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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just counted that out of the last 30 people to look at our profile 25 had no profile pics.

On looking at their accounts the majority had one or two friends pictures.

These are all guys and they wonder why they get no response from messages and get shirty when you don't reply.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Just counted that out of the last 30 people to look at our profile 25 had no profile pics.

On looking at their accounts the majority had one or two friends pictures.

These are all guys and they wonder why they get no response from messages and get shirty when you don't reply."

Welcome to the world of Fab! Often just one line of ‘I’ll get round to filling this in later’ text as well. The good news is it works as a filter for us, a manual one, but a filter all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found that most guys use this as a tactic to get a friend invite to access your friends only pics

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire

I'm not sure which is more off-putting...no photos at all, or a dozen badly taken close up photos of a flaccid/strangled cock!

Either way, its likely to determine me from responding to a wink, or even a message if none are included them either.

If men don't put any effort into their profile, they shouldn't complain when no-one puts any effort into responding to them.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think of my profile ?

Do you think its my actual age etc ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of new people here since lockdown. I’d chalk it up to the bored and the curious more than serious swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure which is more off-putting...no photos at all, or a dozen badly taken close up photos of a flaccid/strangled cock!

Either way, its likely to determine me from responding to a wink, or even a message if none are included them either.

If men don't put any effort into their profile, they shouldn't complain when no-one puts any effort into responding to them.

V x"

Well taken pictures get my attention every time.

Any budding photographers who want to take some for me after lockdown?

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

When we get messages from people with no profile photo don’t usually read them just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just counted that out of the last 30 people to look at our profile 25 had no profile pics.

On looking at their accounts the majority had one or two friends pictures.

These are all guys and they wonder why they get no response from messages and get shirty when you don't reply."

How do you know they are being shorty, without any pics you can’t verify if they have a shirt to be shirty with!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants


"When we get messages from people with no profile photo don’t usually read them just delete "

Same here. Unless their message is particularly captivating... Which, let's face it, is rare.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"Just counted that out of the last 30 people to look at our profile 25 had no profile pics.

On looking at their accounts the majority had one or two friends pictures.

These are all guys and they wonder why they get no response from messages and get shirty when you don't reply."

We get more messages a day than we can reply to, especially if I have been active on the forums, so it acts as a good filter of who we reply to. If they can't make an effort why should I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make you think what is going through there mind... I had a message yesterday from an unverified profile with no pictures 'wanna fuck' I was like 'based off what' and he said what do you mean I said well what information would I be basing my decision from we've never spoke i have no idea what you look like why would I be like yes stranger I don't know and never seen please come round to my house for sex... He was like your just as fucked up as all women on fab and I had to laugh out loud.... Yes us women are all fucked uo because we don't just shut up and open our legs for anyone who askes.... Crazy

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

If a profile doesn’t have pics and haven’t been photo verified by site after a month it should be deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get it all. If you expect replies, have details available. Makes it harder for genuine people.

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By *reatformeatWoman
over a year ago

my own bubble

I had once yesterday message me twice no pics or veris clearly not read my profile , 3rd time messaged saying ignorant bitch i calmly said please read profile he replied “I have read it but not prepared to pamper to your request “ why mail in the first place then ?? Some do give guys a bad name

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I recently removed all apart from one's we can share with friends. That just generates too much mail.

Somehow I am finding fabs is not good place to find new people. Good for chat or read about experiences, but in past we had better success on tinder. Even meeting people who are here. You'd be surprised how many tinder matches were ok to date someone engaged already.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire


"Just counted that out of the last 30 people to look at our profile 25 had no profile pics.

On looking at their accounts the majority had one or two friends pictures.

These are all guys and they wonder why they get no response from messages and get shirty when you don't reply."

Couldn't agree more. There has certainly been an influx of new profiles in recent months with no pictures. And some have the cheek to ask for face pics too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i took all my pics down bar one until this covid is over to try and reduce the amount of pointless wank mail/pic seekers and its worked ... and to be honet im attracting nicer people and nicer messages too so may keep it this way after covid too ..less seems more i can the share my naughty pics to whom i want and when i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's annoying, but at least it gives you a quick way of ing out the no-hopers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just counted that out of the last 30 people to look at our profile 25 had no profile pics.

On looking at their accounts the majority had one or two friends pictures.

These are all guys and they wonder why they get no response from messages and get shirty when you don't reply."

You said they looked at your profile. No harm in that. They may have removed all their pics and info due to not meeting.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Part of the issue is it’s free to join fab. Granted to access functionality you have to become a member but I do wonder if charging a small fee to join AND insisting on photo verification would stop a lot of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checked your profile OP to help even the balance lol

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Part of the issue is it’s free to join fab. Granted to access functionality you have to become a member but I do wonder if charging a small fee to join AND insisting on photo verification would stop a lot of this "

Yes we agree with this, it would stop all the weekend warriors that pop up every Friday and arw gone by Monday

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By *otYourKind666Man
over a year ago

Horsham

I learnt very very quickly as a man on Fab to get any response you really have to put yourself right out there! Good manners and plenty of face pics are a must. My bio is a bit shit but I hate writing those things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many pictures are enough for fab? I had a couple message me saying you need more pics xxx

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire


"I'm not sure which is more off-putting...no photos at all, or a dozen badly taken close up photos of a flaccid/strangled cock!

Either way, its likely to determine me from responding to a wink, or even a message if none are included them either.

If men don't put any effort into their profile, they shouldn't complain when no-one puts any effort into responding to them.

V x

Well taken pictures get my attention every time.

Any budding photographers who want to take some for me after lockdown?

"

I'd be happy to take some for you, but I have to say, the ones you already have on your profile look pretty good to me.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love adding new pics for all to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love posting pics of myself for all to see and possibly like.

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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham, Gloucestershire


"I love posting pics of myself for all to see and possibly like.

"

And very sexy photos they are too, nicely done that man (Pink Floyd lyrics too!?)!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love posting pics of myself for all to see and possibly like.

And very sexy photos they are too, nicely done that man (Pink Floyd lyrics too!?)!

You're the first to have noticed that reference

V x"

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol hence why all are available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even stranger is when they message, you click on their profile and it’s hidden

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I love posting pics of myself for all to see and possibly like.

"

Or they go missing on the interweb! Did you find the toothpaste?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We probably have too many pics, but why worry? People use their profiles as they see fit, some with no pics, some with great pics and some with pretty horrible pics. If others don't like them they can simply move on or ignore their owners if messaged.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Part of the issue is it’s free to join fab. Granted to access functionality you have to become a member but I do wonder if charging a small fee to join AND insisting on photo verification would stop a lot of this "

And that would put off a lot of genuine people as well. It definitely would have put me.off joining. I didn't get photo veried until I was on here 6 months or more. I became a site supporter after a couple of weeks when I decided I'd stay.

I use my filters to stop blank profiles messaging me some still cheat to get through and unless it's a good message I delete them. I don't mind who looks at me as I look at quite a few different profiles every day.

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
over a year ago

Kenilworth

Exactly! I think guys realise they can have nothing in their profile at all and simply hide it; so annoying!

Why does FAB allow this? You should have text, photos and a visible profile to be able to chat. That would stop many problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy posting pics and im looking forward to a covid free summer (maybe 2027) where I can get a female friend to take some classy outside shots.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A majority that have fill in later aren't genuine accounts I've come across some couple accounts made like this too which were later deleted can't understand why these kinds of people can't just grow up and act like a normal human being and don't understand the dangers of putting themselves in if goes wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A majority that have fill in later aren't genuine accounts I've come across some couple accounts made like this too which were later deleted can't understand why these kinds of people can't just grow up and act like a normal human being and don't understand the dangers of putting themselves in if goes wrong"

What danger?

People aren't forced to interact with them. It amazes me how many people need baby sitting on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think of my profile ?

Do you think its my actual age etc ? X"

You should start you’re own thread, but since you asked.....

Have you really only got a 2” cock or did you deliberately take a pic to make it look tiny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not only guys that have no pics and nothing of note in their profile, there are plenty of couples that are just as bad or even worse. I've lost count of the amount of couples profiles i have come across, "fill in latter", no pics at all and the biggest insult to anyone's intelligence, "send pic with message or instant delete"

Instant block from me i think.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Almost all our pics have been set to friends only for now because we are not looking to meet during the pandemic.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think of my profile ?

Do you think its my actual age etc ? X

You should start you’re own thread, but since you asked.....

Have you really only got a 2” cock or did you deliberately take a pic to make it look tiny? "

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