FabSwingers.com forum: Reported profile for what?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had a young guy message me and it was a really crude and unpleasant first message so I deleted it not wanting to encourage him, and the following four other messages that came in quick succession asking if I’m not interest. Well clearly I’m not.

He then said he is going to report my profile. Why? What did I do or not do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing. Some men just won't take no for an answer and then get abusive. Xx

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By *opelesslyHopefulMan
over a year ago

Braintree

Unfortunately this how a lot of guys act when their given the power of anonymity, you did nothing wrong, they just can’t understand what no means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened a few times with us recently and it’s a big part of the reason why single guys get a bad name, it’s a shame because some single guys are genuinely nice guys but a lot of couples/woman, just get fed up of abuse from usually younger single guys if they don’t get the attention they crave. Although we where under the impression that no reply meant not interested? Some people just don’t like rejection.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The key word in your post "young" says it all.

Not all (but most) young males on here think its "instashag" and all women on the site are just sitting at home waiting on them messaging as they are desperate for a fxxk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a young guy message me and it was a really crude and unpleasant first message so I deleted it not wanting to encourage him, and the following four other messages that came in quick succession asking if I’m not interest. Well clearly I’m not.

He then said he is going to report my profile. Why? What did I do or not do?"

Standard kind of behaviour from people that cant take rejection I'm afraid. Report their abuse as soon as they do it and block them. You've done nowt wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key word in your post "young" says it all.

Not all (but most) young males on here think its "instashag" and all women on the site are just sitting at home waiting on them messaging as they are desperate for a fxxk "

Got it in one!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Timewasting or fake probably.

I've had threats of the same because I didn't want to engage with them. Seriously, some believe that sending a message means they're a guaranteed dick in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key word in your post "young" says it all.

Not all (but most) young males on here think its "instashag" and all women on the site are just sitting at home waiting on them messaging as they are desperate for a fxxk

Got it in one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He then said he is going to report my profile. Why? What did I do or not do?"

You failed to put out to a total stranger! We've had to block single guys now because of how lazy and unpleasant most of them are at the moment. Even the ones we'd manage to verify as genuine ended up needy, nutty or just plain wankerish when they weren't asked to meet, or we didn't want to 'get to know' them with daily banal emails!

You keep doing what works for you

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

He then said he is going to report my profile. Why? What did I do or not do?"

... and this is exaclty why admin have to review every report they get and don't just ban/remove people on the say so of someone else.

Don't worry about it. He's a plonker and one of many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He then said he is going to report my profile. Why? What did I do or not do?"

He's clearly not used to rejection. Ignore and move on. I'm sure you'll get over him. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing. Some men just won't take no for an answer and then get abusive. Xx"

and they spoil it was the rest of us

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

He then said he is going to report my profile. Why? What did I do or not do?"

There's one individual who goes around rather entitled that we should all bow down to him and let him do what he wants. We have encountered him, as have some other fab friends. He seems to have a short fuse as a simple 'no thanks' even antagonise him.

Don't take it to heart, some people just should mix with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key word in your post "young" says it all.

Not all (but most) young males on here think its "instashag" and all women on the site are just sitting at home waiting on them messaging as they are desperate for a fxxk "

Not just the young ones either. There's a small portion of older males who are the same

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

Getting used to this now. I wrote in my profile and that I'm not looking for men but still expected to get messages. One guy messaged with the usual compliments only for me to say no thanks. 1 minute later I get a message back calling me a fat c#nt.

So many fragile egos.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I've been messaged by someone who openly states on their profile quote " why do women delete message, had to block so many profiles cause they acting like b......!"

He can happily block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh damn that sounds terrible some have no respect

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By *opelesslyHopefulMan
over a year ago

Braintree

I’d like to apologise for the men in my age group, I hope stuff like this becomes the exception rather than the rule, or even better stops all together

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because nothing changes a ladies mind quicker than meritless threats....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The key word in your post "young" says it all.

Not all (but most) young males on here think its "instashag" and all women on the site are just sitting at home waiting on them messaging as they are desperate for a fxxk "

I'd agree but other way around, my experience is younger men are way more clued up and respectful sure, there's always the exception to the rule but If I get a crude message, 9 times out of 10 its from a man over 50.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

unfortunatley this is one of the downsides of the site becoming more popular some seem to think because you swing you will shag anyone.ive noticed a some single fem profiles with pics ive seen on porn site profiles that have links to escort sites aswell.

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We have to agree with the last post, guys see your profile and think your desperate, want sex 24/7 and because your on a swing site think its their given gift that you will drop your knicker and play.

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