FabSwingers.com forum: a question for guys re cuckold couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this is not a knock guys post im just wondering as per amount of mail i get from guys ....

its a straight forward question why do quite a few guys (who message) think that cuckold couples are weak relationship wise ?? i find myself often having to bite my lip ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh and keep answers on post please not via my private message's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the overall quality of guy on here is very low.

I would think that your relationship must be extremely strong and firmly rooted in effective communication.

That seems obvious to me.

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By *avegaMan
over a year ago

Bucks

In my some what limited experience, they weren’t weak, but strong and were just out for some fun. Bit like going to the pub, meeting a couple there, having a drink.. but with the added bonus of sex!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

This is just my view:

Because Porn.

What some men will see is a “damsel in distress” who needs saving from her “weak” man and introduced to a manly man (note I am avoiding the term bull for a reason).

The rise of creampie cleanup in porn also seems reflected in peoples perceptions/opinions of what cuckolding is about.

What these manly men fail to understand is the strength of the cuckold relationship, and how it satisfies the needs/wants/desires of both people in the couple and that should the manly man be successful all they will have is a “vanilla” relationship.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We are open to invite the occasional males to play with us and we stress we are NOT a cuckold couple on our profile but that doesn't stop six pack "bulls" messaging trying to domineer a meet and exclude the male half. A lot of wheat from chaff to sort but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is not a knock guys post im just wondering as per amount of mail i get from guys ....

its a straight forward question why do quite a few guys (who message) think that cuckold couples are weak relationship wise ?? i find myself often having to bite my lip ....

I don't think they're i a weak relationship at all, just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been a bull for couples in the past, their relationships have been rock solid and the dynamic in the bedroom has often been the opposite to their everyday lives with the men being very high up and in positions of power in their respective fields.

I think the men that think that could never imagine sharing or playing with a woman they are dating is where the thought comes from x

Someone with experience or knowledge of being a bull would understand x

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By *corpio 50Man
over a year ago

waterlooville

I think it’s about what couples like and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally and any man joining them should be respectful and think themselves lucky to be a part of it x

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

One word...ignorance. I don't think they are any worse or better than single women or couples who come to the same conclusion.

Even within the swinging community there is a real lack of understanding. Personally I wouldn't get irritated/annoyed unless that ignorance is also combined with a closed mind. Now that really does get to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be the strongest relationships surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete ignorance and a lack of understanding. takes a real man to be truly comfortable with sharing, whether it’s cuck side or hotwife side x

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

A lot of single men do not understand the dynamics of a cuckold relationship or a hot wife meet.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

They just don't get it be it cuckold, hotwife, stag and vixen. They think you can't fuck your wife that's why they are there. Why would he be there otherwise as there's no way he'd share his own other half especially when he 'can' fuck her.

Unfortunately there's too many like this, we vet carefully to avoid these, we tend to seek out those with plenty of experience as a starting point.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Simply because they do not understand cuckolding and are automatically drawn to the extreme end where they assume the cuck is sub and into humiliation 24/7 and therefore assume the relationship is weak.

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By *aturing bullMan
over a year ago

TOOTING

"this is not a knock guys post im just wondering as per amount of mail i get from guys ....

its a straight forward question why do quite a few guys (who message) think that cuckold couples are weak relationship wise ?? i find myself often having to bite my lip ....

I think many have, through very well thought out comments, hit the nail, but i would go for ignorance and porn myself.

I love the hot wife/cuckold scene, partly due to my interest in the dynamic of the couple-what the hubby wants, what the wife wants and what their interests are together. These questions, for me, are the way to success for a single male/bull.

But not every male wants to ask these questions, or cares. The good news is that our part of the Scene is developing its own culture in the way of say BDSM-virtual groups, blogs, and podcasts like Cuckoldress Venus, The Geeky Cuckold and the Keys and Anklets podcast.

Within our small patch of green grass there is so much to experience and so many grey areas between cuckold play, interracial, bi play, hot wifing, kink, dominance-it goes on and on, as many different ways to play as individuals. So much to enjoy.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd say it's just because they don't understand the dynamic and should be avoided.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say it's just because they don't understand the dynamic and should be avoided."

i would not go with anyone who did not understand but why are people not trying to understand something they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is not a knock guys post im just wondering as per amount of mail i get from guys ....

its a straight forward question why do quite a few guys (who message) think that cuckold couples are weak relationship wise ?? i find myself often having to bite my lip ....

Don't bite your lip let them have both barrels.

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