FabSwingers.com forum: Meets that go badly wrong

By *lovebustyladies OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Anyone wanna share experiences of meets that have gone wrong or didn’t go quiet as you thought?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned up at a couples house a decade back, and the guys was like full of it.

Oh she gonna be coming all over my cock soon m8, was pissed.

His Mrs was lovely, we sat down then their kids wakes up.

We were like no thanks bye

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Worst experience was being bitten that hard on my arm she drew blood and left a large bite mark which instantly killed the mood

And have had my shoulder dislocated on a meet so that clearly didn't go as planned

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By *uxomBoobs195Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I arranged to meet a guy in a pub for drinks then go to a club with him. Id told him I was getting dressed up nicely and told him what most guys wear the the club etc. Seemed lovely over messaged.

I walked in the pub to find a very short -his profile stated he was 6ft, scruffy looking man wearing tracksuit bottoms with paint and muck on them, very old looking trainers and a hoodie. He also looked much older than the photos I had seen. But being polite I sat and had a drink with him.

We then got upto walk to his car to go to the club and he turned quite aggressive in how he spoke and his general body language. I was in his car by this point and was starting to panick abit.

Luckily the club wasn't too far away and we had gone on a Saturday which was single women and couples only. I was a regular at the club and knew the staff fairly well and felt safe going there so I suggested he dropped me at the door while he went and parked the car.

I walked into the club and explained to the guy on the door and the staff inside of the situation and that I wasn't comfortable being with the guy. They let me in and I went and sat down away from the door.

As he had gone to the door as a single male they simply refused him entry. I sent him a message explaining I wasn't comfortable with him and didn't wish to see him again.

I was then bombarded with aggressive and threatening messages from him on both Fab and Kik.

I was lucky that id arranged to go to the club with him and not to his place and thankfully I felt safe in the club and trusted that the staff would look after me.

I ended up having a lovely evening beside the bad start!

Lesson learnt and i now (pre covid) either meet guys in the club or if wer going for a drink, I drive myself there so I can leave when I want too.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

This is the short version

Met a woman at a hotel I was in with an attached restaurant/bar and play area.

She turned up with her two young children which was weird in itself and set alarm bells ringing but I thought that maybe a friend or baby sitter had been arranged to collect them later.

She wanted to leave them in the play area while we went to my room and when I said no she went bat sh.t crazy calling me all the names under the sun(the manager had to come over and ask her to calm down or leave)

Then she wanted to bring the two children to my room to watch tv and said they wouldn't mind

This lead to another refusal and a huge scene where she eventually stormed off.

It's a place I regularly stay with work and the same manager always asks me if I'll be having any crazy women joining me and if so could we please sit outside away from other guests

got to love his banter

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By *um2me123Man
over a year ago

burin

First when i joined one of these sites i would chat with someone and after chatting for some time arranged a hotel meet. Well when this lady walked in she had to be 15 years older than all pics...shw was much much heavier as well. Lets say the meet never went well. I since changed all first meets to coffee or a drink first meet

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By *extravagantWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy I had coffee with had only sent me side profile photos. He was a lot older in person and his eyes pointed in different directions.

I wasn’t sure which one to make eye contact with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the worst meets are people that turn up looking nothing like the pics they sent or no where near the age they claim they are... the meet never goes ahead so why do it ??

also those who talk the talk but never walk the walk oh i will do this or do that can last hours and repeat ...

and then theres the one where they say oh my cock is big n hard only to find its small and soft ?? its not like im asking for a big cock but when you offer then at least be that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

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By *lovebustyladies OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"One guy I had coffee with had only sent me side profile photos. He was a lot older in person and his eyes pointed in different directions.

I wasn’t sure which one to make eye contact with!"

How did he get a meet in the first place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worst meet was turning up to meet a woman at her house, and as we were getting down to some fun in the front room, in walks her hubby! It’s ok he says, I like to watch! As this was one of my first meets, I wasn’t too keen on an audience, so got up and left. If she’d told me that was going to happen, I could’ve decided if I wanted to go ahead, as it is now, I don’t mind playing with a woman if hubby wants to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worst experience was being bitten that hard on my arm she drew blood and left a large bite mark which instantly killed the mood

And have had my shoulder dislocated on a meet so that clearly didn't go as planned

I want to hear that story,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was my first Fab coffee meet and I was naive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone after alot of persuasion.

Plan to go to a club.

As I felt comfortable and safe.

On meeting he was shorter than stated and being polite was 7st heavier in person than his pic.

On asking why he didnt think I'd notice..said had let himself go since photo.. really...

Now ask for up to date photos...

Guess we all learn.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've had 2 bad meets that I wished never happened. The 1st I was persuaded to go to a guys house for a coffee. I went there and had a coffee and I decided that was as far as it would go but when I got up to leave he blocked me saying sure while I was there I may as well give him a bj. I managed to push him away and get out but I learned to never go to a guys house again for a first meet.

Another coffee meet this time at a public place went grand we went back to our cars and said we meet again we kissed goodbye and he then grabbed me and pinned me down and was grabbing at me I managed to get free and yelled at him wtf did he think he was doing his answer was well you're on fab I thought you'd be up for anything. I almost left fab after that but I am glad I didn't as I've met some great people since. But it has definitely made me more wary.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

My one and only meet didn't go as expected. I ended up with a last minute "talking half hour notice" ice breaker chat with no expectations on my part. Long story short it ended up being a more intense experience that pretty much blew my mind and far exceeded any long term expectations I had going forward, even my fantasist mind didn't forsee a session in the front of my little van in a just slightly out of the way layby with a very passionate woman 12 years my junior and actually taking the lead. Problem is a repeat was thwarted by new lock down and restrictions and I'm now a tormented soul.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

Got in his car and drove no more than two mins down the road and he pulls over and goes 'yeah this I'm not feeling' while pointing and looking up and down me, never been so more mortified in my life, I got out and started walking home. He pulls up next toe and offers to drive me back I declined and said lose my number.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

Wow judging from your pics, his loss for sure, curves in all the right places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

His actions were terrible. You're stunning. Hope one bad meet won't ruin it for you. Some great people on here so keep going. Mrs x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

All my meets have gone exactly as planned. I never rush into meeting anyone and always meet in a public place. So far its worked for me.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

Don’t let a dingbat like him dent your confidence! You were far too good for him. Sounds like you had a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet where a guy we were in the middle of fucking and he suddenly tells me off for laughing which at the time I was not ,so I rolled over and he was serious and looked it,I could not help but laugh and could not stop.

He left not long after and then blocked me and tried unsuccessfully to bad month me to a lot of guys. I was getting some very interesting message for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went for a private meet at a house and all went okay downstairs chatted etc decided to go to the bedroom, while we was at it I (mr) totally naked stood up and there was a child 7ish standing in the doorway. Just total shock for me and we made a sharp exit and didn’t know a thing that children were at home x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My worst meet was turning up to meet a woman at her house, and as we were getting down to some fun in the front room, in walks her hubby! It’s ok he says, I like to watch! As this was one of my first meets, I wasn’t too keen on an audience, so got up and left. If she’d told me that was going to happen, I could’ve decided if I wanted to go ahead, as it is now, I don’t mind playing with a woman if hubby wants to watch."

then you should of stopped got dressed and left if it was not what you planned

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

then you should of stopped got dressed and left if it was not what you planned"

I think he said he got up and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then you should of stopped got dressed and left if it was not what you planned

I think he said he got up and left. "

yes my mistake

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By *ere4areasonMan
over a year ago

leicester and Hove

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

Looking at your pics, I'd happily look you up and down. The smile growing on my face would hopefully tell you "feeling it" wouldn't just be a term of how I feel, but what I'd like to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had someone come round once from in the old days of craigslist. She insisted on using chewing tobbaco throughout. Definitely off putting.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh. "

I think so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

had a few.

A guy who turned very aggressive after we politely said sorry not tonight, not any night thereafter.

Two full blown domestics at parties were in one case the polices were called as a male partner totally lost it with another male guests. The other is were two females set about each other over a male partner paying to much attention to another girl, both had to be retrained.

Finally a meet with a couple were the wife seemed to enjoy herself, time to grab your cloths and key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

That's a really shitty thing to do, but don't let it knock you, there are some decent folk on here.

You are gorgeous so its very much his loss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a guy's home about 4 years ago. A women turned up banging on the back door which led into the kitchen. he let her in. Another man also at the guy's home ran off.i was left sitting in the living room while the guy and this woman shouted at one another. I never once watched to see what was going out. She asked him who i was and what was i doing there? Was i the latest woman?. It went on and on until she went.after she went i got into his car and asked him quietly to take me home.as i didnt want to be there in case she came back.by this time he was on the phone shouting away to someone else. I dont drive so i had to wait for him to get into his car to take me home.the phone call had come from his parents who owed the house and he lived there. The woman who had come banging and screaming was an ex omg who had then phoned this guy's parents claiming he was having a party which wasnt true.after he had tried to reassure the parents there was no party the ex phoned up again and a screaming match took place over the phone while he was driving me home.once home he had the cheek to ask to see me again. I never ever did and woudnt want to again.to this day i dont know how the ex knew i was there,and why she went on like that.it was very scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

her 16 year old son came home early lucky didn't catch in the act but still

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By *affr0n_43Woman
over a year ago

Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Got invited to a party.

Arrived at the house to be greeted by a woman wearing a pair of leggings and a sweat top with holes in it, covered in flour. Thought we had the wrong house but she assured us we hadn't and that we were the first ones to arrive. We had arrived half an hour after the start time.

She then said that her husband had gone to work and that she couldn't play due to an operation. She showed us in and then returned to baking some cupcakes for her kids. We did check to ensure that the kids were not in the house.

We had one drink and it became apparent that nobody else was turning up. Mrs was kicking my leg to hint it was time to make an exit when the phone rings and we hear her announce that yes that really nice couple had turned up and to come round as the Mrs was really sexy. We looked at one another and quickly downed our drinks but within a minute or two the doorbell went.

The host announced that her girlfriend had arrived and went to answer the door. The host returned with her girlfriend who was wearing an all white dress, complete with stains, which to be polite she filled completely, the stitching was under extreme pressure. Her hair was lank and looked like it had not been washed in weeks.

Being polite we stayed for another half hour or so during in which time the girlfriend sat opposite my wife and proceeded to cross and uncross her legs. Mrs T said later it reminded her of the Kenny Everett character Cupid Stunt all she need to say as she crossed her legs was "It all done in the best possible taste," and she would have been in fits of laughter.

Needless to say with a lot of protest we made our excuses and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few dodgy meets, I and my ex fb met another couple , all going well until the guy drops his boxers and he has a massive cluster of warts on his helmut.

Another time I was on a solo meet and met in a pub, all was going well until he offered to show me his landrover that had been customised for traveling across the Kalahari. It started raining heavily so we jumped in the back , then the door slammed shut with a strong gust of wind. It was then that i realised there was no internal door handle and the floor was strewn with chain, rope, shovel and tape. I've never been so sure that i was going to die that night

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By *affr0n_43Woman
over a year ago

Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk

"Worst experience was being bitten that hard on my arm she drew blood and left a large bite mark which instantly killed the mood

And have had my shoulder dislocated on a meet so that clearly didn't go as planned

Me too!!

I want to hear that story, "

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

A guy that was seriously racist. I left mid-meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few dodgy meets, I and my ex fb met another couple , all going well until the guy drops his boxers and he has a massive cluster of warts on his helmut.

How did it end, the secomd meet? Scary! Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept talking to him as calmly as i could and eventually he climbed through to the front of the landrover and let me out.

We did meet again on several occasions until he went off on his Kalahari safari

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By *affr0n_43Woman
over a year ago

Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk

"Had a few dodgy meets, I and my ex fb met another couple , all going well until the guy drops his boxers and he has a massive cluster of warts on his helmut.

Jesus... What happened (the Land rover one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of these scenarios are having me in stitches.

However, some could have gone seriously wrong.

Just be as safe as you can, folks.....and that includes during and after covid xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few dodgy meets, I and my ex fb met another couple , all going well until the guy drops his boxers and he has a massive cluster of warts on his helmut.

Jesus... What happened (the Land rover one) "

He called the AA cause the fuckers never start in the cold and rain, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet with a couple supposed to be,gave me there address I turned up knocked on the door young lady comes to answer the door just as I was about to say hi three idiots ran over to the gate shouting he's looking for sex didn't know where to turn made my excuse said something like I got the wrong street and got out of there fast as I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends whether you class the meet or the consequences after badly or not. A split lip because someone else was unhappy it had happened was an unexpected result.

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

Well that’s put us right off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can see why he came prematurely from your hot pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had bad meet once. Was going ok plenty fun. But when I asked him to stop as I had enough, he didn't. Deleted my old profile stayed off fab several months lost all my confidence didnt meet anyone till i met my fella. We made joint profile after few months with his help i made single profile again. But I'm sooo wary now. Lessons learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My went to meet a guy at his hotel said he was 30 but looked about 16 but tbh it went great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few dodgy meets, I and my ex fb met another couple , all going well until the guy drops his boxers and he has a massive cluster of warts on his helmut.

Jesus what did you see to the guy with the helmet full of warts?

I once saw a cock pic on fab that had a rim of warts under the helmet it was rank. Why would somebody think that's ok to post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had an almost bad meet.

messaged late to get the go ahead. I drove to their house.

It was around 1am at this point.

Drove down a small country lane to a detached house.

Got told to not use the front door and to walk down a dark path to the back and wait....

I didn't wait... looking around I figured I'd be safer to go home.

To the person who mentioned erectile issues, it's a little harsh. Sometimes we're just as nervous!

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By *orovoyeurMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow, I have the utmost respect for any of the ladies on here telling some of these stories. Even as a fella you can feel a little vulnerable meeting up with someone for the first time, but to do it as a lady and then feel unsafe or intimidated must be horrendous!

I’m amazed any of these ladies have met anyone else after their experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had an almost bad meet.

messaged late to get the go ahead. I drove to their house.

It was around 1am at this point.

Drove down a small country lane to a detached house.

Got told to not use the front door and to walk down a dark path to the back and wait....

I didn't wait... looking around I figured I'd be safer to go home.

To the person who mentioned erectile issues, it's a little harsh. Sometimes we're just as nervous!"

Wise choice. Yes a tad harsh. I've had this happen more than once. We made cuppa chatted while then he managed it. Couple times didnt happen. But I met them again and didnt have an issue. Alot pressure on guys to get it up, easy for us girls bit spit and polish and were away

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By *aptainaughtyMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence

His actions were terrible. You're stunning. Hope one bad meet won't ruin it for you. Some great people on here so keep going. Mrs x "

I bet the dumb ass was intimidated by fantastic beautiful you!! Never mind he probably wouldn’t have got it up anyway.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Arranged for a guy to visit me.

He seemed very nervous at my door but I invited him in and was walking down my hall thinking he was behind me.

But no, he stood inside my front door, whipped his cock out... I was a bit shocked but thought... Well it is a nice big one so thought, ok let's get down to it then...

Got on my knees, and before I knew it, he grabbed my shoulders, pushed me back, so I fell flat...

...and above me, not touching his cock at all, it started spraying spunk all over me...

By the time I looked back up, he was zipped up and heading out the door...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arranged for a guy to visit me.

He seemed very nervous at my door but I invited him in and was walking down my hall thinking he was behind me.

But no, he stood inside my front door, whipped his cock out... I was a bit shocked but thought... Well it is a nice big one so thought, ok let's get down to it then...

Got on my knees, and before I knew it, he grabbed my shoulders, pushed me back, so I fell flat...

...and above me, not touching his cock at all, it started spraying spunk all over me...

By the time I looked back up, he was zipped up and heading out the door..."

You didn't even get to give him a blowjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arranged for a guy to visit me.

He seemed very nervous at my door but I invited him in and was walking down my hall thinking he was behind me.

But no, he stood inside my front door, whipped his cock out... I was a bit shocked but thought... Well it is a nice big one so thought, ok let's get down to it then...

Got on my knees, and before I knew it, he grabbed my shoulders, pushed me back, so I fell flat...

...and above me, not touching his cock at all, it started spraying spunk all over me...

By the time I looked back up, he was zipped up and heading out the door..."

You didn't even get to give him a blowjob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine have been great but some stories are horrifying! I can't imagine them ever happening.

Such a strange world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy with the Mrs went to a pub for a few social drinks before any play and while enjoying chat his GF walks in bar and kicks off as he said he was working late

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

I've clearly been pretty lucky! But I changed from meets directly at my house to having a social first (meeting somewhere that's not my house before going back to my house) after the chap with a neurological disorder showed up on my doorstep. He'd not mentioned it during months of messaging...

I'm not anti-disability! If I'd known in advance I could have planned 'activities' better. But it's a shit end to a meet when they throw their clothes on saying, "I've got to get home to take my medication"...

I do get why he didn't mention it, but I really wish he had!

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"You didn't even get to give him a blowjob.

Yeah, a shame too when it was nice big and juicy ...

If I'd done, spunk might have squirted out of my nose and ears...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You didn't even get to give him a blowjob.

Yeah, a shame too when it was nice big and juicy ...

If I'd done, spunk might have squirted out of my nose and ears..."

I'm available if u want.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I'm available if u want.

Only if you can spunk without touching yer cock ... I never knew men could even do that...?!?!? Lol

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By *lovebustyladies OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Never meet at there’s or hubby might walk in unexpectedly lol - had to fast talk there

Always make sure you talk all to your potential meet as the phone call usually kills any potential meet and you get an idea of who or what is on the end of the phone

If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out

Always meet in a public place for a first meet and always keep it short because if the meets going wrong at least you have only wasted 30 mins lol if it goes well arrange a longer meet next time never be too keen to jump into bed unless it’s agreed as a one nighter

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Was chatting to a guy for ages getting on very well so decided to have a social meet at Asda cafe. Two hours on and we headed to the car park. He told me he had another date the next evening and if he wasn’t keen on her he would contact me to move things on. I told him I was no ones second best and I went mad. He raised his fist at me and came towards me aggressively so I told him to hit me and I had my mobile phone to hand to ring 999. He ran off but I was very shaken. I could not stop crying and was taken to the staff quarters to calm down. The staff tried to persuade me to ring the Police but I did not want my membership of Fab getting out to my work mates or family. It was a horrible experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged to meet a female from a couple specifically to play with the female and the male was not to be involved.

Wolf took me to the bar and waited on a different table to make sure said female turned up and would then leave me to it.

The male party turned up claiming the missus was too ill (I’d last had a message from ‘her’ about 2 hours before the meet) and insisted he was up for playing. I went to leave the bar and he tried to follow me. Wolf had to intervene. Made me very wary since then

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Arranged to meet a female from a couple specifically to play with the female and the male was not to be involved.

Wolf took me to the bar and waited on a different table to make sure said female turned up and would then leave me to it.

Glad you had Wolf to protect you. That could have been very awkward for you if you were alone.

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By *awhide69Man
over a year ago

ayr

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

The guy was a twat .You have a stunning figure and a beautiful face .

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By *tIckXXXMan
over a year ago

Basildon

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence

Wow judging from your pics, his loss for sure, curves in all the right places

Agreed. Makes my curly-wurly feel all curly-wurly

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By *ogue78Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

His loss, you're absolutely stunning!!

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

Our first arranged hotel meet.

We booked a room, and met the couple we’d been getting to know via messages for a few weeks in the hotel bar. Had a few drinks and decided to all head to the room. The husband just sat there ,while the wife got all full on with me (dan). Kim was sat there feeling a bit redundant, she tried joining in with me and the wife, but it became apparent that the wife just wanted to put on a show while the husband watched. She was very loud and we had someone knocking on the door complaining about the noise, so Kim apologised, came back into the room and decided she was going to get the husband turned on, he’d been sat naked just watching me and his wife upto this point, he didn’t have a hard on, so Kim saw it as a challenge and had him standing to attention in no time, it was at that point the wife got all massively jealous, had a go at him, and they both jumped up, got dressed and left.

We were both left sat there saying WTF just happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone wanna share experiences of meets that have gone wrong or didn’t go quiet as you thought?"

Pretty much all my verifications were with douchbags. They'd try to be all nice and telling me their after regular fun, when straight after we fucked, they asked for verifications. They basically only fucked me to use me like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the stories on here are really worrying. Surprising some didn't leave fab altogether after being genuinely scared.

I've been quite lucky. Will never forget how nervous I was on my first ever meet though, and how I drove to the social thinking what am I doing this is so risky, and we were meeting in a public place.

As for guys that are premature or can't get it up etc.... A little understanding and helping them to relax can go a long way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago and on another site I had been chatting to a lovely woman and also we had exchanged pictures and seen each other on cam and finally we arranged to meet. We chose to meet in the car park of a restaurant and I arrived a little early and then had a text to say she was running a few minutes late and to calm my nerves I drove off and would then come back in a few minutes and a mile down the road her Ford Puma passed my Ford Mondeo and I turned round. On driving into the car park she was greeting a man with a kiss and I assumed it was her hubby and we was going to check she was ok and rather than me go up to both of them I waited for them to go into the restaurant. After a few minutes I got out of my car just as another Ford Puma in the same colour drove in and as I started to walk the lady got out and said hi and you must be my date

The penny drops as i had the same car as the other man and I politely pointed out that there had been a bizarre mixup and we both laughed and I phoned my meet who was at the bar with the other man and as I could see through the window the confusion on her face was priceless. The man left and I passed him I had to smile as he was a good 10 years older than me with a different build and moustache and even different colour hair and when I mentioned it to my meet she said she had noticed all these things but thought it would have rude to mention it

I promise this is 100% true and it still makes me smile to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a lovely looking couple after much chatting at a naturist resort, good chemistry on whatsapp swapping pics, unfortunately no chemistry at all in person, maybe we looked better in our photos?

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By *K herts mMan
over a year ago

Fleetwood

Had two I play on my own and with my wife.

Was still very new to swinging this was our 2nd meet. We had been let down 3 times in the same day I know it should have been a sign. We were so horny we got chatting to this one guy who did turn up. He starred to play with the wife and I was like this should fun. But no matter how hard she tried she could not get him hard. He admitted he was wanking all day. So we gave up.

The other one I went to a couples house. The place was a mess as they were decorating they did warn me. We got to chatting and they started to kiss as we talked. They were pretty much undressed and started to tease each other. When we were swapping stories I was talking about my wife. Next thing I know they asked me to leave because I was married. It clearly shows it in my profile and they even said they enjoyed reading it and I had my wedding ring on. I explained the situation and they were still like no. Even said we didn't know you were married. So I just left.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

"her 16 year old son came home early lucky didn't catch in the act but still

I've had that too.

Cut it very fine. She still wiping my cum off her face...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a lady off here a while back with the usual build up of messages and what we're gonna do to each other. When I got there she had managed to gain several stone in weight and advanced in age from her pics. My mind at that point is to run. But being the gentleman I decided to stay and enjoy the meet. We ended up getting in to a sexual situation. With her head on the end of the bed sucking me off. She then took her knickers off and there was this instant smell in the air. Anyways I proceeded with what I would say was the best blow job ever. Anyways I decided to start to play with her pussy. As I leaned over to rub and potentially lick it. I could see a bit of white stuff and the smell was quite intense. I then found myself in the situation of do I stop the best BJ ever or do I just ignore the smell and dive straight in. Fortunately I decided to prize her award winning mouth from my cock make my excuses and be as polite as possible and leave. I now only meet socially first because of this reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I arranged to meet a guy in a pub for drinks then go to a club with him. Id told him I was getting dressed up nicely and told him what most guys wear the the club etc. Seemed lovely over messaged.

We then got upto walk to his car to go to the club and he turned quite aggressive in how he spoke and his general body language. I was in his car by this point and was starting to panick abit.

As he had gone to the door as a single male they simply refused him entry. I sent him a message explaining I wasn't comfortable with him and didn't wish to see him again.

I was then bombarded with aggressive and threatening messages from him on both Fab and Kik.

I was lucky that id arranged to go to the club with him and not to his place and thankfully I felt safe in the club and trusted that the staff would look after me.

I ended up having a lovely evening beside the bad start!

Lesson learnt and i now (pre covid) either meet guys in the club or if wer going for a drink, I drive myself there so I can leave when I want too.

Sounds like you had a very lucky escape xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the stories on here are really worrying. Surprising some didn't leave fab altogether after being genuinely scared.

As for guys that are premature or can't get it up etc.... A little understanding and helping them to relax can go a long way!"

Yes ! Very worrying the risks some people take, even allowing for some fabrication. I can’t believe a f..k is really worth putting your safety on the line.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"...easy for us girls bit spit and polish and were away

Actual LOL while sat in the car waiting for my son.

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By *heelsmanMan
over a year ago

Staines

Just appalling behaviour from some off Fab, it just shows the 'social only meet first' is a very good idea on several levels, doesn't mean to say nothing happens as I found out with the last meet with a lady

, but always best go with no concrete expectations.

As for lying on your profile, why? People must be so desperate, the sort of people you wouldn't want to meet!

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By *BR_91Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Arranged to meet a couple in a bar. I'd barely sat down before the woman got up and went to the toilet, and the guy said she wasn't interested in me and it was probably better if I left!

Was completely fair from their perspective, but was pretty embarrassing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t say badly wrong but our first ever meet didn’t show up at the hotel, made some excuse about couldn’t find anywhere to park. Anyway his loss still turned into a good night as we managed to arrange for another guy to visit and he was great.

Second meet was a bit of a dud, as soon as D started to play with him he came. Fair enough can happen to us all but instead of taking the time to recover and join in the fun in other ways he just got dressed and left! There was no pressure from us for him to leave but guessing he was embarrassed.

Fortunately all other meets have been successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a few dodgy meets, I and my ex fb met another couple , all going well until the guy drops his boxers and he has a massive cluster of warts on his helmut.

When it comes to sexual health people really should keep tested. anything clearly visible like warts leave no excuse to not get sorted. Unless it was actually https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hirsuties_coronae_glandis ? saw a dude with this a long time back, can imagine if people dont get forewarned they might think they are warts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldn’t say badly wrong but our first ever meet didn’t show up at the hotel, made some excuse about couldn’t find anywhere to park. Anyway his loss still turned into a good night as we managed to arrange for another guy to visit and he was great.

Second meet was a bit of a dud, as soon as D started to play with him he came. Fair enough can happen to us all but instead of taking the time to recover and join in the fun in other ways he just

got dressed and left! There was no pressure from us for him to leave but guessing he was embarrassed.

Fortunately all other meets have been successful"

Looking at your profile pics, I would have lasted about 30s too....but would definitely have stayed for an encore...

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some of the stories on here are really worrying. Surprising some didn't leave fab altogether after being genuinely scared.

As for guys that are premature or can't get it up etc.... A little understanding and helping them to relax can go a long way!

Yes ! Very worrying the risks some people take, even allowing for some fabrication. I can’t believe a f..k is really worth putting your safety on the line. "

This sounds rather judgemental, actually. Personally I am very angry that I have to take all the precautions I do because I shouldn't have to. I should be able to move freely and be safe in any situation whether it is sexual or not, just as men tend to be - I shouldn't be limited the way I am.

I would have had way more play and sex throughout my life if not for this reason (for the most part) and that's really shitty.

Being as cautious as I am (which I shouldn't have to be), the worst things that happened to me related to meeting people via FS were being stood up twice (first time didn't matter because I had them stacked up due to doubt and the first coffee date overran so my time was not wasted, second time was rather rotten because I trusted the man's verifications and had to scramble for a plan B all of a sudden) and some weird dates like the one where the man seemed so off that I was glad we were in the bright light of day surrounded by lots of people or the one when I was looking for a different dynamic at the time and the man, instead of asking me any questions or engaging in the subject, kept talking about property prices and travels then sent me a message after about sexy times in a weird leap between topics. Still, these were minimal issues really in terms of bad experiences.

Due to all the vetting precautions I actually have had very few adventures with strangers. They were all lovely in different ways though.

Regarding errant erections etc, these things are probably inevitable as we are all only human and being nervous is very natural. It is so much better when a man takes it in his stride which avoids me feeling awkward as it is hard to know what to say or do otherwise. In general, I don't lik any kind of pressure in play or sexual situations and prefer my partners to act natural about them. Sense of humour and good manners can easily deal with any little mishaps and surely next time things are even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the stories on here are really worrying. Surprising some didn't leave fab altogether after being genuinely scared.

As for guys that are premature or can't get it up etc.... A little understanding and helping them to relax can go a long way!

Yes ! Very worrying the risks some people take, even allowing for some fabrication. I can’t believe a f..k is really worth putting your safety on the line.

I would have had way more play and sex throughout my life if not for this reason (for the most part) and that's really shitty.

Due to all the vetting precautions I actually have had very few adventures with strangers. They were all lovely in different ways though.

I don’t think anyone meant to say that you should be limited to your approach in sex, simply sometimes when starting out it’s easy to throw caution to the wind.

Although I wholeheartedly agree with you, the world is not perfect and we should all take precautions when meeting a “stranger” for the first time off the internet be it male, female or other, after all someones online persona may not be who they actually are offline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one guy remove the condom while I was distracted. I had made it very clear beforehand that one had to be worn if penetration was happening.

I left for a while after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy remove the condom while I was distracted. I had made it very clear beforehand that one had to be worn if penetration was happening.

I left for a while after that. "

I hope you reported this cretin to the police!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy remove the condom while I was distracted. I had made it very clear beforehand that one had to be worn if penetration was happening.

I left for a while after that.

I hope you reported this cretin to the police!"

For various reasons, no. It wouldn't have done any good.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

"
Nothing like a young spunker LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once invited long ago to join a fairly local older couple. Their profile made interesting reading so decided to take up the offer. Arrived at their house and the door was opened by the female using a walking frame and it was obvious that her profile pictures were taken many years before. However she was still attractive so decided to stay. I followed her into the lounge to be greeted by the sight of the male prone on the sofa masturbating to porn on the tv. He gave a nonchalant “hi” but never stopped. The female then asked if I wanted a drink, I said yes a coffee would be nice. She said she would go to make one and said why didn’t I get naked and join her husband on sofa and watch the porn. I said I would wait until she returned then we could all get naked and then watch and play together. At that moment the husband let out a load moan as he cum. The wife came back, now naked, with the coffee and said to her husband “wow that’s a nice load” and proceeded to join him to lick up the cum from his belly and thighs. As she passed me I could smell she was not very clean. It was at that point I made my excuses and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on a rare occasion we arranged to meet a single guy he turned up in a works van still in his work clothes we answered the door he said i have a few work mates with me can they join in well obviously it didnt happen after a few mins of total shite talk from him we said go away he got very abusive so i said ok where you going from here he said next job what he didnt know was we photographed the phone number on his works van we phoned his boss and told him the whole story

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

That's dreadful, no-one should have to suffer that. Glad it ended ok.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

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I'd say that's a bit harsh.... It's a lot easier for us women.. doenst make it a bad meet if someone cant get it up.. you just work around it. It isnt a big issue.

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hero coming three times in quick succession. I'd take it as a compliment (not me, you).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met with a guy who had a problem with my skin tone, told me I should of been more clear in the pics and chat, carried on being disrespectful the whole social so quietly went to the "loo" and never returned.

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By *ewdtenantMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Met with a guy who had a problem with my skin tone, told me I should of been more clear in the pics and chat, carried on being disrespectful the whole social so quietly went to the "loo" and never returned. "

He was clearly insane.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford

"Anyone wanna share experiences of meets that have gone wrong or didn’t go quite as you thought?"

Generally, pretty good experiences of socials and most meets. I don't arrange many and am pretty choosey about who I actually enjoy the fun with now after some iffy ones.

However, so far have walked out of meets under the following situations

1) Arrived to meet a ' single woman' when the door opens in a haze of smoke, loud music and a disinterested naked wife/ GF ( not a single woman) on the sofa out of her head on something being ' coached' by the hubby who seems way keener than she is ( as he arranged it all because he is the Dom' sort of situation ! He's also standing there with a boner stroking it because of the V he has taken and the fact he is d out of his mind is pushing him past the point of just ' a bit horny'. I found that scenario actually quite frightening and couldn't wait to get out of there!

Once or twice hard cash has been mentioned when arrived for the meeting.

Stupid people who can't string a sentence together or don't know anything about the art of conversation. They do nothing for me at all so I usually make my excuses and leave then too.

One occasion I blame myself for after a ' dodgy viagra' ended up with the runs about 15 minutes after arriving which got worse and worse .. kept racing off to the loo all the time mid conversation .. not the quietest of ' evacuations' either .. kept pretending all was well but eventually had to give it up as a bad idea and go home. That was a very bad night spent on the porcelain I can tell you!

Other than all those on the very rare occasion I have met someone its been relatively hassle-free

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

One - where the gentleman had indulged in an excessive amount of Dutch courage.

Before barely a word was spoken he proceeded to empty the contents of his stomach, almost all of which managed to make the loo.

He then proceeded to very noisily empty his bowels, thankfully all in the loo.

I left as soon I confirmed he was still alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can top all of these and then some lol wana know more.......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody came within a few minutes of getting his cock out

Somebody lying about who they were/looked like

Somebody being a total Arsehole in his attitude and being “aggressive” in his personality (I don’t mind rough sex but if ur attitude stinks, you can do one)

Somebody claiming they had a big cock; it was as but as cocktail sausage and stole pics from somebody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of scary meets but I've learnt from them and moved on after a fab break.

The 1st was a guy met a couple of times for basic fun. Usually would come to me but this time he invited me to his. Got every and as soon as I stepped in the door he kept telling me to be quiet so I said someone is clearly her he then said no I just don't want to talk next thing I know his gf that I didn't know existed bangs on the door screaming so I have to leap out of the living room window at the back. I then ran round the front to my car where she was stood...she grabbed my phone and kicked my new car after a lot of shouting luckily a neighbour heard they persuaded her to give me my phone and I sped off. That caused me my first ever panic attack...the weird thing was before I went I had a gut feeling something wasn't right.

The second meet was a fuck bud came round to mine one evening and clearly they had been on something so I told them to leave a few mins later I get a doorbell from the neighbour checking if id been burgled as the person had been acting really strange on the street and the police were on route! Luckily they were able to cancel the police.

So after all that I'm extrmely careful!!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Anyone wanna share experiences of meets that have gone wrong or didn’t go quite as you thought?

Generally, pretty good experiences of socials and most meets. I don't arrange many and am pretty choosey about who I actually enjoy the fun with now after some iffy ones.

However, so far have walked out of meets under the following situations

Once or twice hard cash has been mentioned when arrived for the meeting.

Stupid people who can't string a sentence together or don't know anything about the art of conversation. They do nothing for me at all so I usually make my excuses and leave then too.

Other than all those on the very rare occasion I have met someone its been relatively hassle-free

Thanks just about to have my tea and then I read this

can’t find the sick emoji symbol.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

What an utter git ! I reckon he just got you there to be rude

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

There are some very odd people about. My bad experiences could fill a thread.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wtf? Did he actually say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an utter git ! I reckon he just got you there to be rude "

Total knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wtf? Did he actually say that?"

Indeed he did like I had done something wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wtf? Did he actually say that?

Indeed he did like I had done something wrong lol"

So what was he expecting instead? The man sounds totally deranged..

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By *ackal1Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Met someone after alot of persuasion.

Plan to go to a club.

As I felt comfortable and safe.

On meeting he was shorter than stated and being polite was 7st heavier in person than his pic.

On asking why he didnt think I'd notice..said had let himself go since photo.. really...

Now ask for up to date photos...

Guess we all learn.

7st that’s nearly a threesome.

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By *affr0n_43Woman
over a year ago

Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk

"We can top all of these and then some lol wana know more.......? "

Yes!! Spill

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By *amsubMan
over a year ago

hyde

"One guy I had coffee with had only sent me side profile photos. He was a lot older in person and his eyes pointed in different directions.

I wasn’t sure which one to make eye contact with!"
thanks that made me laugh xxx

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By *he Wilts coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cirencester

wow so many horry stories on this thread. we can honestly say we have ever had a bad meet, apart from preople canceling last minute.

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By *ackal1Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone wanna share experiences of meets that have gone wrong or didn’t go quiet as you thought?

Sorry to hear that you’ve met some low lives on here. You look amazing and hope you get to meet some of the nicer people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago with an ex. Went to meet a couple at their house. I was happily being serviced by the lady but my ex didn't get anything cause the guys cock ring had fallen off. Was on his hands and knees looking for it and refused to play without it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My fwb and I decided to be reckless one night. He had got chatting to a couple during the day and they seemed to have the same ideas as us, so the plan was to go round and get straight into it, they looked good on the photos. We arrived to total darkness, him sat in the corner of the bedroom and her on the bed. We had travelled miles so thought why not. The guy already had a condom on, I let him give me oral but she moaned to my fwb she wasn’t well and just kissing was hurting her. I was then dragged across the bed by him by my ankles at breakneck speed, finally saw him from the landing light, looked like Jabba the Hutt, was 20 years older and 10 stone heavier, she was the same. Made a quick exit and left forgetting to take the wine we took for a gift. It’s made us very wary of people and we will demand video calls, social meets in future. I’ll never forget the complete darkness they used to hide their looks

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’ve had 2 bad experiences, both of which very early on in my venture into the lifestyle... basically my naivety let me down.

First was my 3rd ever meet with a couple, had exchanged messages and pics etc. and I went over to their place. When I arrived the guy let me in and led me to the living room. Then told me his wife would be home in about an hour and did I want to wank with him while we waited..... I left immediately.

2nd was very disturbing and made me question the lifestyle altogether... again with a couple, swapped pics and messages... on arrival the guy was very forceful and controlling with his wife and it was obvious she was intimidated by him. He went to the toilet and she asked me to “please just be quick and do what he wants, he gets angry”. This freaked me out a fair bit and I noticed some bruising on her arm, so set an alarm on my phone for 5 minutes later and pretended it was a family emergency I had to leave for.... Once out of the house I actually contacted the police to report potential domestic abuse.

Both experiences changed my outlook on how I interact with people prior to and where I prefer to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy drive to mine for a meet years ago.

All dolled up (takes ages to do) and when he turned up he was; at least +20 years, overweight, and nothing like suggested.

Courteously I offered a drink and when I turned back around there he was rubbing the smallest semi I’ve ever seen.

Proceeded to cum on my kitchen floor and ran out of the door!

I meant what the actually fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time round on fab and first ever meet was as a single guy and didnt go as planned at all.

I was quite young, excited and thought I would cum in seconds with this hot sexy wife, so thought it was a good idea to knock a couple wanks out in record time before the meet and then be able to go for hours!

Was so nervous, my cock never stayed so flaccid and small for such a long time. Was so embarrassed looking down at her with my tiny soft cock in her mouth. Nothing was working for the already worn out fella. Even went on to say "it's not you, its me".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a once working in Liverpool and a guy drove from Kent to have a social dinner. I promised nothing more. Anyway, he had been less than truthful about his height. He didn’t need to duck under the car park barrier.

He had recently trained as a life coach and was trying his skills on me. It was the most boring evening I’d ever had and I had to make an excuse to escape early, paying my half before I left.

Back at the hotel I was giggling with a girlfriend on the phone and heard his monotonous voice! He not only had booked the same hotel as me but was in the next room. I didn’t sleep a wink!

The next day he sent me a voicemail and proposed! How can people read chemistry so differently.

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh. "

Thought the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

Thought the same!"

Lot of pressure on us guys to perform or we get mocked lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

Thought the same!

Lot of pressure on us guys to perform or we get mocked lol"

Dare I say in clubs and this lifestyle the amount of guys that struggle to perform is quite high. I think it’s nerves so how can it be overcome from a man’s perspective, please tell us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

Thought the same!

Lot of pressure on us guys to perform or we get mocked lol

Dare I say in clubs and this lifestyle the amount of guys that struggle to perform is quite high. I think it’s nerves so how can it be overcome from a man’s perspective, please tell us. "

It's usually a mental thing rather than anything physical. Just need to relax and stop worrying

Temporary measure to gain confidence are the blue tabs.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've already posted this story on the Irish forum. It happened 4 years ago and is the only meet that didn't go to plan.

My very first fab meet was with a woman who said she wanted "more than vanilla".

We had two coffee meets and the third time was in an hotel.

After a while and without warning or reason she punched me in the face.

Apparently her idea of "not vanilla" was different to mine. I should have left at that point after telling her I wasn't the person she was looking for but in my naivety I stayed.

Half an hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she was standing at the door and kneed me in the groin. She wanted me to retaliate but I got dressed and left. I had paid for the room but that didn't bother me as much as her expectations.

I left fab a few days later thinking all meets were going to be like that.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

I arranged a meet with a col for me to have some fun with her only when I got to the pub he was there and a man dressed as a women I got out how sad are some people

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By *andT2020Couple
over a year ago

Gods Country

'kin ell, some of these experiences are horrific, its harrowing reading some of them.

and one of them is plain BS.

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

"Messaging a guy from a different site, sent plenty of pictures so he knew my size etc.

I get if I'd been untruthful but I was honest with him and it really dented my confidence "

Clearly a dick. You look great.x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"'kin ell, some of these experiences are horrific, its harrowing reading some of them.

and one of them is plain BS."

Which one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arranged to meet a couple in a bar. I'd barely sat down before the woman got up and went to the toilet, and the guy said she wasn't interested in me and it was probably better if I left!

Was completely fair from their perspective, but was pretty embarrassing for me

Still rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was a once working in Liverpool and a guy drove from Kent to have a social dinner. I promised nothing more. Anyway, he had been less than truthful about his height. He didn’t need to duck under the car park barrier.

He had recently trained as a life coach and was trying his skills on me. It was the most boring evening I’d ever had and I had to make an excuse to escape early, paying my half before I left.

Back at the hotel I was giggling with a girlfriend on the phone and heard his monotonous voice! He not only had booked the same hotel as me but was in the next room. I didn’t sleep a wink!

The next day he sent me a voicemail and proposed! How can people read chemistry so differently."

I would advise this life coach to seek some life coaching!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Arranged a meet between a guy and Mrs M a few years back.

She turned up, they chatted, had a drink and agreed to head off to find a spot where they could be more discrete.

So they headed off to a secluded spot.

She hopped into his car and after a bit of play went to fish his cock from his pants and he just said sorry and came all over himself and her hand.#

He then apologised and said don't worry, I recover quickly to which she said, no you are okay and then hopped out of his car and headed home.

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By *harliebucketMan
over a year ago

Fareham

Wasn't a bad meet, in fact was a great meet with a really hot couple and two other guys, until one of the other guys split his cock getting a BJ from the lady! Claret everywhere! Not a great meet for him in the end! :-/

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

Arranged a meeting with a Lady when I was working away and staying in a hotel

When she arrived she looked very nice and we had a quick chat then headed to my room.

We had a little kiss and cuddle on the bed then she asked if she could freshen up.

She went into the bathroom, and then I noticed a damp shit stain on the bed. Worse still I heard her emptying her stomach in the toilet, it sounded like a very large Zoo animal.

I had wiped the stain from the bed by the time she came out and I asked if she was ok. She assured me she was but the smell from the bathroom was vile and now all over the room. I went into the toilet to get a glade spray and she hadnt bothered to flush and it was pretty full. and she had wiped her hand or arse on one of the towels and it had a lovely light brown streak on it now..

When i sorted the mess out she had gone thank God.

Sent her a message the next say saying I hoped she was alright but she never replied

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By *BR_91Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Arranged to meet a couple in a bar. I'd barely sat down before the woman got up and went to the toilet, and the guy said she wasn't interested in me and it was probably better if I left!

Was completely fair from their perspective, but was pretty embarrassing for me

Still rude "

Yeah, I guess so. Did knock my confidence a bit, but it's fine. Their loss

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

My first year of swinging i remember my second meet, beutiful girl from Dudley i went to meet had coffee and went back to hers, half hour in to our sexy fun, a car pulls up on the drive, she says OMG my husband is back, i was like wtf your married, i look through the window he was 6ft plus with arms the size of my thighs i was like Shit! Time to run, with just my boxers and clothes in hand i virtually jumped out the bathroom window, cut my foot and was in my car doing virtually 60 in a 30 road parked up and got dressed. Embarrased and shocked never seen her again, nowa days i ask are you attached lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first year of swinging i remember my second meet, beutiful girl from Dudley i went to meet had coffee and went back to hers, half hour in to our sexy fun, a car pulls up on the drive, she says OMG my husband is back, i was like wtf your married, i look through the window he was 6ft plus with arms the size of my thighs i was like Shit! Time to run, with just my boxers and clothes in hand i virtually jumped out the bathroom window, cut my foot and was in my car doing virtually 60 in a 30 road parked up and got dressed. Embarrased and shocked never seen her again, nowa days i ask are you attached lol"

This is why I dont meet married men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arranged to meet a couple in a bar. I'd barely sat down before the woman got up and went to the toilet, and the guy said she wasn't interested in me and it was probably better if I left!

Was completely fair from their perspective, but was pretty embarrassing for me

Still rude

Yeah, I guess so. Did knock my confidence a bit, but it's fine. Their loss

Absolutly

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

We have had a few good ones but one that sticks in the mind was a hotel meet, we had been chatting to this couple for a while on fab and had exchanged numbers and spoke on the phone as well. Agreed to meet at the hotel they had booked in our home town. From there profile they looked very classy, nice dress sense and underwear in all the photos we had seen.

Well when they walked down the stairs it looked like they had just come in from a days shopping, had made no effort to make themselves look presentable. Stayed chatting with them for a few drinks as we were all dressed up, nice couple so we put the lack of effort to the back of our minds and agreed to join them in there room. The guy or girl didn't go anywhere near me (Tinks) it was all geared around her as she just lay back, this had not been discussed, I just sat on the edge of the bed until Pan noticed, we made our excuses and left. Never to speak again thank god !!!

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

Some great stories on here. To be honest we are shocked at some of them and am astonished that people carried on swinging after some of their experiences.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So anyway, a nice game of chess anyone?

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We’ve had a few lulus

Met a youngish bloke , mid 20s, coffee went ok , went away , decided it was a go , arranged to go to his . Pulled up , went in , sat down . Silence , more silence until : “ err Kayla , could we go to the pub in your car for a couple of hours and have a few drinks ? All my mates are there and I’d like them to see us, I’ve got plenty of beer in the fridge and Jon can stick sky sports on till we get back “

Errrr , if you wanted an escort , you should have hired one , no , sorry , bye

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Social meet/drink with a guy we met on a site...he had sent messages and pics....we turned up to find him at the bar ...thought it was his dad lol...as the pictures must have been 20 yrs old..why do people do this ...are they in denial..???....needless to say we didnt hang around long..

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Bloody hell we were going to join in but after reading this thread it would be like Bridget Jones in that Thai prison “What your bad boyfwend do Bwidget?”

Some horrendous stories! Can’t believe some of you are still swinging!

We’ve been on this scene on and off for more than 15yrs and not experienced anything near to some of these!!!!!!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Was chatting to a guy for a couple of weeks, he seemed really nice. Arranged to meet at a shopping centre near a Costa coffee. The plan was to meet outside a shoe shop facing Costa. I arrived on time and saw a lone guy sat drinking coffee, no idea if it was him as he didn’t look like the photo he had sent me. 15 minutes goes by and I messaged him, got a reply asking if me in the pink hat (it was peach) was me. He stood up and waved and summoned me over and it was the fella I saw. I went across and he handed me £5 to get myself a drink, I queued for ages while he sat checking his phone, so not a gentleman. I finally got to the table, we had 5 minutes of chat until he said he had to leave to cash up his business at his office, it was a Sunday. 10 minutes after he left he messaged asking to meet again. My coffee hadn’t even gone cold! What a waste of time.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out"

Single or attached, that would instantly put me off someone.

Whilst you could be innocently trying to confirm that they are single, my first thought would be this person is either needy, possessive or has no boundaries or respect for my personal life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out

Single or attached, that would instantly put me off someone.

Whilst you could be innocently trying to confirm that they are single, my first thought would be this person is either needy, possessive or has no boundaries or respect for my personal life..."

Agreed. That is honestly why I don't give my number out. I don't want something thinking they can just call me whenever they feel like it, with no regard for who I might be with or what I might be doing.

Creepy...

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out

Single or attached, that would instantly put me off someone.

Whilst you could be innocently trying to confirm that they are single, my first thought would be this person is either needy, possessive or has no boundaries or respect for my personal life..."

Or most scarily could be a stalker. My number never gets given out due to a pressurising individual who when I agreed to a hotel meet under duress he assumed the next day and I was sent at lest 50 hotel choices, non stop messaging for hours when I had told him I was busy. I soon decided it was the big red buzzer for him!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out

Single or attached, that would instantly put me off someone.

Whilst you could be innocently trying to confirm that they are single, my first thought would be this person is either needy, possessive or has no boundaries or respect for my personal life..."

Exactly why I won't give my number out. Anyone who insists on calling like that would immediately go on my block list.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out

Single or attached, that would instantly put me off someone.

Whilst you could be innocently trying to confirm that they are single, my first thought would be this person is either needy, possessive or has no boundaries or respect for my personal life...

Exactly why I won't give my number out. Anyone who insists on calling like that would immediately go on my block list."

Don’t ya just love that block button? It’s a great site tool.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"If they claim to be single call them at random times during the day morning afternoon n evening over the course of a week that soon rats them out

Single or attached, that would instantly put me off someone.

Whilst you could be innocently trying to confirm that they are single, my first thought would be this person is either needy, possessive or has no boundaries or respect for my personal life...

Exactly why I won't give my number out. Anyone who insists on calling like that would immediately go on my block list.

Don’t ya just love that block button? It’s a great site tool. "

It's the one I use most often especially recently

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By *extravagantWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh. "

If I am meeting a guy for a shag, the least that he can provide is an erection. It is not an extravagant request, it’s the minimum. Plenty of ED meds available cheaply without prescription. There is no excuse for such a disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could write lots

Had one met up

With this bloke , really liked him we were in he’s flat getting frisky , both were naked on the rug , when he’s 17 year old son and girlfriend walked in , I grabbed my boxers he just sat there , with a boner talking to he’s son and her like it was just a normal thing , I went to

The bathroom got dressed and was trying to leave when he was still there naked chatting away , very strange , gutted he was fit

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh. "

No truthful

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

At least be able to perform. Turning up with a hard on is lush in that moment, equally turning up and building him up or giving a bj and feeling him grow is equally as sexy

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By *he people watcher1Man
over a year ago

Greetland

I put this on my status a few week back..

I wen to a couples house one evening, we was down stairs playing in the living room..just as her mouth latched onto my cock I heard footsteps coming down the stairs..the bloody kids where in bed, I didn’t know and sharply made my excuse and off I went never to return again ha

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well seems like I'm missing out because I haven't really had any bad meets am I doing something wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the short version

Met a woman at a hotel I was in with an attached restaurant/bar and play area.

She turned up with her two young children which was weird in itself and set alarm bells ringing but I thought that maybe a friend or baby sitter had been arranged to collect them later.

Then she wanted to bring the two children to my room to watch tv and said they wouldn't mind

This lead to another refusal and a huge scene where she eventually stormed off.

It's a place I regularly stay with work and the same manager always asks me if I'll be having any crazy women joining me and if so could we please sit outside away from other guests

got to love his banter

Jesus christ. Some people. Who brings kids to a meet, what the hell.

That was very entertaining 10/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had someone come round once from in the old days of craigslist. She insisted on using chewing tobbaco throughout. Definitely off putting."

I could not stop laughing at this

What the hell? only on fabs can you find such wierdo's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got invited to a party.

Needless to say with a lot of protest we made our excuses and left. "

Ffs, why is basic hygiene so difficult for some people?!?!

What is it with people, organising meets and kids being present.

Is this a common thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst I've had are two who never showed up for the arranged socials. Oh, and the one who used her teeth giving a BJ. Ouch.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

An attitude like that would put me right off..poor blokes, could be medical related or nerves/mental.

wouldn't be that if you really wanted it but couldn't get wet for a mental block or medical reason.

You'd want the patience & courtesy then not to be laughed at or degraded because of it.

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By *angbangFantasyWoman
over a year ago

London

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

I mean, men are only human like you. They get nervous too and sometimes their nerves get the best of them and that affects them physically. They'll either cum quickly or they can't get hard at all. Sometimes we need to put their mind at ease, especially if we're attracted to them. People who like sex aren't always going to be switched on 24/7. Us women have it easier as we don't have tell tell signs if we're nervous.

I had a guy cum after 30 seconds of us fucking and he was so embarrassed. But I understood it was his first meet, now he's on here as part of a couple and is so sexually confident now.

One guy came after I wrapped my fingers around his shaft and I don't blame him. I'd been teasing him all night during our social.

I take it as a compliment rather than an insult.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

I had a guy cum after 30 seconds of us fucking and he was so embarrassed. But I understood it was his first meet, now he's on here as part of a couple and is so sexually confident now.

One guy came after I wrapped my fingers around his shaft and I don't blame him. I'd been teasing him all night during our social.

I take it as a compliment rather than an insult."

Wow, what a lovely attitude.

Big respect to you young lady

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

An attitude like that would put me right off..poor blokes, could be medical related or nerves/mental.

wouldn't be that if you really wanted it but couldn't get wet for a mental block or medical reason.

You'd want the patience & courtesy then not to be laughed at or degraded because of it."

Wow, what a lovely attitude.

Big respect to you as well young lady

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I had a couple of poor meetings when I first started on fab but now I know what to look for I can honestly say all my meets since have been brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Oh dear

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By *umblebiMan
over a year ago

ayles

Some scary reading...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. This is a horror story.

I’ve been here before but left for a few months and returned (different username!).

The short version is I sent a message to a lovely looking lady, about 6 years older than me. We talked on here and swapped pictures. After a while we swapped WhatsApp numbers and arranged a drink in a pub. We kept texting, flirting and camming. All was going well.

An hour before we met I got a message saying “I’m going to get you d*unk and peg you until you bleed.” Lovely huh? Obviously I replied by saying “not for me and I don’t think we should meet. Good luck!”

Next thing I know I’m getting messages on here and on my phone calling me every name under the sun. So I blocked her on WhatsApp and here. The problem is she kept setting up profiles to stalk and abuse me.

So I left and returned about year later!

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"The worst is men who can’t get it up... happens loads of times, it’s never OK even if we say it it...

The second worst was a guy (very young) with premature ejaculation... he came even before I got his jeans off... managed to get up again... came twice more before he even fucked me

Bit harsh.

With all due respect, we are only human, not robots! I hate to be put under any kind of pressure - it kills the mood like a sledgehammer. Expectations are so unattractive in my opinion, the men that I have met via FS and decided to become more intimate with were the ones that put me at ease, not the ones that were expecting anything. I think the least people should provide is good manners and a good understanding of consent - not a hard-on or a wet pussy! Personally, in the case of an errant erection I would like for a man to be gracious about it and not make it my job to do the emotional labour on his behalf (or worse - try to blame me in some way) but to deal with it like an adult with good manners, good humour and move on to other things. Sex and play are meant to be fun, not a job! I definitely think that how people behave and their attitude matters so much more than their genitalia - otherwise a good sex toy is more than enough, by bother meeting real people then?

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