called boys.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't mind girl, hate lady, prefer woman.

Don't even get me started on hon or hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I don't mind being called "girl" is if I'm wearing my school uniform outfit

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"I don't mind girl, hate lady, prefer woman.

Don't even get me started on hon or hun."

Honeybum?

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Girl woman slut love them all

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

When it comes to pet names for each other we use them all.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Perhaps already touched on and a view from a different type of ‘female’

We are often referred to as ‘t-girls’, but never really heard the term t-woman or t-lady ... personally I don’t mind.

What is a lovely feeling however is being acknowledged as female when being out dressed .... it is great to be referred to as madam, lady ... or even ‘love’ as in ‘yes love what can I get you’ often asked in a bar.

I can’t think of anyone ever wanting to call me ‘girl’ ... given my age and gender ... but the world won’t end if they did

R xx

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