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By *eoeclipse OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Ladies, looking for a bit of advice,

I have a curiosity for pegging and many have asked me for it.

since we can't go into shops atm & try on harness fits etc i'm gonna need a bit of help.

I've seen the pants types ones...any good?

The harnesses are they "tiny adjustable?

Cos I have a body like a teenager (tiny waist, no ass, horse riders thighs) & find even adult climb harnesses are sometimes too big or you end up with miles of hanging strap.

hmm and what about the dildo, I don't want one that soft...is there a gauge on the sites to go by?

Sorry if it seems daft but I'm not one to buy toys (only ever owned 2) and if i do I usually go in store.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

The pant ones like Rodeoh are snug for the size but you can't interchange the o-ring. They go down to size 6 I think.

The strap ones should adjust (not the corset ones) small enough but you will need to remove a mile of straps. Use them to make restraints!

As for Dildos, they often come with one but then just go for whatever looks right for you.

Have fun.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Can thoroughly recommend the Doc Johnson vac u loc ones.

Good harnesses, comfy and secure and easy to change dildos.

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By *eoeclipse OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I'll have a browse at both thank you

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

had mine made for me, strong but soft leather, with lots of adjustments. no problem in changing strapons

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By *eoeclipse OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"had mine made for me, strong but soft leather, with lots of adjustments. no problem in changing strapons"

I'm just starting out so that would be a big expenditure if I don't like it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Google Sh! Womenstore Blog OP - they have an excellent advice section about choosing the best strap on - both harness and attachments

If you're not aware of them Sh! were originally a sex shop for women only (men were only allowed in with a female) and so have a lot of very woman-centric toys and advice.

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By *eoeclipse OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

checking it out... thanks guys & gals

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Love honey have a great selection and the users reviews are fairly accurate. Personally, like the strap style with 3 different O ring sizes. Didlos can vary wildly, get the realistic style and start small if your victim is a newbie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole pegging thing seriously interests me

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Can thoroughly recommend the Doc Johnson vac u loc ones.

Good harnesses, comfy and secure and easy to change dildos. "

Was gonna say the same...and sooooo many attachments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started off with a harnesse but I then got the pants and wouldn't go back now. I feel I have more control with the pants as they fit tighter accross the front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started off with a harnesse but I then got the pants and wouldn't go back now. I feel I have more control with the pants as they fit tighter accross the front "

Harness-obvs

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

The main thing is it’s got to be very tight fitting and the dildo has to be firmly in the right place on you otherwise it’s a nightmare . Snap clips can pinch your bloody skin badly when you buckle up

Our fave is a simple two buckle thing off eBay . Wasn’t expensive that has a hole you put a dildo though . We find silicone dildos the nest , rigid plastic types give no flex when fucking a mans bottom or a girls front bottom ,

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By *eoeclipse OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"The main thing is it’s got to be very tight fitting and the dildo has to be firmly in the right place on you otherwise it’s a nightmare . Snap clips can pinch your bloody skin badly when you buckle up

Our fave is a simple two buckle thing off eBay . Wasn’t expensive that has a hole you put a dildo though . We find silicone dildos the nest , rigid plastic types give no flex when fucking a mans bottom or a girls front bottom , "

See that was my thinking I'm flat added & flat fronted so I'd need to be damn tight problem is I go between a 6-10 through out the year (every year) & alot of them are saying from size 8 up...bit of a pain when you can't try them on.

I'm still looking though, advice via great thanks guys

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Good tip use a condom on the dildo makes pegging more pleasurable aswell as lube.

Dee Williams uses a wicked vaginal clip on one, no straps. She's on the Sexually Broken site, clips of her using it on various sites like Anysex.com (search Mistress Dee Williams)

Maybe try the double ended strap on for your pleasure too. Good hunting.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I have a spareparts joque harness. It feels wonderful against my skin and is easily adjusted. Gives you great control and is unisex too.

It is expensive, but in my view well worth it.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have a spareparts joque harness. It feels wonderful against my skin and is easily adjusted. Gives you great control and is unisex too.

It is expensive, but in my view well worth it.

"
you look amazing in your pics and I love your video very sexy x

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud


"I have a spareparts joque harness. It feels wonderful against my skin and is easily adjusted. Gives you great control and is unisex too.

It is expensive, but in my view well worth it.

you look amazing in your pics and I love your video very sexy x"

Thanks. Your profile pic is very enticing too

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have a spareparts joque harness. It feels wonderful against my skin and is easily adjusted. Gives you great control and is unisex too.

It is expensive, but in my view well worth it.

you look amazing in your pics and I love your video very sexy x

Thanks. Your profile pic is very enticing too "
thank you x how come it won't let me message you? Any chance of a message if I'm lucky lol fingers crossed haha xx

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By *aggy dollsCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Luna prefers our insertable strapless strapon, it really hits the spot for us both but it does lack girth for my liking

Mr H.

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Hubby loves it

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By *ohnny2006Man
over a year ago

worcester


"Ladies, looking for a bit of advice,

I have a curiosity for pegging and many have asked me for it.

since we can't go into shops atm & try on harness fits etc i'm gonna need a bit of help.

I've seen the pants types ones...any good?

The harnesses are they "tiny adjustable?

Cos I have a body like a teenager (tiny waist, no ass, horse riders thighs) & find even adult climb harnesses are sometimes too big or you end up with miles of hanging strap.

hmm and what about the dildo, I don't want one that soft...is there a gauge on the sites to go by?

Sorry if it seems daft but I'm not one to buy toys (only ever owned 2) and if i do I usually go in store.

"

I'd start to practise with butt plugs before going straight to a strapon.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Tiny waist go for the pants be better for you especially on penetration love honey

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff


"The main thing is it’s got to be very tight fitting and the dildo has to be firmly in the right place on you otherwise it’s a nightmare . Snap clips can pinch your bloody skin badly when you buckle up

Our fave is a simple two buckle thing off eBay . Wasn’t expensive that has a hole you put a dildo though . We find silicone dildos the nest , rigid plastic types give no flex when fucking a mans bottom or a girls front bottom ,

See that was my thinking I'm flat added & flat fronted so I'd need to be damn tight problem is I go between a 6-10 through out the year (every year) & alot of them are saying from size 8 up...bit of a pain when you can't try them on.

I'm still looking though, advice via great thanks guys "

I’d buy an uber cheap harness still. Even if it’s rubbish quality and gets no use you can still see if that type works for you before you up purchase or discard that style . They can be very costly and still not work for you .

There’s nothing worse with one where you have to start holding it in place with a hand . Still stick to silicone though .

If you want a boy or a girl to go on top and ride you and firm of rigid dildo becomes a unique mutual agony and the bloody thing hammers an ovary on the down stroke and her ovary or his colon on the up stroke !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K picked up the beginners set from LoveHoney and it seems like a good purchase so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doc Johnson Vac u lock for our serious fun nights and a purple rechargable strapless changable shape one from Love honey for our regular every day fun as it can be used as a normal vibe and also when used as a strapon sends her to the moon and back as its internal..Good luck OP xx

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By *goddessCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Ladies, looking for a bit of advice,

I have a curiosity for pegging and many have asked me for it.

since we can't go into shops atm & try on harness fits etc i'm gonna need a bit of help.

I've seen the pants types ones...any good?

The harnesses are they "tiny adjustable?

Cos I have a body like a teenager (tiny waist, no ass, horse riders thighs) & find even adult climb harnesses are sometimes too big or you end up with miles of hanging strap.

hmm and what about the dildo, I don't want one that soft...is there a gauge on the sites to go by?

Sorry if it seems daft but I'm not one to buy toys (only ever owned 2) and if i do I usually go in store.

"

have a look at the pantie purse com and their silicone big black one, we have one and its fulyl adjustable so can be fastened as loose or as tight as you need, ours came with a dildo to which helped.

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By *arried bi2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Might get a bigger one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, looking for a bit of advice,

I have a curiosity for pegging and many have asked me for it.

since we can't go into shops atm & try on harness fits etc i'm gonna need a bit of help.

I've seen the pants types ones...any good?

The harnesses are they "tiny adjustable?

Cos I have a body like a teenager (tiny waist, no ass, horse riders thighs) & find even adult climb harnesses are sometimes too big or you end up with miles of hanging strap.

hmm and what about the dildo, I don't want one that soft...is there a gauge on the sites to go by?

Sorry if it seems daft but I'm not one to buy toys (only ever owned 2) and if i do I usually go in store.

"

Buy a strapless strapon, thats

What we bought.

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By *eoeclipse OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Ladies, looking for a bit of advice,

I have a curiosity for pegging and many have asked me for it.

since we can't go into shops atm & try on harness fits etc i'm gonna need a bit of help.

I've seen the pants types ones...any good?

The harnesses are they "tiny adjustable?

Cos I have a body like a teenager (tiny waist, no ass, horse riders thighs) & find even adult climb harnesses are sometimes too big or you end up with miles of hanging strap.

hmm and what about the dildo, I don't want one that soft...is there a gauge on the sites to go by?

Sorry if it seems daft but I'm not one to buy toys (only ever owned 2) and if i do I usually go in store.

Buy a strapless strapon, thats

What we bought. "

Now I know I've got the muscle control for that but maybe not as a first option, I think it'll give me too much to thing about.

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