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By *orny PT OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

This is getting annoying.

I'm not asking for much, but seeing as everybody is subject to lockdown rules these days: some people think that sending out winks and then going UNLOS or hidden is fun. It's not it's bloody annoying.

FFS, just stop. I don't need the playground mind games.

It's not as if I had more than one wink from a female/male couple in the last 12 months. Getting winks from blokes just get deleted, as I'm straight and they are barking up the wrong tree.

If it's just because they like a particular photo, then that's fine, just PM me and say so. That's much less corrosive.

So if you haven't grown out of the knock-and-run-stage, then please don't bother.

Rant over: I think.

Don't tell me to breathe deeply...my breathing's been buggered up since 1981.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be glad you’ve had a wink. I get sod all then wank.... it’s getting boring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually to be fair, I might wink at a profile while my profile is unhidden then forget and hide it when I'm offline which is normal for me! So if they've hidden it just try again at another time perhaps?

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By *orny PT OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Just be glad you’ve had a wink. I get sod all then wank.... it’s getting boring! "

I'd prefer not to geet my hopes up.

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish


"This is getting annoying.

I'm not asking for much, but seeing as everybody is subject to lockdown rules these days: some people think that sending out winks and then going UNLOS or hidden is fun. It's not it's bloody annoying.

FFS, just stop. I don't need the playground mind games.

It's not as if I had more than one wink from a female/male couple in the last 12 months. Getting winks from blokes just get deleted, as I'm straight and they are barking up the wrong tree.

If it's just because they like a particular photo, then that's fine, just PM me and say so. That's much less corrosive.

So if you haven't grown out of the knock-and-run-stage, then please don't bother.

Rant over: I think.

Don't tell me to breathe deeply...my breathing's been buggered up since 1981. "

The rant will continue because it'll still happen cause "they" don't listen

Breathe as you do nevermind them deep breathes. it's better to get it out

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By *orny PT OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Actually to be fair, I might wink at a profile while my profile is unhidden then forget and hide it when I'm offline which is normal for me! So if they've hidden it just try again at another time perhaps? "

That's what I thought, but when they're still hidden after 4 months, then it's time to stop flogging a dead horse.

As I've said earlier, if you see something you like then send a PM instead, as it can actually make someone's day. Such a slight change, can make a huge difference to the often ignored fragile male ego.

I'm here for forum games, bed games even but not mind games.

As one woman said in a difference post....Sending of loads of job applications and getting no replies is crap: is this like being a single guy on FAB?

Erm, yes: it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually to be fair, I might wink at a profile while my profile is unhidden then forget and hide it when I'm offline which is normal for me! So if they've hidden it just try again at another time perhaps?

That's what I thought, but when they're still hidden after 4 months, then it's time to stop flogging a dead horse.

As I've said earlier, if you see something you like then send a PM instead, as it can actually make someone's day. Such a slight change, can make a huge difference to the often ignored fragile male ego.

I'm here for forum games, bed games even but not mind games.

As one woman said in a difference post....Sending of loads of job applications and getting no replies is crap: is this like being a single guy on FAB?

Erm, yes: it is!"

I've found winks work much better for me than random messages and most people send a wink and then forget about it ... no record is kept of winks you've sent unlike messages! And if their profile has stayed hidden you won't be able to see wink sent either so maybe you've thought about this too much? I've been here for years and never understood 90% of the messages blindly sent, it's definitely not akin to a job application even though I've always replied to all mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the odd wink like this.

Not sure I understand the purpose behind it. I usually assume that a wink indicates at least a passing interest - but it may only be 'passing', so I don't put much stock in it.

I think the key to Fab is thick skin in this regard. Just see it for what it is and move on.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"Actually to be fair, I might wink at a profile while my profile is unhidden then forget and hide it when I'm offline which is normal for me! So if they've hidden it just try again at another time perhaps?

That's what I thought, but when they're still hidden after 4 months, then it's time to stop flogging a dead horse.

As I've said earlier, if you see something you like then send a PM instead, as it can actually make someone's day. Such a slight change, can make a huge difference to the often ignored fragile male ego.

I'm here for forum games, bed games even but not mind games.

As one woman said in a difference post....Sending of loads of job applications and getting no replies is crap: is this like being a single guy on FAB?

Erm, yes: it is!

I've found winks work much better for me than random messages and most people send a wink and then forget about it ... no record is kept of winks you've sent unlike messages! And if their profile has stayed hidden you won't be able to see wink sent either so maybe you've thought about this too much? I've been here for years and never understood 90% of the messages blindly sent, it's definitely not akin to a job application even though I've always replied to all mine! "

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