FabSwingers.com forum: anklet question for the ladies

By *urseCarol OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow visitor

So as we all dream of getting out to bars, clubs again thought Id ask if any other ladies on here have ever been approached by guys once they spot you are wearing an anklet?

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Its been more a case of noticing guys looking at her anklet than approaching. Wearing 5 inch heels also always draws the attention.

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By *in82Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry to intrude, but what's this anklet thing all about?

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

A lot of cuckold couples the wives will wear one. I have met many hotwives who have worn them and they wear them for one reason only.

I am always on the lookout and there is somewhat of a clear distinction when one is being worn with meaning.

It’s more an old skool thing and I am old skool.

I have approached a lady who was wearing one (she was with her husband and had great legs and heels) I was waiting in a departure gate lounge waiting to board a plane to a Business meeting. I sat beside them and said 'I loved the chain, very unusual, that I knew a couple where the wife liked wearing one' giving a knowing smile. Got a knowing smile back. Got chatting in general and found out where they were staying at their destination. Guess who happened to be in the hotel bar that evening! What me and hubby did to her that evening will live with me forever!

Always on the look out for an ankle chain wearer and a well turned heel.

Obvs discretion, tact and being the right situation to start a conversation is key.

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The thing with fashion is that something which was onv identifiable with a particular group or interest etc, has become more main stream so I see women wearing anklets in the summer just as jewellery who I know would be shocked and if someone interpreted it to be mean something in particular

With that said, if it was more easily recognised as a symbol for the swinger / hotwife etc... then I for one, would enjoy wearing one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as we all dream of getting out to bars, clubs again thought Id ask if any other ladies on here have ever been approached by guys once they spot you are wearing an anklet?"

Just bought the Mrs an hotwife one but she not had the chance to wear it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing with fashion is that something which was onv identifiable with a particular group or interest etc, has become more main stream so I see women wearing anklets in the summer just as jewellery who I know would be shocked and if someone interpreted it to be mean something in particular

With that said, if it was more easily recognised as a symbol for the swinger / hotwife etc... then I for one, would enjoy wearing one.

Most usually say Hotwife

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

With that said, if it was more easily recognised as a symbol for the swinger / hotwife etc... then I for one, would enjoy wearing one.

Most usually say Hotwife

Oh do they? Well that shows my naivety. Except I am single so couldn't wear one saying that. Might prefer something a little more subtle

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By *pontaneous cubMan
over a year ago

wandering

I’m in my 20’s but it is something I would keep an eye out for on my holidays haven’t yet seen one unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With that said, if it was more easily recognised as a symbol for the swinger / hotwife etc... then I for one, would enjoy wearing one.

Symbol such as up turned pineapple, any others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got ankle bracelet but no where to where it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to intrude, but what's this anklet thing all about? "

It’s a bit like earrings. It’s a piece of jewellery but instead of going in your ears it wraps around your ankle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to intrude, but what's this anklet thing all about?

It’s a bit like earrings. It’s a piece of jewellery but instead of going in your ears it wraps around your ankle. "

Jo.Xx

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I wear mine (with a very obvious H and W dangling off)

Never been approached as of yet.

I question wether people didn’t know what it was, didn’t fancy me if they did know or just darent approach.

I’d like someone to let me know. I’d be like ‘hey lifestyle friennnddd’ in an ‘inbetweeners’ type of way lol x

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I always thought the jewellery sign was a chameleon!

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I always thought the jewellery sign was a chameleon!"

Or a spade, or gender signs, or a little fox.

There’s quite a few x

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I wear one with an infinity symbol, classy and can be approached

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I wear one with an infinity symbol, classy and can be approached

I didn’t know that was one. I’m gonna bear it in mind for when I’m on bar spotting duty lol

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By *riginalsbCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"I wear one with an infinity symbol, classy and can be approached

I didn’t know that was one. I’m gonna bear it in mind for when I’m on bar spotting duty lol"

I don't think it means anything, but I like it and didn't want an obvious HW one

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've worn one since my teens when it was the in thing to wear. And it's something I've always worn when it's warm. I had no idea it signified anything but a bit of jewellery until I joined here

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By *tickyPollCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

I always wear my anklet on a night out!

I love it when it gets noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to always wear one and I had quite a few ankle bracelets as I called them. But I was totally unaware of the meaning lol. Oooooooooppps naive me

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Can be tricky. I grew up in Australia and anklets were the fashion 30/40, even 20 years ago. Still are for the beachy mob. Pretty sure they're not all swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've worn one since my teens when it was the in thing to wear. And it's something I've always worn when it's warm. I had no idea it signified anything but a bit of jewellery until I joined here "

The funny thing is. I remember wearing them in my teens and my Mum saying that they were a 'sign' for a 'tart' to put it in mums terms!

I have recently started to wear an anklet as a symbol of our swinging journey.

Plus they look so pretty!

Jo.Xx

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I've worn one since my teens when it was the in thing to wear. And it's something I've always worn when it's warm. I had no idea it signified anything but a bit of jewellery until I joined here

The funny thing is. I remember wearing them in my teens and my Mum saying that they were a 'sign' for a 'tart' to put it in mums terms!

I have recently started to wear an anklet as a symbol of our swinging journey.

Plus they look so pretty!

Jo.Xx "

My mam said the same which made me keep wearing it lol.

I just always thought they were pretty, and I can't wear bracelets in work, so always used it as a bit of jewellery.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I've worn one since my teens when it was the in thing to wear. And it's something I've always worn when it's warm. I had no idea it signified anything but a bit of jewellery until I joined here

The funny thing is. I remember wearing them in my teens and my Mum saying that they were a 'sign' for a 'tart' to put it in mums terms!

I have recently started to wear an anklet as a symbol of our swinging journey.

Plus they look so pretty!

Jo.Xx "

Same. I now have two - just need some place to go to show them off

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

it depends doesnt it loads of girls wear anklets that have no meaning what ever, i take you lot mean HW, or hotwife lettering

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By *llabouttheladyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My wife wears one, always in the right leg apparently.

She has been approached in the past, but not recently very often and never with me there.

It's a shame as it would stat off an interesting conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes worn my anklet few times and I think guys sometimes afraid to approach you probably scared to make a mistake! But few times I saw guys just looking at my legs non stop lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one would love to wear it out again but obviously will wait.

Only approached once. And that was close to a swingers club.

Someone said earlier in this thread that it’s to do with Cuckold I’m not so certain but would love to understand if it is that meaning.

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By *otwife Lilith and LeoCouple
over a year ago

NW London

I wear an anklet daily in the summer months and have never been approached by anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby is ordering me one. For the odd night we get to go out post covid

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By *llabouttheladyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I have one would love to wear it out again but obviously will wait.

Only approached once. And that was close to a swingers club.

Someone said earlier in this thread that it’s to do with Cuckold I’m not so certain but would love to understand if it is that meaning. "

Not so much cuckold in our interpretation, more hotwifes.

There are lots of opinions on the meaning, however the most common and long-standing one in the UK and overseas is that when an anklet is worn on the right leg it indicates a wife is open to being approached.

It's not an "I'm a slut so come and be inappropriate with me sign" it merely symbolises to thosd in the know that the said lady is a hotwife and looking for fun.

To those not in the know, they mean absolutely nothing - but they sure do look sexy.

They were and still are viewed negatively by some people as in the past there was a stigma attached to them - my wife's mum has always said "only tarts wear anklets"

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

opps im single and love ankle bracelet...

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By *llabouttheladyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"opps im single and love ankle bracelet...

They look sexy as do toe rings imo, hotwife or not, they are eye-catching

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By *easenRaveCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

My wife loves wearing hers when we go out but sadly not had many approaches even though it has a hw on it. We have pics of it on our profile.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

The only person to mention my HW anklet is the girl that does my toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M wears one, never been approached and not really a hotwife but certainly open marriage if she/wr were approached subtly and discreetly we wouldn't have a problem

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Anyone know where can have own specific anklets made

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"So as we all dream of getting out to bars, clubs again thought Id ask if any other ladies on here have ever been approached by guys once they spot you are wearing an anklet?"

Quite a few times especially the one in my pics that is worn over boots. It seems to be noticed more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one would love to wear it out again but obviously will wait.

Only approached once. And that was close to a swingers club.

Someone said earlier in this thread that it’s to do with Cuckold I’m not so certain but would love to understand if it is that meaning.

Not so much cuckold in our interpretation, more hotwifes.

It's not an "I'm a slut so come and be inappropriate with me sign" it merely symbolises to thosd in the know that the said lady is a hotwife and looking for fun.

To those not in the know, they mean absolutely nothing - but they sure do look sexy.

They were and still are viewed negatively by some people as in the past there was a stigma attached to them - my wife's mum has always said "only tarts wear anklets"

Thank you I think your idea makes 100% sense.

I suppose the next question would be what is truly a hot wife

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By *appy2100Couple
over a year ago

kensington

"I have one would love to wear it out again but obviously will wait.

Only approached once. And that was close to a swingers club.

Someone said earlier in this thread that it’s to do with Cuckold I’m not so certain but would love to understand if it is that meaning.

Not so much cuckold in our interpretation, more hotwifes.

It's not an "I'm a slut so come and be inappropriate with me sign" it merely symbolises to thosd in the know that the said lady is a hotwife and looking for fun.

To those not in the know, they mean absolutely nothing - but they sure do look sexy.

They were and still are viewed negatively by some people as in the past there was a stigma attached to them - my wife's mum has always said "only tarts wear anklets"

Thank you I think your idea makes 100% sense.

I suppose the next question would be what is truly a hot wife"

Looking at tour photos

You are a very hot wife.

You can wear in out in Camden when restrictions are lifted and we can track you both down. Debs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm planning on getting an anklet but not sure what design yet, I'm hoping it will have the desired effect!

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By *unBrumCplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Mrs has worn hers out in public on nights out a few times but it’s never been mentioned by anyone. Would be hot if somebody did. She’s got a Hotwife one and a slut one. Maybe when covid has gone somebody will spot it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm planning on getting an anklet but not sure what design yet, I'm hoping it will have the desired effect!

It would certainly have an effect on little old me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always on the look out for them, I noticed one in a smartly dressed businesswoman in the departure lounge at Birmingham Airport, I was waiting for a business trip to Dublin, the flight was called we both got up, I stayed back a little to enjoy the view, we were on the same flight.

I just smiled to her and said I love the anklet and did she wear it for fashion or fun.

She replied fun, needless to say we shared a cab into Dublin,

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"I’m always on the look out for them, I noticed one in a smartly dressed businesswoman in the departure lounge at Birmingham Airport, I was waiting for a business trip to Dublin, the flight was called we both got up, I stayed back a little to enjoy the view, we were on the same flight.

I just smiled to her and said I love the anklet and did she wear it for fashion or fun.

She replied fun, needless to say we shared a cab into Dublin,

It's funny you should say this as the last time mine was commented on was in an airport. Not Birmingham though it was Luton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one would love to wear it out again but obviously will wait.

Only approached once. And that was close to a swingers club.

Someone said earlier in this thread that it’s to do with Cuckold I’m not so certain but would love to understand if it is that meaning.

Not so much cuckold in our interpretation, more hotwifes.

It's not an "I'm a slut so come and be inappropriate with me sign" it merely symbolises to thosd in the know that the said lady is a hotwife and looking for fun.

To those not in the know, they mean absolutely nothing - but they sure do look sexy.

They were and still are viewed negatively by some people as in the past there was a stigma attached to them - my wife's mum has always said "only tarts wear anklets"

Thank you I think your idea makes 100% sense.

I suppose the next question would be what is truly a hot wife

Looking at tour photos

You are a very hot wife.

You can wear in out in Camden when restrictions are lifted and we can track you both down. Debs x "
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Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once went to a family party on my wife side and met one of her aunts and i noticed she was wearing an anklet on her right ankle, does it mean different things depending on what leg you wear it ?

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wear mine (with a very obvious H and W dangling off)

Never been approached as of yet.

I question wether people didn’t know what it was, didn’t fancy me if they did know or just darent approach.

I’d like someone to let me know. I’d be like ‘hey lifestyle friennnddd’ in an ‘inbetweeners’ type of way lol x"

Which bars you go to when not in lockdown

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wear one with an infinity symbol, classy and can be approached

I agree, and smaller than a VW or Mercedes symbol...

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By *hristeresa12Couple
over a year ago

totnes

Works best with a clump of pampass grass also tucked in your belt,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics in profile, love when HW wears it when out.... just can’t wait to get out again lol

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Never been approached wearing mine but I know some people spot it very quickly

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By *ustforfun49Man
over a year ago

chesterfield

Do they have to have a symbol on them

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I used to always wear one and I had quite a few ankle bracelets as I called them. But I was totally unaware of the meaning lol. Oooooooooppps naive me"

And this is why it's a total mine field to approach someone wearing one!

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

So there can be no doubt of its meaning get her to wear her anklet on the outside of her stockings accompanied with a pair of high 5 inch heels.

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By *oItForYorkshireCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Do they have to have a symbol on them "

Yes

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By *kinkycpleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I often wear mine over the outside of my nylons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed one on a colleague at work. Very sexy mature lady. I wouldn't dream of broaching the subject though

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By *llabouttheladyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I noticed one on a colleague at work. Very sexy mature lady. I wouldn't dream of broaching the subject though "

Get yourself in there lad

Something like "it's a shame more ladies don't wear anklets" isn't going to be responded to with a slap across the face.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No one has even mentioned it to me

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By *usyatminMan
over a year ago

Wicklow, Wexford, Dublin and Carlow

"I often wear mine over the outside of my nylons. "

Be nice to see a pic of that on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been approached but thats also because the ones i make are obvious as hotwife anklets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife loves wearing hers when we go out but sadly not had many approaches even though it has a hw on it. We have pics of it on our profile. "

Wow. I suppose few people actually know what it means. I'd be straight over to your end of the bar. she looks hot!

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

colchester

Would love to see a lady out during a normal day with a hw anklet on.

Would defo notice it as I look all the time. . And would defo act on it in some way .

To all you hot wives how would you reply if a guy came up to you and said that’s a really nice anklet .....

As that would prob be my approach. And see what the reply was .

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"I often wear mine over the outside of my nylons. "

I would never wear stockings over an anklet always outside and if I have boots on over the top of boots

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"I have been approached but thats also because the ones i make are obvious as hotwife anklets."

The one you did for me that goes over the top of my boots certainly gets noticed

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

...I remember wearing them in my teens and my Mum saying that they were a 'sign' for a 'tart' to put it in mums terms! "

That was certainly the widely held belief when I was a teenager in the 1960s, albeit far away on an island with no sex industry.

Girls on the game were also alleged to swing a small chain as well.

I came to London after the Street Offences Act came into force so never saw any strutting their stuff.

I was too naive to realise that they probably got away with sitting in pubs wearing ankle chains to attract trade but, as a student, I went to the sort of pubs where the rugby songs brigade were so tightly packed you would not be able to see anyone's ankles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been approached but thats also because the ones i make are obvious as hotwife anklets.

The one you did for me that goes over the top of my boots certainly gets noticed"

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By *llabouttheladyMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Would love to see a lady out during a normal day with a hw anklet on.

Would defo notice it as I look all the time. . And would defo act on it in some way .

To all you hot wives how would you reply if a guy came up to you and said that’s a really nice anklet .....

As that would prob be my approach. And see what the reply was . "

My wife’s response would depend on the person approaching her. If she found them attractive it would be along the lines of “I’m so glad you noticed”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as we all dream of getting out to bars, clubs again thought Id ask if any other ladies on here have ever been approached by guys once they spot you are wearing an anklet?"

Never...

im going to wrong places.lol

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