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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you expect from guys to say in the first message ?

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west


"What do you expect from guys to say in the first message ? "

Haha the golden question..

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

I would hope they would just be themselves

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By *amillMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I don’t think there’s a silver bullet for what all women want to hear in a first message. Everyone’s different, I’d just say read their profile and make sure they’re right for you then say something around that.

Just don’t be a creep and go into graphic detail about what you want to do to them or send graphic pics etc.

Treating all women as the same and expecting the same response will never work

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By *awandBareWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

Just be polite. Tell them what you are looking for and don't send a dick pic... .....

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Erm hello maybe then just why you’re messaging a what attracted you to message them.

But there’s no right answer really good luck though

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There is no magic formula for a first message. But crude or graphic ones don't work for me. Or pet names babe hun etc or calling me a girl. I am way too old to be called a girl

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Erm hello maybe then just why you’re messaging a what attracted you to message them.

But there’s no right answer really good luck though "

Perfect!

Lou x

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock


"Erm hello maybe then just why you’re messaging a what attracted you to message them.

But there’s no right answer really good luck though "

Think they might be attracted to that vagina of theirs

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

Here’s 10p call your your boyfriend and tell him you’ve pulled and won’t be home.

That works right

It’s definitely not a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm hello maybe then just why you’re messaging a what attracted you to message them.

But there’s no right answer really good luck though "

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Here’s 10p call your your boyfriend and tell him you’ve pulled and won’t be home.

That works right

It’s definitely not a cock pic"

It used to work in the 80s. By the late 90s you’d need to give her 50p.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think there’s a silver bullet for what all women want to hear in a first message. Everyone’s different, I’d just say read their profile and make sure they’re right for you then say something around that.

Just don’t be a creep and go into graphic detail about what you want to do to them or send graphic pics etc.

Treating all women as the same and expecting the same response will never work"

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"What do you expect from guys to say in the first message ? "

Something that shows they have actually read the profile...

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London


"Here’s 10p call your your boyfriend and tell him you’ve pulled and won’t be home.

That works right

It’s definitely not a cock pic

It used to work in the 80s. By the late 90s you’d need to give her 50p.

Lou x "

I’m so past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a good dick pic next to your Xmas can of lynx Africa, forget what boris says and ask them if they are free ASAP. Good luck x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

A polite friendly message which shows they have read my profile & actually taken in what it says. That type of message will usually at least get a reply, even if it is to say 'thanks but no thanks'.

One word 'hi' type messages, dick pics, copy and paste messages or anything crude/inappropriate won't get any response.

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