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By *ausageNmash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Andover

So just wondering what happens when profiles say cannot accommodate AND cannot travel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much.

They just stay at home and have sex i guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Properly a quicky behind the fish and chip shop

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"So just wondering what happens when profiles say cannot accommodate AND cannot travel ?"

I read the words as meaning "cannot travel to far" . I expect they don't have a car etc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet in their local area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering this myself when i first joined Fab a few years back (Before this profile)

I just thought...well what can they do then really?

"Fancy coming to my place? "

"NO!"

"OK erm, can i come to yours"

"Certainly not"

"Right...Hotel then?"

"Out of the question"

"O....K....."

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By *ausageNmash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Andover


"Only meet in their local area? "

Within walking distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally read it as 'Can't travel outside of my locality'.

In other words, if it's too far for a taxi.

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By *istretchMan
over a year ago

leeds

You pick them up and take them to yours

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

Is it to do with the current virus climate of not being able to accommodate or travel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can mean different things to different people.

One couple that i have met regularly (pre covid), can't travel and can't accommodate. I go and pick them up in my car and then back to my house.

Until you actually start to talk you never really know what someone actually means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And of course there are quite a few on here who do not intend to have meets ever.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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One couple that i have met regularly (pre covid), can't travel and can't accommodate. I go and pick them up in my car and then back to my house.

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Did they go out to work and the shops ?

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By *ausageNmash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Andover


"it can mean different things to different people.

One couple that i have met regularly (pre covid), can't travel and can't accommodate. I go and pick them up in my car and then back to my house.

Until you actually start to talk you never really know what someone actually means."

Ah well we don't operate a click and collect service

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By *ausageNmash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Andover


"You pick them up and take them to yours "

Really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder if people who can't work it out are confused by revolving doors as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just wondering what happens when profiles say cannot accommodate AND cannot travel ?"

What a great question

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Ah well we don't operate a click and collect service"

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

They want picking up or you pay for a taxi

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You also have those people who are here just to chat and not actually meeting.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Are they self isolating?

As some have been on here for years, did they know what was coming?

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By *ausageNmash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Andover


"They want picking up or you pay for a taxi "

Yeh cos that's going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it to do with the current virus climate of not being able to accommodate or travel ? "

This, I changed mine to can't accommodate t or travel as I am not meeting due to covid. Everyone should have this just now.. Why say you can when quite clearly we can't it's not rocket science it's common sense something that clearly is missing from many by the amount of requests for meets I have had recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have both as not meeting for the foreseeable ... but I did have both before when I did meet but in my I profile I stated that if you can't accommodate then neither can I and if you can't travel neither will I! Caught out lots of people who hadn't read my profile a useful tool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have both.

... I'm not a travel lodge.

Keeps a few away.

But I can travel I can accommodate. But you will only find out if your nice enough

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By *ausageNmash OP   Couple
over a year ago

Andover


"I have both.

... I'm not a travel lodge.

Keeps a few away.

But I can travel I can accommodate. But you will only find out if your nice enough"

Very good answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know some on Fab who put this because they only meet at clubs or parties.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"So just wondering what happens when profiles say cannot accommodate AND cannot travel ?"

There’s no harm in asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If 'can accommodate' is ticked, some people think they can turn up unannounced for a shag at any time of day or night.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that a person in London will travel to Scotland to shag them.

Many times it doesn't literally mean they 'can't' do it, it's just to put those types of people off from messaging them.

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By *ike oxard2018Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

that one has always baffled me

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home


"They want picking up or you pay for a taxi

Yeh cos that's going to happen "

Some people would no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have both.

... I'm not a travel lodge.

Keeps a few away.

But I can travel I can accommodate. But you will only find out if your nice enough

Very good answer "

Aww thanks... I dont do veris either..not trip advisor. Lol

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

probably trembler in the bushes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been expected to pick females up from their location, drive them to either my place or a hotel a way off and then drive them back when finished. No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 'can accommodate' is ticked, some people think they can turn up unannounced for a shag at any time of day or night.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that a person in London will travel to Scotland to shag them.

Many times it doesn't literally mean they 'can't' do it, it's just to put those types of people off from messaging them. "

This made me giggle, so true, many à time I have had people asking me to go on holiday, drive to Manchester, meet halfway from London, oh and how would I like to visit Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 'can accommodate' is ticked, some people think they can turn up unannounced for a shag at any time of day or night.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that a person in London will travel to Scotland to shag them.

Many times it doesn't literally mean they 'can't' do it, it's just to put those types of people off from messaging them.

This made me giggle, so true, many à time I have had people asking me to go on holiday, drive to Manchester, meet halfway from London, oh and how would I like to visit Ireland "

There's some odd people about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 'can accommodate' is ticked, some people think they can turn up unannounced for a shag at any time of day or night.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that a person in London will travel to Scotland to shag them.

Many times it doesn't literally mean they 'can't' do it, it's just to put those types of people off from messaging them.

This made me giggle, so true, many à time I have had people asking me to go on holiday, drive to Manchester, meet halfway from London, oh and how would I like to visit Ireland "

And this is the exact reason. You have to outsmart the morons by confusing them. It really works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 'can accommodate' is ticked, some people think they can turn up unannounced for a shag at any time of day or night.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that a person in London will travel to Scotland to shag them.

Many times it doesn't literally mean they 'can't' do it, it's just to put those types of people off from messaging them.

This made me giggle, so true, many à time I have had people asking me to go on holiday, drive to Manchester, meet halfway from London, oh and how would I like to visit Ireland

And this is the exact reason. You have to outsmart the morons by confusing them. It really works "

Totally, I know sarcasm is the lowest for of wit, but some of them just ask for it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't drive and can't accommodate because of wife, kids, house share, so bus or taxi is only option locally or they'll only meet in clubs and dont do 1 on 1 outside of clubs.

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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago

South Leicestershire

So glad someone actually posted this, I've thought it so often.

Great to see people's views too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I have often wondered this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet outside.

Only meet in a hotel.

Only meet in clubs.

Only meet people within their very local area. Sometimes if you put travel, people think that means you'll go across the country to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had it set before because I can't drive and I don't like to use public transport, I wasn't able to accommodate, therefore I'd only meet people who lived within reasonable walking distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it to do with the current virus climate of not being able to accommodate or travel ?

This, I changed mine to can't accommodate t or travel as I am not meeting due to covid. Everyone should have this just now.. Why say you can when quite clearly we can't it's not rocket science it's common sense something that clearly is missing from many by the amount of requests for meets I have had recently.

"

At last somebody applies common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If 'can accommodate' is ticked, some people think they can turn up unannounced for a shag at any time of day or night.

If 'can travel' is ticked, some people think that a person in London will travel to Scotland to shag them.

Many times it doesn't literally mean they 'can't' do it, it's just to put those types of people off from messaging them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been asking the same question for a long time no real answer to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just wondering what happens when profiles say cannot accommodate AND cannot travel ?"

Married and can't get a sitter but don't tel the wife haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So just wondering what happens when profiles say cannot accommodate AND cannot travel ?"
i cant accom ive kids here

I cant travel( far) so i do local meets or rather did till covid.

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