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Meeting separately and alone time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a question for couples that meet separately, what do you do while you're waiting for your partner to get home, assuming you can't go out yourself? If you start getting feelings of jealousy and insecurity how to you deal with them?

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By *ockatwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

If either of us felt jealous or insecure we wouldn't carry on we made a joint decision to pursue this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If either of us felt jealous or insecure we wouldn't carry on we made a joint decision to pursue this lifestyle."

I think its unrealistic to expect there to be zero feelings of jealousy the first time someone meets alone, it doesn't mean we are any less on board with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had many meets alone while hubby was been at home. We're not a cuck couple, just open marriage. He said he felt odd the first time, not jealous or unhappy, just a hint of background discomfort. But all my other meets haven't bothered him at all as long as he knows I'm safe. Depends on when I get back we often have sex as well xx

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By *he Cram-BetweensCouple
over a year ago

A Club or Your Bedroom!

This is kinda the worry we'd have too. We've said we'd just take it slowly. We had one separate meet each on the same night before covid and we were both pretty ok with it although we both had mediocre meets! I think things could be different if one of us was left at home to ponder the situation though... time will tell, taking little steps is the answer for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thread. First time my fella met on his own I must admit I was jealous, scared, nervous everything to be honest. But when he returned home we spoke about it and had great sex after. I'm much happier when he meets couples rather than single females.

Think women will always be anxious as it's our nature, but honesty and communication is a must, talk talk talk .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I only have separate meats. We don't live together but he can't have meets at his place, so most of the time he has his meets here, I am normally doing what ever I was doing before hand. X

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