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Is there such thing as a black man that he is sub

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By *rixiepeep OP   Woman
over a year ago

over the hill / chatsworth

I love meeting Blackman, but what I find with the ones that I've met so far is they're very dominant. That doesn't float my boat as I'm a little Dom.

I'm wondering is there any black man that likes to be donimated by a woman.I don't mean anything to hard and dominant just soft sensuous dominant play with a little bit of force now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a black man myself I find that it's expected to be dominant in sex , obviously not true in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Same way there’s dominant Asian guys. Competent politicians. And Nigerian princes who don’t want to scam you..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever came across this once he was very attentive but just wanted to be belittled he also wanted me to be racist towards him which I just couldn't do. He was a royal marine so I think that had something to do with it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes there are. I met a black guy who was sub to his Dom mistress girlfriend. She was hot. He was a nice guy.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


" As a black man myself I find that it's expected to be dominant in sex , obviously not true in my case "

Love your profile. So true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah deffo, I’m a sub & love a confident women! especially if she’s about the tease and thrill

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By *rixiepeep OP   Woman
over a year ago

over the hill / chatsworth


"Yep. Same way there’s dominant Asian guys. Competent politicians. And Nigerian princes who don’t want to scam you..

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind being a bit sub for a busty older lady

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By *oneymitchMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Interesting post OP as a black male although I dont deem myself dominant I would definately not see myself as a sub, my attitude towards it is that males should be masculine. Me personally I couldnt accept a woman dominating me

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon


"Interesting post OP as a black male although I dont deem myself dominant I would definately not see myself as a sub, my attitude towards it is that males should be masculine. Me personally I couldnt accept a woman dominating me"

Potentially missing out on some serious fun there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is. Black men are just the same as White men - some are sub, some are Dom, some a switch, some are sissy's, some are TV's, etc etc.

Anyone can be anything, its 2021

I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for eventually, happy Fabbing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been back on forums for 15mins.

Must not get temp banned again. Must not get temp banned again.

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By *igBlacKnightMan
over a year ago

London

Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"

If you want to be a sub in the bedroom, be a sub. No one is judging here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"

That's rubbish and a very outdated view.

I like to dominate men and they are definitely still men.

There are probably plenty of black men who like to be dominated, just not in your circle of friends x

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

This made me smile. When I first started my kinky journey my biggest fantasy was to be dominated by a woman. I was lucky enough to find a woman who wanted to Domme me but by our third date I was dominating her, that remained our dynamic over the following three years. I have always seen myself as very chilled so my inner dominant streak took me by surprise at the time.

Anyway back to the main topic although the opportunities for me have unfortunately been rare I love being dominated by a woman. However when it comes to guys (I'm bicurious) its either mutual respect or me in charge. So much so that when I'm fucking someone's wife if the guys says "fuck my wife" in a firm voice my natural instinct is to reply "well maybe I won't then" That's the first thought that can pop into my head. Not very productive lololol.

So I'm careful about what dynamic the couple goes for with single guys.

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By *pontaneousjMan
over a year ago

Westminster


"I love meeting Blackman, but what I find with the ones that I've met so far is they're very dominant. That doesn't float my boat as I'm a little Dom.

I'm wondering is there any black man that likes to be donimated by a woman.I don't mean anything to hard and dominant just soft sensuous dominant play with a little bit of force now and then. "

Yes I am keen to explore submissive side

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How terribly insecure one must be to believe that submission in any way compromises their masculinity.

Or, for that matter, to fetishise their own "masculinity" to a point where they are worried about compromising it.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Submission is release

You must get that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"

The irony of defining “manhood” and “masculinity” with an Xbox controller in the background of a profile picture.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"

Sorry mate that's nonsense, that's the sort of ignorance that racists use to discriminate others..

Black men are no different to men from any other part of the globe, they are gay, bi, straight, Dom, sub and everything in between those..

Having the confidence, trust etc to give control to another is nothing to do with any concept of 'masculinity'..

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

My wife and I would love to find a sexy bi black guy to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a strange question to be sure.

Dom or sub is about how the brain works.

Skin colour has nothing to do with how the brain works.

The idea that any group based on gender or skin colour are homogenous beings who all think the same shows how far society and cultural expectations are entrenched in stereotypes.

Think about friends and colleagues who are different races, do they all fit into a narrow box.

I think most people work on a scale and no one is 100% one thing or another.

(at least I'd hope not as that would make for really dull sex, being the same every time.)

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Agree with that

Very well put mate

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By *assConductorMan
over a year ago

the wild

Switch here, so I guess I count.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Glad to hear it x

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sussex Bi The Sea


"Of course there is. Black men are just the same as White men - some are sub, some are Dom, some a switch, some are sissy's, some are TV's, etc etc.

Anyone can be anything, its 2021

I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for eventually, happy Fabbing. x"

Exactly just go with the flow

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