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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone met on here and started a relationship?

I only ask because where else would you meet someone who is into the same things as you sexually.......and having a relationship and swinging.....does it work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo good question, I often wonder if people meet regularly, is there a danger of getting attached emotionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to meet my significant other on here, form a couple thats is in love but can still play and have fun, but together, no playing alone. That would be perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fir some it works for others not

I know a lot of couples who have split up over swinging, i also know a fair few people who have met on here, fell in love and stopped swinging

I suppose it depends what you want out of life

so like swinging alone but dont like the idea of sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to meet my significant other on here, form a couple thats is in love but can still play and have fun, but together, no playing alone. That would be perfect "

i dont think i would want that

Not that im looking for anyone but if i did ever fall for someone i wouldnt want to swing with them, i find it highly unlikely i would ever have a relationship with someone i met thro swinging for that very reason

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it is nice when you see it work and people finding happiness together and many do... and I wish them all the very best with that.

however, not so when it doesn't...

Monday: wow, found the man/woman of my dreams

Tuesday: missing you hunni, are you missing me

Wednesday: he/she is the one, my very special man/woman

Thursday: No longer meeting as a single, please see couple profile

Friday: Looking for a meet tonight, ONLY COUPLES no single men, read NO FUCKING SINGLE MEN

Saturday: all quiet ............

Sunday..... go fuck yourself, you bastard..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through Fab - something 'clicked' and we've been a couple for 2 & a half years. Still play when the mood takes us but work etc gets in the way. We can't wait to move in together, get jobs close to one another & play a bit more - for now our time together is precious. So yes! It works - we can talk to each other about everything & we are still totally loved up....

Mrs GT - and I know Mr would say the same!

PS we were not looking for a relationship when we met....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yep and it works great

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it is nice when you see it work and people finding happiness together and many do... and I wish them all the very best with that.

however, not so when it doesn't...

Monday: wow, found the man/woman of my dreams

Tuesday: missing you hunni, are you missing me

Wednesday: he/she is the one, my very special man/woman

Thursday: No longer meeting as a single, please see couple profile

Friday: Looking for a meet tonight, ONLY COUPLES no single men, read NO FUCKING SINGLE MEN

Saturday: all quiet ............

Sunday..... go fuck yourself, you bastard..

"

LMFAO!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is nice when you see it work and people finding happiness together and many do... and I wish them all the very best with that.

however, not so when it doesn't...

Monday: wow, found the man/woman of my dreams

Tuesday: missing you hunni, are you missing me

Wednesday: he/she is the one, my very special man/woman

Thursday: No longer meeting as a single, please see couple profile

Friday: Looking for a meet tonight, ONLY COUPLES no single men, read NO FUCKING SINGLE MEN

Saturday: all quiet ............

Sunday..... go fuck yourself, you bastard..

"

Barbara Cartland called. She wants her notepad back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

relationships dont work because pf preconcieved or premeditated websites or discussions in forums...

life happens around us and we are absorbed by what makes us tick...

sometimes you will find on a site like this that there are soulmate (ish) behaviour that draws us in.

however what draws us closer is not the behaviour here its the relationship you build when your talking and meeting in private

this is a fantastic place to meet like midned people who share your common ideals about sex, love and life...however there are many here both Male and female that are here just to perve and get nowhere and unfortunatley they spoil it for the rest of us

PS...fee.... YES YOU ARE..... XXXXX

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By *ngelkissesxxWoman
over a year ago

coventry

I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!! "

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it

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By *ngelkissesxxWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it "

No longer confused.com ! This mornings events have made it very clear where I stand and I shall be very guarded from now on with him and anyone else I meet. I can't stand liars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it

No longer confused.com ! This mornings events have made it very clear where I stand and I shall be very guarded from now on with him and anyone else I meet. I can't stand liars."

Bloody hell...revert to View's post above

Still, hope you're ok

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it

No longer confused.com ! This mornings events have made it very clear where I stand and I shall be very guarded from now on with him and anyone else I meet. I can't stand liars."

Wow, that's a big changearound in events, Part of me wants to know what happened and part of me doesn't.

Hope things work out for you anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to meet ladies ( hopefully single / maybe as a swinging female away from partner ) as in like one or more, hopefully with the same interests etc, chat here in chatrooms, build up a rappor, hopefully gel well together, as friends, go out, have some fun, socialise, club, hotel, pub, spa etc. if the mood takes us, maybe you know......... were all single, all in the same boat, no harm or confusion, no one gets hurt etc. or thats how I 'hope to do things'.

Yeah i know 'Famous last words lol.

If things go further, nature takes its course, watch this space lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!! "

Wow ... timely thread ! Hope it doesn't put you off .... even on a site like this honesty does exist of you dig deep enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure folk have. If I met someone from here that's when it would be time for me to leave. Wouldn't swing as a couple. Not sharing lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read this i had to write something lol.........

Sam and I met just over 2 years ago, both singles on FAB and have been together ever since, we are very much in love and have great fun swinging together and yet still maintaining a loving , caring relationship.

Yes we have had our little tiffs through swinging but thats half the fun especially when you make up lol !! So in our opinion yes it can and does work, you just have to be clear about your boundaries and always remember its about both of you and what you want out of it ?

Would also add that i think you need to be careful and take it very slowly and dont get sucked in to anything to quickly, communication is key and being comfortable with each other

Happy swinging peeps xx

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By *er himWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Interesting and do wish you both all the very best of luck..hope it last, not because of swinging but as in anyrelationship....Just wondering does either of the feel differently now seeing the other being fucked by other people???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting and do wish you both all the very best of luck..hope it last, not because of swinging but as in anyrelationship....Just wondering does either of the feel differently now seeing the other being fucked by other people???"

We dont full swap as yet, we have discussed it but for now its not for us and to be honest we have just as much fun without full swap

We dont rule anything out but as a couple we go with what we both feel comfortable with. We are so tight in our relationship and discussing and communicating makes for the most fun because we both understand exactly where we are both coming from

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By *ngelkissesxxWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it

No longer confused.com ! This mornings events have made it very clear where I stand and I shall be very guarded from now on with him and anyone else I meet. I can't stand liars.

Wow, that's a big changearound in events, Part of me wants to know what happened and part of me doesn't.

Hope things work out for you anyway."

Thanks.... we have talked this afternoon and sorted things out. It would seem that we both feel a lot for each other and he didn't actually do anything at the meet because he couldn't through guilt.

I have no problem with him still swinging...all I ask is be honest about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my bf on here lol, and my only 2 fb became relationships!x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it

No longer confused.com ! This mornings events have made it very clear where I stand and I shall be very guarded from now on with him and anyone else I meet. I can't stand liars."

OMG.. already.. Oh dammit !

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By *ngelkissesxxWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"I've met a guy through the site, neither of us were looking to meet anyone. We are now only playing together and have talked about things we would like to do together swinging wise. I would love it to be more but just have no idea where I really stand! He isn't meeting anyone else and spends his kid and work free time with me, we get on really well both in and out of the bedroom but I still think it may just be an Fb situation. He says that I tick all of his boxes as far as his ideal woman is concerned and we text every day but then he says things like " I'm missing fucking you"....... so I am confused.com !!!

Sounds like he's confused too.......go with the flow and just see where it leads! Don't analyse it, just enjoy it

No longer confused.com ! This mornings events have made it very clear where I stand and I shall be very guarded from now on with him and anyone else I meet. I can't stand liars.

OMG.. already.. Oh dammit ! "

lol We have sorted things out now and hopefully it will all be ok

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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago

North Notts

We met at the local club. Quite good as the first comment Mrs gave me was "Fuck off, wanker!". Following that she chatted to me on here for a week then we met at the same club and the rest is history...

Year and 7 months on and alls great. Definatly saved on the "I've got a hobby" talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Silk met on here and have been a couple for almost a year. We did take some time off fabs to establish ourselves as a couple before setting up our couples profile. I guess go with the flow and see what works for you xx

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