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By *ubman50 OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Made me think after reading another post on here about people wanting face pics with first contact, as a married man but with an unaware wife i never send face pics with first contact as i do belive that you should build up a small amount of trust with whoever your contacting before sending pictures,am i wrong ?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Wait a married man with an unaware wife, wanting to build up trust with a stranger ?

Does any part of that seem odd to you ?!!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Have to disagree, op. Nice pleasantries in the first few messages but by the third exchange at the very latest should be a face pic from both parties in our opinion, could save a lot of wasted time.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Wait a married man with an unaware wife, wanting to build up trust with a stranger ?

Does any part of that seem odd to you ?!!"

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By *hom01Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Wait a married man with an unaware wife, wanting to build up trust with a stranger ?

Does any part of that seem odd to you ?!!"
Haha - Good Morning all ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I can see why a married man would think trust is so important.

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By *ubman50 OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

I understand why you may think its funny saying trust is important when they are breaking trust by cheating but we all have our own reasons for being on here, when i say trust i mean you need to know that the person is genuine and not just trying to get a pic so they can expose you as a cheater.

Yes i have had that done to be once before hence learnt by my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why you may think its funny saying trust is important when they are breaking trust by cheating but we all have our own reasons for being on here, when i say trust i mean you need to know that the person is genuine and not just trying to get a pic so they can expose you as a cheater.

Yes i have had that done to be once before hence learnt by my mistake "

And she forgave you?

Obviously I don’t know her, but if I forgave you for cheating on me, then that didn’t give you the green light to hurt me again.

Unless she’s given you permission to play..... in which case you wouldn’t need to be sneaking around.

Believe me; I don’t think this is funny.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You don't need to send a face pic unless you want to. People can ask for it it try and insist on it but that doesn't mean you have to do it. I don't ask for a face pic but I find if I talk to someone for a while then we usually just exchange them.I won't send a pic on demand.

It's been said before run your profile the way that suits you and not others. If someone is trying to insist you send pics etc and you're not comfortable then move on.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"I understand why you may think its funny saying trust is important when they are breaking trust by cheating but we all have our own reasons for being on here, when i say trust i mean you need to know that the person is genuine and not just trying to get a pic so they can expose you as a cheater.

Yes i have had that done to be once before hence learnt by my mistake "

I don’t think it’s funny, why anyone would think someone would trust them while they are actively destroying their trust with someone else.

Wanting to get your dick wet is not a reason to break up any trust you’ve built with someone else.

If you’re not cheating on someone then you have no reason to fear being exposed as a cheater.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

For me a face pic is more important than any other pictures and would never meet anybody I hadn't seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unbelievable

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No right or wrong way, people can make their own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving the immense irony aside...

It’s completely down to preference, but if people don’t want to pursue a conversation because you can’t provide one, you should respect that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't need to send a face pic unless you want to. People can ask for it it try and insist on it but that doesn't mean you have to do it. I don't ask for a face pic but I find if I talk to someone for a while then we usually just exchange them.I won't send a pic on demand.

It's been said before run your profile the way that suits you and not others. If someone is trying to insist you send pics etc and you're not comfortable then move on. "

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By *ubman50 OP   Man
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I understand why you may think its funny saying trust is important when they are breaking trust by cheating but we all have our own reasons for being on here, when i say trust i mean you need to know that the person is genuine and not just trying to get a pic so they can expose you as a cheater.

Yes i have had that done to be once before hence learnt by my mistake

And she forgave you?

Obviously I don’t know her, but if I forgave you for cheating on me, then that didn’t give you the green light to hurt me again.

Unless she’s given you permission to play..... in which case you wouldn’t need to be sneaking around.

Believe me; I don’t think this is funny. "

I never said my wife found out i just said some i sent a face pic too threatened to expose me., yes it did make me delete my profile and think twice about joining up again but we all have our own reason and demons for being here

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I think that exchanging face pics early on in a conversation if it's going down a sexaul route is a must, after all there has to be a attraction for both parties in our opinion. Genuinely don't think it's a unreasonable thing to ask.

However if the other party involved or yourself isn't comfortable with this then it's just easy to say well thanks but no thanks.

We are all made from different moulds and go about our business on fab differently, just play by your own rules and not someone else's and hopefully you'll find another person that has the same way they use fab as yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very happy to show my face in a private message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be very untrusting of someone who didn't give me a face picture. I try not to get involved with married guys but I don't judge people on the choices they make.

I would also take it as an insult that I couldn't be trusted with that information. I would never be anything but 100% discreet and confidential with what anyone does or says. It makes me think that you think I'm a bad person and I'm not. Even if my sworn enemy accidentally contacted me I would still never ruin their reputation.

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By *ursecretmissionsCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Have to disagree, op. Nice pleasantries in the first few messages but by the third exchange at the very latest should be a face pic from both parties in our opinion, could save a lot of wasted time."

Agreed

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By *orthern_SteveMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

This may sound shallow but I will swap face pics immediately.

I do not want sex with anyone I am not attracted to, and why get into a great conversation only to find the other person does not find you attractive.

But I understand why people are worried about sharing their pictures regardless of how many messages have been sent

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I always ask and swap face pics early on. It saves the awkward moment when you do swap them only to find out they not your cuppa tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face image is very important

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