FabSwingers.com forum: House parties: which do you prefer

By *edHeelsCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more!

But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly

That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun

Which do you prefer?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more!

But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly

That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun

Which do you prefer?

I like the option of both

if people want to play in front of everyone that’s fine, but I also like the option of closing a door. Especially if there are people there I don’t want to play with as such. Without sounding mean

Admittedly I do prefer clubs to parties, but as a single gal I never really have these things planned so depends what I prefer on the night

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers "

I can imagine that going down well

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

We've not been to or hosted a party yet. It's definitely a plan for after the lockdown. Missing clubs and being socialable in general at the moment.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's wise to have both and they both work for me. You get variety of atmosphere and types of engagement. It's natural to want some time to be a bit more cut off from everybody, for me.

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By *edHeelsCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

So far both is prefered.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve been to a few.

I have found it quite odd and off putting when you are in a member of the family’s bedroom and photographs, football or dancing trophies are on the wall looking down at you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We prefer a bedroom set aside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both is great like open play get everyone in mood hope get few party invites when normality resumes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t yet experienced parties but both sound pretty fun. Hoping for an invite or two post-Covid

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Separated rooms so it has a different atmosphere and your able to pick and chill and enjoy plus it's controlling the hygiene side of things and music for each room for the level of mood

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both sound great. We’re hoping to have our first house party experience once things return to normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward throwing a few once virus has gone in Midlands and Manchester area .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love parties more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I - Gent - have hosted small hotel parties and loved it. Everyone loved the privacy of the hotel room and the excitement of playing with and watching others.

Lady and I definitely want to attend a house party after lockdown. We just love the idea of being surrounded by sexy couples all excited to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to a couple of parties, and hosted a couple as well, all have been all in one room type, very enjoyable

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space. "

Social space is important.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space.

Social space is important. "

It is to us but not everyone we've discovered

. The second I feel under any obligation I freeze.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”. "

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

I hosted a couple of parties years ago and had a strict policy that downstairs was for social and upstairs was for sex. worked very well.

Went to one which was total chaos. they had far to many people there and you were stepping over couples just to get to the kitchen.

There was a couple who hosted an all weekend job and they were brill but knackering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

That wouldn’t be our kind of party either. We would much prefer a relaxed ‘go with the flow’ vibe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

I don't know if that is commonplace but we went to a party where everyone was expected to have sex with everyone else. No problem with other people enjoying that but it isn't my thing. We politely told the host that we weren't comfortable, thanked them and left.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Only been to one party ..

Spent most of the night in a hot tub drinking lager ..

People got in and back out again, hands were everywhere..

Went in the house later on and was talking to a couple in a hall way waiting for the bathroom.. and had no idea I’d played with them until they made a comment.. drink, bad memory or lost in the moment.. no idea

But absolutely loved it ..

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By *edHeelsCpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

As far as we are concerned most parties are just that house parties. People should arrive to enjoy the event. If anything happens funwise then it’s a bonus. People are people. Some are tired, stressed, ladies TOTM etc Or just there to unwind and chat. Get some fab usernames, kik addresses or phone numbers.

On the other hand, if people have chatted or know each other from meets or clubs and have played before; things can evolve quite quickly

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

Thanks.

We'd do exactly the same. It'll be a question we will now ask if and when we get invites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

This would have me immediately leaving. Much preferred the organic nature and not feeling immediately pressurised to play. Especially as solo female at the time.

I attended a house party once and host started contacting other men whilst I was there. Felt that I would enjoy getting to meet more! Erm no thankyou if you didn't invite them in the first place then I'm certainly not going to be playing with any others, in my eyes that what would be complete randoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

This would have me immediately leaving. Much preferred the organic nature and not feeling immediately pressurised to play. Especially as solo female at the time.

The dynamic has to be right at a private party doesn’t it, and ideally that’s established well in advance

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

Thanks.

We'd do exactly the same. It'll be a question we will now ask if and when we get invites."

We did ask and were told that wouldn't be the case. It's happened twice now, so no more parties for us

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space.

Social space is important.

It is to us but not everyone we've discovered

. The second I feel under any obligation I freeze."

Shouldnt be made to feel like that at all! Ive not been to a club (yet) but been to a few house parties. The first I really did feel like a piece of meat thrown out there and I didnt stay long. The other parties were all hosted by the same couple. Much more relaxed in a great house with social rooms and naughty rooms. I prefer that as can actually get to chat and have a laugh and then if your feeling move on to the next room for sexy time! But even then I dont feel I have fuck everyone at the party, or anyone at all if Im just not feeling it with anyone. Luckily thats not happend yet. I suppose its like clubs in a way as just because your there dosnt mean im gonna fuck you.

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We have never been invited to a party yet. Think this plague got in the way. Did have a great 6 way at asylum on Halloween before lockdown though and then arranged a repeat at ours a week late. That was a fun and intense evening we can't wait to repeat

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

we usually have a bedroom set aside for play but once the fun starts it tends to spill out to everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to many house parties.

The best ones usually are when at least 15 couples with a few single male and females. We like it when more are all in one room. 6 couples on a bed mattresses on the floor plus a few chairs.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire

Bit of a fan of the openness approach, not necessarily an all out gang bang, but people playing at will in front of others. Very horny.

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By *ichie Rich 93Man
over a year ago

Wild S.West

The first definitely x

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

For us we prefer where there are separate play spaces and the lounge and kitchen social only areas.

After COVID I hope people start hosting again as we have been to some fantastic ones over the years.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We've been to lots of both types, but our favourites are the ones that are basically one room orgies.

The others can be great too, but we just love group sex.

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Only been to a couple of parties, which have been hosted by the same couple. The rooms are open and so us the garden if it’s summer.

Tends to be mild fore play to late evening then the fund starts, normally in the hot tub and moves to the other rooms. So open play. But with no pressure to get involved.

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve only been to one small one, eight people in a flat. Felt like people paired off to rooms, we felt a bit forgotten at times

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By *evilmademedoitMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

We used to often hold parties and always prefers the open room fun sessions although there were always some people who preferred to nip off to a bedroom.

Oh how I miss those days.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I can imagine that going down well

I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.

Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.

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We have been to a few parties and that has never happened there is no pressure to do anything with anyone.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I remember a lovely houseparty in a beautiful house in Headingley, Leeds. At one point I counted a daisychain of 13 people, all sexually conected. Excellent fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more!

But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly

That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun

Which do you prefer?

Trouble with and open play is someone you might not fancy playing with might try to cop a feel or try to join in uninvited.

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