FabSwingers.com forum: why do women love older men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

Do they ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

News to me fella

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I think it’s probably the ability to sound appealing, rather than just a weak sentence to describe themselves, sometimes added with pictures that shows they maybe up to the mark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

Sadly little evidence of it here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience, maturity and don't want to marry you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control. "

This! x

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Keeping an eye on this thread

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

Does that mean boys like you have mummy issues?

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By *argoyleMan
over a year ago

dudley

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues

Does that mean boys like you have mummy issues?"

Been in love with breasts for more than 60 years so you're probably right

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

For me (I'm a woman and not a girl) I prefer men around my own age or older because they are the ones I have more in common with. They are mature and since I raised my age filters I get a lot less crap on here. Plus I don't find younger guys who are the same age as friends kids attractive. So no I have no daddy issues I'm just not attracted to younger men.

And also when my filters were lower I got fed up of being asked by younger men would I meet cos they reckoned I'd be able to teach them things I'm on here for mutual pleasure not to be teaching anyone anything time is too precious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahah know can basically say the same reasons as to what I’m seeing

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Really! Women prefer older men, on which web site is this? I need to join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i fancy who i fancy age has nothing to do with it

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I must be too old then

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

Old chap here

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

They have nothing to prove, nor need too.

Understand fornication is not a fumble, it’s fun.

That and appreciation of ladies is greater than the ego of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they??????.....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Do they??????.....

Is that rhetorical or a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

Maturity is key.

There are some very immature lads on here.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

This pretty much sums up my wifes attitude to older guys

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Maybe because us older guys are more considerate to a woman, and not just for their own satisfaction.

Us men probably did the same when we were younger but now given the chance with a woman we are going to make the most of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my experience on here

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By *smithyukMan
over a year ago

Staffs

Joining in here, wonder if the opening poster can point us all in the direction of a good website to chat to these younger women who like older men ( men around the 40 years old age mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s got a point otherwise the phrase would be ‘I need a boy not a man’.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Do they ? "

Same old answer as to most of the questions asked here - some do, some don't

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Joining in here, wonder if the opening poster can point us all in the direction of a good website to chat to these younger women who like older men ( men around the 40 years old age mark

. ) "

40 is NOT old

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Old chap here "

Even older chap here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No daddy issues that is a myth. Some women like older men for their maturity.I hate the term daddy issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Human nature or mother nature is to feel secure so ladies who love that dad looking after them feeling of a older bigger protective man they like transgresses into them finding a older guy that's suitable .

As a guy who's late 40's I've dated late 20's ladies and there is a pattern

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"They have nothing to prove, nor need too.

Understand fornication is not a fumble, it’s fun.

That and appreciation of ladies is greater than the ego of themselves.

Described me to a T.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bit of a turn around. When i was younger, I much preferred an older man. Now I'm the one aging, I find im loving the younger lads alot more. They can certainly keep me ticking over

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

For me age is irrelevant, it's all about the person. Suggesting people have issues is the sort of close mindedness I avoid irrespective of age

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues

For me age is irrelevant, it's all about the person. Suggesting people have issues is the sort of close mindedness I avoid irrespective of age"

Suspect, it is a projection from personal or mental constructs that doesn’t help here.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

It probably depends if you age like Sean Connery or Compo from Last of the summer wine...

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Do they ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tinder matches tell me that's generally not the case

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Most older than me are already dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't class myself as older but fully understand the thought process.

When younger it was mostly about me..

Now it's always about us, I've learnt that giving pleasure gives me immense pleasure back x

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I like the more mature lady for exactly the same reasons.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

They're less likely to be on Instagram or F.Book?

Mind you that said they are probably more likely to play golf

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha this is what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

You're new here aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only liked younger men ... since I was 21! Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just more experienced and normally less hassle, stable and have life experience. Plus If they are in shape they are most young women’s taste, all person depending of course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger for me xx

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

works for me .lol

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By *ittykat94Woman
over a year ago

Gatwick

For me it's that an older guy is generally more confident and knows their way around a lady. Theres a lot more emphasis on mutual satisfaction than just being a fuck.

Of course there are exceptions to every rule!

No daddy issues here either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seeing at evidence of it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always preferred older men. I'm aware of a number of things in my past / formative years that probably influenced this.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Very well put.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

What qualifies as 'older'? Asking for a friend...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Reading the posts, I'm sensing that this isn't a universal truth.

My tastes vary but younger generally does it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer mature men and haven't found younger men to be mature...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried to be open minded but do find mature more experienced, sensitive and treat us better know how to please us fully not selfish. Plus we like to be controlled at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried to be open minded but do find mature more experienced, sensitive and treat us better know how to please us fully not selfish. Plus we like to be controlled at times

I haven't found this at all... But I don't like being controlled so...

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By *reeAdventureTimeCouple
over a year ago

Western MA

They think we're safe.

Bwahahahaha...

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Think positively, OP ... Generally, getting older is rubbish, but at least this gives you something to look forward to

Just think of all those lovely ladies with daddy issues waiting for you in a few decades time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have fooled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No daddy issues that is a myth. Some women like older men for their maturity.I hate the term daddy issues."

The comments were made by a young lad weren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married my older man, but not once did I ever have Daddy issues.

Some most do, but most just like older men as they are more respectful, more polite and generally more secure in themselves

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Reading intently but honestly finding the original statement to be horseshit to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if any would like to get in touch !! X

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It's the confidence and experience thing for me. No daddy issues here xxher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s something I’m worried about.

I seem to have both younger and older women that love me.

There’s obviously something wrong with me.

Should I make an appointment to see someone about it?

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

what could a 20 yo teach me?

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"It probably depends if you age like Sean Connery or Compo from Last of the summer wine...

Ha ha very well put, we have tried to say something to this effect on our profile

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Daddy issues lol,I have seen plenty of threads of mature women and younger men. Is it right to say the young men have mummy issues

It our choice what suits us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s a fantasy/reality mismatch but then I suppose it depends on your definition of older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what could a 20 yo teach me?"

Interesting question

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I don’t op. I tend to go for younger men - just not 20 year old’s.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I don't, OP. I go for men plus/minus about 10 years either side. I find I don't have much in common with much younger/ older guys (there some exceptions) and as I want at least some conversation beside the fun, that is more my comfort zone.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've been a man since 14 when puberty kicked in I've gotta be close to old or even mature but I know I'm sensible and respectful if it counts at all

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Do we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlimited supply of worthers originals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women like men their own age just because you would have more in common or maybe younger so they can have that feeling of a younger man, it all depends on her really I would say. If im wrong sorry

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

I’m 51 (which certainly isn’t old!) and am now often above a woman’s preferred age range. Their choice... but it is a rare preference in my observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried to be open minded but do find mature more experienced, sensitive and treat us better know how to please us fully not selfish. Plus we like to be controlled at times

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

from chatting to friends who have boyfriends much older than them... yes definitely daddy issues

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Probably because we're great. And don't use text speak.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Probably because we're great. And don't use text speak. "

Some older guys are great - some are astoundingly immature and awful!

I chatted to a much younger guy once - he was just turned 25. When I had to cancel a meet because I crashed the car he called regularly to make sure I was ok - booked and paid for a hotel near me so we could still meet - and treated me to dinner!

I had to cancel a meet with a 45 year old guy when my mum was rushed into intensive care. The next morning I messaged him from icu to apologise again for cancelling (something I only do in emergencies) - he messaged back to tell me how horny he was!

Some young guys are mature - some older ones are immature pricks - best not to generalise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger? I wish.

They’d probably kill me!

But there’s hope

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

I think some women like men who have things figured out and aren’t needy or trying to hard to impress them. Secure, wise, good lovers, they aren’t always older , some younger guys have these qualities but it’s rarer.

Our daughter declared at 18 that guys her age generally don’t even have a car or a life plan! and haven’t a clue how to date. She said she was only interested in dating guys at least twice her age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably because we're great. And don't use text speak.

Some older guys are great - some are astoundingly immature and awful!

Some young guys are mature - some older ones are immature pricks - best not to generalise! "

Agreed, if your a nice person... Your a nice person x

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Manners,, respect , non selfish,, ,giving the lady the joy and pleasure first ,not a wham bham ,,the list goes on lol ,us old uns do have it still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger for me . Not interested in men my age or older .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an older guy I d like to this my strength is the ability to form a relationship pre and post play for me that's as important as the sex

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Because it's there choice.

and we are available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "

Have not noticed they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues

Good on her!

I'm attempting to date and I'm 30 and most my age are still only interested in holidays and travelling and not settling down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoyed this thread. Interesting to note how many men question the statement particularly younger ones. Is it a sign of inferiority i ask.....jokingly....I’m old so feeling smug

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Do they?...they must like ugly fat ones then lol as I had no luck

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I find guys my own age/ few years younger attractive for sex, but prefer dating slightly older.

No daddy issues here just preference

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

"Experience, maturity and don't want to marry you

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Why if a younger lady likes a more mature guy, she has daddy issues?

Sounds like sour grapes more like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a older guy regularly.Not anything to do with his age.Just I like him A LOT and we get on so the age thing is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer younger men, as long as they act mature and can hold a sensible conversation x

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

What a daft assumption.

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

"Im a bit of a turn around. When i was younger, I much preferred an older man. Now I'm the one aging, I find im loving the younger lads alot more. They can certainly keep me ticking over

I agree with you totally on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm all that life experience... No drama... Know what the fuck they want and make sure you have the time of your life

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By *iglittleoneMan
over a year ago

B76 is home

"works for me .lol"

Lucky man

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