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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I do enjoy it with the right person was loving it last night tried it again this morning and it nearly killed me it hurt like hell. So what was different x

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

Probably more relaxed last night

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Now I do enjoy it with the right person was loving it last night tried it again this morning and it nearly killed me it hurt like hell. So what was different x"
it wasnt the right person???

you werent relaxed enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka always gives me a sore ass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vodka always gives me a sore ass"

Pardon the pun but I dont think I gave a shit last night I was so ready but this morning you know nice spoon and it killed me x

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood"
relax , start small and work your way up , good lube or spit , lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love these forums can talk about anything love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood"

For a second there I thought you meant her arse being clean but she was still put off about the potential mess.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Relaxation. Nice anal lube. And don't rush it.easier if you go in top so you can control penetration and then relax once you have it fully up you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Relaxation. Nice anal lube. And don't rush it.easier if you go in top so you can control penetration and then relax once you have it fully up you. "

So was it the angle then as in spoon position because it was doggy last night x

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood relax , start small and work your way up , good lube or spit , lovely "

and you reckon that will work better than shake n vac?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood relax , start small and work your way up , good lube or spit , lovely

and you reckon that will work better than shake n vac?"

or a plug in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood relax , start small and work your way up , good lube or spit , lovely

and you reckon that will work better than shake n vac?"
Might put the freshness back ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffinately the angle Shaz, I've found this too. Some positions it's fine, others, especially if he goes in a touch too high, it's like I've been stabbed, literally. Go low and upwards, not high at a right angle

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire


"i hate anal.

no matter how much a clean the house, its just never enough for her when she is in that mood relax , start small and work your way up , good lube or spit , lovely

and you reckon that will work better than shake n vac?Might put the freshness back ? "

make her farts smell like she says they do lol

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Plenty lube and usually find doggy easier at first then change position.

If your not relaxed then it will hurt or as previously mentioned angle or even a slight tear from night before.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


" nice spoon and it killed me x"

Maybe he couldn't find the spoon and picked up the soup ladle by mistake? Or worse still the potato masher!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoon is normaly the best for first entrance then once you've opened up change to doggy or whatever plus alot of lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually takes me a couple of days to recover. I couldn't do it two days running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what a porn actress taught me about anal 27 years ago - and its ALWAYS worked for me. Bear in mind I am above average girth, so I HAVE to get it right or it can seriously hurt the girl....

1. lube up.

2. lube up AGAIN.

3. Guy must be on a hard surface - NOT a bed as there is too much 'give' and the girl can't get enough control.

4. use Reverse Cow girl

5. Position over the guys cock (which must be as solid an erection as possible and DON'T be shy to use 'help' - Viagra - if you need to) and lower onto the tip

6. Once the tip is in position, the girl needs to push as if she is going to the loo (one assumes you have douched before hand) so that the sphincter opens up/slackens off slightly) and as it does, squat so the head pops inside.

7. THEN.... lower yourself onto the shaft at YOUR pace and TAKE IT SLOWLY at first.

When you're comfortable, you can increase the penetration/speed/rythmn to suit your own needs/desires.

Sorry if that sounds clinical, but as I say, works for me and for the girl too.

Pork

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By *uyuksno1Man
over a year ago

poole

maybe if you were relaxed enough and up for it last night you were bruised slightly without realising it then doing it again this morning you were aware of the bruising and tensed up i cant do it twice in a row im always tender after x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe if you were relaxed enough and up for it last night you were bruised slightly without realising it then doing it again this morning you were aware of the bruising and tensed up i cant do it twice in a row im always tender after x"

Still tender but glad I am not the only one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vodka always gives me a sore ass"

Pah haha

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