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Love it when it's the women who hunt on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any other couples like it when it's the female half of the couples or single women that pay compliments regards the photos of the male via message, fan's or winks.

The wife gets 98% of the compliments so I enjoy my 2% every now and then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both use the site so people can get winks and messages from either of us. We met through the site and as we both had single profiles it was the natural progression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before covid came along the wife would happily wink or send a first message now she very rarely pops on to have a look..

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I think it's very refreshing for the female to take the lead or be the one to reply. It's great to be able to talk with both but I think it's really hot to hear the woman's view point and what she is looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few and far between but it can happen, a modern day miracle haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been approached by a woman first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often get messages from women or the woman in a couple. I haven’t had as many lately as you can’t move forward and arrange a meet

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By *assunachWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow...

I loooove the thrill of the chase. Many women do. Unfortunately it doesn’t take long for men to do something that then spoils it and the sexual tension is then destroyed. I don’t like men to be too needy. I prefer it to be a bit of a challenge. We value more highly that which is less easily obtained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys I meet after often men who I message first.

I get a lot of messages from men, but usually the men I'm really interested in will be those I've instigated things with.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I always do the messaging on here and will give compliments to men.

Mrs

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’m the one that views and decide who we meet it’s equal rights why shouldn’t us ladies have the control you guys hog the tv remotes

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By *eoMan
over a year ago

Sutton-In-Ashfield

I’m not in a couple but no I’ve never been messaged first by a woman once. But do receive a few winks now and then.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Everyone loves a compliment.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Over this past year or so, I've definitely noticed an increase in 'first contact' being made by the female halves of couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of a guy and he has potential I will most definitely message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do most of our messaging , it’s funny when we are told that I must be a guy pretending to be a couple even with our veris lol

It’s like they just can’t believe a woman would take the lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do all the messaging, fab pics etc, people do generally assume it's the man though

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I quite often get the first message from a woman. It’s not often anything comes of them but it happens

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do all the messaging, fab pics etc, people do generally assume it's the man though "

Think it generally is the men who respond. Nice profile photos by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m the one that views and decide who we meet it’s equal rights why shouldn’t us ladies have the control you guys hog the tv remotes"

What's a TV remote?

I just change the batteries every so often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always do the messaging on here and will give compliments to men.

Mrs"

Fair play. Enjoyed the narrative on you profile. You both sound fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The guys I meet after often men who I message first.

I get a lot of messages from men, but usually the men I'm really interested in will be those I've instigated things with."

I'm not surprised you get a lot of messages from men. That's some profile and photos.

I'll just sign off with a "Wow"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I loooove the thrill of the chase. Many women do. Unfortunately it doesn’t take long for men to do something that then spoils it and the sexual tension is then destroyed. I don’t like men to be too needy. I prefer it to be a bit of a challenge. We value more highly that which is less easily obtained. "

Women can be clingy as well.

We've blocked a few over the years that were potential bunny boilers that wouldn't stop messaging but know what you mean about men messing it up.

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