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has the ratio men/women/couples change on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??

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Seems to be less couples on here unless they are not logging on much

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Motivation to come on here when you can’t arrange meets or socials is crippling attendees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx"

I think Juicy Jessica has got it spot on. Even us blokes are getting more attention from blokes looking for meets!

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

I think you are correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anecdotally the ratio of women to men in our experience seems to have gone up, not down.

Not that either it matters much when we are in lockdown, nor am I entitled convinced that all of the women are women.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx"

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I've been on and off here since this site started and with the advent of android phones instead of logging in on a PC then yes the ratio of has increased maybe 4 fold in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx"

I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx

I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx"

I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??

"

There's a lot more regular couples oriented private parties going on. We (when we were a couple) stopped arranging meets on here and just started to go to parties. There's a lot less drama that way

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??

"

To be fair; I’ve seen more single females in here over recent months, and most of these you can see were regular club attendees. There’s been more couples too though

I wouldn’t say it’s been more difficult to find meets.......

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I think that the points highlighted are correct and there’s a lot more men signing up as sexual frustration grows and are looking for a quick easy shag as oppose to being able to do what they would normally do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx

I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx

I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol "

Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.

The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx

I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx

I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol

Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.

The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx"

Hey you guys! we single males aren't all the same.... but sex would be nice in this trying time hahaha

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I was on here a fair bit during the first lockdown enjoying the chat...but eventually ran out of steam ...and recently started logging on again ..definitely seems to be less couples on here now ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx

I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx

I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol

Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.

The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx

Hey you guys! we single males aren't all the same.... but sex would be nice in this trying time hahaha"

I'm not saying you are, there are plenty of nice single men on here, but unfortunately they still form the minority. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s certainly changed on here the last few years x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx

Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.

Not long hopfully and we can all play xx

I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx

I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol

Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.

The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx

Hey you guys! we single males aren't all the same.... but sex would be nice in this trying time hahaha

I'm not saying you are, there are plenty of nice single men on here, but unfortunately they still form the minority. Xx"

I couldn't agree more

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

The only thing I have noticed is a lot more fake profiles

As for single men, the cream will always rise to the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, as a woman primarily looking for one off meets with decent single guys - I'm glad there are a lot of single men on here! I just wish it were more of the good sort xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, as a woman primarily looking for one off meets with decent single guys - I'm glad there are a lot of single men on here! I just wish it were more of the good sort xx"

Give it time and I'm sure they'll the quality of the gentlemen folk will improve

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah might be because no meeting, little point. We pop on and chat etc... But do miss the clubs and fun

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By *ohn.pMan
over a year ago

Islington london

Hello everyone I'm John 34 from north London islington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah might be because no meeting, little point. We pop on and chat etc... But do miss the clubs and fun "
tell me about it dam lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??unless you want another male lol

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

On my update there is a regular stream of women joining, I would say joining in greater numbers than before the pandemic. Although a large proportion seem to be more into exhibitionism than meeting at a future date.

Also in the forums there is a noticeable amount of women who have joined or returned in the last 9 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the OGs are still on cottaging and dogging. The numbers on those sites have dwindled like crazy.

I also think there will always be a higher ratio of more men to women on here. One simple reason, many men think they are really going to get a meet by sending a “meet now” kind of message. They really do believe it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Anecdotally the ratio of women to men in our experience seems to have gone up, not down.

Not that either it matters much when we are in lockdown, nor am I entitled convinced that all of the women are women. "

Nor the couples couples

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We just pop on now and again now to have a look around the forums. Not looking to meet, no clubs open so don’t come on here as often as we used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your right we are only staying for a few more months to keep in contact with good friends

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