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"We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more! But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun Which do you prefer? ![]() I like the option of both ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”. | |||
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"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space. " Social space is important. | |||
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"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space. Social space is important. " It is to us but not everyone we've discovered ![]() | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before. ![]() | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() That wouldn’t be our kind of party either. We would much prefer a relaxed ‘go with the flow’ vibe. | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() I don't know if that is commonplace but we went to a party where everyone was expected to have sex with everyone else. No problem with other people enjoying that but it isn't my thing. We politely told the host that we weren't comfortable, thanked them and left. | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() Thanks. We'd do exactly the same. It'll be a question we will now ask if and when we get invites. | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() This would have me immediately leaving. Much preferred the organic nature and not feeling immediately pressurised to play. Especially as solo female at the time. I attended a house party once and host started contacting other men whilst I was there. Felt that I would enjoy getting to meet more! Erm no thankyou if you didn't invite them in the first place then I'm certainly not going to be playing with any others, in my eyes that what would be complete randoms. | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() The dynamic has to be right at a private party doesn’t it, and ideally that’s established well in advance | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() We did ask and were told that wouldn't be the case. It's happened twice now, so no more parties for us ![]() | |||
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"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space. Social space is important. It is to us but not everyone we've discovered ![]() Shouldnt be made to feel like that at all! Ive not been to a club (yet) but been to a few house parties. The first I really did feel like a piece of meat thrown out there and I didnt stay long. The other parties were all hosted by the same couple. Much more relaxed in a great house with social rooms and naughty rooms. I prefer that as can actually get to chat and have a laugh and then if your feeling move on to the next room for sexy time! But even then I dont feel I have fuck everyone at the party, or anyone at all if Im just not feeling it with anyone. Luckily thats not happend yet. I suppose its like clubs in a way as just because your there dosnt mean im gonna fuck you. | |||
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers I can imagine that going down well ![]() ![]() We have been to a few parties and that has never happened there is no pressure to do anything with anyone. | |||
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"We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more! But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun Which do you prefer? ![]() Trouble with and open play is someone you might not fancy playing with might try to cop a feel or try to join in uninvited. | |||
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