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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Out of curiosity do your non-swinging friends know about your swinging lifestyle? And if so how did they find out?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No but if they did somehow find out I wouldn't be bothered our sex life is none of their business.

I wouldn't want my parents to know or my kids though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I am sometimes tempted to tell some of them though, especially the ones who be mighty shocked lol...just to see the look on their faces

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am sometimes tempted to tell some of them though, especially the ones who be mighty shocked lol...just to see the look on their faces "

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"Out of curiosity do your non-swinging friends know about your swinging lifestyle?"

none that we are aware of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive told my best friend and she just said "Go for it." and thats why shes my best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N ope nor do they know any details of my sex life with my ex. Should they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

noone really knows anything about me, im quite a private person and i feel no need to tell people about personal stuff

i dont think most of the people i know would beleive half the stuff from my private life because i act so different on my normal life and most think im a bit of a prude, which to be honest is how i like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's how we feel, its not as if we'd ever discuss our sex life with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none of mine do .secret little life i run hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my male friends/neighbour knows the lot! He gets wkd jealous of all the gorgeous pussy im gettin lol and bein single its nice to be able to tell someone- hes hardly innocent and hes married so ive got enough on him to keep my secret safe! Id die if fem neighbours found out omg...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told them myself, close friends and colleagues, point them to the websites of FAB and Chams, informing them I am a member of both, and they can fill in the rest themselves.

My mum and bro do not know, and they live in another continent, and I only see them once in a while.

After a weekend of fun, if they ask if I have had a good weekend, I would give them a smile and a wink, and they would know not to ask anymore questions.

If they ask for more details, I would tell. However, I prefer not to, as I do not wish to embarrass them with the details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeh lol forgot that... Took a workmate to chams! But she was mental and always ranting about sex and pinching my arse on the job so it wud hav been silly not to take her! She went bak the next week without me. And yep we did get it on in chams. I dont care if work found out i work a shit minimum wage job so i can do what i like really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For safety some do know who I meeting where etc they my most trusted friends. but know not to ask for details others no. What I do is my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a trusted 2 that know all the meets for safety it has to be done, one gets a call when I am going out and then an it's ok I'm alive when I get there! And always a post meet call on the way home! Nosey begger but then they do the same when they go out too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was out last night with the girls in local pub all talking about that book. The landlord started talking about sexcetera and I just sat quietly giggling to myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity do your non-swinging friends know about your swinging lifestyle? And if so how did they find out? "
no and its nothing to do with them,it's our little secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum, brother and close friends know. I'm not ashamed of it and I'm nor going to lie about where I'm going etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends know, my son's and my upstairs neighbour, she knows because of the noise aspect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told a few friends a while ago after having a few drinks and they did'nt believe me lol x

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By *exy milf 1962Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

My G/F 's all know and so do some of my closest clients at work (some of which are also Fabster's) ~ but ALL swing with their own M8 ~ ;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the ones I met through swinging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity do your non-swinging friends know about your swinging lifestyle? And if so how did they find out? "

My close friends do.. and actually lots of people I would rather didnt also know as I got outed..

My close friends I told.. as I don't keep secrets from them.. the others I was outed.. to be honest I am not ashamed of my lifestyle.. it took me more to explain the m/s side of the relationship than the swinging.

Cali

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

My best mates know, it came up one night when we were playing party games and you had to sit down if you hadn't done whatever the hostess read out....I was last one standing and there were still a few cards left to read so she carried on and I stayed standing (it was pretty tame stuff to be fair and a lot of it I'd done prior to starting to swing anyway) but one of the cards was something along the lines of "Have you ever had sex with someone you met online" and the discussion just evolved from there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have our swinging friends, and our vanilla friends, and thats the way we keep it. Although sometimes have to remind ourselves it's a vanilla night and not that sort of party lol

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"My G/F 's all know and so do some of my closest clients at work (some of which are also Fabster's) ~ but ALL swing with their own M8 ~ ;-)"

It's kind of got me wondering what your job is. I don't think I'd tell any of my clients about swinging unless I actually bumped into one at a club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do, some dont, some who i talked to about it now do! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no friends thats why I am on here,,,,Him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell my friends allsorts. However they don't believe me which is great! I usually turn the conversation round or make it sound totally outrageous so they think I'm joking.

I don't like people knowing my business so absolutely no-one knows the truth.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"i dont think most of the people i know would beleive half the stuff from my private life because i act so different on my normal life and most think im a bit of a prude, which to be honest is how i like it"

Same here

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

My sister knows about me then I found out that her & my brother in law did as well. I called here a dirty bitch & laughed

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